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Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by iLoveYouToo(m): 7:23pm On Dec 17, 2025
You people should leave us with your abroad problems abeg. Getat
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by ibedun: 7:23pm On Dec 17, 2025
Bendeco02:
Majority of women are betrayals and spoilers by nature.

[b]That she is married to you won't stop her from destroying you [/b]as well if you are not careful.
The system in the UK/US and other foolish countries encourage and empower them to destroy you patapata.

The best life for a man in the UK is a single life. It is wonderful and blissful.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by ibedun: 7:26pm On Dec 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Women are not given more privileges in the UK. Rather, women have the same rights that men do as opposed to Nigeria, where women have rights no different from those of a slave in traditional marriages. 🥱🥱
THIS is a big fat lie!!! Haba not in this 2025!
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by ibedun: 7:31pm On Dec 17, 2025
Olat4421:
Uk dis uk dat abeg make we rest , i dont even know where u people dey see ur uk news from, i knew so many Nigerian couples in uk dat are doing very well
I know so many (in fact too many) that are not doing well. They are only doing well when the man has either surrendered or is completely subjugated. Men are totally disempowered (emasculated).
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by seppuku: 7:31pm On Dec 17, 2025
iLoveYouToo:
You people should leave us with your abroad problems abeg. Getat
Don't mind them. Na boredom cause am.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 7:31pm On Dec 17, 2025
ibedun:
THIS is a big fat lie!!! Haba not in this 2025!
Quote one of their laws that unfairly favors women over men... let's start with that. huh
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 7:33pm On Dec 17, 2025
Kobicove:
➜In Nigeria it is men that bear the lion's share of the family expense therefore you cannot expect a man and his wife who contributes next to nothing to be on equal footing
Those are some of the many lies that has been fed Nigerian men for generations that has gotten even those among them who have nothing foaming in the mouth thinking themselves entitled. If not for traditional and religious brainwashing drilled into women from childhood, Nigerian women would not be living as the pathetic beings they are today. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by 2RightHands1Coc(m): 7:34pm On Dec 17, 2025
UK . I personally know some scums that recently relocated to UK. I wish everyone well cha .
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Achor1111(m): 7:36pm On Dec 17, 2025
Very pertinent.
Check the records, naija ladies have high tendency to misbehave abroad
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Achor1111(m): 7:38pm On Dec 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
That is one of the many lies that has been fed Nigerian men for generations that has gotten even those among them who have nothing foaming in the mouth thinking themselves entitled. If not for traditional and religious brainwashing drilled into women from childhood, Nigerian women would not be living as the pathetic beings they are today. 🥱🥱🥱
This is very worrisome
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by ibedun: 7:38pm On Dec 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Quote one of their laws that unfairly favors women over men... let's start with that. huh
Haba! who will write a law that is overtly unfair to either men or women? The laws are deceptively neutral but the application of the law by the courts are clearly and overwhelmingly in favour of women.

Family courts are based on precedents and they strip men of their constitutional right very very easily. And there are hardly any appeal process in the family courts. It is why MARRIAGE has practically collapsed in the west. Mothers don't even want their sons to get married...
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie:
ibedun:
➜Haba! who will write a law that is overtly unfair to either men or women? The laws are deceptively neutral but the application of the law are clearly and overwhelmingly in favour of women.
The family courts are based on precedents and stripes men of their constitutional right very very easily. And there are hardly any appeal process in the family courts. It is why MARRIAGE has practically collapsed in the west. Mothers don't even want their sons to get married...
Again, quote one of the many laws in the UK that unfavorably benefits women over men. The assignment here is simple. 🥱🥱🥱

P.S. If you don't understand what precedents are and how they work and cannot be in violation of the Law(they are literally abandoned the moment it is realized that they do not conform to the letter of the Law), then please make Google your friend. 🥱

Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by kingthreat(m): 7:44pm On Dec 17, 2025
Men need to understand that women are totally different from them. A man can be rooted and strong in his principles but women are like the air, they change so easily. That woman who loved you in Nigeria can despise you once you take her out of the country. Many happy marriages in the UK/US are ticking time bombs that will lead to divorce soon. If una like, make una no learn.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Wenonawde(m): 7:44pm On Dec 17, 2025
HgAkpobomeEr:
Shebi na only UK she dey talk about.
Bro stop preaching that to young men on this platform, are you born out of wedlock?
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by BigYash: 7:44pm On Dec 17, 2025
Them no dey tell person..
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by kingthreat(m): 7:46pm On Dec 17, 2025
ibedun:
Haba! who will write a law that is overtly unfair to either men or women? The laws are deceptively neutral but the application of the law by the courts are clearly and overwhelmingly in favour of women.

Family courts are based on precedents and they strip men of their constitutional right very very easily. And there are hardly any appeal process in the family courts. It is why MARRIAGE has practically collapsed in the west. Mothers don't even want their sons to get married...
You get time to dey answer that person.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Mistersolar: 7:48pm On Dec 17, 2025
read my only topic
Bendeco02:
Majority of women are betrayals and spoilers by nature.

That she is married to you won't stop her from destroying you as well if you are not careful.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by nairalanda1(m): 7:55pm On Dec 17, 2025
If you cannot bring your wife abroad then that means there is problem in your marriage from the word go and you and your wife need counselling.

If you cannot bring your wife abroad then that means you married the wrong woman for the wrong reasons and have poor judgement.

Finally if you cannot bring your wife abroad, you got trust issues . Bad.

Does not mean there are no evil women though. But I no like this long distance relationship. Bad for a family
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by able20(m): 8:01pm On Dec 17, 2025
This is a personal issue. No mumu Man or Woman should generalise the issue.
Just do the way that will make you happy
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by pocohantas(f): 8:05pm On Dec 17, 2025
Leave her in Nigeria na. Even here in Nigeria, na sapa hold some of una wives. Abroad is not the problem, the foundation and technicalities of your marriage is.

Leave her here and be sending money.
So you two can be fooling yourselves
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by JuanDeDios: 8:06pm On Dec 17, 2025
HgAkpobomeEr:
Shebi na only UK she dey talk about.
Yes. You can carry your wife to USA, Canada, Ireland, etc.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by ibedun: 8:18pm On Dec 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Again, quote one of the many laws in the UK that unfavorably benefits women over men. The assignment here is simple. 🥱🥱🥱
You can go and do your own assignment yourself! I have no dog in the fight........ I am not foolish enough to do anything thats against my peace and personal individual interest.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 8:21pm On Dec 17, 2025
ibedun:
➜You can go and do your own assignment yourself! I have no dog in the fight........ I am not foolish enough to do anything thats against my peace and personal individual interest.
Again, quote one of the many laws in the UK that unfavorably benefits women over men. The assignment here is simple. 🥱🥱🥱

Until you can provide substantive evidence for the claims you make, I suggest you completely avoid me throwing hogwash claims my way. 🥱🥱🥱

Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by ibedun: 8:30pm On Dec 17, 2025
nairalanda1:
If you cannot bring your wife abroad then that means there is problem in your marriage from the word go and you and your wife need counselling.

If you cannot bring your wife abroad then that means you married the wrong woman for the wrong reasons and have poor judgement.

Finally if you cannot bring your wife abroad, you got trust issues . Bad.

Does not mean there are no evil women though. But I no like this long distance relationship. Bad for a family
Who cares what you like or what suits you? In the UK your wife is a partner. The term "wife" has disappeared from day to day vocabulary sef.

A woman has the RIGHT to do whatever she like whether married or not. Its up to her to exercise the right or not.

In the UK men have been conditioned to not desire, not need or want a woman in your house...
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by WriteerNg: 8:37pm On Dec 17, 2025
SmartPolician:
Every idiot wants to trend


If you like don't listen. You'll cry blood.

Go and ask men that refused to listen. They are back in Nigeria starting from scratch.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Wotowotoman: 8:39pm On Dec 17, 2025
SmartPolician:
Every idiot wants to trend
Seun, why does your bot not ban these kind of people? 🤔
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Starz825(m): 8:45pm On Dec 17, 2025
We4all:
Who asked for her opinion? Most of the men women are dealing with in the UK were mean to their wives in Nigeria, and treated them as inferiors.

Then there are others whose wives never liked them and married them for their status. No woman will treat a good man poorly unless she is a psycho. So, next time you decide to choose a partner, try to avoid a psycho.
You are damn right,....Thats the issue....there are so many psychos.....you can't easily recognize until you so neck deep in relationship with them...


Very common with Nigerian women.... so sorry to say...
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by deegov: 8:50pm On Dec 17, 2025
If you need your sanity, almost all Nigeria wives are not to be taken abroad. I’m a testimony and I’m living in the regret now, I brought someone that never thought she would ever get to airport abroad, Omon e choke
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by drstranged: 8:53pm On Dec 17, 2025
LabStores:
In normal marriage and normal circumstance, husband and wife are suppose to leave together under one roof AS A FAMILY.
What joy and benefit will a man get from marriage, if you leave apart by default?

You leave your wives behind too, and worst can happen...
Na God dey help man...
There's a difference between LEAVE and LIVE. Which one are you referring to sir?
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Exceed15: 8:56pm On Dec 17, 2025
Many men have turned destitute as a result of this and more foolish men will still fall victim.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Exceed15: 8:57pm On Dec 17, 2025
tobenuel:
Yes oo, never will i carry my wife to be overseas
Don't try it.
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