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| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by captaininiobong(m): 8:59pm On Jan 08 |
If you commit suicide, the kind beating wey demon go use drill you for hell, u go know say u don fkup. Tell your parents. They may talk talk but no reason am. Use that time and learn something that can fetch you money online. You can even choose to leave the school by the time you are done with training. With all thier strict policies you will still have to struggle to get a job. It doesn't worth dying for. Its like u started school newly. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Enoughpull: 9:00pm On Jan 08 |
Suicide shouldn't be your option boy.. Your mates without certificates are doing very well than 99% of graduates. Use the two years to learn a high end skill.. You are still young don't be a weakling by thinking suicide. You have a whole life ahead of you |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by grandstar(m): 9:01pm On Jan 08*. Modified: 10:18am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:In my final year in Unilag, I knew two guys who were both on Second Class Upper get expelled. We were to finish together.They helped a layabout write his exam after his papers were smuggled out to them. One's job was to receive the paper while the other answered it. The layabout passed with flying colors. His lecturer wanted to know which of his students did so well. When he called for the boy, he said he has never seen this boy attend lectures before. The boy insisted. Later the lecturer took the answered papers to the H.O.D and once she saw the handwriting, she knew the student wrote it. Just thank God you were only rusticated. No need killing yourself. Do this instead. Tell your parents the truth. Yes, they'll be disappointed in you but won't kill you. Lock yourself in the room. Don't shower, don't bath, don't eat. When your mum comes around, let her know that you're feeling suicidal and want to end it all. She will be the one to start begging you. Even after she starts and you stick to it, your dad might also begin to plead with you. Don't mind your parents, they probably cheated in their day. The first ever Jamb that leaked was in 1990. English was cancelled. I was from that year. When did your parents take JAMB? Now, how will you use your 2 years? Turn your pepper to peppersoup. Find an online course that can enable you earn 6 figures or more monthly. The money you'll be earning will bring you some succour. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Berankis: 9:02pm On Jan 08*. Modified: 12:05am On Jan 09 |
It is because you don't know any better than you currently do. Even if you graduate and get the certificate, what assurances do you have that you will get a job? You see... these were things I wish I knew while I was in school. I had a friend who is an Igbo guy back then and was learning business/trading while in school with us. Today, he is a Billionaire and has 2-3 registered companies (don't want to mentioned the field) with over over 30 products in his name while I am still running helter-skelter. In summary, school is good but not ultimate! So, whatever happens to you, just take it easy. Above all, try to discover yourself, this is what is most important! While you go to school also pursue something else or build something else for yourself beside just education. Concerning your suspension, it is not the end of the world! Writing on your question paper is regarded as cheating in most institutions and you would have been warned about it before the exams. So, tell your parents you made a mistake. Bear the disappointments and dejections that will follow and use the 2 years to learn ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE if you like IT and if not, go and learn a viable hand work. My Tailor charged me 25k for December clothes and he sewed for tens of people. Imagine how much he would have made. Use your sense! Develop yourself properly, even your writing is to poor for a University Graduate. Well... this is my advice to you. We all go through challenges in life, it's what you learn from it and how you come out of it that matters. Life is a battle front, so you keep fighting... |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by OLOKOESHIN: 9:04pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:You are very lucky my man Go and learn something meaningful and trendy Suicidal Thoughts me.. you wey success Dey follow around |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Habbeyy(m): 9:05pm On Jan 08 |
SEGLIZ:it only seems like you won't survive it but trust me you will survive it. Just give it time, people have passed through the worse and survived |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by loffyloffy: 9:05pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:Bros you are not rusticated, what you described is a 2 years suspension..its not the same as rustication. Having said that you could go back and appeal for mercy, it is possible that they may choose to reduce the suspension period. In addition to that you have to develop a plan for the period of your suspension, start a business, learn a skill, add value to your life and become a better you. That is smarter than sucide |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Leebeedo(m): 9:06pm On Jan 08*. Modified: 12:05am On Jan 11 |
Don't take your life bro.....just know that degrees are overrated. I have a masters degree in Economics but I work in IT without my degree. You'll be fine without it. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by cowdung: 9:06pm On Jan 08 |
Go discover yourself . Have Cisco certifications during this time |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Yankee101: 9:08pm On Jan 08 |
1. See if you can appeal 2. See if another school will accept you for 200level, but note that it might be quicker to graduate if you go and return after 2 years to the same school as you should be allowed to continue at the same level 3. Accept your fate and go and look for a job and work hard and save for 2 years In any option you choose know that it’s time to change your life around and ask for forgiveness and become a true Christian by giving your life to a Christ na turning over a new leaf This was a course you would have still passed without cheating if you had studied well and done your assignments and tests well |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by bluestone2015: 9:09pm On Jan 08 |
A blessing in disguise. Learn a trade in a year, eg mechanic , set up a workshop in the second year. Go back to school as a big boy to complete your education. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by sacajawea(m): 9:09pm On Jan 08 |
Private School, State School or Federal school? |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by lastmessenger: 9:09pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:use the tw0 years and lock in. Be like a monk. No girls,no alcohol and forget watching football. Just work your ass off and improve your life. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Mosco100(m): 9:11pm On Jan 08 |
You're suffering for your crime, yet you're contemplating suicide? What about me who suffered for what I did not do? |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by flexyebe(m): 9:13pm On Jan 08 |
Lolz you want to commit suicide because of Nigeria certificate that you are not even sure of securing a better job after graduation, my friend put yourself together and use that two years wisely by learning a skill that will better your life and bounce back with confidence. Good luck. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Hardeybohwarley(m): 9:14pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:You don't need to kill yourself. There's a lady i read about on Zikoko, she's a cybersecurity expert earning almost 3m per month. And she doesn't have a degree, use the 2 years to learn a tech skill and start working. Get a system, find a tech scholarship on TSAcademy Online and start learning. You will only learn within 6 weeks and they will get you an internship placement. Life is too easy. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by holubee21(m): 9:16pm On Jan 08 |
Bro use the opportunity to learn one useful skill...u go rejoice later |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by YoungLionken(m): 9:17pm On Jan 08 |
So, na dah one make you depress🙄? You dey fück up but smile.. OP, gimme some minutes, I'm having dinner now. I shall be coming to share my story in few minutes.. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by teeteepeejay: 9:18pm On Jan 08 |
really do not have an advise for you but........ Without you, life would continue. So think before you act. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by JimD(m): 9:18pm On Jan 08 |
In today's economy, your university certificate is pretty much worthless. Get a digital skill and hone it within those two years. By the end of year 1, you could start earning in dollars. All these might be a blessing in disguise. See if you kpai yourself, the world won't slow down for a minute. You'll just cause more pain for your innocent parents. Be honest and give them the lowdown. Use this time to learn to become more intentional with your life. A lot of those that graduated a year before me are far behind me right now. That's just life. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by dermmy(m): 9:19pm On Jan 08 |
Your life, your worth is not measured or determined by that certificate. Don't let satan whisper to you. Be strong and embrace your future with hope and courage. I hope this helps. God loves you. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by dalass(f): 9:20pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:Don't be afraid to tell your dad or mom ( not hired) what you did so that they can follow you to beg in the school. But you go mess up in your final year? Smh. It is well. Own the matter. Brace up, it is not the end... Pick up yourself and push on I knew a guy who was expelled for low cgpa twice or so from Ife, his mates had gone ahead. He was still expelled from our own set too. Finally he went to ui before he graduated. He spent maybe 10 years or so to obtain first degree. Never ever give up... There's hope. .. There is something about telling our parents, they are not only to pay fees, they are naturally equipped to handle some matters that are beyond their kids... Tell them immediately abeg. ![]() |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Eriokanmi: 9:21pm On Jan 08*. Modified: 2:26pm On Jan 09 |
In as much as I don't always like sounding religious here, a story like this always pushes me to talk. In the 90s when schooling in Ilorin, I was preparing for my final exams and in the night, I dreamt that I was caught in an exam malpractice and rusticated. When I woke up, fear gripped me. I was restless. I prayed that night until I was satisfied. I think I shared the story here in the past. I was a book warm and I used to feed my friends during exams. The day came, it was my final paper and my HOD's course. He was a no nonsense man and his questions were always very tough. God is my witness on this story. A few minutes after starting, a guy was disturbing me, he asked for an answer to a particular question which I had not even solved. He now gave me the ones he had done, that I should pls help him with the one he asked for. I told him to be patient and all of a sudden, he rolled the ones he had done and sent it to me . I was afraid, I hid it inside my booklets. Shortly after that, 5 lecturers entered the hall. They began searching booklets from page to page and i was the 4th on that row. My seat was close to a window. There was this lecturer leaning on that window from the corridor outside, looking for whom to catch. I was unable to remove the paper from my booklet cos the man would see it if I did, so I became restless. When they approached the 3rd person, something said, remember your dream and I was like, God please help me. The lecturer seen by the window was the one I saw in that dream, wearing same clothes. The exam hall was the same, the seat's position was the same, I was shocked. I quietly removed the paper, squeezed it and forcefully threw it underneath the desk to the back. They rushed at me. They asked what happened and I said my pen fell and they said I should walk out of the desk, as if I was the one they all came for. They searched everywhere, but couldn't see anything. They checked the floor and desk behind me , nothing. They looked and looked at me, now said I should go back to my seat. I didnt even bother to write further. I submitted and went to a closet to thank God. That was the first time in my life I believed God speaks to us through our dreams. No dream without a meaning. We shouldn't waive it aside if it's a bad one but pray against it. Don't say it will never happen. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by chiboycue: 9:22pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:Suicide is a no go area. Your stay in school was extended by 2 years. You were not expelled or dismissed. Hope you have learnt your lessons. Your world has not come to an end. Suicide is first class ticket to hell fire burning with hot brimstones Accept the outcome with good faith Strategize on how to graduate with good grades and do away with microchips during future examinations. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Paul112(m): 9:23pm On Jan 08 |
Hi Kunlebayo12:You will be set free as far as you have spoken the truth, your case will be revised and suicide is not the best option or do you want the devil to mess you up in hell. Pls don't commit suicide, there is hope for you and may your case be annulled in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by HaneefahRN(f): 9:26pm On Jan 08 |
This too shall pass op, please find a way to tell your parents they'll be disappointed but they would rather have the child alive. As long as there is life there is still lots to be done. You have learnt your lessons now calmly wait and see how things unfold. If the 2 years suspension is upheld don't waste it, learn a skill during that period. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Wotowotoman: 9:26pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:From the way you write, you don’t deserve to be a graduate ![]() |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Baggiojephlini: 9:29pm On Jan 08 |
No lose hope, lose fear . Because most things wey we de fear go come pass us no even look ourside. And anyone wey come face you, no get force reach your finger tip to push comot for road. Abeg try tell your parent first. Even if them vex e go good pass make them lost a child in a very embarrassing way. The guilt wey you go send to them na everlasting. Now if rustication become real use that 2years do work/skill wey close to your study. Even if na volunteering do and get experience so that as you dey go back to round up you go collect certificate and still get experience. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Iluvmycontr3: 9:32pm On Jan 08 |
The10G:,,,,And another truth is that he has not been studying enough bcox his use of English Lang is kinda poor. However, suicide is never an option bcox you are stil in Genesis chapters of life. Be courageous. Be strong . The Lord is your strength 💪 |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Mathain19(m): 9:34pm On Jan 08 |
If I were you, I won't waste that two years suspension doing nothing,, I will learn different skills and master them, and make sure I excel doing those skills and earning massive, before two years time The school will plead with me to come and resume I will be the one giving the school condition.weather to resume or not... Because I didn't waste the two years suspension I will be productive... So!! The choice is yours to decide. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Yungmil: 9:35pm On Jan 08 |
MONEY247:Please before you misbehave anyhow listen to this guys story. Suicide? Are u mad? |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Yungmil: 9:39pm On Jan 08 |
Baba forget certificate oooo if to say I know after secondary school I for no further ooo I no sure say I even know where my certificate dey sef. |
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