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Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Olat4421: 8:58pm On Dec 17, 2025
millionboi:
be running your mouth don't learn and ask more questions, until you try it and God punish you,you are the dependent.
na u god go punish goat, anybody wey uk no favour make he come back to naija na byforce, everytime uk dis uk dat, if u can’t sustain dere policy den stop going dere
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Exceed15: 8:59pm On Dec 17, 2025
LabStores:
In normal marriage and normal circumstance, husband and wife are suppose to leave together under one roof AS A FAMILY.
What joy and benefit will a man get from marriage, if you leave apart by default?

You leave your wives behind too, and worst can happen...
Na God dey help man...
The worst that can happen to a man is when his wife makes his life miserable
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 8:59pm On Dec 17, 2025
tobenuel:
Yes oo, never will i carry my wife to be overseas
Clearly, you hate your wife. Why not set her free so you can go find yourself a woman you at least like and respect? undecided
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by CaptainFM1: 8:59pm On Dec 17, 2025
tobenuel:
Yes oo, never will i carry my wife to be overseas
Maybe you should not marry her in the first instant. You know your wife more than anybody.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by lilyheaven: 9:04pm On Dec 17, 2025
123papas:
Leave them in Nigeria for who to service?
Don’t mind them,
As if we have 100% marriage success anywhere in the world.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by CodeTemplarr:
There is a lot of talk about God-fearing men but i think more emphasis should be laid on God-fearing women.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 9:15pm On Dec 17, 2025
CodeTemplarr:
There is a lot of talk about God-fearing men but i think emphasis should be laid more on God-fearing women.
Like your god-fearing pastors busy fornicating and scamming their followers? grin
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by brainwave(m): 9:19pm On Dec 17, 2025
smiley grin
ibedun:
I know so many (in fact too many) that are not doing well. They are only doing well when the man has either surrendered or is completely subjugated. Men are totally disempowered (emasculated).
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Codes151(m): 9:22pm On Dec 17, 2025
And avoid Nigerian girls in Uk.

Bad character full.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 9:26pm On Dec 17, 2025
Codes151:
And avoid Nigerian girls in Uk. Bad character full.
Bad character yet the UK desires them for their work ethic? undecided
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by WriteerNg: 9:27pm On Dec 17, 2025
nairalanda1:
If you cannot bring your wife abroad then that means there is problem in your marriage from the word go and you and your wife need counselling.

If you cannot bring your wife abroad then that means you married the wrong woman for the wrong reasons and have poor judgement.

Finally if you cannot bring your wife abroad, you got trust issues . Bad.

Does not mean there are no evil women though. But I no like this long distance relationship. Bad for a family


Forget long talk. Bring your wife come first.

You'll serve as a lesson to others. The arrogant men that failed to listen are all back in Nigeria starting from scratch or doing jailtime in the UK/US.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by GABRIEL6036: 9:30pm On Dec 17, 2025
She is pointing to those red soil region with Amoeba head 😁😁 mostly🤣🤣. I'm proud of my tribe 👏 ❤ ♥ 😀 them no dey disgrace 9ja.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Codes151(m): 9:34pm On Dec 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Bad character yet the UK desires them for their work ethic? undecided
uk desires who?
Is that what the post is about?

F00lery
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by okwusdidi: 9:41pm On Dec 17, 2025
HgAkpobomeEr:
Shebi na only UK she dey talk about.
Don't train a woman you are not married to,now it's don't bring your wife to the UK,pls what is wrong with our women?
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 9:42pm On Dec 17, 2025
Codes151:
uk desires who? Is that what the post is about? F00lery
The post was not about the women in the UK and their character, yet you felt to mention them, prompting my retort. I guess the foolery is all yours. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by RaptorX: 9:58pm On Dec 17, 2025
Even the oyinbo men are fed up with the way men have been emasculated and wish to be like you, but you from Africa is saying it's a lie and you know some happy couples from Nigeria in the UK bla bla, I pity you carry her go UK you will learn the hard way
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by olumaxi(m): 10:01pm On Dec 17, 2025
SmartPolician:
Every idiot wants to trend
if na man u b....I pity for ur life....
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by razzydoo(m): 10:21pm On Dec 17, 2025
So with all my hustling, I go get aparte for youkay and one woman will call police on me and they'll tell me to leave? Okay na😁👍
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 10:23pm On Dec 17, 2025
razzydoo:
So with all my hustling, I go get aparte for youkay and one woman will call police on me and they'll tell me to leave? Okay na😁👍
It never works that way. In the majority of the cases where the man is kicked out, either the woman is the primary name on the lease or both the man and woman are. undecided

You only need to properly reason these lies they tell you to realize them for what they are. How can a total stranger show up at my home and then have me kicked out just like that? undecided
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Tendd:
90%. That is huge.It would have been interesting to point to the source from where she got her figures.All in all, don't bother bringing a spouse overseas, with the alarming rate of divorces.lt ain't worth it, people.You can empower her here in Nigeria and visit from time to time,so your children can equally understand and speak your language and know your culture.Protect your peace and mental health,we have witnessed so many atrocities and toxicity on abroad marriages.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by razzydoo(m): 10:38pm On Dec 17, 2025
You know I've always wondered. You made a lot of sense. Thanks.
Kobojunkie:
It never works that way. In the majority of the cases where the man is kicked out, either the woman is the primary name on the lease or both the man and woman are. undecided

You only need to properly reason these lies they tell you to realize them for what they are. How can a total stranger show up at my home and then have me kicked out just like that? undecided
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by IbnB: 11:42pm On Dec 17, 2025
pocohantas:
Leave her in Nigeria na. Even here in Nigeria, na sapa hold some of una wives. Abroad is not the problem, the foundation and technicalities of your marriage is.

Leave her here and be sending money.
So you two can be fooling yourselves
You're so right...most of these marriages are founded on the wrong principles/mutual goals/mutual objectives
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 6:21am On Dec 18, 2025
Bendeco02:
Majority of women are betrayals and spoilers by nature. That she is married to you won't stop her from destroying you as well if you are not careful.
You wey you marry her to use her for free labor and sex, are you any better than she is? undecided
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by nuesmann(m): 6:38am On Dec 18, 2025
VILLAGE
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by CodeTemplarr: 8:39am On Dec 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Like your god-fearing pastors busy fornicating and scamming their followers? grin
Stop taking hard drugs on empty stomach junkie.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by nairalanda1(m): 8:44am On Dec 18, 2025
WriteerNg:


Forget long talk. Bring your wife come first.

You'll serve as a lesson to others. The arrogant men that failed to listen are all back in Nigeria starting from scratch or doing jailtime in the UK/US.
Well, that is what you think.

Stop hating women, and get a life, young man.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Jamsam: 11:00am On Dec 18, 2025
She is not serious, she is in UK you want there husband to come to UK so that you people can marry them because you don't have husband abi, dey play
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by zoedew: 12:49pm On Dec 18, 2025
It all depends on whether the parties wholly subscribe to the Biblical doctrine of Marriage. It guarantees the well being of marriage.
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Basic123: 1:48pm On Dec 18, 2025
McBishop2020:
Go and rest. That one didn't work doesn't mean that another won't.

What about women that take their husband abroad? I hope that's encouraging but the reverse is dangerous.

Nonsense and ingredients
That divorce is commoner among Christians....FIX!
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Codes151(m): 8:37pm On Dec 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
The post was not about the women in the UK and their character, yet you felt to mention them, prompting my retort. I guess the foolery is all yours. 🥱🥱🥱
Continue retorting.

Since bad character the trigger your retort

Dundee
Re: Avoid Bringing Your Wife Abroad – Uk-based Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Kobojunkie: 8:39pm On Dec 18, 2025
Codes151:
Continue retorting. Since bad character the trigger your retort Dundee
Dundee na you, though! 🥱🥱🥱
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