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Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Twoclans(f): 12:55pm On Dec 11, 2025
Medical field, military and telecommunication.

I run until my legs can't carry me once a guy's mentions those two fields.

Especially those telecom guys ,jeezzzz they could track all my calls.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 12:59pm On Dec 11, 2025
haybhi1:
Wait, sorry, if your dad doesn't talk about your privy life, who should? Harmless question
the way he goes about it pissed me off

Stay away from married men, stay away from bad guys, in fact I will like to meet your boyfriend. I want to know the guy you are going out with, invite him for lunch, invite him for this and invite him for that. Can you imagine ? Who does that?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 1:01pm On Dec 11, 2025
Twoclans:
Medical field, military and telecommunication.

I run until my legs can't carry me once a guy's mentions those two fields.

Especially those telecom guys ,jeezzzz they could track all my calls.
Lol! Who you dey call wey you dey fear?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Matrixoba: 1:02pm On Dec 11, 2025
Mortuary workers 😄😄😄😄😄
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 1:03pm On Dec 11, 2025
kaludestiny10:
That is your own view oh. As for me, I prefer the money to be there and things are been taking care of to being available but broke.
hahaha hahaha everything is not money
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by bigpicture001: 1:04pm On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Medicine is not for the clingy faint hearted, they will leave you during a romantic dinner date or during intimacy to attend to an emergency... grin grin grin

Before agreeing to get married to anyone in the field, just make sure you'll have your own life outside of the marriage.
Relationship is not only about who u date.. it is all about everything she represent..

I remember my ex, sh was a dedicated lab scientist who loves her job.. I love her and also love the way sh loves her job..

Sh gist me about her challenging experiences.. her fears for patient, patient that urgently need blood , rival forms and wrong diagnosis by her colleagues..

I like that s love her job.. and I also fell in love with her job.. many times I call from. Work to check up on an dieing patient... Many times it's good news, some times it isn't...

I can't forget the day we were coming from an outting.. and suddenly a lady collapsed at the bus stop.. ppl stepped away.. exactly that time, the keke we chartered arrived.. I boarded.. sh joined me but her mind was focused on the scene of the chaos... I saw the thirst to b of help, yet didn't want to ruin our day..

I held her hands and told her without asking, u can go.. I will b by your side..sh jumped out and ran there.. bringing out her tetroscope, sh made away and announce herself sh was made a space.. I aligted and provided her anything sh asked..

Sh did her thing.. and the lady was conscious again... These beautiful ppl are our human angels.. especially those who have emphathy and not all about the money..

Yes, Onyeka was one of those.. ND I really do miss her
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Lukuluku69(m): 1:04pm On Dec 11, 2025
Me?

Police.

I can't date a Policewoman. I can't marry them.

The Nigerian version.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Tradepunter2: 1:12pm On Dec 11, 2025
Stephen0mozzy:
I have nothing against Marketers o, but I won't be with one - Especially Bank and Real Estate Marketers. Abeg
Yep.... the women are majority promiscuous.... while the guys are normally very very greedy
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by laivwire(m): 1:20pm On Dec 11, 2025
Doctors have to top the list. They are so apathetic.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by OGOLMEKZ95: 1:25pm On Dec 11, 2025
Can I marry you dear💗?
essentialone:
This will be coming from someone who lives in either Warri, Bayelsa or Port Harcourt. But my dear, did you mean Onshore or Offshore? Please, recheck.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 1:26pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
but you are the one teaching me

Men can always take care of themselves
Truth be told most of we guys can take care of ourselves as well as take care of our lady.

But all these female is equal to male and female is greater than male Mentality of GenZ is making most guys to lie back and insist that ladies too take most of the stress and the risks involved.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by OGOLMEKZ95: 1:27pm On Dec 11, 2025
Can I marry you dear💗💗?
Diamond098454:
Onshore is a no no no to me
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 1:27pm On Dec 11, 2025
OGOLMEKZ95:
Can I marry you dear💗?
Let's start from knowing your real gender because I am a Male.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 1:28pm On Dec 11, 2025
essentialone:
Truth be told most of we guys can take care of ourselves as well as take care of our lady.

But all these female is equal to male and female is greater than male Mentality of GenZ is making most guys to lie back and insist that ladies too take most of the stress and the risks involved.
you are right.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by OGOLMEKZ95: 1:29pm On Dec 11, 2025
Sorry it was not meant for you bro?
essentialone:
Let's start from knowing your real gender because I am a Male.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 1:31pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
the way he goes about it pissed me off

Stay away from married men, stay away from bad guys, in fact I will like to meet your boyfriend. I want to know the guy you are going out with, invite him for lunch, invite him for this and invite him for that. Can you imagine ? Who does that?
Because he knows and understands men and guys better than you do. What you won't see in a guy, your dad can smell those character in him, even from 100 kilometers away.

So babe, your dad is right on this.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 1:31pm On Dec 11, 2025
OGOLMEKZ95:
Sorry it was not meant for you bro?
Ok who was it meant for?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Demetrix: 1:33pm On Dec 11, 2025
TRIXIA:
Female Police is NUMBER ONE followed by female bank staff/marketers
Female Nurses
Nail /Hair tech
Wig entrepreneurs
House cleaners
MUA
Salon tech
Na house cleaners own dey vex me pass.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by OGOLMEKZ95: 1:34pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454
essentialone:
Ok who was it meant for?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 1:35pm On Dec 11, 2025
OGOLMEKZ95:
Diamond098454
Ok that's nice, cos I was surprised when you just sprung up and asked if you could marry me. And I was like, from where? Hahahhaha
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Kaczynski(op): 1:36pm On Dec 11, 2025
Twoclans:
Medical field, military and telecommunication.

I run until my legs can't carry me once a guy's mentions those two fields.

Especially those telecom guys ,jeezzzz they could track all my calls.
i can track your location and your calls and i dont even work in telecomms
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Wizpa(m): 1:36pm On Dec 11, 2025
Nollywood Actress
BabyMamas
Politicians
Barworkers
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by haybhi1(m):
nnamdi640:
I never said it was a salary paid in a school. Let me give you the breakdown, my colleague earn above #100k in the school we are both teaching, she has 3 three clients, 2 in US and 1 in UK, separate families 2hours per day for 3 days in a week, the US families pay her 250 dollar per month each while the UK pay her 200 pound per month. She has almost 15 students she teaches after school before going home for her online classes and each of this students pays 10k to 20k, now do the calculations for yourself. Her case is almost similar to mine but earns more than me
Omo... chief, I can teach Physics, Chemistry, Biology and English perfectly. Had 300+ in JAMB and 80+ in post-UTME, years back. I've taught in several tutorial centres.

Please link me up with these kinds of jobs abeg.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by OGOLMEKZ95: 1:39pm On Dec 11, 2025
Lols... You thought it was coming from a gay
essentialone:
Ok that's nice, cos I was surprised when you just sprung up and asked if you could marry me. And I was like, from where? Hahahhaha
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 1:40pm On Dec 11, 2025
OGOLMEKZ95:
Lols... You thought it was coming from a gay
I have nothing against Gays, but that will never be me.

To his, their choice.

So when you said you wanted to marry me, I shock ooo. Hahahahhahaha
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Originalsly: 1:41pm On Dec 11, 2025
Mortician .... too comfortable with directing the dead. How can I sleep at night after a disagreement without fear of being killed? ...and directed? ...diced up into small portions? ... and discarded?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by folake4u: 1:42pm On Dec 11, 2025
Inasmuch as everyone's profession is honourable, these set of people have anger issues. I don't know if it's an added perk in the job or something. undecided undecided

Contractors.
Real Estate Agents.
Field service engineers.
Car dealers.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 1:46pm On Dec 11, 2025
essentialone:
Because he knows and understands men and guys better than you do. What you won't see in a guy, your dad can smell those character in him, even from 100 kilometers away.

So babe, your dad is right on this.
I don't have a boyfriend. He should give me time to sort myself out. If I introduce a friend to my dad now hmmmmmm he will start shouting at me asking

Who is this? Where did you know this can person? There will be so many questions at a time. Essential I can't handle the situation for now.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 1:49pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
I don't have a boyfriend. He should give me time to sort myself out. If I introduce a friend to my dad now hmmmmmm he will start shouting at me asking

Who is this? Where did you know this can person? There will be so many questions at a time. Essential I can't handle the situation for now.
DD, I perfectly understand. You cannot afford to introduce more than 1 guy to your dad. If you must do, it must be one you have chosen and chosen well.

Remember our take off point.

Consistency

Clarity

Firmness. (CCF).

If you miss one, the remaining 2 will run away...
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by abc115: 1:53pm On Dec 11, 2025
Stephen0mozzy:
I have nothing against Marketers o, but I won't be with one - Especially Bank and Real Estate Marketers. Abeg
Every entrepreneur, CEO or Business minded person is a marketer
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by OGOLMEKZ95: 1:56pm On Dec 11, 2025
We can follow each other, and where are you from?
essentialone:
I have nothing against Gays, but that will never be me.

To his, their choice.

So when you said you wanted to marry me, I shock ooo. Hahahahhahaha
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by haybhi1(m): 2:01pm On Dec 11, 2025
Twoclans:
Medical field, military and telecommunication.

I run until my legs can't carry me once a guy's mentions those two fields.

Especially those telecom guys ,jeezzzz they could track all my calls.
Track all your calls, that's what you're running from abi
Imagine... I don sabi your type
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