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[quote author=Xso666 post=137778557][/quote]That their little brain picks up dirty things quickly because they don't have any responsibility so the brain picks up nonsense things

frozen70:
That their little brain picks up dirty things quickly because they don't have any responsibility so the brain picks up nonsense things

You are very right on this

Xso666:
You are very right on this

Thanks

HelenaWills:
Can't you change right from the bathroom or wear a short atleast? Abi which kind compound you dey stay?

Na public settings

Samantha125:
The husband of my aunt's friend used to do the same thing until their daughter started telling anyone who cared to listen about how her father has tail between his legs that is bigger than that of her brother.

And why are you having custody of your 4 years old daughter when her mother is still alive? At that age, she needs her mother more than you, she should be just visiting you and not living with you... Take her back to her mother and wait for her until she's old enough to look after herself, then she can come and live with you.

I lost her mother and the parents refused giving me custody not until now because they couldn’t afford to take care of her any longer so it’s better I do it my self

You can send them money for her upkeep while keeping in touch and visiting her until she's old enough to come and live with you... And if you don't trust them with your money, make a list of all her monthly essentials, buy them, and deliver them to her grandparents place on a monthly basis.

Because this living arrangement of yours is not conducive for that child, what will then happen when you start seeing someone? Will you always send her out whenever you have to do your business with the lady?

Xso666:
I lost her mother and the parents refused giving me custody not until now because they couldn’t afford to take care of her any longer so it’s better I do it my self

Samantha125:
You can send them money for her upkeep while keeping in touch and visiting her until she's old enough to come and live with you... And if you don't trust them with your money, make a list of all her monthly essentials, buy them, and deliver them to her grandparents place on a monthly basis.

Because this living arrangement of yours is not conducive for that child, what will then happen when you start seeing someone? Will you always send her out whenever you have to do your business with the lady?

I won’t always remain in this condition my dear so I believe with time everything will fall in place

Until your condition has improved, let her stay with her grandparents, unless if her grandmother is old and frail.

Xso666:
I won’t always remain in this condition my dear so I believe with time everything will fall in place

Samantha125:
Until your condition has improved, let her stay with her grandparents, unless if her grandmother is old and frail.

Well I don’t think that’s necessary now since the grand mother accepted to give her to me so I think this will make me have some sense of responsibilities too and also to step up my game in hustling.

Still, that living arrangement is not conducive for her... What happens when you want to take your bath? Do you send her out as well?

In other countries, the court would've never granted you custody of her... She's better off with her maternal grandmother, soon enough, you'll be bringing in another woman into her life who'll probably be ill treating her... Her grandmother only allowed you to take her due to the hardships at home, but I'm sure she wouldn't mind taking her back given that you'll still financially support her until she's old enough to move back in with you when you'd have gotten yourself another place.

Xso666:
Well I don’t think that’s necessary now since the grand mother accepted to give her to me so I think this will make me have some sense of responsibilities too and also to step up my game in hustling.

Samantha125:
Still, that living arrangement is not conducive for her... What happens when you want to take your bath? Do you send her out as well?

In other countries, the court would've never granted you custody of her... She's better off with her maternal grandmother, soon enough, you'll be bringing in another woman into her life who'll probably be ill treating her... Her grandmother only allowed you to take her due to the hardships at home, but I'm sure she wouldn't mind taking her back given that you'll still financially support her until she's old enough to move back in with you when you'd have gotten yourself another place.

Well for now I’m not planning on bringing any other woman as I am focused on giving my self and my daughter a good life. I feel she’s more safe and better with me than any other person.

Okay, if you say.

Xso666:
Well for now I’m not planning on bringing any other woman as I am focused on giving my self and my daughter a good life. I feel she’s more safe and better with me than any other person.

Samantha125:
Okay, if you say.

Thanks for your concern