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An American woman broke down in tears after her son allegedly went on a destructive rampage in their home. The incident reportedly happened after she seized his phone as punishment for misbehaviour. Enraged, the son reportedly smashed items throughout the house, causing damages estimated at $70,000.

Many viewers have compared parenting styles around the world, noting that in Africa, children are often disciplined more strictly, while some believe American children are more spoiled, which may lead to such extreme reactions.

Watch the full video and let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=86vYgU5iR3E?si=0tPXa4-TzrFrACIK

Team “Talk yo the child” will be here soon to tell you how she needs to discuss with her child!

If that child had been flogged when necessary and felt severe pain, No way he will have ever have the instinct of going that extreme.

Now they have to talk to him again and ask him why he did such and why he should never do such again.

Na WA....

For ordinary phone oh

That's why the African format of bringing up a child will always be the best for me.....

There's a very huge difference between a child born and brought up via the African ways compared to those born and brought up via the western ways ..

For here,while growing up,each and everyone of us get him own size of Cain wey mount steady guard for my father wardrobe........Any slightest Fvck up,you go regret the day you chose to come this life through my father lineage

These are the kind of wokeness Africans want to copy...


Ofcourse it is a terrible model. But anything that comes from the west surely has to be the best. That's low self esteem.


The other day one was arguing here that killing chicken... chickens that would be used for food o, is violence and can cause trauma if done in presence of kids.


So many rubbish ideologies being copied from that side. It's a mess. Our colonialers really did us dirty!

This is the result of spare the rod, and spoil the child

Try this in Nigeria, there's this kind of slap that reset brains.
My elder brother done give me that kind slap when I small, I no fit even cry because of the shock.

This is a future murderer

Maximum Damageeeeeeee

Pikin wey dem suppose destroy with cain

The way folks in the Western society train their kids is appalling. You will see parents begging their kids to do the right thing, some even cry while at it. 🤮

Plus when there is no father figure in a house, it only takes the grace of God and some strict parenting on the part of a single mother to raise an upright and well behaved child.

The child isn't properly raised. It's for nothing to do with the parenting style in my opinion.

Hmm hmm. I laugh in Chinese, man cos 4 here, you definitely going to show your grandkids the result of your brief madness while you were young.

Madness, this is as a result of poor parental upbringing.

Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it. No training equals these kind of madness.

She should enjoy the upbringing she gave the son ...

Wait o and the so called child is still breathing


For Nigeria na community go treat e Bleep up. They will tell d mother to go amd relax. Worst of all if the case reaches the police his life will BEND. His next life he will respect his parents

Reasons why Australia has decided to take the disciplinary step on social media restrictions ensuring the age range is strictly adhered to.
Years ago when we asked for that kind of restriction on our young ones some people retorted that we are in the 21st century and we shouldn’t be left behind.

Children without a father figure, this is how their upbringing looks-like. That is why single motherhood raises the worst kids

Pikin dey don suppose collect demonic beating if to say na naija he dey.
Radarada

Get him arrested simple

You no get belt, you no get koboko , what do you expect?

Some people will tell you to sit your child down and talk to him/her what's the issue about, or your should turn yourself to a fool because children are meant to pampered, some parents are training nonsense in a child all because of wokeness and western copy copy.

I trust my parents, the beating will make you question your existence, talkles of neighbors beating you for doing wrong.

I forever prefer African/Nigeria ways of handling their children, forget the woke rubbish.

Why would they forget to mention his age? Only in the countries where kids have no regards for the parents because some parents don't know how to set firm boundaries for their kids until it is too late

This is what you get when the father figure is not around. It takes a strong woman to raise a male child

This is why children must be brought up in the way of the Lord. The Godly supervision in child upbringing is a must if not we can see what will be the outcome of such children that are raised without God in them....

That child will never amount to anything in this life, no matter how much he tries. A child that will be good is always known from get go, this one can only be managed to get to adulthood and get out.

he must get a job, take 60% of his salary until the whole money has been repaid or the animal is old enough to leave the house.

Since they don't allow beating he must learn that bad actions has consequences

HacheNoire:
Team “Talk yo the child” will be here soon to tell you how she needs to discuss with her child!

If that child had been flogged when necessary and felt severe pain, No way he will have ever have the instinct of going that extreme.

Now they have to talk to him again and ask him why he did such and why he should never do such again.

It is really not about flogging, beatings or "inflicting severe pains" either always or occasionally, it is about setting boundaries and being firm with your instructions.
I don't beat my kids or inflict pains on them but they sure behave themselves all the time

Gentle parenting in the mud

The painful part of this story is that NOTHING will happen to the boy. Infact they will reward him by giving him his phone and giving him words of encouragement.

Meanwhile an African mum can beat her child in response to reading this story.

To raise male pikin no easy for Naija let alone where entitlement is supreme