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My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Onepointfiveodds: 4:03am On May 21, 2022 |
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue. We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that. Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?! 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Acidosis(m): 4:26am On May 21, 2022 |
Stop pointing out her wrong all the time. Give her the opportunity to process her mistake by herself without you pointing it out to her, when the mistake is very very obvious. Demanding an apology without allowing her to process how or where she got it wrong may not work for someone with ego issues. People like that are very hard to live with you just have to leave them and allow their conscience do the work. If you guys weren't married, my BEST and ONLY advice would have been to end the relationship. 321 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Candidlady: 4:34am On May 21, 2022 |
She doesn't apologise and you haven't beat the living soul outta her Damnnnnn Iam so disappointed rn Next time when she does something crazy hit that beeaach after that look for a hotel lodge for the weekend with a sex worker have numerous unthinkable sex. °°°°°what a redpiller would have said°°°° •••mari in the morning therapy for the soul••••• 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by FERNANDEZISBACK: 4:44am On May 21, 2022 |
You sure can file for a divorce cos your wife didn't apologise to your insecure self..you probably scolded her in a harsh way... I'd advise she file for a divorce before you accidentally murder her due to ya anger.. 4 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by chukwuibuipob: 4:56am On May 21, 2022 |
Nah indomie /eggs 5 minutes cook girl u go married.Some of u will not give ur GF money to go market and cook for you but will rather carry the mgbeke with long nail go Mr B,Chicken R etc to go and chop and later complain that n future like this OP. Get mature in ur married life and STOP weekly complain 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Onepointfiveodds: 4:57am On May 21, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: I can't help but laugh at this comment of yours. Well, i didn't 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by FERNANDEZISBACK: 4:59am On May 21, 2022 |
Onepointfiveodds:Pls don't do cos it wasn't meant to make you laugh but sit yourself down and think... This ain't no comedy..this is reality.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by CandyOps(m): 5:45am On May 21, 2022 |
Long story short: you need to learn how to point out her mistakes without hurting her feelings. It also depends on how big her ego is Long story long: Normally conji never hold you. Na you go still use your hand apologize for her fuxk up when the time is ripe. Concerning the issue you raised, there r ways of pointing out a person's wrong without stepping on feelings. For example, my babe once told me my idea on a certain goal I had was B.S and I felt bad. One day she did that again and that was when I called it out and reminded her that this was the 2nd time she's doing so and it is disrespectful. I told her she was being insensitive to my feelings with her words because I don't call out her bad cookings instead i finish the food with a smile sometimes. So it's wrong for her to call my ideas stupid without proferring a better option. 2 things happened here- she took a mental note that I held an unspoken 'grudge' about the first time she did it and secondly, I let some of her mistakes slide because it's not worth it being confrontational over small issues. About the salt level while cooking, this should have been thrashed out in the dating stage already, why now? I hate salty food also because it's just slow poison. So I go dey warn you ahead of time even before you start the cooking to avoid salt say I no de chop salt because of BP and I won't eat much of the food after the first fews spoons if its salty. This will avoid correction or pointing out the error if it happens in future Apart from cooking mistakes, the most confrontational topic for me is sex denial. That one na to use spankbang.com hold body o. I hate complaining about that it's childish and has zero effect.. I only address it later when my mood has gone from irritable to adamant. Normally, i talk about the sex issues when in a romantic but non-sexual mood. Especially when she's ovulating. She's usually more open to positive suggestions then. It's pointless talking about it immediately it happens because you'll be emotional and capping too much. If to say you never marry I would have advised you give her a few days space. Her sensez will reset after a few days of absence 53 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Cutehector(m): 6:05am On May 21, 2022 |
Ndo. Silent treatment, four weeks is the best. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Onepointfiveodds: 6:42am On May 21, 2022 |
CandyOps: Thank you 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by solexyy: 6:55am On May 21, 2022 |
ITS LIKE U GUYS RUSHED IN2 THIS MARRIAGE. SORRY 4 UR KIDS 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Blue86(m): 7:30am On May 21, 2022 |
All these traits were noticeable in your dating before you said I do. Guys, listen, correct, beauty attracted you first, but character is the solid rock, and treasure. Discard a woman with beauty and no character, when you are dating. You guys are the reason why girls aren't working on their character but spending hours on make up and wigs that are not even their own hair. 56 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by 9japride(m): 7:43am On May 21, 2022 |
Are you trying to tell us that you didn't spot those characters while dating? You better manage her like that, thinking an adult will change is a waste of time. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by irunoko(m): 8:00am On May 21, 2022 |
WHEN you scold adults in a harsh and degrading way instead of in love they tend not to hear your correction.their brain and emotions become tense but correcting in love helps him or her understand why her actions are wrong and damaging to you.she'll be more remorseful Because she herself has realised why she's wrong so she'll want to apologize in words and in actions which will be more genuine.im this life please apply wisdom when dealing with adults and family members especially your wife for the sake of your mental health and peace of mind 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Onepointfiveodds: 8:52am On May 21, 2022 |
irunoko: Maybe i made a mistake demanding for an apology but i sure didn't think i did that in a harsh way. " you know you need to apologise to me for what you just said"... That's all i said and she hissed walked out on me. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by irunoko(m): 9:00am On May 21, 2022 |
Onepointfiveodds:did you use a confrontational tone? |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Onepointfiveodds: 9:05am On May 21, 2022 |
irunoko: No i did not.. I'm not one to do that |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by irunoko(m): 9:14am On May 21, 2022 |
Onepointfiveodds:then punish her or withdraw from her so she realises how wrong she was.some people don't learn Till you forcefully teach them how to treat you.dont eat her food,stay away from the house for days, don't touch her sexually.when she comes to her senses and she asks,tell her the reason.she will talk to herself and sit up 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by TheWolfen(m): 9:26am On May 21, 2022 |
Man hold tight to your cross and carry it. Even if it means dragging it as you walk. If it eventually get too heavy and unbearable making u weak or tired then you will know what to do 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Randy100: 10:24am On May 21, 2022 |
Silent treatment. It works, if it doesn't, time to move on from her, marry another wife. Don't mention. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by ednut1(m): 10:37am On May 21, 2022 |
Naso e dey start |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by BMathew: 10:47am On May 21, 2022 |
Onepointfiveodds: You demanded she apologise? |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Onepointfiveodds: 11:20am On May 21, 2022 |
BMathew: I'm sorry, was anything wrong with that?! |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by komek(m): 11:29am On May 21, 2022 |
If you can start by telling her that you are sorry whenever you are wrong, she will adopt that pattern. Women are fast learners. Forget the advice from these ASUU boys 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Karleb(m): 11:50am On May 21, 2022 |
Married people and their wahala. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by iCauseTrouble: 12:00pm On May 21, 2022 |
But she is good in bed right? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by ArmaniUhuru: 12:01pm On May 21, 2022 |
Oga send her packing 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by badboyTee(m): 12:01pm On May 21, 2022 |
I think it the way you handled yourself during courting that caused this 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Muhylonaire007: 12:01pm On May 21, 2022 |
Eeyah... Sorry |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Seyiemath(m): 12:01pm On May 21, 2022 |
na thier way na |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Hanibbal(m): 12:02pm On May 21, 2022 |
U wife na Alpha female 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Greenscientist: 12:02pm On May 21, 2022 |
Ok |
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