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Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by nnamdi640: 11:29am On Dec 11, 2025
RealityKings1:
God Is actually not interested in choosing for anybody who they'll marry. It's your responsibility.
Why then did people runs to churches especially ladies praying that God should give them life partners
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by goran3310(m): 11:41am On Dec 11, 2025
I don’t have that kind of classification.
I really don’t.
I’ll date anyone—from a waitress to a company director.
Her job and her status don’t matter to me.
I care about the qualities she carries inside.
I care about her character.
I care about her looks.
When it comes to her job, whether she worked in a shelter for stray dogs or was the director of betting shops for the whole country—I truly get nothing out of that, and I DO NOT want to get anything out of it.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by RealityKings1: 11:55am On Dec 11, 2025
nnamdi640:
Why then did people runs to churches especially ladies praying that God should give them life partners
Because they chose to be obviously to the fact
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m):
Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha na so God made it to be.

Essential hope your babe is not in this forum because I don't want her to start seeing me as her rival.

I'm always careful with guys una babe no dey get joy
DD, you have nothing to worry about. You and I are together.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 12:15pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha na so God made it to be.

Essential hope your babe is not in this forum because I don't want her to start seeing me as her rival.

I'm always careful with guys una babe no dey get joy
But I am learning a lot from you.

Na so God made it? For we guys to die for you ladies ? So las las, what then is our gain in it all? Heaven at last?

Abeg ooo. Hahahahhahahahhah
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by emmaodet: 12:18pm On Dec 11, 2025
goran3310:
I don’t have that kind of classification.
I really don’t.
I’ll date anyone—from a waitress to a company director.
Her job and her status don’t matter to me.
I care about the qualities she carries inside.
I care about her character.
I care about her looks.
When it comes to her job, whether she worked in a shelter for stray dogs or was the director of betting shops for the whole country—I truly get nothing out of that, and I DO NOT want to get anything out of it.
It is not about getting something out of it rather jobs that can influence a woman to become LovePeddler due to high pressure from rich men.
Receptionist at hotels, bar girls, air hostess etc top the list
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by FashionCookie(f): 12:23pm On Dec 11, 2025
Surgeons/Doctors.
I feel they [/b]play[b] with corpes too much.
cry
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by PantShifter(m): 12:24pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
I would have asked my dad about it again but I can't because he will start talking about my private life which i don't like

But next time he returns home i will try and ask him just to be clear about

Mainstream and Downstream



Onshore and offshore
You no want make your papa know say dem don dey off your pant? tongue
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by casualobserver: 12:25pm On Dec 11, 2025
Smartguyboy:
1.5m as a teacher
I guess the person work in island
I think he means 1.5m a year! Big money lol
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by kaludestiny10(m): 12:27pm On Dec 11, 2025
But those that work there are doing well financially and their families are enjoying the wealth that comes from the work. My dear, money is highly needed in running a family oh.
Diamond098454:
Onshore is a no no no to me
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Kimo21(m): 12:29pm On Dec 11, 2025
Worldly movie actress. If you want to be kissing any Tom dick and harry just stay single
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Kimo21(m): 12:33pm On Dec 11, 2025
goran3310:
I don’t have that kind of classification.
I really don’t.
I’ll date anyone—from a waitress to a company director.
Her job and her status don’t matter to me.
I care about the qualities she carries inside.
I care about her character.
I care about her looks.
When it comes to her job, whether she worked in a shelter for stray dogs or was the director of betting shops for the whole country—I truly get nothing out of that, and I DO NOT want to get anything out of it.
You’re contradicting yourself…you said you’ll date anyone regardless the job while also saying her character matters….what if she is a prostitute?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 12:34pm On Dec 11, 2025
kaludestiny10:
But those that work there are doing well financially and their families are enjoying the wealth that comes from the work. My dear, money is highly needed in running a family oh.
Yes, a lot of money. but not seeing the man when you needed him most is far more dangerous.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by haybhi1(m): 12:35pm On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Medicine is not for the clingy faint hearted, they will leave you during a romantic dinner date or during intimacy to attend to an emergency... grin grin grin

Before agreeing to get married to anyone in the field, just make sure you'll have your own life outside of the marriage.
This gurl sha.
What exactly do you mean life outside marriage? I'm curious 😏😏
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by favour32(m):
If you don't value serious relationship date a/an....
hotel waitress.
hotel receptionist.
air hostess.
nurse.
Social media addict.
female PA to a politician.
beer parlour receptionist
banker
salon girl
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by AngelahFlo(m): 12:36pm On Dec 11, 2025
There's no right or wrong answer to this topic as each career has its demanding side. Years ago Lagbaja did a song on this that showcased the demanding sides of certain careers like Law, medical, military and even bus conductor. So every career has its turn off to every relationship. The wisdom is setting your priorities before you guys take the dive. Discuss it and plan ahead how you'll navigate this definite grey area in every relationship.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 12:36pm On Dec 11, 2025
PantShifter:
You no want make your papa know say dem don dey off your pant? tongue
tia.... Stop being toooooo raw
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by haybhi1(m): 12:36pm On Dec 11, 2025
nnamdi640:
I'm a private school teacher and I can say that I earn more than some people in others fields, my colleague earn up to 1.5million and she is a private school teacher. Just make sure you are good in what you're doing and don't think all teachers are thesame. Beside, you don't know who God Has planned for you to marry, again don't think that all those with big occupations are earning well or will make it big
1.5M in 5 years? Drop update abeg
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by haybhi1(m): 12:39pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
I would have asked my dad about it again but I can't because he will start talking about my private life which i don't like

But next time he returns home i will try and ask him just to be clear about

Mainstream and Downstream

Onshore and offshore
Wait, sorry, if your dad doesn't talk about your privy life, who should? Harmless question
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by ARISHEM: 12:40pm On Dec 11, 2025
Masseuse, escorts, Hotel attendants.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by ekhai(m): 12:40pm On Dec 11, 2025
Air hostess is out of my line.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 12:40pm On Dec 11, 2025
essentialone:
But I am learning a lot from you.

Na so God made it? For we guys to die for you ladies ? So las las, what then is our gain in it all? Heaven at last?

Abeg ooo. Hahahahhahahahhah
but you are the one teaching me

Men can always take care of themselves
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by TRIXIA: 12:40pm On Dec 11, 2025
Demetrix:
Internet fraudsters
Female Bank / real estate marketers
Female Hotel Receptionists
Female Lounge workers
Models
Female Police is NUMBER ONE followed by female bank staff/marketers
Female Nurses
Nail /Hair tech
Wig entrepreneurs
House cleaners
MUA
Salon tech
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 12:45pm On Dec 11, 2025
essentialone:
8

DD, you have nothing to worry about. You and I are together.
hahaha this guy

You won't bring out my leg in this forum
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by michoim(m): 12:48pm On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Medicine is not for the clingy faint hearted, they will leave you during a romantic dinner date or during intimacy to attend to an emergency... grin grin grin

Before agreeing to get married to anyone in the field, just make sure you'll have your own life outside of the marriage.
Can you clarify: "your own life outside the marriage". Hmmmn. e get as e bi
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by michoim(m): 12:51pm On Dec 11, 2025
Demetrix:
Internet fraudsters
Female Bank / real estate marketers
Female Hotel Receptionists
Female Lounge workers
Models
What of female nurses, & actresses of our time(tagged: stars, and screen godesses or Nollywood divas grin grin grin)?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by michoim(m): 12:52pm On Dec 11, 2025
Demetrix:
Internet fraudsters
Female Bank / real estate marketers
Female Hotel Receptionists
Female Lounge workers
Models
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by sheystar(f): 12:53pm On Dec 11, 2025
Please Sir / Ma
Is it online teaching or physical teaching?
I would like to gain more knowledge from you to excel in this teaching profession.
Thank you.
nnamdi640:
I'm a private school teacher and I can say that I earn more than some people in others fields, my colleague earn up to 1.5million and she is a private school teacher. Just make sure you are good in what you're doing and don't think all teachers are thesame. Beside, you don't know who God Has planned for you to marry, again don't think that all those with big occupations are earning well or will make it big
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by kaludestiny10(m): 12:54pm On Dec 11, 2025
That is your own view oh. As for me, I prefer the money to be there and things are been taking care of to being available but broke.
Diamond098454:
Yes, a lot of money. but not seeing the man when you needed him most is far more dangerous.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Lamasta(m): 12:54pm On Dec 11, 2025
Sha don't work in a hotel that's my own
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by ejieddy: 12:54pm On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Medicine is not for the clingy faint hearted, they will leave you during a romantic dinner date or during intimacy to attend to an emergency... grin grin grin

Before agreeing to get married to anyone in the field, just make sure you'll have your own life outside of the marriage.
This isn't true. They all have shifts and rosters. During their office days, you can always have a great time.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Tendd: 12:55pm On Dec 11, 2025
There is dignity in labour.Do well to have a legit job,so you can take care of yourself and family, regardless of the type of occupation.
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