₦airaland Forum

Justiceleague1:
You think it's funny,huh?
It's ok until he starts eating another woman's food...

Brendaniel:
Like he told you he is a deadbeat, he doesn't care, there are people like that, both men and women, I know a married woman who wants to divorce her husband and leave including her children with the man, though in her case she intends seeing them from time to time and sending support whenever she can but she doesn't want to live with them.

I've heard of others who left without even looking back at all, but child support in Nigeria can be enforced if any of the party gets the support to enforce it.

Brendaniel:
Ah! Ah! Samantha I thought you will be glad with his decision as an independent woman

So your werey no reach that level

You don jam confirm person wey pass your yanga

Kobojunkie:
1. So, your so-called gender rules abi delusions do not apply in workspaces where both genders are also involved?

2. During World War II, the majority of those roles were occupied by women here in the United States, and they did very well. The nation recorded an economic boom, too. However, many of these women were eventually forced to give up their positions after the men returned from war, and were told their place was back in the home. Clearly, gender roles only matter when men feel they are threatened.

3. So many women homeowners do these things themselves, even to this day. They have machines to lift heavy stuff.... machines equally used by men when necessary. So?

4. So, if a woman knows best how to mow the lawn, change car tires, mow the snow, change electrical appliances, she should do it while the man does the chores something he had to do for himself when he was single, and probably has so much more practice at than the former, which not all men can do? So, again, this isn't about gender but about you needing to force a gender-focused idea on these things?

5.

6. Cautioned against leaving situations that they have decided are no longer of benefit for them, when the divorce rates among even Northerners have been known to reach as high as 81% since the 1980s? Clearly, divorce should instead be normalized since the culture has all but done nothing over the decades to better the situation of women and children.

Children are actually known to thrive better after a divorce if they do not have a bitter caregiver inflicts toxicity on them after the divorce. If both mother and father truly care for the well-being of the children, they would do anything in their power to ensure that the children are not confronted with their anger or pain because of the divorce.

Kobojunkie:
The men wey follow them do olosho, many of them eventually turning traditional husbands, are not wicked, abi? Na only the women simply requiring they be treated no less than they were before marriage that are after their olosho season don over for both men and women be the wicked ones, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

It is too early in the year for these nonsense statements, don't you think? 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
The men wey follow them do olosho, many of them eventually turning traditional husbands, are not wicked, abi? Na only the women simply requiring they be treated no less than they were before marriage that are after their olosho season don over for both men and women be the wicked ones, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

It is too early in the year for these nonsense statements, don't you think? 🥱🥱

Ezekiel2122:
➜Mr too early. Don't take the way you oeople talk with each other in your family to internet. Okay??

Kobojunkie:
Abeg, enter gutter somewhere go hide! 🥱🥱🥱

Samantha125:
Serious guys don't behave in unserious manners, they instead sit down with their wives and have a heart to heart talk with them.

Feldie:
madam if you start behaving anyhow I will leave you alone. I will not quarrel with you mainly because that would be embarrassing for me if neighbors hear that I'm quarreling with you. So I will leave you alone and start cooking my own food. When you are tired you'll pack your things and leave

Samantha125:
Lmao... See your level of immaturity, so you'd rather punish your own child with hopes that it'll hurt your ex who's probably long moved on with another man and abandoned the child with relatives?😂😂😂

The only person who'll suffer here is your child, not your ex, for she'll still get married and have more children with another man while your child will forever be sidelined for being a fatherless child... And the main fact that you're chest beating about it just shows that you're still hurting and not completely over her while she's probably long moved on wherever she is.

And you can't expect a woman to be a home maker and invest financially in your life as well... You can't eat your cake and have it, such a confused man...🤣🤣🤣... Rather do yourself a favour and stay single for the rest of your life because marriage is not for confused people...😂😂😂

Kobojunkie:
Just so you know, women know how to give back that same energy. There are lots of so-called married people, especially Nigerians, out there who have been living together like roommates for the longest. The average Nigerian woman, particularly those of the older generation,— before you ask, many of their daughters grew up with that as their foundational model of marriage —was nothing but, glorified roommate in their marriages. So, if you want to leave, better leave; otherwise, that woman is ready to stay on for even 50 years to hold on to that Mrs. badge. Dem no dey get tired of such things.🥱🥱🥱

Feldie:
talk is cheap until I marry a second wife and totally isolate you. If you don't want to leave stay there naa what's my business?

Kobojunkie:
Talk? She will likely not even talk to you. Well, so many Nigerian men are surrounded by many women, not because they want to be, but because of cowardice; they never got around to divorcing the women they no longer want around them. 🥱🥱🥱

Feldie:
by "talk is cheap" I actually meant what you wrote initially. If she wants to stay there na she know. I will marry another wife. She will be one to leave on her own or come back begging. I'm not even joking

Samantha125:
Which co-wife when I'd have already been long gone and probably even enjoying myself with another man?

He'd have injured the marriage first the day he stopped eating my food.

Honestey:
You should be grateful you haven't had kids, otherwise, you will see how much guys are avoiding what they call after-1 or 2. Even the girls who never married before have not got enough attention . You may not like to hear this but I assured you, going back to the street is officially the worst thing you can afford to through

irumole1975:
It’s ur child too. The only reason you’re not claiming him or her as ur child is cuz u can’t weaponise them to make more money from ur husband. If you live in a country like America, where u can use those kids to extract more child support from the man every month, then you’ll claim them as ur child. See how that works?

As a deadbeat, I can’t be bothered what happen to them. That’s their cup of tea not mine. If u don’t want them, then goodluck. They’re urs now.

And No I can’t stay single(I need sex). And I don’t want to commit to a woman either so I no longer have interest in marriage with a woman. I capitalize on my look to get sex which I really want, so I can have multiple women attending to my needs at a time. I used to tell them “I’m not bringing anything to the table babe” and most seems okay with that.

Feldie:
madam if you start behaving anyhow I will leave you alone. I will not quarrel with you mainly because that would be embarrassing for me if neighbors hear that I'm quarreling with you. So I will leave you alone and start cooking my own food. When you are tired you'll pack your things and leave