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Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by ALMUSTAQIM(op): 7:22am On Jan 09
Assalaam Alaekum Wa Rrahmatullah Wa Barakatuh

*SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES*

Islam is a complete way of life. It teaches everything for a human being for their successful and happy life in this world and the hereafter.

Our Beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) has taught us very beautiful and worthwhile disciplines which we should follow in every aspect of our life. If we follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in general then our day to day activities will be considered as Worship and we will be given rewards from Almighty Allah.

Sleeping is one of the daily activities that we all human beings must perform and also a gift from Allah.

Islamic guidance on sleeping for married couples combines general Prophetic recommendations (Sunnah) for physical well-being and spiritual mindfulness with an emphasis on *togetherness, intimacy and mutual comfort.*

These habits, recommended for all married couples, foster a clean environment and a mindful transition to rest:

*1.* Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxers. Sleep naked under blankets for best results

*2.* Brush your teeth to encourage kissing

*3.* Don't carry work to bed

*4.* Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred

*5.* Move the Children to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the child is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two

*6.* Gentleman, Have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, Stroke him with your gentle touch, Your fingers speaking love

*7.* Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters

*8.* Pray together before you sleep and when you wake up

*9.* Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger

*10.* Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory

*11.* Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?

*12.* Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine

*13.* Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation

*14.* Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)

*15.* Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket

*16.* Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night

*17.* Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare

*18.* Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss

*19.* Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up

*20.* Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed

Marriage is a source of tranquillity and peace and it is the best of the pleasures of this world. In it is that which Allah has made a sign for His slaves and He has mentioned it in His Book so that they may think and ponder the greatness of His might, May He be glorified and exalted.

Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And among His Signs is this: that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect” *[Qur'an 30:21]*

Be resolved and put your trust in Allah, and Allah will help you, and will provide you with a righteous wife/husband who will help you to obey your Lord and He will bless you with righteous offspring who will be a stored treasure for you with Allah in the Hereafter.

We Pray Allah to Continue to Guard and Guide us Aright Protect us Have Mercy on us. Increase us in Knowledge Sustenance and Piety and Enable us become Better Muslims Better Nigerians.

Happy Jumaat Happy Weekend.

Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by ShinjaWWest: 11:25am On Jan 09
Wahala

Anyone God bless the good people of Southsouth and southwest
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Gfrey6(m): 11:25am On Jan 09
I thought it's also forbidden for a Muslim couple to sleep together.
Now I see
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by TimiofAbuja: 11:25am On Jan 09
Happy Jumaat Happy Weekend.
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Walz001: 11:29am On Jan 09
this is good for couples
This will reduce divorce and bridge the cap of fighting
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by SpaceX: 11:29am On Jan 09
Do Muslim women wear hijab while asleep?
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by dododawa1: 11:30am On Jan 09
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jasakulia kareem aminn
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Bakrabas: 11:30am On Jan 09
Mashallah... Jazakhumullahu Khairan
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Bakrabas: 11:32am On Jan 09
SpaceX:
Do Muslim women wear hijab while asleep?
Check surah Hujurat.... Your answer is there
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Empresa: 11:32am On Jan 09
All these are Arabian culture and way of life. Must you serve God wirh another man's way of life?
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Bakrabas: 11:33am On Jan 09
ShinjaWWest:
Wahala

Anyone God bless the good people of Southsouth and southwest
The blessings of God is everywhere
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by OLOKOESHIN: 11:36am On Jan 09
Just to tatatatatatatata

No time oooo

Naija never touch the couples nii
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by tommysparks: 11:38am On Jan 09
Thank you. This will help me in couples Counselling generally
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by ugodson(m): 11:41am On Jan 09
Ahswear i did expect this it lovely seeing this. Well done OP
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by SixSeven: 11:46am On Jan 09
I remember someone here, a polygamist who posted that he doesn't sleep with his wife and they have separate rooms. Some people were surprised with it but it reminded me of where we learned these things from. If your father or grandpa had more than 1 wife, where did he sleep?
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by keemsleek(m):
If Islam is this romantic then why do we see different things. I'm not sure a core Muslim from the north would agree to this. I was born into a Muslim home, my grandfather was a Muslim but the dynasty is now divided into Muslim and Christian. My late dad followed Islam but I choose Christianity since I was in jss1 and I and my dad never click because I choose my own way. I'm from the south south. The truth is most Muslim want to uphold there religion without all this rigid laws. They want to be libra that's y most Muslim countries will start revolting against thier leaders who held them down with religion, why they and their family enjoy the good life. I feel Islam has been left to cage the poor while the rich live d life of liberal Muslims. I tell people because you call yourself a Christian does not mean you know God... the worst people on earth are Christians but those Christians do have good hrt more than Muslims. Muslims does not need to reform but they need to stop using the Korean to brainwash poor people. Like I said the SW Muslims are a lot different from the northern Muslims in their way of worship.
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by DeltaBachelor(m): 12:14pm On Jan 09
Okay. Sleeping habits sef follow. Na wa oooooo
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Ever8090: 12:16pm On Jan 09
In everything not only in way of worship...I think illiteracy has contributed soo much to the type of Islam practiced in Northern Nigeria.

I watched a video where an imam was tell his listeners in the mosque that, instead of you as a Muslim to vote for an "Arne".( Disgusting pegan) Who will bring development, peace and prosperity, it is better you vote a Muslim brother who will do the opposite and his listeners all shouted Alah-akbar 😁..omo..that was the day I gave up on Northern Nigerian Muslims for life
keemsleek:
If Islam is this romantic then why do we see different things. I'm not sure a core Muslim from the north will agree to this. I was born into a Muslim home, my grandfather was a Muslim but the dynasty is now divided into Muslim and Christian. My late dad followed Islam but I choose Christianity since I was in jss1 and I and my dad never click because I choose my own way. I'm from the south south. The truth is most Muslim want to uphold there religion without all this rigid laws. They want to be libra that's y most Muslim countries will start revolting against thier leaders who holds them down with religion why thy and their family enjoy the good life. I feel Islam has been left to cage the poor while the rich live d life of liberal Muslims. I tell people because you call yourself a Christian does not mean you know God... the worst people on earth are Christians but those Christians do have a hrt more than Muslims. Muslims dies not need to reform but they need to stop using the Korean to brainwash poor people. Like I said the SW Muslims are a lot different from the northern Muslims in their way of worship.
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Btruth: 12:21pm On Jan 09
Hummm.

15 more characters
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Emeka71(m): 12:23pm On Jan 09
ShinjaWWest:
Wahala

Anyone God bless the good people of Southsouth and southwest
What à law this is so exciting.
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Blackfire(m): 12:31pm On Jan 09
You said Islam is a complete way of life that everything is already spelt out ...Alhamudullahi


Talking about couples

What did the Quran say about a wife who beats the husband?

Answer from the quran or hadith( sahih or daeif)
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Blackfire(m): 12:33pm On Jan 09
ALMUSTAQIM:
Assalaam Alaekum Wa Rrahmatullah Wa Barakatuh

*SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES*

Islam is a complete way of life. It teaches everything for a human being for their successful and happy life in this world and the hereafter.

Our Beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) has taught us very beautiful and worthwhile disciplines which we should follow in every aspect of our life. If we follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in general then our day to day activities will be considered as Worship and we will be given rewards from Almighty Allah.

Sleeping is one of the daily activities that we all human beings must perform and also a gift from Allah.

Islamic guidance on sleeping for married couples combines general Prophetic recommendations (Sunnah) for physical well-being and spiritual mindfulness with an emphasis on *togetherness, intimacy and mutual comfort.*

These habits, recommended for all married couples, foster a clean environment and a mindful transition to rest:

*1.* Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxers. Sleep naked under blankets for best results

*2.* Brush your teeth to encourage kissing

*3.* Don't carry work to bed

*4.* Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred

*5.* Move the Children to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the child is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two

*6.* Gentleman, Have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, Stroke him with your gentle touch, Your fingers speaking love

*7.* Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters

*8.* Pray together before you sleep and when you wake up

*9.* Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger

*10.* Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory

*11.* Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?

*12.* Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine

*13.* Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation

*14.* Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)

*15.* Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket

*16.* Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night

*17.* Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare

*18.* Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss

*19.* Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up

*20.* Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed

Marriage is a source of tranquillity and peace and it is the best of the pleasures of this world. In it is that which Allah has made a sign for His slaves and He has mentioned it in His Book so that they may think and ponder the greatness of His might, May He be glorified and exalted.

Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And among His Signs is this: that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect” *[Qur'an 30:21]*

Be resolved and put your trust in Allah, and Allah will help you, and will provide you with a righteous wife/husband who will help you to obey your Lord and He will bless you with righteous offspring who will be a stored treasure for you with Allah in the Hereafter.

We Pray Allah to Continue to Guard and Guide us Aright Protect us Have Mercy on us. Increase us in Knowledge Sustenance and Piety and Enable us become Better Muslims Better Nigerians.

Happy Jumaat Happy Weekend.
Is it permissable in Islam for me as a 40 years old to marry a 10 years old child?
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Hassanmaye(m): 12:35pm On Jan 09
ALMUSTAQIM:
Assalaam Alaekum Wa Rrahmatullah Wa Barakatuh

*SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES*

Islam is a complete way of life. It teaches everything for a human being for their successful and happy life in this world and the hereafter.

Our Beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) has taught us very beautiful and worthwhile disciplines which we should follow in every aspect of our life. If we follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in general then our day to day activities will be considered as Worship and we will be given rewards from Almighty Allah.

Sleeping is one of the daily activities that we all human beings must perform and also a gift from Allah.

Islamic guidance on sleeping for married couples combines general Prophetic recommendations (Sunnah) for physical well-being and spiritual mindfulness with an emphasis on *togetherness, intimacy and mutual comfort.*

These habits, recommended for all married couples, foster a clean environment and a mindful transition to rest:

*1.* Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxers. Sleep naked under blankets for best results

*2.* Brush your teeth to encourage kissing

*3.* Don't carry work to bed

*4.* Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred

*5.* Move the Children to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the child is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two

*6.* Gentleman, Have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, Stroke him with your gentle touch, Your fingers speaking love

*7.* Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters

*8.* Pray together before you sleep and when you wake up

*9.* Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger

*10.* Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory

*11.* Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?

*12.* Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine

*13.* Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation

*14.* Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)

*15.* Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket

*16.* Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night

*17.* Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare

*18.* Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss

*19.* Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up

*20.* Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed

Marriage is a source of tranquillity and peace and it is the best of the pleasures of this world. In it is that which Allah has made a sign for His slaves and He has mentioned it in His Book so that they may think and ponder the greatness of His might, May He be glorified and exalted.

Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And among His Signs is this: that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect” *[Qur'an 30:21]*

Be resolved and put your trust in Allah, and Allah will help you, and will provide you with a righteous wife/husband who will help you to obey your Lord and He will bless you with righteous offspring who will be a stored treasure for you with Allah in the Hereafter.

We Pray Allah to Continue to Guard and Guide us Aright Protect us Have Mercy on us. Increase us in Knowledge Sustenance and Piety and Enable us become Better Muslims Better Nigerians.

Happy Jumaat Happy Weekend.
Jazakallahu khair but you didn't give us source where you got it?
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by 99thEnemy(m): 12:49pm On Jan 09
ALMUSTAQIM:
Assalaam Alaekum Wa Rrahmatullah Wa Barakatuh
*1.* Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxers. Sleep naked under blankets for best results

*2.* Brush your teeth to encourage kissing

*6.* Gentleman, Have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, Stroke him with your gentle touch, Your fingers speaking love

*10.* Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory
What am I seeing in this section on a Friday? grin
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Samunique(m): 12:49pm On Jan 09
Does this apply to the polygamous family as well?
I laugh in Greekgrin😂😂😂😂😂
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by CJStarz: 1:01pm On Jan 09
In a polygamous home, the man enjoys more
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Kayberg: 1:07pm On Jan 09
And must she also wear the burqa or hijab to bed?
Re: Sleeping Habits For Married Couples by Oloniyan(m): 1:09pm On Jan 09
Reality of life never hit this op
When reality of life hits you, na to just enter, talk for sitting room, shower, enter into bedroom, knack if possible and if not possible sleep
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