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What do you mean there's no such a thing as "my body"? If you don't own your body? Who does?

At bolded, the same way you don't call the women you don't know "bad mothers" for leaving their children with their fathers.

Offpoint1:
There's no such thing as "My body" I can't make a strand of hair.

You don't call people you don't know 000.5% of their stories "Deadbeat"... Every narrator is an innocent.

He doesn't have breast milk na....

Samantha125:
It's his child as well and he should share the responsibility of looking after the child when the mother is absent.

Her eyes bin dey outside b4... He will b lucky if he is the biological father of the bby self

There are baby formulas in every food stores, what do you think happens to those babies who lost their mothers at infancy?

flyinnizam:
He doesn't have breast milk na....

Kobojunkie:
Pikin dey drink can milk and grow up strong too. Yes, babies whose mothers die also survive without issues when raised by nurturing fathers.

So we should subject the baby to such experience because of the mother is just a female and never a mother.
God help us.

Samantha125:
So you don't have formulas in Nigeria to feed the babies in the absence of their mothers?

Wokeness will wound you, Samantha. Formula kor equation ni.

tollyboy5:
So we should subject the baby to such experience ✓ because of the mother is just a female and never a mother. God help us.

Their is nothing worse for even a baby than having at least a loving parent to care for it.🥱🥱🥱

Historical not all females have been mothers and not all mothers are good mothers. Good fathers can also be good mothers to babies. 🥱🥱🥱

Samantha125:
What do you mean there's no such a thing as "my body"? If you don't own your body? Who does?

At bolded, the same way you don't call the women you don't know "bad mothers" for leaving their children with their fathers.

I don't need to elaborate on the "no such a thing as my body" statement, if you're a deep thinker I expect an instant epiphany.

Argument isn't my stronghold. I'll throw a simple question at you, your answers will determine if this is worth an argument.

Will you leave your 3 months old baby behind?
I need simple YES or NO answer.

Arlee:
✓ Good thing is,this is not how nature wired a responsible mother,

She is naturally programmed to have feelings for her fragile innocemt baby.
✓ With this your logic : What happens to the excess breast milk nature placed on the woman for the nourishment of the baby?
✓ What becomes of 6 months exclusive breast feeding necessary for the well being of the innocent baby?
✓ Its never about selfish feelings, its about the innocent child

nature does not wire women to be mothers since not all women have children. Society has typically tried to wire/brainwash all women into nurturers ignoring the fact that even fathers /and non-fathers can get that trained and do an equally good job at it. 🥱🥱

A responsible mother is at least one who knows to exit a toxic situation when she sees it for what it is. This mother has at least done that much so her child can be nurtured in a non toxic environment. 🥱🥱

2. Powdered baby milk is sold IN Nigeria too. The baby is with its father and will do quite well. 🥱🥱

3. Are you insinuating that babies whose mother's literally die during labor do not survive drinking powdered milk during the first six months of birth? 🥱🥱🥱

4. When fathers abandon their babies with their baby mamas, we literally never see that word --+ selfish --- used. But now a mother does the same and you want to make it all about the word? Wow! 🥱🥱🥱

Famous606:
✓ That child is to small nobody
✓ we tell her the story of the mother
✓ don't forget that the child is just 3 month old no proper breast feeding no recognition of the mother face or anything to show ,the woman that we take care of her at that stage
✓ becomes the mother automatically for life am judging her action for punishing the innocent child just to get to the father
✓ i just believe they are so many ways she can deal with the husband without involving the child .

When a man abandons his baby to go live his life free of it and it's mother, we never hear "that child is too small." Rather we hear,"The child will come looking for its father when it is old enough." 🥱🥱🥱

2. Much like fathers, there are literally a lot of deadbeat mothers out there too. That Society does its best to hide their existence does not make them vanish. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Fathers abandon even foetuses before they are born with their baby mamas regularly. And babies whose mother's die in the labor room also so survive. This child will be fine and it is being raised by its father.

4. But a father who is also a father for life is not judged at all when he abandons his baby, punishing it too? 🥱🥱

5. So many years, yet Society finds it totally acceptable when a man abandons his baby with his baby mama while insinuating that the mother's toxicity is all the reason necessary for him to abandon both of them? 🥱🥱🥱

Offpoint1:
There's no such thing as "My body" I can't make a strand of hair.

You don't call people you don't know 000.5% of their stories "Deadbeat"... Every narrator is an innocent.

You needn’t waste your energy replying that one. A brief glance at her comments on this thread is enough to tell, no prophetic insight required, that she belongs to the category of women from whom children need protective custody, not lullabies. One has heard of women who casually trade their babies for petty financial gain, she fits that unfortunate profile rather too neatly.

I genuinely pity the ill-fated man who will one day keep her at home, confidently believing he has married a wife, when in reality he has merely adopted a ticking time bomb in human form. It is only a matter of time before her true colours erupt, this current performance as a misunderstood victim is nothing more than a temporary disguise for some unsuspecting fellow.

And as for the innocent children who may someday come into this world through her, oh dear heavens, I can only offer my deepest sympathy in advance.
Now just imagine her response below. Na this one you follow dey drag matters involving child upbringing?

Samantha125:
What do you mean there's no such a thing as "my body"? If you don't own your body? Who does?

At bolded, the same way you don't call the women you don't know "bad mothers" for leaving their children with their fathers.

No, elaborate on your statement.

As for your question, this topic is not about me, so quit being so sentimental as if your gender don't abandon their children on a daily basis.

Offpoint1:
I don't need to elaborate on the "no such a thing as my body" statement, if you're a deep thinker I expect an instant epiphany.

Argument isn't my stronghold. I'll throw a simple question at you, your answers will determine if this is worth an argument.

Will you leave your 3 months old baby behind?
I need simple YES or NO answer.

What about those woke men who abandon their children on a daily basis? It's okay when you guys do it, but I crime when ladies give you a taste of your own medicine?

tollyboy5:
Wokeness will wound you, Samantha. Formula kor equation ni.

Samantha125:
No, elaborate on your statement.

As for your question, this topic is not about me, so quit being so sentimental as if your gender don't abandon their children on a daily basis.

Belive me when I said the statement is self explanatory to deep thinkers. If you can't decode the single line, an epistle version of it wouldn't make no difference.

Your inability to answer the simple question I asked simply means you're defending a bad behavior you yourself can't execute, which makes you worse than those who exhibit or execute it. You're an enabler.

A 3 months who's left behind by his/her mother stand a 90% risk of dying than a 3 months old left behind by the father. Breast millk is baby life support system... Ponder on that.

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=137903612]When a man abandons his baby to go live his life free of it and it's mother, we never hear "that child is too small." Rather we hear,"The child will come looking for its father when it is old enough." 🥱🥱🥱

2. Much like fathers, there are literally a lot of deadbeat mothers out there too. That Society does its best to hide their existence does not make them vanish. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Fathers abandon even foetuses before they are born with their baby mamas regularly. And babies whose mother's die in the labor room also so survive. This child will be fine and it is being raised by its father.

4. But a father who is also a father for life is not judged at all when he abandons his baby, punishing it too? 🥱🥱

5. So many years, yet Society finds it totally acceptable when a man abandons his baby with his baby mama while insinuating that the mother's toxicity is all the reason necessary for him to abandon both of them? 🥱🥱🥱[/qu

A child we come looking for his father because he really want to know is heritage and in some cases some of them are being rejected by the so family of the woman in terms of inheritance and possession of property .
If a man abandoned a pregnant lady(foetuses) don't you think the lady is forcing it on him and which he totally rejected because he meant not be ready for such responsibility or probably having doubts if the pregnancy belongs to him .
All am trying to say is that the lady action is wrong but i can't fully judge her because we have not hear her own side of the story the man can be doing emotional blackmail just to have public sympathy please if you know the lady kindly beg her to go back to her child because the punishment she is giving to the husband is too much which in the video the man is already stress out ,i guess he has learn the hard way .

Famous606:
➜A child we come looking for his father because he really want to know is heritage and in some cases some of them are being rejected by the so family of the woman in terms of inheritance and possession of property .
➜ If a man abandoned a pregnant lady(foetuses) don't you think the lady is forcing it on him and which he totally rejected because he meant not be ready for such responsibility or probably having doubts if the pregnancy belongs to him .
➜ All am trying to say is that the lady action is wrong but i can't fully judge her because we have not hear her own side of the story the man can be doing emotional blackmail just to have public sympathy
➜ please if you know the lady kindly beg her to go back to her child because the punishment she is giving to the husband is too much which in the video the man is already stress out ,i guess he has learn the hard way .

1. According to science, the heritage of the child is also the mother— half of the chromosomes that make up a child come from the mother, and the other half comes from the father — so, definitely, when the child goes looking for its mother, it is also looking for its heritage. And with women working and saving money for themselves, even mothers can now offer their children an inheritance and possessions. 🥱🥱

2. Well, since it is the woman abandoning the man in this case, don't you think it is the man forcing her to have his half-seed to create a child with, and she totally rejected even after being baby-trapped by him because she was not ready for the responsibility or doubts that she would be able to take care of the baby for him? 🥱🥱🥱

3. You just suggested that when a man does it, it is right, but God forbid a woman do the same, it is wrong. Clearly, there is nothing reasonable or or to be trusted about your judgment.

4. God forbid! An adult, after considering her situation, decided it was best for her to leave the baby with the baby's father. When a man does the same thing, not even a single person calls him to account, but encourages him to move forward almost immediately, whenever a woman does, the child suddenly needs its mother. It is punishment when a woman does it to the man, but not punishment when a man does the same thing to a woman? Nonsense! 🥱🥱

The woman should live her life, make money so she can send her child to college by the time the time comes to look for her. The father of the child can take care and raise the child better than the mother can... no be so? 🥱🥱

At bolded, where did you get all these lies? And where are the stats to support your answer?😂😂😂

Do fathers in Nigeria unalive their infant babies when left under their care?

Offpoint1:
Belive me when I said the statement is self explanatory to deep thinkers. If you can't decode the single line, an epistle version of it wouldn't make no difference.

Your inability to answer the simple question I asked simply means you're defending a bad behavior you yourself can't execute, which makes you worse than those who exhibit or execute it. You're an enabler.

A 3 months who's left behind by his/her mother stand a 90% risk of dying than a 3 months old left behind by the father. Breast millk is baby life support system... Ponder on that.

Offpoint1:
✓ A 3 months who's left behind by his/her mother stand a 90% risk of dying than a 3 months old left behind by the father. Breast millk is baby life support system... Ponder on that.

Yet babies whose mothers literally die during childbirth are known to have near 100% survive(if born without complications) even without getting a sip of breast milk? 🥱🥱🥱

Something dey terribly wrong with the way many folks still reason.🥱🥱🥱

Samantha125:
Do you also tell that to deadbeat fathers?

You should take full responsibility of your children in their mothers absence without complaining like many women are doing after the fathers of their children decided to abandon their responsibilities of providing for their children.

Stop being such cry babies when women decide to leave you with your children... The child calls by your surname, not hers.

All what I'm telling you is to stop calling situations like this equal right. And stop blind and unconditional support for your gender, it doesn't make sense

I should stop calling situations like this equal right while you guys are busy advocating for women to contribute 50% in household bills? Why now get sentimental when tables are turned and it's your turn to look after your babies?

And as long as you guys have blind and unconditional support for your gender, I'll do the same with mine... Look after your babies and stop whining, from now on, more women should normalise leaving their babies with their fathers...

maasoap:
All what I'm telling you is to stop calling situations like this equal right. And stop blind and unconditional support for your gender, it doesn't make sense

Kobojunkie:
1. According to science, the heritage of the child is also the mother— half of the chromosomes that make up a child come from the mother, and the other half comes from the father — so, definitely, when the child goes looking for its mother, it is also looking for its heritage. And with women working and saving money for themselves, even mothers can now offer their children an inheritance and possessions. 🥱🥱

2. Well, since it is the woman abandoning the man in this case, don't you think it is the man forcing her to have his half-seed to create a child with, and she totally rejected even after being baby-trapped by him because she was not ready for the responsibility or doubts that she would be able to take care of the baby for him? 🥱🥱🥱

3. You just suggested that when a man does it, it is right, but God forbid a woman do the same, it is wrong. Clearly, there is nothing reasonable or or to be trusted about your judgment.

4. God forbid! An adult, after considering her situation, decided it was best for her to leave the baby with the baby's father. When a man does the same thing, not even a single person calls him to account, but encourages him to move forward almost immediately, whenever a woman does, the child suddenly needs its mother. It is punishment when a woman does it to the man, but not punishment when a man does the same thing to a woman? Nonsense! 🥱🥱

The woman should live her life, make money so she can send her child to college by the time the time comes to look for her. The father of the child can take care and raise the child better than the mother can... no be so? 🥱🥱

What are you even saying after marrying her paying her bride price after a year she decided to run away from the husband and the child you call that what ,madam defender i guess your taught looks like that of a wicked person who want to enjoy marriage when everything is rousey because of little argument you decided to run away who those that only a golddigger who fail to actualize her goal behave in such a way and when dropping point stop assuming and focus on what the man is saying in the video to draw analysis in making your point ,the husband said just little argument she left the house for 5 days leaving the kid with him ,i hope you are not as wicked like that woman.
All the point you raise is far different from what is happening to the man in question because if you are a judge we you start using assumption to treat matter like this "if it was a man they we say he's right because its a woman it's wrong my dear either of which it's wrong which am totally not in support of
if you know the woman tell her to go back to her matrimonial home because when the man was paying her bride price she agreed for better or worse not running away because of little argument.

Samantha125:
There are baby formulas in every food stores, what do you think happens to those babies who lost their mothers at infancy?

Okay....do u have a child? Did u not breast the child or if u do not have a child yet. Won't u breastfeed the child?

This isn't about me.

flyinnizam:
Okay....do u have a child? Did u not breast the child or if u do not have a child yet. Won't u breastfeed the child?

Kobojunkie:
Yet babies whose mothers literally die during childbirth are known to have near 100% survive(if born without complications) even without getting a sip of breast milk? 🥱🥱🥱

Something dey terribly wrong with the way many folks still reason.🥱🥱🥱

Where you designed for formula or breast milk?

Take a back seat, this is beyond your societal conformity.

Take a back seat for now.

Samantha125:
At bolded, where did you get all these lies? And where are the stats to support your answer?😂😂😂

Do fathers in Nigeria unalive their infant babies when left under their care?

What lies? I repeat again! What lies?


"under their care.....?" I got my answers.

No further arguments

I repeat, where are the stats to support your claims since they aren't lies? Show us...

Offpoint1:
What lies? I repeat again! What lies?


"under their care.....?" I got my answers.

No further arguments

Samantha125:
Tell that to those deadbeat brothers of yours first...😂😂😂

In fact, women should start normalising leaving their babies with their fathers...😃😃😃

na why you no dey husband house

He should report her to her family members and not on social media.

mechanics:
He should report her to her family members and not on social media.

if it were the man who abandoned the baby with the woman, would you also suggest his family be harassed for the decision he made? 🥱🥱🥱

Offpoint1:
✓ Where you designed for formula or breast milk?
Take a back seat, this is beyond your societal conformity. Take a back seat for now.

Were you designed for other processed foods that you eat and still are capable of surviving on? 🥱🥱

Ever resorting to asking the stewpidest of questions when cornered, huh?. 🥱🥱🥱

Samantha125:
This isn't about me.

has ur man personally asked you what u bring to the table? U seems annoyed by the debate....

Like I said, this isn't about me... I'm talking based on the countless misogyny threads being opened here on daily of men wanting women to contribute 50% in household bills.

flyinnizam:
has ur man personally asked you what u bring to the table? U seems annoyed by the debate....