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Greattha:
1. While it's important for women to prioritize their own well-being, healthy relationships often involve mutual care and support.
✓ Emotional connection benefits both partners.
✓ Let's really hope you find peace, healing and forgiveness cos your anger towards men is exhausting.
✓ Remember, every man is a woman's son and every woman is a man's daughter.

Double0h7:
If a lady’s yanch is disgusting to you, then a man’s yanch must be what? I dey suspect you ooo 😏

lailo:
comments I read here shows most of u are not married or kids in adult body. There is nothing u can do to satisfy a woman. You can never satisfy a woman. Know this and know peace

budaatum:
In case you have not noticed, we are talking about husbands and wives, and not just men and women.

budaatum:
I think the adults amongst us need to come and educate you that you must satisfy your partner or you can't (or shouldn't) have a partner.

If you understand the mutuality of a partner in a marriage, you'd understand too how you can and must satisfy each other.

Oh! And you don't need to give her money because she is far way more intelligent and (I) earns way much more than you do.

Kobojunkie:
1. Wrong! Mutual care has absolutely nothing to do with regulating another human beings emotions and mental health for them. That is toxic as f0ck behavior. That is why parents who do so for their children are considered to codependent to those children and end up drained and miserable for it in the long run. You are not meant to do that to a child let alone a grown-arsed adult. 🥱🥱

2. You mean emotional connection powered by the individual brains of the individuals in the relationship and not by the brain of just the one individual trying to force all the emotional labor on oneself, right? When one person is responsible for powering the emotional connection in a relationship it is the ultimate sign of being in toxic situation.

3. You will never find peace in all of the toxic nonsense you spew here...many of you are too used to performative nonsense you refer to as peace, love, happiness all in the name of keeping marriage going that you can't even see things clearly for what they really are...fleeting ideas and concepts that make no sense in the end. 🥱🥱

4. If this why you all decided that marriage should be literal mental, physical and emotional punishment for every women who is someone's daughter? Nonsense!!!🥱🥱🥱

Double0h7:
Do you remember when it use to be young ladies writing articles on men 😂 😂 😂

We have passed the baton down to our men 😎

Faposky95:
In Ilesha....Reallyy..?!

joseph1832:
Wow. Just found someone who opening admit she selfish. 👍

budaatum:
Please, can anyone tell me if they think the person below went to school and paid attention if their response to a post that includes "you must satisfy your partner" and "you'd understand too how you can and must satisfy each other" is the below?

V3li:
✓ I loose interest when you repeatedly act like a child, you are corrected and it brings issues, you are reckless in spreading without having plans I begin to wonder if you can take care of children and the drift away slowly for my sanity and peace of mind.
✓ No be me frustration go push to kill person pikin. I am not and I will never be a murderer

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Why should it be the wife's responsibility to police a grown- arsed man's emotions for him? If a man emotionally disconnects from his marriage, it should be his responsibility to detect and immediately correct himself.

Abeg normalize divorce and stop pretending men are adult children women need to take care of in marriage...the same marriage these men are supposedly leaders/heads of. No wonder sex goes out the door after a while with women eventually realizing their husbands are no different from their own children in that they too need raising.😩😩😩😩

Normalize divorce make women freely exit such relationships. A grown man still unable to do the basic inner work required of all adult humans needs a mother and not a wife and no woman's child should be burdened with such nonsense. 😩😩😩

Nexttpage:
Na until you enter enough marriage n divorce your eyes go take clear?

joseph1832:
I Didnt read this...

budaatum:
You obviously didn't read my previous that you responded, though it's very obvious you did read this and are just telling fibs.

But don't you worry. My faith in you growing will not waver despite current stagnancy.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Why should it be the wife's responsibility to police a grown- arsed man's emotions for him? If a man emotionally disconnects from his marriage, it should be his responsibility to detect and immediately correct himself.

Abeg normalize divorce and stop pretending men are adult children women need to take care of in marriage...the same marriage these men are supposedly leaders/heads of. No wonder sex goes out the door after a while with women eventually realizing their husbands are no different from their own children in that they too need raising.😩😩😩😩

Normalize divorce make women freely exit such relationships. A grown man still unable to do the basic inner work required of all adult humans needs a mother and not a wife and no woman's child should be burdened with such nonsense. 😩😩😩

Sormeh:
✓ Lols. Are you a man? If yes, are you married and for how long?

Kobojunkie:
What has the details of particulars to do with the vomit that is OP's submission? 🥱🥱🥱

essentialone:
You missed the point. That acronym shows that ladies are generally lazy and disgusting, and their only value is their Yanch and everything related to it.

Merry100:
It is easy to tell when a guy has independent sisters; they tend to be more mature and respectful toward women. Don't use the lifestyle of your sisters to assume that all women are lazy.

Hard work and laziness are individual traits, not gender-based. I have seen women who are extremely hardworking. Some women are even the breadwinners in their homes.

No doubt, there are lazy women, but it is not a gender thing.

I know a man who refuses to work. His wife is even the breadwinner of the family. When offered a job, he declines.

I also know a particular woman who doesn't want to work. She often asks me for money, but when I offered her a job, she declined, saying that starting work at 7:30 a.m was too early. I even introduced her to plantain and potato chips business, bought everything she needed, showed her how to run it, and even taught her a helpful hack to make slicing easier but she complained it was too stressful and gave up on the business.

The plantain and potato chips business was actually one of my first small ventures; my humble beginnings. I still make them at home occasionally. Presently, I am frying some sliced potatoes. I prepared some as a side for the meal I prepared for my friends during the festive season, and one friend liked it so much that he asked me to make some for him again.

It is possible you are only surrounded by lazy ladies, but in general, women are hardworking.

essentialone:
J.D.P.

Just Dey Play

Merry100:
Facts don't need validation