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Hello guys, and ladies

Does anyone have any idea on how to go about this or the hospital offering such services?

And the likely cost it would take to do it through IVF?

NB: Hoping to have twins through IVF and surrogacy.

At the end of the day, money changed hands.

Kobicove:
If she carried the baby herself she would have still spent money on all these things you listed

fxexperts:
Same way you can as well accept another husband to try out your wife so she can get pregnant.

No, that option is not a available. She's the one with a defective body!

Surrogacy is like a personalised fornication! Someone is still being paid.

She can leave the marriage and try another man if that will stop her miscarriages!

Tenrack:
my guy what happened to your other account? hope all is well

It blocked you!

It is super active as usual.

fxexperts:
foolish stone age mentality. go for DNA test now. you think because someone carries and birth a baby that makes them mother na.

No! Birth mother!

The person who gave birth to the child!

Read well!

Femeto:
So banks own your money you only put your money in an account with them based off this logic?

If you die and none of your family comes to claim the 💰, who owns it then?

geoworldedu:
Thank God they call them surrogate mother and based on agreement, the surrogate mother will never get involved in the baby's life. She already got paid handsomely.

She's still the birth mother who suffered childbirth pains for the child.

No payment can replace that pain!

Antichristian2:
It blocked you!

It is super active as usual.

Cheers! Let's continue from where we stopped.

Antichristian2:
If you die and none of your family comes to claim the 💰, who owns it then?

Apples and Oranges. This doesn’t fit the context of the discussion.

DAramis:
Abeg, you have any idea of how this surrogate entails?
And the legal route to take for this especially in Lagos or any of the southern zone?

Since you are taking about legal stuff surrounding surrogacy, it is a great idea to consult with a lawyer on the position of Nigerian law about it

Antichristian2:
No! Birth mother!

The person who gave birth to the child!

Read well!

Well that is stone age mentality. and i am sure you will be among those folks who always belive so long every child a woman uou are married to birth is your child. some when they go get pregnant from another man outside you will claim to be the father. who will you not cry foul from paternity fraud later.

Antichristian2:
No, that option is not a available. She's the one with a defective body!

Surrogacy is like a personalised fornication! Someone is still being paid.

She can leave the marriage and try another man if that will stop her miscarriages!

Selfish and a very wicked thinking. i hope when you have a little problem in your marriage tommorrow and your partner decides to abadon you, you will be okay and happy with it. Selfish lots.

dalass:
Since you are taking about legal stuff surrounding surrogacy, it is a great idea to consult with a lawyer on the position of Nigerian law about it

The Nigerian law has nothing against it. There have been countless of people who took that route especially using IVF and surrogate mother.

I am only trying to get information on hospitals in Lagos offering IVF treatment and to be sure if they have contact for willing surrogate mother. Contracts would be drawn up by both parties.

fxexperts:
Selfish and a very wicked thinking. i hope when you have a little problem in your marriage tommorrow and your partner decides to abadon you, you will be okay and happy with it. Selfish lots.

Who says anything about abandonment? Marrying another wife is not abandoning the first. She will have all her rights in full according to the best of my ability! And both of them will be treated with equity!

fxexperts:
Well that is stone age mentality. and i am sure you will be among those folks who always belive so long every child a woman uou are married to birth is your child. some when they go get pregnant from another man outside you will claim to be the father. who will you not cry foul from paternity fraud later.

Don't marry a fornicator in the first place so as to avoid stories that touch! Of course the adulterer must not be given anything!

Antichristian2:
Don't marry a fornicator in the first place so as to avoid stories that touch! Of course the adulterer must not be given anything!

So logic is really far from you then. How then in this world do you think you can control what another person does still amazes me. When you grow up, you will know that people change, and there is one thing constant in human nature and that is change. You may think they write fornicators on some people's heads. stone age thinking.

Antichristian2:
Who says anything about abandonment? Marrying another wife is not abandoning the first. She will have all her rights in full according to the best of my ability! And both of them will be treated with equity!

Okay, you will give her her right to knack and marry other husbands too abi. and who are you to give another human rights? My friend, their right is their right. That right was given to them by God. You cannot come and give anybody any right. you didnnt create them, nor did you even create yourself.

fxexperts:
Okay, you will give her her right to knack and marry other husbands too abi. and who are you to give another human rights? My friend, their right is their right. That right was given to them by God. You cannot come and give anybody any right. you didnnt create them, nor did you even create yourself.

How many woman did your God make marry more than one husband at a time? Even the Samaritan woman didn't marry those men at a time! Show us where God gave women the right to be equal with men in the Bible?

Antichristian2:
How many woman did your God make marry more than one husband at a time? Even the Samaritan woman didn't marry those men at a time! Show us where God gave women the right to be equal with men in the Bible?

Oboy, those Abrahamic religious books are biased books written by men to enslave women. nothing more. I do not believe a word from those history books.