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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NdUs4c5W0vA?si=BC1eUoVtzXeJ3hxG

A UK-based Nigerian woman has ignited serious online debate after sending a strong warning to Nigerian men living in the United Kingdom. According to her, bringing wives directly from Nigeria to the UK could lead to unexpected marital challenges, culture shock, and relationship breakdowns. Her message has divided opinions, with many agreeing while others strongly disagree. Watch the full video to hear what she said and see how social media is reacting to this controversial advice.

Shebi they have been saying it for years that marriage is a scam.

Shebi na only UK she dey talk about.

Every idiot wants to trend

Kelle443:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NdUs4c5W0vA?si=BC1eUoVtzXeJ3hxG

A UK-based Nigerian woman has ignited serious online debate after sending a strong warning to Nigerian men living in the United Kingdom. According to her, bringing wives directly from Nigeria to the UK could lead to unexpected marital challenges, culture shock, and relationship breakdowns. Her message has divided opinions, with many agreeing while others strongly disagree. Watch the full video to hear what she said and see how social media is reacting to this controversial advice.

Nairaland management wants us to watch her YouTube channel. Nice try.

Yes oo, never will i carry my wife to be overseas

If them like make them no hear.

Bodi go tell them.

No be person wey get money dey go abroad? Big man big problem

Kelle443:
➜ A UK-based Nigerian woman has ignited serious online debate after sending a strong warning to Nigerian men living in the United Kingdom. According to her, bringing wives directly from Nigeria to the UK could lead to unexpected marital challenges, culture shock, and relationship breakdowns. Her message has divided opinions, with many agreeing while others strongly disagree. Watch the full video to hear what she said and see how social media is reacting to this controversial advice.

I see! Una no dey learn... na im be the problem of Nigerians. 🥱🥱🥱

In normal marriage and normal circumstance, husband and wife are suppose to live together under one roof AS A FAMILY.
What joy and benefit will a man get from marriage, if you leave apart by default?

You leave your wives behind too, and worst can happen...
Na God dey help man...

Go and rest. That one didn't work doesn't mean that another won't.

What about women that take their husband abroad? I hope that's encouraging but the reverse is dangerous.

Nonsense and ingredients

Where does she suggest we take them to now? 🤔

WrathOfHadez:
Nairaland management wants us to watch her YouTube channel. Nice try.

Yes o! Just see as the mod thoughtlessly moved it to front page. Such a shame. Smh

Those Block Head Men Won't Hear

Majority of women are betrayals and spoilers by nature.

That she is married to you won't stop her from destroying you as well if you are not careful.

LabStores:
In normal marriage and normal circumstance, husband and wife are suppose to leave together under one roof AS A FAMILY.
What joy and benefit will a man get from marriage, if you leave apart by default?
You leave your wives behind too, and worst can happen...Na God dey help man...

Not can... we all know that it happens! 🥱

Oga also helps himself abroad so na this god endorse that one? Abeg! 🥱🥱🥱

What if the wives vex decide to go by themselves?

Why not marry a woman, who is already resident in that country, for those who go back to Nigeria to marry.

Uk dis uk dat abeg make we rest , i dont even know where u people dey see ur uk news from, i knew so many Nigerian couples in uk dat are doing very well

Btruth:
Where does she suggest we take them to now? 🤔

Leave them back in Nigeria and let them be free to freelance as oga is also doing abroad. 😂

But what sense does it make that in the UK
Women are given more privileges than men?

The government of the UK should look into this matter o

Kennitrust:
✓ But what sense does it make that in the UK Women are given more privileges than men?
The government of the UK should look into this matter o

Women are not given more privileges in the UK. Rather, women have the same rights that men do as opposed to Nigeria, where women have rights no different from those of a slave in traditional marriages. 🥱🥱

Who asked for her opinion? Most of the men women are dealing with in the UK were mean to their wives in Nigeria, and treated them as inferiors.

Then there are others whose wives never liked them and married them for their status. No woman will treat a good man poorly unless she is a psycho. So, next time you decide to choose a partner, try to avoid a psycho.

Olat4421:
Uk dis uk dat abeg make we rest , i dont even know where u people dey see ur uk news from, i knew so many Nigerian couples in uk dat are doing very well

be running your mouth don't learn and ask more questions, until you try it and God punish you,you are the dependent.

Leave them in Nigeria for who to service?

LabStores:
In normal marriage and normal circumstance, husband and wife are suppose to leave together under one roof AS A FAMILY.
What joy and benefit will a man get from marriage, if you leave apart by default?

You leave your wives behind too, and worst can happen...
Na God dey help man...

There is nothing like marriage in the Western countries. In fact terms like "wife" or even "husband" has all but disappeared in the public domain. Women are partners. Your wife is more of your partner in the UK and "head of the house or head of the family" is effectively illegal or abusive. Oyinbo has turned smartness into grave stupidity and that's why China will take the global lead in the next 10 years. There is nothing like a "home" any more and your wife is more of a competitor dragging power and leadership with you.

How many times will they discuss this topic

123papas:
Leave them in Nigeria for who to service?

So this is your main headache?

123papas:
Leave them in Nigeria for who to service?

I pity you. You think she is your property abi? continue .......you have a lot to learn.

Do what is in your best interest.

tunjijones:
If them like make them no hear.

Bodi go tell them.

Maybe it’s better meeting the woman to marry abroad

Almost every Nigerian in the UK is now a content creator

Kobojunkie:
Women are not given more privileges in the UK. Rather, women have the same rights that men do as opposed to Nigeria, where women have rights no different from those of a slave in traditional marriages. 🥱🥱

In Nigeria it is men that bear the lion's share of the family expense therefore you cannot expect a man and his wife who contributes next to nothing to be on equal footing