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| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Oldhead: 3:44pm On Jan 06 |
StillDtruth: |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by BENEAMATA: 3:46pm On Jan 06 |
You oh , your uncle oh., your extended family oh., your village oh , una dey. . . . . Make I no talk ..... |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by CorrectionFLuid: 3:48pm On Jan 06 |
chatinent:Make una just dey get out with useless advice such as this. Leaving invites him to do that again. That slap serves as deterrence. He won't be trying such ever again. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by tioyoung(m): 3:48pm On Jan 06 |
U will grow old What u sew u will reap |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Oldhead: 3:48pm On Jan 06 |
StillDtruth: |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by yemmit90: 3:50pm On Jan 06 |
Lexzeey:The reality is that, you may not be a yahoo boy, but probably behaving like one. Your uncle statement wouldn't have pained you to that extent since you were innocent. What you did is totally wrong, your uncle saw how frightened you were in the meeting, that was probably the reason he followed you outside. Just start behaving well, dress like a responsible adult and most importantly, relocate to a more Liberal neighbourhood where people understand the difference between yahoo and earning legitimately online. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by wamide042(m): 3:52pm On Jan 06 |
So why did you pick offence when he started talking about ‘Yahoo boys’. If you aren’t one then you shouldn’t be bothered. Then from your write up it’s obvious that you’re kinda rude in some ways. Your uncle has been intoxicated hence the reason why he was saying all those things, the funny thing is when he’s normal he might not remember saying those stuffs, but you as a person you’re just a Rude, Proud and Mannerless guy. Na your type go dey beat woman and even collect things you buy for her during arguments. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Dtruthspeaker: 3:55pm On Jan 06 |
GboyegaD:If you read closely you would see he makes statements that reveal a complex. You see him keep referencing. "he takes care of himself. No one cared for him". That shows us he has many issues |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by qtx(m): 3:59pm On Jan 06 |
Lexzeey:Omo, your pupsy still dey alive? hmmmmm, i no know wetin i go talk. it looks like his analysis of Yahoo Boys first of all hit you. Your reaction was not mostly because he hit you at the back but what he started talking initially when he saw you. But a clear conscience, they say, fears no accusation. By the way, that aside, let's assume after you slapped him and he fell and passed away, what do you think would have happened? I expect you should be more enlightened than those kinds of people in the village. They may not be healthy enough to take such a strong slap from you. All this me I am short-tempered things omo, i don see person wei na just slap she give person the girl passed and she has been in prison for murder. Sometimes wisdom is better than power. Run, run and run. My take. It doesn't make you a coward, bro; it makes you wise. After all, if you want to show you are brave, not with your uncle. Bandits dey there. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Dijita: 4:00pm On Jan 06 |
Lexzeey:You are young and prideful. When you grow older and learn your mistake, I hope you will have the humility to apologise to your uncle or his children. It is ok to make mistake because of one's personality. It is human to err and divine to forgive. In your own case, you fail to admit your mistake but justifying your action. Self reflection and regulation is the bedrock of emotional intelligence. Today, you are self sufficient and your uncle is a "drunken fool" that did not worth your respect. An adage says " we have seen the prince that becomes slave and bonded man that becomes chief". A word they say is enough for the wise that is surely wise. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Segzy19: 4:01pm On Jan 06 |
U be m*mu. I pity you ... Now that you slapped him are you now seeking justification or validation from us or what? When you start facing unnecessary battles, seen and unseen, blame yourself. This is Africa... It's even better if you had even done that to a stranger .... Wisdom is profitable |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by DeepSight(m): 4:01pm On Jan 06 |
Kobojunkie:+ How's your mother. I hope she has not suffered such at your hands. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Kobojunkie: 4:02pm On Jan 06*. Modified: 4:11am On Jan 07 |
tioyoung:That means his uncle too reaped exactly what he sowed, abi? 🥱🥱 Funny enough, this una law never seems to affect the rich except in your Nollywood movies. 🥱🥱 |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Babalegba(m): 4:03pm On Jan 06 |
Kobojunkie:This kind of talk will not make people respect your parents or whoever brought you up. I'm ashamed on your behalf and I believe you are not from the south west. You don't have a clue what life is about,such things have to happen in order for the human being to build character. Sorry I don't have time for this disgusting matter. I'm fairly certain that the o.p is not from the south west anyway. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by BigCowHornn: 4:04pm On Jan 06 |
Lexzeey:What you did will tarnish your image in that family for a long time |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by phadul: 4:04pm On Jan 06 |
Since you know our African custom you should have just walk away from him and leave him alone and swallow all the insults like a man as he is your uncle which we regard as second fathers in Africa. Afterall you said he was drunk. When he becomes sober he would have called you to apologize for his behaviour but you reacted like a western bred person . Your mate is ok what you did but for an elder there is a line you do not cross unless it is for your life.this will hunt you for a long time and as long as u don't apologise will ripple through the family remember he is somebody's father and probably have sons as old as you. What do you think can happen if they hear this. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by correctguy101(m): 4:07pm On Jan 06 |
Lexzeey:Those shameless village people.. I experienced the bolded when I went to bury my old man. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by shaqhead: 4:10pm On Jan 06 |
kodix:Well the OP didn't say he tapped him but that he hit him...your comment should capture that! |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Blakjewelry(m): 4:12pm On Jan 06 |
Tenrack:Yeah but I don't think the uncle must have gave him have serious slap, maybe that you know say I be your uncle. The guys response is not from the slap the uncle gave rather held grudges. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Factcheck0001: 4:15pm On Jan 06 |
FreeStuffsNG:u get mind go dey argue with that one? It pays talking to d wall than arguing with someone like that |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by shaqhead: 4:16pm On Jan 06 |
qtx:Hmm...how come this your "slap and fall" analogy isn't reversed to include the OP. Is it only "slap" that make a person fall, can't a "hit" from the uncle also do same to the OP? Just asking o |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by villagereporter(m): 4:20pm On Jan 06 |
Lexzeey:. You are lucky you don't have ewéjé or lálùdé in you family, dat hand wey you take slap am back ajé ................ finish d line. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by tctrills: 4:26pm On Jan 06 |
Lexzeey:Men who come online to discuss their family matter are weak. I noticed you even attacked someone who faulted so its clear you came here looking and hoping to be congratulated for slapping your uncle. You slap your uncle and you come online hoping to ne told Weldon what kind of man are you? |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by dettolgel: 4:30pm On Jan 06*. Modified: 11:09pm On Apr 17 |
Lexzeey:A times not responding with violence is an act of bravery not cowardice. You alone knows that one or one you can deal with him. Ignoring him shows strength rather than weakness. Imagine if a toddler ran towards you and hit you, you probably will frown at the toddler and wouldn't hit back not because you are a whimp but because you understand the power disparity. You speak of him having an entitled mentality towards respect, you mentioning more than once how he didn't contribute a penny towards your upbringing sounds also like an entitlement mentality, I am just saying. |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by shaqhead: 4:35pm On Jan 06 |
gigabyte13:I agree with what you said but I have a problem with using the bolded (which is a reality but NOT the only one) to force submission. What if when the uncle hit him, the OP also slumped? Isn't that also a reality? If we are going to buy that line as the ONLY REALITY we should believe that it's only uncles that slump abi? Too much Nollywood abeg! From those who used this your "slap and slump analogy" to those who have the address of "karma", to those who have brought in the "diabolical angle"....hmmm... We can give advice without gaslighting people into obedience. Aside: whether we like it or not, the reality is that there's a generation coming that will question some things- (discomforting as they are) that some of us take in our strides out of respect for elders. Until and unless fathers and mothers, uncles and aunties become one indeed, things like what we see with OP will become common place! |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Breaker001: 4:37pm On Jan 06 |
When your body begins to feel somehow, start preparing to exit because they will surely come for you. I hope your spirit is as tough as your hand is. 😎
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| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by dammyz101(m): 4:38pm On Jan 06 |
Oboy u don Bleep up. We are Africans we must Liv like Africans.why won't u greet ur uncle? |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by lezz(m): 4:40pm On Jan 06 |
Lexzeey:Truly your uncle is entitled and very wrong. But a slap in the back by an elder is like a spank and not a slap. But you seem very hurt by his indirect accusations . Are you a Yahoo boy? |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by Omonigeriarere: 4:40pm On Jan 06 |
Baronthecelebri:If any of your parents were slapped in this way, will this be your position? |
| Re: Why I Slapped My Uncle Recently And Became A Bad Person by DemightyPrince: 4:45pm On Jan 06 |
Double0h7:I like those questions...he doesn't understand those questions until he answered "YES" 😂😂 |
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