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Emmalez:
Source: https://www.reportnaija.ng/2025/12/drama-as-nigerian-man-discovers.html

You must be a wicked man to be dating a girl for 3 years without marrying her and still blame her for following another man to his village to do pre-marriage introduction audition and why won't her mom agree to her going there because it's obvious you're not a serious man if not a wicked man so you think buying iPhone and financing her education without marrying her is ok? You get mind still they ask her if the man touch her like say for 3 years you no touch her pass wetin you buy her, you know how much olosho they charge now? You fit no know oo as per you dey get ham for free. Run the math maybe na you gat to balance her sef

I know you're seriously hurting now but your eye still dey her body and she know say you're hooked even you know that's why you keep believing in "us" even when it's clear that that "us" is you and your 3rd leg

Just remembered how my university babe just got married off by her family to 1UK returnee back in the days.These were the kind.of responses i was getting from her on why she didnt value our relationship then.Op should just forget about that girl..shes gone

Things are happening

feedthenation:
---The block function on the phone is for reasons like this---

E easy to block?? When a man is in love thats not.possible.

IamtheTruth1:
I still don't understand why he is still entertaining the conversation.

Be done with that lady and move on. Save your self the mental stress of discovering in the next 15yrs that your children are not.

She is okay with going over to another man's villa to cook for 2weeks.

She has the guts to tell you is no biggie..her Mom is aware.

See the way cheating has become a norm.

Maybe she has been seeing the other guy for sometime

mightyhazel:
As he no wan speed up things nko


Girlfriend of 3yrs ke. Wetin u dey friend person for 3 yrs for. U be Lord of the rings?

..abi..for 3 years no marriage proposal,.nothing.. and he expect the girl to wait for him for ever...the girl is ageing,.so should wants to get married immediately so as to have children..before menopause sets in

She went to her in-laws house.
You gerrittt?
If you don't gerritt, forget about it.

This una conversation get as e be, I don jump am pass

I don't believe anything I read online. In this day and age of AI, I also don't believe things I see online.

Emmalez:
Source: https://www.reportnaija.ng/2025/12/drama-as-nigerian-man-discovers.html

Most abusive relationship on earth
The girl is making fun of everything about you
Look at the wicked conversations
Not even about travelling for a job or a professional course
My dear you are not in a relationship, probably kept you for a joking matter amongst her group of friends
And I must say she is a narcissist
.I travelled to cook
.I slept or sleeps in his room
.he tried touching me
etc
Look at the kind of conversation she's exposing you to, please leave the association if you are not spelled

You sef know the truth na, abi make we still tell am?.

Your former Madam went for family introduction to achieve the next level, na make she get mind throw you under the bus.

E be like say the other guy hand strong pass your own. Shey na iPhone and sorting carry over you do, the oga fit don dey do foundation for her family like dis.

The one wey dey bust my head na dat straight two weeks straffing . Na dat early morning own come dey vex me pass on your behalf now.

The street is not smiling, and jungle don finally mature, my broda. Only satan go still judge some women las las.

Move on, the train don pass Kafanchan.

Oga go and find work.... Who do you think you can deceive with this cock and bull story , can anyone notice the timing between their chat.. the time are the same, as if he or she was waiting for the other party to type ... Gerrout

That screenshot looks like a forced script. Let’s be real, most of us here have enough experience with Naija babes to know when a conversation is staged. The way she was chatting and the emojis used just don't add up, especially for someone who is supposed to be on your payroll. A Nigerian girl who knows what she’s getting from you will never risk it by acting that way; she’ll lie if she has to, but she’ll definitely stay respectful to keep the cash flowing. If you’re really her 'sponsor,' she’ll play her part perfectly—even if she’s lying, she’ll do it with enough finesse and apologies to keep you hooked. This was a poor job, honestly.

BondRiv:
An obviously loose woman. Deceiving herself.

if you check her age she is not above 25
thats how they think and reason...
anything genz 18- 25 dont know what they want

Abeg where una dey see these kind LovePeddler date sef?

Someone stayed in his room and created this rubbish for engagement. I wonder the gain.

Emmalez:
Source: https://www.reportnaija.ng/2025/12/drama-as-nigerian-man-discovers.html

Dude leave her alone she's done with you!

Man, it serves you right. I'm sure you have not spent this much for your parents.

...and to you lady, I can understand why you got 4 carryovers.

Miracle no dey tire Jesus

You are just a mere boyfriend, please accept your position and let her marry a man friend

The guy she traveled to his village with is her main guy while you are her side or backup guy. Wise up man.

Hmmmm guy delete and block anything about this babe for your own good. I know you’re a good guy your own babe go find you. Be strong

They went for introduction of the girl to his parents, simple.

Cock and bull story. The response from the lady betrayed the whole story as fake
In real life, the guy is just being stupid asking those questions. Firstly the girl is not your wife. Most probably he kept her for 3 years as a girl friend without committing to marriage believing he could buy a whole human being with his peanut give away such as hair, sorting out carry overs etc but forgot to mention that he has been sleeping with her for the last three years and she may have been cooking and washing for a guy who was not committed

I swear wit this moment, almost all girls are like this, almost all o.
I invited a girl to my place and she came with her bed spread, I was afraid at first bt she made me understand that she's in a serious relationship with a guy and the guy can't do without call her on videos b4 sleeping..
Behold she used her bed spread, called the guy on video call that she's not feeling too well that she wanna sleep early and the innocent guy was so romantic ND caring on phone, even sent her 30k that night to get drugs and provisions the next morning and they exchanged I love you to each other...
In my mind na so girls be?
I don see a lot b4 o bt that day shock the entire me. In all Sha I still collect 6 point bt from that day I lost trust on girls, even my babe I stopped checking on her, na wen she dey wit me e b my turn, once she leaves, na another person turn...
Guys if u like dey do I love u wit girl, d day wen u go discover ur own dey come..

[quote author=Learnstuffs post=137963466]This guy shaa. I can't even have this conversation. Once she admits to the visit, I will ghost her. Silence is golden [/quote
]
God bless you bro. I was irritated reading this. It is not meant to be a serious conversation. She has decided her fate and chose herself a partner..Just enter silent mode and move on.

brain54:
I wanted to comment a different thing initially...


But I stopped reading at "where did you sleep"? In his room and nothing happened. Then I confirmed to my self that this is Not a real conversation. Perhaps done for clout.


Besides it's already been hinted this is not meant to be a serious conversation.

But I don't take it for granted that some girls people can be extremely stupid. Even the guy what is he arguing with her about when he should dump her immediately without fuss?

But again this is not meant to be a serious conversation... just social media clout!

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Why dump her? She is a paid Olosho, let him just continue his business transactions with her , but bargain better because he is currently paying her too much for Sex. But if he now put Olosho for house as wife, then we should do a DNA for the man to confirm that he is not born of a thousand fathers before asking why he wants to start raising other men’s children

Namaster:
"Stop overreacting, he's just my friend.

"



That's ALL any man needs to hear.
And that's where I STOPPED reading.


That is the LANGUAGE of cheaters all over the world.

That sentence is LOADED.

First, it BELITTLES him.
Then, it SHIFTED the blame onto him.
Then, it deftly EXCUSES her infidelity.

In this Nigeria that people get KIDNAPPED for taking the wrong route to their own BATHROOM, one WORHE left her base in Lagos to cook for another man and his family during Christmas Holiday.

And he's a JUST a friend?!


Madam went for her INTRODUCTION.

The WIMP needs to respect himself and MOVE ON!

I don laugh fall off from the Pepper tree where I was taking a deep nap


I must start being careful of the route I take to my oza room from today, thank you bra

His soulmate obviously have no soul

Lol na igbo way be that ,she is not your wife na , na just girlfriend till u pay her bride price na. Any way na social media cruise be that .