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Kaczynski:
➜Yes i agree but every mother at one point have regreetted leaving their baby with their hubby.
Only you have a baby, you'd get where im coming from.

RollinTNDA:
She is dealing with Post Partum Depression

Do you think it's easy for the body to recover after 9 months of hormonal rush that her body goes through. .

Local Nigerian men are too dull to know what post Partum Depression is. They rather hurl insults at the poor woman. Instead of being their to support her during that phase after childbirth

Ask your father, he will tell you how your mother behave aggressive after you were birth.
It's called PPD google it and learn one thing today

Zackattack:
➜Giving names to foolishness doesn’t stop it from being what it is.

Namaster:
Man NEEDS to do a DNA test ASAP!

Marriage of 1 year and the HEARTLESS wife already abandoned him and a NEWBORN.

Clearly, that's a woman with TERRIBLE morals and ZERO love for the guy.

Plus, the man just has the appearance of someone that's BEGGING to be the victim of Paternity Fraud.

He NEEDS to do a DNA test before he ends up SINGLEHANDEDLY raising a child he did NOT conceive.

gabbytabby:
GenZ don go gangsta. They reject single mother and will make you single father instead. God help all of una.

Kobojunkie:
They are not pushovers like their grandmothers and mothers. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing foolish about what she did. The same way a woman can nurture a child, a man can, and this man happens to be the child's father. 🥱🥱🥱

The same people assaulting her for leaving her child with the father— now a single father— won't raise an eyebrow against all of the men who abandon their children with women —single mothers. 🥱🥱

Samantha125:
Well, I don't see his wife regretting it, until she does, he should step up and care for his baby himself.

He probably didn't even appreciate his wife's efforts in being a homemaker.

Esthered:
How did she cope with her best getting engorged from not feeding the baby?

kushme:
➜Which yeye homemaker be that? No worry youself, the pikin go dey alright. As for the outdoor-homemaker, funny enough,she fit with her boyfriend dey collect piping. She marry who she no love.
➜ No woman wey love man, go vex run leave house without her baby because small or big misunderstanding.
➜ Simple, she go knack her old lover.

kushme:
Which yeye homemaker be that?
No worry youself, the pikin go dey alright.
As for the outdoor-homemaker, funny enough,she fit with her boyfriend dey collect piping. She marry who she no love. No woman wey love man, go vex run leave house without her baby because small or big misunderstanding. Simple, she go knack her old lover.

kushme:
Which yeye homemaker be that?
No worry youself, the pikin go dey alright.
As for the outdoor-homemaker, funny enough,she fit with her boyfriend dey collect piping. She marry who she no love. No woman wey love man, go vex run leave house without her baby because small or big misunderstanding. Simple, she go knack her old lover.

Glimpsetv:
A man has taken to social media to share his heartbreak after his wife left him with their 3-month-old baby following a small disagreement. In the video, he is seen holding a baby feeder, trying to care for the child, and explaining that he never wanted to make the video but felt forced as his wife has been away for four to five days.

He revealed that they just got married last year, and he never imagined this would happen over a minor misunderstanding. The man also complained that he has been going out and can’t even go to work because his wife decided to leave the 3-month-old baby with him after such a small fight.
The video has sparked strong reactions online, with many blaming the woman for leaving despite the situation.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyMtLyxT0Yk?si=hB9Doqcs84pgS4Tv

Kobojunkie:
All this because one woman decided to make one man a single father to his own child? Come on naw!

2. Love does not mean clinging to someone... remember? The same way that men can literally abandon women and children they once claimed they loved is the same way women can, too. There doesn't even need to be a reason, like the misunderstanding the man claims as the reason why the woman left. A woman can change her mind the same way a man can. The reasons can also be just excuses like the ones men make up for abandoning women and children.

3. She might just be back home with her parents watching TV. Even if she is knacking, it is her prerogative as a human being to choose herself over situations. Same freedoms available to all out there.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing foolish about what she did. The same way a woman can nurture a child, a man can, and this man happens to be the child's father. 🥱🥱🥱

The same people assaulting her for leaving her child with the father— now a single father— won't raise an eyebrow against all of the men who abandon their children with women —single mothers. 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Not every woman! Some women are not meant for motherhood, and some of them actually choose rightly not to have kids. Yet there are men out there who would manipulate such women into having kids nonetheless... why? Primarily because society pressures women into having children even when they are not mentally and equally equipped to handle that, and also a lot of men feel that conquering such women feeds their ego. 🥱🥱🥱

So, this woman's choice to leave the child with the father is actually commendable.... at least she did not dump the child by the roadside or in the bush somewhere. She is not a bad person since she left the child with the father. And if it turns out she really does not wish to be a mother, the man can raise his own child by himself — she has to pay child support at least.

EponObi:
➜What side of the story justifies leaving the baby behind?

poshestmina:
That doesn't have their own lives and kids to train?
Make them help dey train 3 months old baby ?
You know how time ,attention, money consuming they can be at that age?


The mother, except, she's in some big problem, and can't reach out ,she doesn't deserve to be a Mother.

muyico:
➜he married street gurl!!! They full Ibadan here, I was once a victim, that boy still dey with my Younger sister! I never c any maltreat, although it depend on d kindz of family he gat!

Kobojunkie:
There are actually many sides to this that could even be good for that baby. And recall, we are told often in Nigeria that children raised by their fathers are better than those raised by their mothers, so yeah, it is essential to hear her side before judging her. But all the same, the child is with her father, so it will be fine.

EponObi:
➜Mtchew. No one is arguing with you over this rubbish.

matify83:
He got served very early in the game.

Which woman abandons a 3 month old child that should be breastfeeding without any ioata of remorse for 5 straight days?


Gen Z!

Mayflowa:
➜Not supporting the woman but don’t let us make a big deal out of it. If women are able to handle baby alone. The man should be able to do same. There are childcare homes. He needs to plan his new life.

Samantha125:
It's not just her baby, but THEIR baby, they made him or her together, meaning they should have equal responsibilities in looking after their baby... The father should also be able to care for the baby without any complaints in the mother's absence.

RollinTNDA:
She is dealing with Post Partum Depression

Do you think it's easy for the body to recover after 9 months of hormonal rush that her body goes through. .

Local Nigerian men are too dull to know what post Partum Depression is. They rather hurl insults at the poor woman. Instead of being their to support her during that phase after childbirth

Ask your father, he will tell you how your mother behave aggressive after you were birth.
It's called PPD google it and learn one thing today

Richtaiwo:
What exactly has this one been typing all over this thread? The comments reek of a complete absence of basic maternal instinct, something even the lowest animals possess. It is pure, unfiltered nonsense.

So the argument now is that because a nursing mother has issues with her husband, she should abandon her baby just to score cheap points? How depraved does one have to be to even think like that? What kind of woman contemplates walking away from her breastfeeding child?

At this point, one can only conclude that such a woman is a shameless gold digger who suddenly realised she had been digging in the wrong soil and, out of spite and disappointment, lost all regard for life itself, even when that life is her own baby’s.

If she hates the man, does she also despise her child? One is forced to question whether such a person has any humanity at all, because even animals would not display this level of cruelty, selfishness, and moral bankruptcy to her own baby