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GloriousGbola:

I know you can use this but if the person you're mounting isn't in the right frame of mind for such activity, I mean it's supposed to be enjoyed by both individuals and not just one party.....

budaatum:
You at least announce your intent, unlike some.

I have no beef for women na

The battle of the sexes can never be won because there is too much fraternizing with the enemy.

And unenthusiastic sex is

budaatum:
I think this is one thing that joseph1832 does not comprehend, and he thinks he can drag others down to his level of unseriousness.

Lmao I'm telling you.

Asides being a serious fellow, I generally don't like flirting/playing around with men too much cos from small play, see finish dey start. So it's better I indulge my own gender.

folake4u:
Honestly Budaa.

I don't understand some folks mounting someone who's dry and not in the mood at all.

Some are just selfish and inconsiderate, and don't mind stealing their pleasure at other's expense.

Such pigs likely mount and pant for 5 minutes tops and done, and often just use their hand.

folake4u:
I know you can use this but if the person you're mounting isn't in the right frame of mind for such activity, I mean it's supposed to be enjoyed by both individuals and not just one party.....

When you get older you will find for reasons that the gateway may not be as er lubricated as it used to be.

budaatum:
I think folake4u and I just don't reason like you do, but I'm very certain it bothers us not that you think we are naive.

Loool. I think men and women differ a lot when it comes to mounting relations.

budaatum:
Some are just selfish and inconsiderate, and don't mind stealing their pleasure at other's expense.

Such pigs likely mount and pant for 5 minutes tops and done, and often just use their hand.

It is true. Some are very selfish and inconsiderate.

Tell them you want to be eaten, they'd refuse but will gladly request a B.J The height of selfishness.

folake4u:
Lmao I'm telling you.

Asides being a serious fellow, I generally don't like flirting/playing around with men too much cos from small play, see finish dey start. So it's better I indulge my own gender.

I don't even do gender at all, least they get blinded by t¹ts, as they do, when I'm blinding them with my mind.

joseph1832 has been trying for weeks now but still hasn't learnt he's hopelessly failing woefully. But I'm very certain he'd get bored pretty soon and slink away or start engaging his brain to stay.

budaatum:
I think folake 4u and I just don't reason like you do, but I'm very certain it bothers us not that you think we are naive.

Oh well, a more intimate conversation with you both, will def like you know we reason a whole lot alike.

budaatum:
I think this is one thing that joseph 1832 does not comprehend, and he thinks he can drag others down to his level of unseriousness.

I spent 10 good years writing poems about sex_ and all that comes with it. That should tell you how serious minded I am. Lol.

folake4u:
What happened.

Why are you mounting someone who's dry down there? There's no pleasure when someone's writhing in pain.

THis is exactly why I said you're very naive. You think unhappiness makes women dry? Beside, whatever happen to KY jelly?

folake4u:
Lol smh. So what do you want to educate me on?
Mtchewww.

Many things...

GloriousGbola:
When you get older you will find for reasons that the gateway may not be as er lubricated as it used to be.

I totally get you G.G, The Gateway to Hades might not be lubricated as it used to be due to certain factors. What I'm concerned about is the participation/mindset of the unwilling mountee.

folake4u:
Loool. I think men and women differ a lot when it comes to mounting relations.

Not really, you know. Not every man non-thinks with their d¹qs alone, I've found.

Some men so value themselves that they reason like you think women do when it comes to mounting relations.

budaatum:
I don't even do gender at all, least they get blinded by t¹ts, as they do, when I'm blinding them with my mind.

joseph 1832 has been trying for weeks now but still hasn't learnt he's hopelessly failing woefully. But I'm very certain he'd get bored pretty soon and slink away or start engaging his brain to stay.

You should put your 'good brains' to use, and do some back research on my moniker, before you jump to conclusions. Hehehe

budaatum:
I don't even do gender at all, least they get blinded by t¹ts, as they do, when I'm blinding them with my mind.

josep.h1832 has been trying for weeks now but still hasn't learnt he's hopelessly failing woefully. But I'm very certain he'd get bored pretty soon and slink away or start engaging his brain to stay.

Lmao Budaa, you really don't have chills.😂😂

I wonder when Joe will read the handwriting on the wall and rest. Maybe he doesn't have diaper duties to keep him busy.

joseph1832:
I spent 10 good years writing poems about sex_ and all that comes with it. That should tell you how serious minded I am. Lol.

Actually, a whole "10 good years writing poems about sex_ and all that comes with it" shows me how unserious you are, and that I'm being stup¹d if I engage you much further.

budaatum:
Not really, you know. Not every man non-thinks with their d¹qs alone, I've found.

Some men so value themselves that they reason like you think women do when it comes to mounting relations.

Only few men don't think with their d1qs alone.

And I always admire these sexually disciplined n1ggars.

budaatum:
Actually, a whole "10 good years writing poems about sex_ and all that comes with it" shows me how unserious you are, and that I'm being stup¹d if I engage you much further.

You should tell that to poets like Langston Hughes, Muta Baruka who spent years writing about things they seem important, don't you think so?

folake4u:
Only few men don't think with their d1qs alone.

And I always admire these sexually disciplined n1ggars.

They are indeed few. Especially amongst the immature kids who engage on Nairaland.

joseph1832:
THis is exactly why I said you're very naive. You think unhappiness makes women dry? Beside, whatever happen to KY jelly?
Many things...

Ugh. I know about the jelly.

I'm more concerned some folks would want to mount an unwilling mountee especially as she's unhappy.

budaatum:
They are indeed few. Especially amongst the immature kids who engage on Nairaland.

You know them very well. Some of their comments are actually cringe and you worry about the safety of the women in their lives.

Desire to us Was like a double death,
Swift dying Of our mingled breath, Evaporation Of an unknown strange perfume,
Between us quickly In a naked Room.

Budaatum. So you think Langston Hughes wasn't serious minded when he wrote this masterpiece of a poem?

folake4u:
Ugh. I know about the jelly.

I'm more concerned some folks would want to mount an unwilling mountee especially as she's unhappy.

Happiness doesn't quite come into it. Consent is Everest. Especially when she open her legs, willingly.

joseph1832:
Happiness doesn't quite come into it. Consent is Everest. Especially when she open her legs, willingly.

Well, the title of this thread is "Withholding Intimacy in Marriage is Abuse". I'm not married but I hear lots of preachings from male and female clerics alike that even if the women aren't in the mood, they should open their legs willingly.

So the mounting activity becomes more like a "duty" or "chore" rather than enjoyment.

folake4u:
Well, the title of this thread is "Withholding Intimacy in Marriage is Abuse". I'm not married but I hear lots of preachings from male and female clerics alike that even if the women aren't in the mood, they should open their legs willingly.

So the mounting activity becomes more like a "duty" or "chore" rather than enjoyment.

well. . . .

https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-d&q=maintenace+sex

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/

folake4u:
Well, the title of this thread is "Withholding Intimacy in Marriage is Abuse". I'm not married but I hear lots of preachings from male and female clerics alike that even if the women aren't in the mood, they should open their legs willingly.

So the mounting activity becomes more like a "duty" or "chore" rather than enjoyment.

sex to your spouse is a duty. Enjoyment is for side chics, hoes_ and the likes. Both party owe it to themselves never to deny each other that duty.

I know for a fact, women don't usually initial sex, still, it is what it is. As the title of the thread say, "withholding intimacy in marriage is abuse".

When you withhold sex from your spouse, is abuse. I get it totally if one party say he or she is tired. I totally do, but to use "unhappiness' as an excuse. Come on!.

GloriousGbola:
well. . . .

https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-d&q=maintenace+sex

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/

Maintenance sex? That's a new terminology.

Interesting.

Goodluck to all married folks. May the force be with y'all.

joseph1832:
sex to your spouse is a duty. Enjoyment is for side chics, hoes_ and the likes. Both party owe it to themselves never to deny each other that duty.

I know for a fact, women don't usually initial sex, still, it is what it is. As the title of the thread say, "withholding intimacy in marriage is abuse".

When you withhold sex from your spouse, is abuse. I get it totally if one party say he or she is tired. I totally do, but to use "unhappiness' as an excuse. Come on!.

Haba. Enjoyment shouldn't be limited to side chiçks/hoes nau. What happened to marrying the person who share same sexual libido with you?

Or am I missing something? Why do men not marry people who share same sexual libido with them? But rather do extra marital affairs.

What if the woman is unhappy in the marriage? You can't consider her feelings?

Goodluck to all married folks.

joseph1832:
You should tell that to poets like .......

I'm telling it to you who thinks "10 good years writing poems about sex_ and all that comes with it" is a thing to boast of and be proud of.

Feel free to ignore me though.

folake4u:
Haba. Enjoyment shouldn't be limited to side chiçks/hoes nau. What happened to marrying the person who share same sexual libido with you?

Or am I missing something? Why do men not marry people who share same sexual libido with them? But rather do extra marital affairs.

What if the woman is unhappy in the marriage? You can't consider her feelings?

Goodluck to all married folks.

When it comes to your spouse, enjoying sex is something very dicey. As your sexual appetite might differ from his/hers.

A married friend of mine, once told me she cringe with the way married men now crave anal_ sex. Now such appetite can only or should I say, might only be satisfied with side chics_ and hoes_ etc.

People marry according to societal expectations. And many married women are very shy and timid about their sexual appetite. They think it makes them look like hoes_ to their husbands. You can ask your female married friends, even the ones here, how many times they've ever initiated sex with their husbands. Their answer will shock you.

Many women/men are unhappy in their marriage. Don't let them fool you. Ones unhappiness shouldn't deprive the other of their wet desires....

budaatum:
I'm telling it to you who thinks "10 good years writing poems about sex_ and all that comes with it" is a thing to boast of and be proud of.

Feel free to ignore me though.

I'm also telling it to you, who thinks their powerful brain is powerful, when infact, it is as powerful as a badly baked puff puff.

I can't ignore you, atleast not now. You're too naive to ignore. Hehehe.

joseph1832:
sex to your spouse is a duty.

What a shameful juvenile immature thought, though its noted you did not limit it to girls, though I bet you are implying girls.

joseph1832:
I'm also telling it to you, who thinks their powerful brain is powerful, when infact, it is as powerful as a badly baked puff puff.

I can't ignore you, atleast not now. You're too naive to ignore. Hehehe.

Well, you are making it very easy to be ignored since I don't generally entertain boys who resort to insults because their egos have been bruised.

folake4u:
You know them very well. Some of their comments are actually cringe and you worry about the safety of the women in their lives.

Worrying is insufficient. Women need to organise and educate and protect each from pigs.