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A year full of 'a lot'
Increased income
Spiritual growth
Academic advancements
Tears
Joy
Blessings
Many positive things to thank God for.

However, one thing I learnt this year amongst others, is this:
YOU NEED TO INTENTIONALLY CONNECT AND MAKE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE IN HIGHER LEVELS THAN YOU IN ANY FIELD YOU CAN THINK OF.

Share with us the lessons you learnt

Not trusting people because people can be very wicked

“2025 taught me to choose myself.”
“2025 taught me when to stop giving.

“2025 taught me to stop pouring into empty cups.”
“I learned the hard way that kindness needs limits.”

Don’t trust anyone

Keep your secrets to yourself

An outsider can’t harm you without access.

To be minding my business.

Spend wisely
Cos those careless giving will later come to haunt you.

Having self control in spending cos early this December I was so broke even when I had my products in my shop to sell. No liquid cash and all those I spent on could not come to my aid when I needed small cash to float.

Jehovah God came to my rescue but I wouldn’t have gone broke if only I had kept a separate account just for emergencies.
2026, my spending MUST BE INTENTIONAL

You need stay consistent long enough for the breakthrough to meet you.
It is this year I got my biggest breakthrough in tech

With hard work , patience and grace there is always a second chance bigger than the first..

Jesus is the only investment worth pursuing on this side of eternity. Naked we came to this world, and it is certain, we shall take nothing, not even the body, out of it! Jesus is Lord!

Keep your eyes on the target. Keep fighting.

All those wahala that come along the way are only there to distract you and make you quit but you cant be in a boxing ring and keep your hands down, You have to keep your hands on GUARD, keep punching and taking punches till the punches become fewer.

just Keep punching (work and prayer and connect), all you need is ONE SOLID VICTORY.
We can not be unlucky everyday, e no possible.

That if a member makes a pledge I must force him/her to transfer at least half of the money before leaving the my spiritual center. Because most of these people standing up to make pledges are scammers. They would promise and not give shi shi.

But come 2026, I would be ready for them.

This I have seen.

No friends, no foes. You're on your own

No body really send you

The best help you can get is the one at the end of ur hand

Bloodofthelambo:
A year full of 'a lot'
Increased income
Spiritual growth
Academic advancements
Tears
Joy
Blessings
Many positive things to thank God for.

However, one thing I learnt this year amongst others, is this:
YOU NEED TO INTENTIONALLY CONNECT AND MAKE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE IN HIGHER LEVELS THAN YOU IN ANY FIELD YOU CAN THINK OF.

Share with us the lessons you learnt

Put God first
Don't take online loans, don't cheat on your wife(talking about a friend)
Don't procrastinate (killer of dreams)
Wake up early and get dressed(a prepared mindset is a favored mindset)
Put God last

DeltaBachelor:
Not trusting people because people can be very wicked

I learnt this one in 2008

Spend and invest your money wisely
There is no amount of money that cannot finish especially when you start doing giveaways and baller spender

Avoid gambling. Avoid it with your strength and might

Not all help you receive from people are genuine. Some are just helping you consistently so that you will keep depending on them. In as much as you keep depending on them, they feel satisfied inwardly. Not that they don't have the financial strength to make you stand on yourself

If truly God exists and we are going to be righteously judged by him according to the religions of many people in the world, I truly believe that the cruelty and unmercifulness of God's judgement will be on those that disobeyed his commandments for a godly living on earth. Why did I say this? The evil and wickedness that is in the heart of a man is as limitless as the heights of the upper layers of the earth.

A good leader must lead by example.

Life is random and meaningless

LordIsaac:
Jesus is the only investment worth pursuing on this side of eternity. Naked we came to this world, and it is certain, we shall take nothing, not even the body, out of it! Jesus is Lord!

my boss, happy new year in advance.. 😊😊😊😊

Fear God and obey his commandments. Honour your parents, love your family, treat people well.

Be selfish cos When the chips are down,you are all you 've got.

twilliamx:
Put God first
Don't take online loans, don't cheat on your wife(talking about a friend)
Don't procrastinate (killer of dreams)
Wake up early and get dressed(a prepared mindset is a favored mindset)
Put God last

Word. Especially the last one

Well first and foremost I didn't tolerate nonsense from the opposite gender and secondly I get everyone guessing and only those within my circle knew what's up.

Be selfish,be ruthless and be firm. These traits will help you alot.

Bloodofthelambo:
A year full of 'a lot'
Increased income
Spiritual growth
Academic advancements
Tears
Joy
Blessings
Many positive things to thank God for.

However, one thing I learnt this year amongst others, is this:
YOU NEED TO INTENTIONALLY CONNECT AND MAKE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE IN HIGHER LEVELS THAN YOU IN ANY FIELD YOU CAN THINK OF.

Share with us the lessons you learnt

Best post to wrap up the year not all these how much have you saved for the year 2025 challenge.

This is exactly my new resolution.
I really want to be connected with the high and mighty and I know God will definitely do it for me

Trust nobody e get why. I go explain later

2025 thought me not to trust any friend that you've not seen for six Month and above. They are dangerous. Take your time to evaluate them before U can entrust anything to them, especially money.

My biggest lesson in 2025; I've learnt how not to be too nice to people. Being too nice to people brings see finish.