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A lady has come out to say what happened when she tried doing Feminism with her husband after years of being a submissive wife. The husband is an Edo man and she has said women should not try feminism with their husbands especially if he’s a Benin man.

What do you think? Watch the video to find out how her husband reacted.


Source:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSzuWQEHyTk?si=sr3PSDQUHZcPHXdr

Lilosama:
✓ A lady has come out to say what happened when she tried doing Feminism with her husband after years of being a submissive wife. The husband is an Edo man and she has said women should not try feminism with their husbands especially if he’s a Benin man.
✓ What do you think? Watch the video to find out how her husband reacted.

The lady is clearly an eejiot who
1. Does not know what feminism means or is about.
2. Thinks it makes sense to claim she tried it on --- my guess she means she has weaponized it -- someone while in a contract which clearly states that she be a slave/servant to her husband. 🥱🥱

2. I think she should go back to the drawing board to learn exactly what feminism means and entails. And how even her right to speak publicly is thanks to feminism. Yes, she needs to reeducate herself so she stops making these senseless videos showcasing her brand of stewpidity. 🥱🥱🥱

Lilosama:
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So, I finally watched the video, and heard nothing sensible in the statements made by both the commentator and the woman. 🥱

In the video, the woman claimed she attempted no longer submitting to her husband, all this while still supposedly religiously/traditionally married by way of a contract that stipulates she be the subjugate/slave in the arrangement, only to then wonder why it backfired. She then stewpidly concluded that it came down to her being married to an Edo man. I can't even imagine how dense one would need to be to come to such a conclusion.

If one violates the terms of the contract one signed up for, what does one expect to happen? What aspect of feminism leads these to believe that it is possible to violate the terms of a contract and somehow avoid consequences for it? 🥱🥱

Of course, the religious/traditional marriage contract requires that a woman exist as a submissive partner in the union. With the man as the sole provider, head/master over the woman, who is herself a servant/slave in the agreement. If a woman in that capacity decided she no longer wishes to submit/be a slave/servant to a god/head, what she would need to do would be to exit her current contract (not breach it), and then consider signing a partnership agreement, which comes with no submission requirement at a later date. 🥱🥱🥱

I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out...

Samantha125:
I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out...

Coming from a 38 years old woman with no Man in her life continue you are doing well

Samantha125:
I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out...

easier said that done, you will just realize something in you cant stomach it ... no woman is happy her food is reject

i dont know about SA women buh real women dont enjoy there food like someone else eating there food

many times babe will cook nd she will complain the food smells to her .. she will jus lost appetite,

Kobojunkie:
The lady is clearly an eejiot who
1. Does not know what feminism means or is about.
2. Thinks it makes sense to claim she tried it on --- my guess she means she has weaponized it -- someone while in a contract which clearly states that she be a slave/servant to her husband. 🥱🥱

2. I think she should go back to drawing board to learn exactly what feminism means, and entails. And how even her right to speak publicly is thanks to feminism. Yes, she needs to reeducate herself so she stop making these senseless videos showcasing her brand of stewpidity. 🥱🥱🥱

Abhi o. You can imagine. She’s really an eediot. Imagine me marrying a woman with such a big amount of money and taking her away from poverty and she dare say she can’t cook lol. She’ll meet herself in her father house

Thank you kobo

Samantha125:
I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out...

Hmm ok UK ok Ty kk ty our UK th

irumole1975:
This is actually okay (I’m not being sarcastic). If I was the one paying the rent and buying groceries, I’ll stop doing that too as a man. If rent is due I expect her to pay. If she pays and she’s not okay with me staying there, I’ll move out. I’m not angry, I just stop investing in what doesn’t benefit me.

I’ll take my money and start eating out.

That's wickedness

You shouldn't introduce a new ideology into your home, if the previous was working perfectly.
Know it's very easy for a man to get another spouse. It's not so easy for the woman .
Don't lose your home

irumole1975:
➜Abhi o. You can imagine. She’s really an eediot. Imagine me marrying a woman with such a big amount of money and taking her away from poverty and she dare say she can’t cook lol. She’ll meet herself in her father house
Thank you kobo

Una own na always say una no fit read at all. Which part of her pronouncement tell you say she no fit cook? 🥱🥱🥱

Una own suegbe dey always get im own zipcode. 🥱🥱🥱

FriendsAndFans:
➜You shouldn't introduce a new ideology into your home, if the previous was working perfectly. Know it's very easy for a man to get another spouse. It's not so easy for the woman .
➜Don't lose your home

. Define working perfectly.

2. If the man had come out to you to cry that the marriage does not benefit him at all, but his wife seems to be having a field day in it, I bet you would not say this same line to him, would you?

Samantha125:
I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out...

Just get ready for emotional turmoil 📌💯💩

reddingtonblack:
➜ easier said that done, you will just realize something in you cant stomach it ... no woman is happy her food is reject
➜ i dont know about SA women buh real women dont enjoy there food like someone else eating there food
➜ many times babe will cook nd she will complain the food smells to her .. she will jus lost appetite,

Stop spinning ridiculous lies against people! There are lots of women out there who don't know how to cook and are not ashamed of this very fact. I have friends who cook because their food tastes much better than their wives, and they are all OK with it. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱

➜Cooking is a skill that almost 50% of men and women don't have down to a T, no matter their years of training; and there is nothing to be ashamed about.

3. You small-brained individuals need to learn to shut up more often than not. So, just one babe seems to have some hiccups with her own cooking, but you took that to mean that every woman has the same issues? Are you Sure you are OK?

RPG2020:
Coming from a 38 years old woman with no Man in her life continue you are doing well

Leave them be... Body go tell them. See Tonto dey seek God now. See Tiwa crying on stage while performing "Somebody's son" that day.

Just leave them make them dey pretend online and weep behind closed doors

Kobojunkie:
Stop spinning ridiculous lies against people! [/size]There are lots of women out there who don't know how to cook and are not ashamed of this very fact. I have friends who cook because their food tastes much better than their wives, and they are all OK with it. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱

➜Cooking is a skill that almost 50% of men and women don't have down to a T, no matter their years of training; and there is nothing to be ashamed about.

3. You small-brained individuals need to learn to shut up more often than not. So, just one babe seems to have some hiccups with her own cooking, but you took that to mean that every woman has the same issues? Are you Sure you are OK?

Your problem is that you just love to argue So you will always have a twist or even miss the point

weytin concern this topic with Women that dont know how to cook, just curious you and who are argue All women cook

the subject matter is women that cook, its takes a woman to cook for a man to " reject" this tinz are common sensical, i retietrate
a woman enjoy people eating there food more than herself Lets a Woman cumma tell me No she doesnt like people eat her food

Once again, let a woman denounce she as never lost appetite after cooking ... i doubt if you are with a woman perhaps a nerd virgin .... feel free to ask pocphoantas or ishilove let them dare to say not true

No bring arguement wey no dey the topic, i wan use head ache enter new year

She get luck say the husband only stop to the eat her food, omor if na me you go leave my house join. Carry that ur feminism something go uk or u.s.

reddingtonblack:
Your problem is that you just love to argue So you will always have a twist or even miss the point

weytin concern this topic with Women that dont know how to cook, just offering you and who are argue All women cook

the subject matter is women that cook, its takes a woman to cook for a man to " reject" this tinz are common sensical, i retietrate
a woman enjoy people eating there food more than herself Lets a Woman cumma tell me No she doesnt like people eat her food

Once again, let a woman denounce she as never lost appetite after cooking ... i doubt if you are with a woman perhaps a nerd virgin .... feel free to ask pocphoantas or ishilove let them dare to say not true

No bring arguement wey no dey the topic, i wan use head ache enter new year

Make una stop to the engage that guy, him moniker alone don tell una say him no normal.

Make e eat your food make you kpai her

Samantha125:
I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out...

It's possible you are single to stupor

LeeSmart:
Make una stop to the engage that guy, him moniker alone don tell una say him no normal.

Next year i dont mind tryin to engage him to pocohantas or folake to take his innocence away

SixSeven:
It is not a sad reality. Although you have a lot of stories to tell for your age but this is the reality of life. Back then, mothers used to train their daughters to cook. You must know how to cook for your husband, the easiest way to get to a man's heart is is stomach etc. Women said that was patriarchy but today, women are free and they can see for themselves. They will call the man a d.o.g but the biology in him will activate. He will love that woman who can nurture, can care, can cook. When they tell women that men are not attracted by their money, position, strong independent woman and those things, they argue and sit with the simpletons who want to say the things they like to hear. What men say, women don't like to hear it at all. They like to argue to prove their point but real life is reality. Reality does not care about emotions. You gonna find out very soon, so I say to you, listen if you are wise, argue if you want to find out the hard way.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOCqAlmNQII


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKNFj8GsTiI

And if you think it's cruise, I have one more video for you

When they aires this reality show of wife swap, see how the families reacted to the mother who cooked her food vs the mother who ordered cooked food for her family. The children were so happy when the Caucasian said she cooked, even children know these things. Keep arguing. You gonna learn!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pUhKjYiaUik



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d_ddg85wpLg

Feminism is a very broad term...

She should have either explained what feminism meant to her or stated exactly what she did.

People should stop throwing big grammar around I'm not even sure they understand.

P.s: I didn't watch the video!

Tell me one good reason why should I continue including you when I'm cooking when you'd have made a choice to stop eating my food? Should I cook it only to go to waste?

If you're gonna be throwing tantrums like a big baby, be my guest, but while you do it, keep in mind that I'm not your mother who's gonna be entertaining your tantrums.

Another thing, I don't believe in raising a family in rented apartments or mortgaged properties... Like what do you take me and the children for? There's nothing homely about raising a family in rented apartments... Why should I be raising my family in rented properties when my parents didn't raise me in one? It's like you're not taking me and the children seriously... Where I'm from, real men build their wives and children homes... Rented apartments are only kept for work purposes in cases whereby your workplace is far from home.

As for the groceries, you can keep your money, not all of us women are broke and financially dependant on men, in fact, I'm the one who's buying monthly groceries in my house, that's my department...😃😃😃

irumole1975:
This is actually okay (I’m not being sarcastic). If I was the one paying the rent and buying groceries, I’ll stop doing that too as a man. If rent is due I expect her to pay. If she pays and she’s not okay with me staying there, I’ll move out. I’m not angry, I just stop investing in what doesn’t benefit me.

I’ll take my money and start eating out.

We SA ladies are a different breed, if you're gonna reject our food, that's your choice and we'll respect it.

We can't be bothered over some else's stomach.

reddingtonblack:
easier said that done, you will just realize something in you cant stomach it ... no woman is happy her food is reject

i dont know about SA women buh real women dont enjoy there food like someone else eating there food

many times babe will cook nd she will complain the food smells to her .. she will jus lost appetite,

Which of the food?

The one wey dem dey cook or the one wey dem dey pound?

Samantha125:
Tell me one good reason why should I continue including you when I'm cooking when you'd have made a choice to stop eating my food? Should I cook it only to go to waste?

If you're gonna be throwing tantrums like a big baby, be my guest, but while you do it, keep in mind that I'm not your mother who's gonna be entertaining your tantrums.

Another thing, I don't believe in raising a family in rented apartments or mortgaged properties... Like what do you take me and the children for? There's nothing homely about raising a family in rented apartments... Why should I be raising my family in rented properties when my parents didn't raise me in one? It's like you're not taking me and the children seriously... Where I'm from, real men build their wives and children homes... Rented apartments are only kept for work purposes in cases whereby your workplace is far from home.

As for the groceries, you can keep your money, not all of us women are broke and financially dependant on men, in fact, I'm the one who's buying monthly groceries in my house, that's my department...😃😃😃

“Hmm hmm hm unban but ok y UK y

Diamond098454:
That's wickedness

Hmmm hmm hmm hin uh yu gun g

Those things only work for women from disadvantaged backgrounds who are financially dependant on their husbands.

You'd have rejected my food in the first place, so would you expect me to keep cooking for someone who doesn't want my food?

I don't have the energy for petty men, get petty and I'll pack my bags and get going... There's more to life than massaging a fragile ego over a childish behaviour... Pettiness never built any marriage.

irumole1975:
“Real men” always the “real men” never “real women”

Like I said, I’m very petty. As a married man, I do not see anything wrong to remove whatever it is that I’m contributing to my family when my wife remove her own contribution. No one has the sole monopoly of ma!dness. If u remove sex, I remove attention, I take away provision, I take away every other thing I’m doing to make u happy. Whether you can do it for urself, whether you’re not a broke woman like the majority of ur gender is none of my business, I genuinely do not care and everyone around me knows. I just know you’re not going to have access to my resources no more.

Good luck on that one

irumole1975:
No it’s not. No one has the sole monopoly of Ma!dness. As long as u have decided to be in my life, as a woman, you will come correct as long as I come correct. If u remove whatever convenience you’re doing for me, I’ll remove every convenience I’m for u. I’ll look for things I’m doing to make u happy, I’ll take them away. I know God is a merciful God, he’ll replace me with someone better for you or find u another means to fulfil those expectations, it’s completely fine. But I’m going to take my own provision away.

Hmmmm Hmmmm Hmmmm
Are you being serious?
You are very funny