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Diamond098454:
That's wickedness

I don’t know if its lack of wisdom.

Most ladies nowadays don’t know how to preserve peace and keep a home.

irumole1975:
This is actually okay (I’m not being sarcastic). If I was the one paying the rent and buying groceries, I’ll stop doing that too as a man. If rent is due I expect her to pay. If she pays and she’s not okay with me staying there, I’ll move out. I’m not angry, I just stop investing in what doesn’t benefit me.

I’ll take my money and start eating out.

This is how most men think, A woman starts conflict in her home and she don’t back down from it. The woman better be ready to take responsibility of being the head of the family soon.

There can’t be two captains in a boat.

Feminism is an agenda of hell to break-up as many homes as possible, yet foolish keep falling into the trap.

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Samantha125:
We SA ladies are a different breed, if you're gonna reject our food, that's your choice and we'll respect it.

We can't be bothered over some else's stomach.

well thats SA, Buh real women across the world find it worrisome when a man as husband reject there food for weeks or long period

Imagine as a man your wife starts rejecting your money 😳 ... scratch that, that's the driest joke ever

Samantha125:
Those things only work for women from disadvantaged backgrounds who are financially dependant on their husbands.

You'd have rejected my food in the first place, so would you expect me to keep cooking for someone who doesn't want my food?

I don't have the energy for petty men, get petty and I'll pack my bags and get going... There's more to life than massaging a fragile ego over a childish behaviour... Pettiness never built any marriage.

Hmm hmm hmm

Kobojunkie:
The lady is clearly an eejiot who
1. Does not know what feminism means or is about.
2. Thinks it makes sense to claim she tried it on --- my guess she means she has weaponized it -- someone while in a contract which clearly states that she be a slave/servant to her husband. 🥱🥱

2. I think she should go back to drawing board to learn exactly what feminism means, and entails. And how even her right to speak publicly is thanks to feminism. Yes, she needs to reeducate herself so she stop making these senseless videos showcasing her brand of stewpidity. 🥱🥱🥱

P.S. I haven't seen the video yet, so my reaction is solely in response to the text posted by the OP. 🥱🥱

U haven't even the vide and you are writing this rubbish? Get sense na

She said so much and said nothing. What did you do to your husband and who did you learn such from. She should clarify and quit the performance.

Kobojunkie:
The lady is clearly an eejiot who
1. Does not know what feminism means or is about.
2. Thinks it makes sense to claim she tried it on --- my guess she means she has weaponized it -- someone while in a contract which clearly states that she be a slave/servant to her husband. 🥱🥱

2. I think she should go back to drawing board to learn exactly what feminism means, and entails. And how even her right to speak publicly is thanks to feminism. Yes, she needs to reeducate herself so she stop making these senseless videos showcasing her brand of stewpidity. 🥱🥱🥱

P.S. I haven't seen the video yet, so my reaction is solely in response to the text posted by the OP. 🥱🥱

considering the fact that women from that side are already fiercely independent , i call double BS and clout chasing

Leave with my kids? So they're no longer yours?

Firstly, you'd have built that house for them, meaning it's their home, and secondly, they'd be answering to your surname, meaning they belong with you... I can go back to my maiden surname, but they can't.

So you'll have two options, either you let them stay in their home, which they're entitled to, or I take them and you pay child support... Pettiness doesn't work in the court of law, it might even just work in my favour...

irumole1975:
Tbh, I do not care whether u leave or not. As long as u leaving doesn’t pose any financial repercussions for me, it’s totally fine. As long as it’s not America where I’ll be forced to pay child support and alimony to keep funding your lifestyle, it’s okay. Just make sure as u walkout the door , take ur kids with you. Cus another woman has to come in (my sexual needs has to be met somehow). Just take them, if you’re okay with them seeing me again, it’s fine otherwise I’m not going to be bothered trying to fit anyone in my life.

Again, as long as leaving doesn’t pose any financial risk for me and won’t take away from my money, I’ll be gaily u do. In fact, u should cuz u don’t want to find out how reckless, avoidant , and irresponsible I can be when u stop pouring into my life as a woman.

You should be happy she rejected your money, that means more money for you.

reddingtonblack:
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well thats SA, Buh real women across the world find it worrisome when a man as husband reject there food for weeks or long period

Imagine as a man your wife starts rejecting your money 😳 ... scratch that, that's the driest joke ever

Samantha125:
Leave with my kids? So they're no longer yours?

Firstly, you'd have built that house for them, meaning it's their home, and secondly, they'd be answering to your surname, meaning they belong with you... I can go back to my maiden surname, but they can't.

So you'll have two options, either you let them stay in their home, which they're entitled to, or I take them and you pay child support... Pettiness doesn't work in the court of law, it might even just work in my favour...

I hbo

Samantha125:
You should be happy she rejected your money, that means more money for you.

c'mon it was an unrealistic joke ... as a lady you should know

reddingtonblack:
➜ Your problem is that you just love to argue So you will always have a twist or even miss the point. weytin concern this topic with Women that dont know how to cook, just curious you and who are argue All women cook the subject matter is women that cook, its takes a woman to cook for a man to " reject" this tinz are common sensical, i retietrate a woman enjoy people eating there food more than herself Lets a Woman cumma tell me No she doesnt like people eat her food
Once again, let a woman denounce she as never lost appetite after cooking ... i doubt if you are with a woman perhaps a nerd virgin .... feel free to ask ... or... let them dare to say not true No bring arguement wey no dey the topic, i wan use head ache enter new year

Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱

A child belongs in his or her father's house across all cultures in the world, as long as they answer to your surname, they're yours and where is it written that child support is not a thing in your country? Your women are either uninformed, or they lack the financial means to take things the legal way.

Just because you're not exposed, it doesn't mean child support is not a thing in Nigeria.

irumole1975:
I do not live in a country where child support is a thing. This isn’t America. It’s not South Africa. They’re yours now babe

Kobojunkie:
The lady is clearly an eejiot who
1. Does not know what feminism means or is about.
2. Thinks it makes sense to claim she tried it on --- my guess she means she has weaponized it -- someone while in a contract which clearly states that she be a slave/servant to her husband. 🥱🥱

2. I think she should go back to the drawing board to learn exactly what feminism means and entails. And how even her right to speak publicly is thanks to feminism. Yes, she needs to reeducate herself so she stops making these senseless videos showcasing her brand of stewpidity. 🥱🥱🥱

So, I finally watched the video, and heard nothing sensible in the statements made by both the commentator and the woman. 🥱

In the video, the woman claimed she attempted no longer submitting to her husband, all this while still supposedly religiously/traditionally married by way of a contract that stipulates she be the subjugate/slave in the arrangement, only to then wonder why it backfired. She then stewpidly concluded that it came down to her being married to an Edo man. I can't even imagine how dense one would need to be to come to such a conclusion.

If one violates the terms of the contract one signed up for, what does one expect to happen? What aspect of feminism leads these to believe that it is possible to violate the terms of a contract and somehow avoid consequences for it? 🥱🥱

Of course, the religious/traditional marriage contract requires that a woman exist as a submissive partner in the union. With the man as the sole provider, head/master over the woman, who is herself a servant/slave in the agreement. If a woman in that capacity decided she no longer wishes to submit/be a slave/servant to a god/head, what she would need to do would be to exit her current contract (not breach it), and then consider signing a partnership agreement, which comes with no submission requirement at a later date. 🥱🥱🥱

Whenever married women are speaking about marriage, you should keep quiet.

You as an unmarried feminist has no business giving advice to submissive women enjoying the fruits of being a wife and mother of beautiful children. After all, you have traded that for your ego and satanic feminism ideologies

Until a feminist successfully get married, she has no business advising married women.

Samantha125:
A child belongs in his or her father's house across all cultures in the world, as long as they answer to your surname, they're yours and where is it written that child support is not a thing in your country? Your women are either uninformed, or they lack the financial means to take things the legal way.

Just because you're not exposed, it doesn't mean child support is not a thing in Nigeria.

But with feminism in play, the child should answer to the woman’s house!
When I say feminists should be locked up in mental institutions, they thought it’s funny

You're not making any sense... As long a child bears his or her father's surname, he or she is entitled to his or her father's house and there's nothing the father can do about it.

Omoawoke:
But with feminism in play, the child should answer to the woman’s house!
When I say feminists should be locked up in mental institutions, they thought it’s funny

Samantha125:
You're not making any sense... As long a child bears his or her father's surname, he or she is entitled to his or her father's house and there's nothing the father can do about it.

So a child cannot bear his mother’s surname?
Isn’t that’s what feminists want

Honestly, your argument is weak and doesn't make sense.

I don't even know what to say to you.

Omoawoke:
So a child cannot bear his mother’s surname?
Isn’t that’s what feminists want

Samantha125:
Honestly, your argument is weak and doesn't make sense.

I don't even know what to say to you.

I understand your frustration and attempt at using weak psychology play…
You obviously are caught off and have no reasonable response to that so you resorted to dismissing it off…

Madam answer the question, it’s valid…

What is stopping a feminist from giving her family name to her children …. ?

Samantha125:
A child belongs in his or her father's house across all cultures in the world, as long as they answer to your surname, they're yours and where is it written that child support is not a thing in your country? Your women are either uninformed, or they lack the financial means to take things the legal way.

Just because you're not exposed, it doesn't mean child support is not a thing in Nigeria.

Hi ok

Omoawoke:
Whenever married women are speaking about marriage, you should keep quiet.

You as an unmarried feminist has no business giving advice to submissive women enjoying the fruits of being a wife and mother of beautiful children. After all, you have traded that for your ego and satanic feminism ideologies

Until a feminist successfully get married, she has no business advising married women.

M hmm hmm

Every legitimate child belongs in his or her father's house... They'd be better off there since he'd have built the house for them... This has nothing to do with feminism, but everything to do with the interests of the children.

Omoawoke:
I understand your frustration and attempt at using weak psychology play…
You obviously are caught off and have no reasonable response to that so you resorted to dismissing it off…

Madam answer the question, it’s valid…

What is stopping a feminist from giving her family name to her children …. ?

So what? Not every woman is like your ex.

It has been proven many times before that many deadbeats tend to have unresolved childhood traumas which they'd in return take out on their children, and the circle will keep repeating itself.

irumole1975:
I’m a deadbeat. That’s all u need to know.

We must make youtube money by force.
When i watch naija contents on youtube, I shake my head.
These days,I press do not recommend pls.

pocohantas:
She said so much and said nothing. What did you do to your husband and who did you learn such from. She should clarify and quit the performance.

We all need this dollar. So we can say and claim anything online

Of course he will stop. Nigerian men are afraid of women growth.

Oh well...!

Life is simple to the wise!

Do what works for you, and leave social media principles or stories.

Same nonsense that was tried with me, I quickly hired a cook. Have had a cooks for over 2yrs now, wifey now struggling to get back into the kitchen but no vacancy for her there.

USELESS FEMINISM

Samantha125:
Leave with my kids? So they're no longer yours?

Firstly, you'd have built that house for them, meaning it's their home, and secondly, they'd be answering to your surname, meaning they belong with you... I can go back to my maiden surname, but they can't.

So you'll have two options, either you let them stay in their home, which they're entitled to, or I take them and you pay child support... Pettiness doesn't work in the court of law, it might even just work in my favour...

Ah! Ah! Samantha I thought you will be glad with his decision as an independent woman

So your werey no reach that level

You don jam confirm person wey pass your yanga

FriendsAndFans:
You shouldn't introduce a new ideology into your home, if the previous was working perfectly.
Know it's very easy for a man to get another spouse. It's not so easy for the woman .
Don't lose your home

This is the sad truth many women fail to realize; that it is very easy for a married man to find ladies to marry than for a married lady to find men to marry.


On the other hand, its very easy for single ladies to find boyfriend, lover or sexmate than for a single guy to find same. The reason is, men become more detailed and thorough when looking for a wife but can bed anything that tied hair. But tell him to marry that girl he has been bedding, he will realize she is not his spec. On the other hand, most women screen men before accepting to be his girlfriend, and therefore most ladies will be happy to marry their boyfriend but unfortunately most guys wont like to marry their girlfriend because they are just using her to cure konji

Samantha125:
I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out...

I fear who no fear you

descarado:
We all need this dollar. So we can say and claim anything online

There are many young girls out of school, or distressed women. She didn't do that one because it won't give her the effect she wants. All these airhèads and pandering to male gaze is sickening.