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Kobojunkie:
I fail to see what self&respect and boundaries have to do with this topic. 🥱🥱

- Do you share a room with your same-sex partner, and how do you manage it?

PDJT:
✓ Do you share a room with your same-sex partner, and how do you manage it?

What has self respect and boundaries to do with either sharing a room or not sharing a room with one's partner when individuals who do either could do either out of fear of abandonment and/or abandonment? 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
What has self respect and boundaries to do with either sharing a room or not sharing a room with one's partner when individuals who do either could do either out of fear of abandonment and/or abandonment? 🥱🥱🥱

- Thanks for your intelligent contributions.

If you can't get comfortable around your wives, you'll never be yourself when you're with them... Sounds to me like they're more of your maids than wives... I'm sure you also prefer doing the deed in the dark...🤭🤭🤭

But I must admit that I'm kinda envious of them, this means they can freely chat with their side dudes all night long without any disturbances in their respective bedrooms and even sneak them in in the middle of the night for a quickie while you're asleep in your bedroom, those women are enjoying...😃😃😃

Perhaps I should suggest this idea to my husband...😅😅😅

PDJT:
- Well, your closets arrangement makes sense, cos Men are always Right.

- I'm mostly not at home or in the study when the cleaning is done, mostly morning hours. But don't get me wrong, I enjoy my wives company but two adults breathing on each other's faces every night is not something I find ideal.

PDJT:
- So it's the festive season, and due to travels and family engagements I had to share a room with one of my wives, it wasn't a pleasant experience to say the least. So that brings me to my question: Men Who Share Room with their Wife/Wives, How Do You Guys Do It?

Thanks in advance for your contributions, guys.


Note: I come from a family where married couples do not share rooms. Never witness my parents or uncles do it. So this is a new experience for me. Hence, my question. Cc: RoyalRoy

Well, I have some questions to ask, and I hope you oblige my curiosity.

First of all, how many wives do you have?
[Let's know how many humans we're talking about here]

Secondly, how do you initiate sex?
What is the arrangement like, since you [all] stay in different bedrooms?
Do you go to the one you feel like having sex with at a particular time, or you call that one to come to you?
Do you inform that one in advance?

Believe me, you're more weird than monogamous couples that share the same bedroom though.

Mariangeles:
Well, I have some questions to ask, and I hope you oblige my curiosity.

First of all, how many wives do you have?
[Let's know how many humans we're talking about here]

Secondly, how do you initiate sex?
What is the arrangement like, since you [all] stay in different bedrooms?
Do you go to the one you feel like having sex with at a particular time, or you call that one to come to you?
Do you inform that one in advance?

Believe me, you're more weird than monogamous couples that share the same bedroom though.

- Hmm. Are you asking innocent questions or passing judgment?

- Anyway, I have only 2 wives for now.

- I initiate them as long as she didn’t kill fowl, all is good, and the action happens anywhere in my wing of the house.

- Hmm. What's weird about couples enjoying their separate rooms? Did your parents and grandparents share bedrooms?

Samantha125:
If you can't get comfortable around your wives, you'll never be yourself when you're with them... Sounds to me like they're more of your maids than wives... I'm sure you also prefer doing the deed in the dark...🤭🤭🤭

But I must admit that I'm kinda envious of them, this means they can freely chat with their side dudes all night long without any disturbances in their respective bedrooms and even sneak them in in the middle of the night for a quickie while you're asleep in your bedroom, those women are enjoying...😃😃😃

Perhaps I should suggest this idea to my husband...😅😅😅

- Ofcos, I'm comfortable around my wives, just don't share bedrooms with them. Maids? Ha! Bedrooms are well illuminated, don't worry about that.

- As long as they are not caught by the CCTVs, but to be fair my wives were not raised in the street.

- Hmm. Perhaps, you can take your husband to a swingers club first, if you're interested in sleeping around?

PDJT:
- Hmm. Are you asking innocent questions or passing judgment? -

- Anyway, I have only 2 wives for now.

- I initiate them as long as she didn’t kill fowl, all is good, and the action happens anywhere in my wing of the house.

- Hmm. What's weird about couples enjoying their separate rooms?
Did your parents and grandparents share bedrooms?

- Asking out of curiosity.

- Okay.

- So then, they come to you.

- It's not weird if it's a polygamous setting, to be honest.

- Couples [monogamous] sharing the same bedroom is what I grew up knowing as the norm.

Onegai:
And I've heard of men who died silently at night, alone. Why should a wife leave her room to be checking on you when you're sleeping, if you wanted her to do so, you should have shared a room.

If my husband asks me to sleep in a separate room because he thinks I'm crowding him, that's fine.

But he better know how to save himself if he has a Cardiac Arrest or a Heart Attack.

Maybe off topic but I think this is exaggerated. What about knowing that your husband/wife died beside you? That also gives people trauma. The way some men cannot stand to see a woman give birth is the way some people prefer to keep the distance. Meanwhile, someone who ends up in one of our prisons, if he is not in VIP will sleep on a very tiny space packed up like sardine.
The privilege of freedom is often underrated.

It's not for me. I would simply not marry a man who wants a separate bedroom. My grandparents and parents shared a bed, so for me, that is the norm.

My husband can have all the space he needs during the day, but his nights are mine. If the intimacy of the marital bed is too hard for my man to endure, he can find another woman to wife.

I expect for yourself, with two wives, it may actually be necessary to avoid jealousy over preferential treatment, however I personally would refuse to marry any man who wants anything but a monogamous marriage.

To each their own though I guess, provided all parties concerned are fine with seperate rooms and beds.

BlueEyedBabe:
It's not for me. I would simply not marry a man who wants a separate bedroom. My grandparents and parents shared a bed, so for me, that is the norm.

My husband can have all the space he needs during the day, but his nights are mine. If the intimacy of the marital bed is too hard for my man to endure, he can find another woman to wife.

I expect for yourself, with two wives, it may actually be necessary to avoid jealousy over preferential treatment, however I personally would refuse to marry any man who wants anything but a monogamous marriage.

To each their own though I guess, provided all parties concerned are fine with seperate rooms and beds.

- It's safe and logical to think this way when you're still single and consider yourself youngish. Most young people around your age think this way until they get married. "His nights are yours"?

- I guess you will do the "chasing" of eligible men and pay your bride price too?

PDJT:
- It's safe and logical to think this way when you're still single and consider yourself youngish. Most young people around your age think this way until they get married. "His nights are yours"?

- I guess you will do the "chasing" of eligible men and pay your bride price too?

I'm 54 😂😂😂
And having been both married and single, I have a fair idea what I do and don't want in a marriage.
Why should I settle for less?

BlueEyedBabe:
I'm 54 😂😂😂
And having been both married and single, I have a fair idea what I do and don't want in a marriage.
Why should I settle for less?

- Hmm. And you think that way? Are you a grandmother yet?

BlueEyedBabe:
I'm 54 😂😂😂
And having been both married and single, I have a fair idea what I do and don't want in a marriage.
Why should I settle for less?

I like you. 😀

PDJT:
- Hmm. And you think that way?
Are you a grandmother yet?

And what is wrong with the way she thinks?
That she wants her man to herself?

Mariangeles:
I like you. 😀

Well thank you kindly

PDJT:
- Hmm. And you think that way? Are you a grandmother yet?

I am indeed.
But I am also a woman. A woman who knows her worth and doesn't settle for less than she wants.

Mariangeles:
And what is wrong with the way she thinks?
That she wants her man to herself?

Ahhh.. some do not understand a woman like me. It's ok. I am not offended 😂
I am a 54 year old woman who looks like she's in her 30s. Blonde, blue eyes and financially independent.
I will take a husband because I want him, not because I need him.... and you know... my man, he is very ok with that 😂

Mariangeles:
And what is wrong with the way she thinks?
That she wants her man to herself?

- Not really. However, there are several research-backed evidence that as people get older, they desire and maintain personal space than younger people. This preference is connected to several physiological and psychological factors associated with aging. A couple of those factors are Maturity and Self-assuredness, which at 54 years a person might be expected to have..? Don't you think?

Mariangeles:
I like you. 😀

- Get a room already.

BlueEyedBabe:
I am indeed.
But I am also a woman. A woman who knows her worth and doesn't settle for less than she wants.

- Hmm. Interesting. Do you consider yourself clingy?

PDJT:
- Hmm. Interesting. Do you consider yourself clingy?

No. I just like sex in the middle of the night. So sue me 😂

BlueEyedBabe:
Ahhh.. some do not understand a woman like me. It's ok. I am not offended 😂
I am a 54 year old woman who looks like she's in her 30s. Blonde, blue eyes and financially independent.
I will take a husband because I want him, not because I need him.... and you know... my man, he is very ok with that 😂

- Na so. Blondies that look older than their age after adolescence years.

BlueEyedBabe:
No. I just like sex in the middle of the night. So sue me 😂

- Be civil; young people are on this forum, some are still school students.

PDJT:
- Na so. Blondies that look older than their age after adolescence years.

Ok mate. Whatever helps you cope 😂😂

No one said anything about your wives being raised in the street... But let's be honest here, polygamy makes it easier for women to have extramarital affairs in peace without worrying about being caught... While this week is another wife's turn to spend it with you, the other wives would be enjoying their side dudes in peace without worrying about you catching them... ... I honestly wouldn't mind if one day my husband suggests to get another wife, in fact, maybe I should suggest the idea to him...

The more the wives, the better...

PDJT:
- Ofcos, I'm comfortable around my wives, just don't share bedrooms with them. Maids? Ha! Bedrooms are well illuminated, don't worry about that.

- As long as they are not caught by the CCTVs, but to be fair my wives were not raised in the street.

- Hmm. Perhaps, you can take your husband to a swingers club first, if you're interested in sleeping around?

immortalcrown:
Self denial is not self preservation.

How about to avoid
"see finish"

chimex38:
How about to avoid
"see finish"

Mention the things a woman should not know about her husband.

Samantha125:
No one said anything about your wives being raised in the street... But let's be honest here, polygamy makes it easier for women to have extramarital affairs in peace without worrying about being caught... While this week is another wife's turn to spend it with you, the other wives would be enjoying their side dudes in peace without worrying about you catching them... ... I honestly wouldn't mind if one day my husband suggests to get another wife, in fact, maybe I should suggest the idea to him...

The more the wives, the better...

- I have seen women suggest and marry another wife for their husbands. Do it, I think you will enjoy it especially as you have eyes for men outside your "marriage".

BlueEyedBabe:
Ok mate. Whatever helps you cope 😂😂

- Yeah, blondy's body hairs can be mistaken for an old granny's hair. Not many men associate grannies physical characteristics attractive, certainly not for long-term purposes.

immortalcrown:
Mention the things a woman should not know about her husband.

nothing specific.
Depends on what is holding couples bond together.

consistent exposure may increase rate of witnessing what either the man or the woman barely tolerates at that height, affecting other areas of their companionship.

As a polygamous man, how sure are you that all your children are biologically yours?

PDJT:
- I have seen women suggest and marry another wife for their husbands. Do it, I think you will enjoy it especially as you have eyes for men outside your "marriage".