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America singer and actress,has expressed her frustrations for over being single at 48, lamenting that she should be married by now.

In a recent interview by WBLS, the war and love hitmaker attributed her singleness, to lack of "nice men." She explained her ideal man, is a good man, which she has yet to find.

The future is no longer female?

1. Hasn’t she been married before?

2. “Nice men” is the default male mindset. If she started dating since sixteen, she hasn’t seen those? Where does she live again?

3. One would think she’d be looking for a fifty and over year old. You’d be surprised that she’s looking for an eighteen to thirty-three year old. How will she respect him to begin with? The only thing they’d both enjoy is sex — if she can keep up with his stamina and appetite. Their generational difference will reflect in everything else.

4. At this age, she’s looking for a companion or carer. Nothing more.

Fiscus105:
America singer and actress,has expressed her frustrations for over being single at 48, lamenting that she should be married by now.

In a recent interview by WBLS, the war and love hitmaker attributed her singleness, to lack of "nice men." She explained her ideal man, is a good man, which she has yet to find.

eepeepook:
1. Hasn’t she been married before?

2. “Nice men” is the default male mindset. If she started dating since sixteen, she hasn’t seen those? Where does she live again?

3. One would think she’d be looking for a fifty and over year old. You’d be surprised that she’s looking for an eighteen to thirty-three year old. How will she respect him to begin with? The only thing they’d both enjoy is sex — if she can keep up with his stamina and appetite. Their generational difference will reflect in everything else.

4. At this age, she’s looking for a companion or carer. Nothing more.

Married three times, I guess she is looking for COMPANIONSHIP, just like our own Tiwa Savage lamenting on every platform.

I deliberately posted this, because of comments one lady said yesterday, that.....man shouldn't be source of joy.

Wen u are approaching 45 upward, reality will down on you that husband/wife importance in one's life.

After the bad boys don chop the juicy parts finish,make one innocent man con jam barbed wire abi?

She should check her character! At 48 you've never for once found a good man?

Lamanii22:
[b]She should check her character! [/b]At 48 you've never for once found a good man?

Women with bad characters get married every Eke market day.

So, what makes you think she is single at 48 because she has a bad character?

We4all:
Women with bad characters get married every Eke market day.

So, what makes you think she is single at 48 because she has a bad character?

Not until people change their mentality, that bad character is not "sole" reason why women are unable to marry, what about men who are also struggling to get married? Even when they are rich.(Paddy Adenuga)

Just like the way some people won't be rich, no matter how hardworking they are, ....some won't be able to conceive, even wen both partners are virgin wen they met, ....some won't build house and ...some won't buy car.

God is the ultimate designer of humans fates, we should just be praying to give us good destiny.

Don't be a "good" man o...if not, you'd be thoroughly used and dumped. Learn from her.

What women find out eventually


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IXxCfswdH68

There was a question I saw online. At what point do women realize that their fantasies aren't reality

Afriifa:
The future is no longer female?

I posted a video in my last comment. One of the reasons I don't bother arguing with women and don't give a damn about whether they think my comment is pandering or not is because with time, women eventually find out the truth. Time is a beautiful patient bride for men but an ugly tortuous truth for women. I need to copyright that. Women also don't like being told the truth, so keep telling them beautiful lies if you want to make them happy.

What happens to these women is that they have to settle. It was never a competition but the system does not favor men initially, it beats them but once you clock 30, things start to change. Men who learned from the beatings will start to look good while women who didn't know time changes yesterday will wake up to the reality of a new dawn. This is why the world always tried to raise the girl child more than the boy child because men can make many mistakes and still recover. A woman's recovery is usually hard if she makes mistakes, so man overtime knew this and wanted to raise her because they knew the future isn't nice, it can be harsh.

It's often too late before women realize in their 40s that the select few men they want are either married or not interested in them because of their age. They are then susceptible to fork boys/men and younger men who are still discovering themselves and not emotionally/financially mature for them. Women know themselves, that's why it's usually difficult for mothers to accept their sons marrying an old woman say 25 yo man vs 40 yo woman. The women know themselves. Women wake up one day later in life to see they are not as beautiful as they thought and newer editions have come out. Attention has gone to the beautyful ones who are born and trending.

A man is never ugly... Buchi Emecheta

Only a good woman deserves a good man.

If no good man has found her at 48years, that means she is not a good woman.

SixSeven:
I posted a video in my last comment. One of the reasons I don't bother arguing with women and don't give a damn about whether they think my comment is pandering or not is because with time, women eventually find out the truth. Time is a beautiful patient bride for men but an ugly tortuous truth for women. I need to copyright that. Women also don't like being told the truth, so keep telling them beautiful lies if you want to make them happy.

What happens to these women is that they have to settle. It was never a competition but the system does not favor men initially, it beats them but once you clock 30, things start to change. Men who learned from the beatings will start to look good while women who didn't know time changes yesterday will wake up to the reality of a new dawn. This is why the world always tried to raise the girl child more than the boy child because men can make many mistakes and still recover. A woman's recovery is usually hard if she makes mistakes, so man overtime knew this and wanted to raise her because they knew the future isn't nice, it can be harsh.

It's often too late before women realize in their 40s that the select few men they want are either married or not interested in them because of their age. They are then susceptible to fork boys/men and younger men who are still discovering themselves and not emotionally/financially mature for them. Women know themselves, that's why it's usually difficult for mothers to accept their sons marrying an old woman say 25 yo man vs 40 yo woman. The women know themselves. Women wake up one day later in life to see they are not as beautiful as they thought and newer editions have come out. Attention has gone to the beautyful ones who are born and trending.

A man is never ugly... Buchi Emecheta

Let's be friend bro. I love how you think

Fiscus105:
Married three times, I guess she is looking for COMPANIONSHIP, just like our own Tiwa Savage lamenting on every platform.

What they look for in marriage after failing so many times will always surprise me. It means she has the baggage of children which a new suitor will have to contend with. Akatas must be smarter than Africans. They know to steer clear from any trouble women with baggage present.

I deliberately posted this, because of comments one lady said yesterday, that.....man shouldn't be source of joy.

For the love of God, please don’t tell me the “lady” in question is called Kobojunkie.

Wen u are approaching 45 upward, reality will down on you that husband/wife importance in one's life.

Not really. Happiness is more important in life.

Perhaps to cashout huge divorce settlement in money and properties of a man too.