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Nothing compares to life and freedom for me.

The man should have walk away better than killing his wife, now the daughter suffer for it forever.

That man is wicked, no human empathy and compassion.

It's better to have a failed relationship cos of temperament issues than to die in marriage with the red flag of anger you saw during the relationship.


I can't settle for any woman with anger issues, that's a big red flag. My peace and happiness is important to my future, family and generation.

Women never over look how he reacts when angry cos it's says alot sincerely.


Wicked man

If your life threatened in marriage whether man or woman please end the marriage ASAP .

Country hard oo. Woman and man no dey face the same reality

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emmalezy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KEnlPk9G94?si=MLTox-hQ3tgm3soA




Source: https://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/01/man-allegedly-kills-wife-at-river.html?m=1



https://www.tvcnews.tv/ogun-police-confirm-death-of-river-valley-estate-murder-suspect/

Must you die if marriage is not working ? nonsense quit and live your life enjoy it while it last .

Marriage is not by force.
The moment your husband raise his hand to slap you, please leave.
Your life matters most.
There's no justification for killing one's spouse.
RIP to the dead
May God take care of the orphan

emmalezy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KEnlPk9G94?si=MLTox-hQ3tgm3soA




Source: https://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/01/man-allegedly-kills-wife-at-river.html?m=1



https://www.tvcnews.tv/ogun-police-confirm-death-of-river-valley-estate-murder-suspect/

And I live in Magodo so close to River Valley. When men refuse to bow down to Kobojunkie and listen to him

KobolanderSegun:
➜And I live in Magodo so close to River Valley. When men refuse to now down to Kobojunkie and listen to him

. Every day, we hear tales of how men want legacies. Yet these children have been rendered orphans by their father, who supposedly wanted them. 🥱🥱🥱

BAILMONEY:
Na my area be this o

very good.. Go and know exactly what leads to the man action, if he's still alive and number of kids they have together and come info us.. Sharply!

Women can say stuff that they will later regret and men take action that they will later regret.

I am suspecting the man was informed she's no longer interested in the marriage and after all the kids are not his! I heard he's an away dad! Some men are criminals part time and these women have no idea what they do! Breaking such news to a man who has been killing others is suicidal!

Crazy people !!

ManknowThyself:
➜Nothing compares to life and freedom for me. The man should have walk away better than killing his wife, now the daughter suffer for it forever. That man is wicked, no human empathy and compassion. It's better to have a failed relationship cos of temperament issues than to die in marriage with the red flag of anger you saw during the relationship.
I can't settle for any woman with anger issues, that's a big red flag. My peace and happiness is important to my future, family and generation.
Women never over look how he reacts when angry cos it's says alot sincerely. Wicked man

Every 10 minutes, a female is intentionally killed by either her father, lover, or husband, clearly a problem of men incapable of regulating/managing their emotions. But as expected, you must find a way to blame the irrational behaviours of men on the women. Some of you can't help it at this point.🥱🥱🥱

UkoAnnang:


There's something wrong somewhere
For a man to kill his wife and commit suicide means there is something fishy that infuriates the man the man.
The family should quietly conduct DNA test on those children they will know the mystery behind this gruesome scenario

In as much you may be right, the guy is very stupid. He quietly went to their neighbours house, a Grampa of around 80 something that is not even strong to stand, poisoned his food with snipers unknown to him, told the house help to run away because he wanted to do something terrible to the man and he doesn't want her to get involved.
He offered the helper some money but she refused, and unknown to her, he has already poisoned their food with snipers he later used to kpai.
When they told the old man about her death, he was crying, saying the lady was very close to him and she used to run an errands for him like a daughter most times. He said even many times, his ATM is always with her.

And that's what caught my attention. The guy is very insecure, weakling and likely jobless. What would an octogenarian do to your wife? Granpa that hardly talk self and very old?

Mind you, neighbours friends said he has been beaten the lady blue black for long and his family would intervene and beg her to stay after trying to pack out. So the guy may be totally useless for himself and the wife too.

All those who forgive abusive partners where are you? Whether you are physically abusive r verbally abusive it's a no no for me. I even loathe verbal abuse even more, no forgiveness.

Don't allow anyone to make you be who you are not, sometimes women will even push you as if they can beat you up if oven the opportunity. Never allow this scenario to happen, take a bow and leave because no one will ever side with you as a man no one asks what did she do before you unleashed your anger walk away and don't look back.

Kobojunkie:
. Every day, we hear tales of how men want legacies. Yet these children have been rendered orphans by their father, who supposedly wanted them. 🥱🥱🥱

The thing tire me o......Na WA !

callmeDDD:
➜In as much you may be right, the guy is very stupid. He quietly went to their neighbours house, a Grampa of around 80 something that is not even strong to stand, poisoned his food with snipers unknown to him, told the house help to run away because he wanted to do something terrible to the man and he doesn't want her to get involved.
He offered the helper some money but she refused, and unknown to her, he has already poisoned their food with snipers he later used to kpai.
When they told the old man about her death, he was crying, saying the lady was very close to him and she used to run an errands for him like a daughter most times. He said even many times, his ATM is always with her.
And that's what caught my attention. The guy is very insecure, weakling and likely jobless. What would an octogenarian do to your wife? Granpa that hardly talk self and very old?
Mind you, neighbours friends said he has been beaten the lady blue black for long and his family would intervene and beg her to stay after trying to pack out. So the guy may be totally useless for himself and the wife too.

What did the old man do to this man? 🥱🥱🥱

Esthered:
The kind of trauma the 13 years old child would grow with.....

Why didn't either party leave? Now he left to hide and she left as a carcass.

I hope her family gets justice.

how will they get justice when the murderer is dead?

Denalarian:
Nawa.. I just hope he didn't kill her because of infidelity cos that would be too retarded for him to commit murder..

What reason do you hope he killed her for?

Shedrack777:
how will they get justice when the murderer is dead?

As at when I wrote there were no reports that he was dead sir.

sunnymighty:
Read it elsewhere that the man later committed suicide. Don't know which is true.

It is true, he committed suicide

We4all:
Hmmn... It's a pity that some people still see marriage as a do or die affair. I can't leave because of my children.... People will laugh at me for leaving my husband....The children you were holding onto your marriage for, who will look after them now?

You can adopt them biko. You have the resources. Kindly help those kids! Please!!!

southsouthking:
That brings to end all the pain and struggles of life.
Why are we even here in the first place, to do what exactly?

To do what they've done

Women who continue to live with abusive men .. Una dey try oh

Like I can't even imagine it.

The kind of hatred and bitterness I will have towards that man ehn, if I don't poi.. son him, I no be woman

After tinubu bandits and tribal bigots opened the story, saw the name


They develop chronic amensia

Esthered:
The kind of trauma the 13 years old child would grow with.....

Why didn't either party leave? Now he left to hide and she left as a carcass.

I hope her family gets justice.

And how do you propose her family gets justice?

delpee:
Violence in relationships shouldn't be tolerated. Most men who are violent exhibit the tendency right from courtship but some women overlook it for various reasons. Its always better to be safe than sorry. It's best to leave and live.

When do women exhibit theirs?

I left my home cos of violence and some persons are like 'I can't vacate my home for any woman'

If u were in my shoes, what would u rather had done considering children(very little) were already involved?

Women also have anger issues just like men, in my estate I have observed women cause more scenes than men.

Sometimes it due to hormonal effects. The thing is men are stronger than women so when a man has anger issues he may be more scary and dangerous.

In this case, the woman could have used wisdom, she could have left without telling him.

I have seen women who cannot control their anger and sometimes they hold it for days. They are also dangerous. Its like a cycle of trauma.

Both men and women show signs of an inability to control anger. It can be noticed, and its should be addressed to bring healing

Kobojunkie:
Every 10 minutes, a female is intentionally killed by either her father, lover, or husband, clearly a problem of men incapable of regulating/managing their emotions. But as expected, you must find a way to blame the irrational behaviours of men on the women. Some of you can't help it at this point.🥱🥱🥱

luminouz:
You can adopt them biko. You have the resources. Kindly help those kids! Please!!!

Lol...Okay. But you and I have to do it together or else...

SeriouslySense:
➜Women also have anger issues just like men, in my estate I have observed women cause more scenes than men.
➜ Sometimes it due to hormonal effects. The thing is men are stronger than women so when a man has anger issues he may be more scary and dangerous. In this case, the woman could have used wisdom, she could have left without telling him.

1. Humans in general cause scenes since not all of us are emotionally intelligent enough to avoid throwing tantrums here and there. However, not every human out there resorts to violent crimes or even murder... the vast majority of recorded cases are, and worse, against females whom they are supposedly meant to protect. Yes, women are more likely to be killed by the men —fathers, brothers, uncles, lovers, husbands, etc. — who are generally believed to be protectors of the females. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Wrong! It is never due to hormonal effects. Violence is violence, and it is almost always— except in rare cases of medically induced mental disconnect— due to a lack of emotional intelligence. 🥱🥱🥱

Women too kill, their methods are more soft through poison, or when the man is asleep or not looking.

Men show their own very openly. If a husband threaten to kill his wife that woman better take it seriously. But when a woman has the capacity for violence sometimes she will be more calm.

Both have the capacity for violence.

Kobojunkie:
1. Humans in general cause scenes since not all of us are emotionally intelligent enough to avoid throwing tantrums here and there. However, not every human out there resorts to violent crimes or even murder... the vast majority of recorded cases are, and worse, against females whom they are supposedly meant to protect. Yes, women are more likely to be killed by the men —fathers, brothers, uncles, lovers, husbands, etc. — who are generally believed to be protectors of the females. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Wrong! It is never due to hormonal effects. Violence is violence, and it is almost always— except in rare cases of medically induced mental disconnect— due to a lack of emotional intelligence. 🥱🥱🥱