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My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by kunkelhanspeter(op): 10:41pm On Jan 19
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?

Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by BodyCount: 10:44pm On Jan 19
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
So because they asked you not to have sex for just 4 weeks, which is one month, it's a huge problem and concern for you, and you had to open a thread to complain!?
Wow!
What kind of so-called men do we have in this generation? It's disgusting... No self control..m
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by ayoncox: 11:00pm On Jan 19
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
That's only applicable if she had had miscarriage before
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by desireoge(f): 12:17am On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
Only 4 weeks. Chai cry
I pity your wife
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by kunkelhanspeter(op): 2:02am On Jan 20
desireoge:
Only 4 weeks. Chai cry
I pity your wife
LoL

Not helping at all

Don’t waste your pity
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by kunkelhanspeter(op): 2:02am On Jan 20
ayoncox:
That's only applicable if she had had miscarriage before
First time ever
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by kunkelhanspeter(op): 2:07am On Jan 20
BodyCount:
So because they asked you not to have sex for just 4 weeks, which is one month, it's a huge problem and concern for you, and you had to open a thread to complain!?
Wow!
What kind of so-called men do we have in this generation? It's disgusting... No self control..m
Not complaining just want to know how experience people survive this period.

How is it disgusting 🤮?

You don’t even know the meaning of self control
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by tanigororo: 3:30am On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
Nurse or Gynaecologist told you not to have sex?
On what ground?
I guess your wife no give you First Trimester Shege that's why you are demanding for Sex
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Jayboi(m): 3:49am On Jan 20
I did six months last week. Six months of no sex. Infact where will you get the urge when you see how vulnerable Ur wife is. U av to try and hold body o. It's not easy but looks at the flip side of things. It's for the better so try and support her during this period. God will make the experience worthwhile for you and you shall testify.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by kunkelhanspeter(op): 4:05am On Jan 20
tanigororo:
Nurse or Gynaecologist told you not to have sex?
On what ground?
I guess your wife no give you First Trimester Shege that's why you are demanding for Sex
Nurse or Gynaecologist : Both

On what ground? First time

Still on first trimester and I wasn’t demanding for sex Just asking how do men survive this period.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by kunkelhanspeter(op): 4:06am On Jan 20
Jayboi:
I did six months last week. Six months of no sex. Infact where will you get the urge when you see how vulnerable Ur wife is. U av to try and hold body o. It's not easy but looks at the flip side of things. It's for the better so try and support her during this period. God will make the experience worthwhile for you and you shall testify.
Been holding myself just asking how do men survive this period.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by udede(m): 6:15am On Jan 20
Truly truly I say to thee. Men don finish.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by SisterAnn(f): 8:26am On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
Been holding myself just asking how do men survive this period.
Buy a jar of petroleum jelly.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by kunkelhanspeter(op): 10:49am On Jan 20
SisterAnn:
Buy a jar of petroleum jelly.
Thanks
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by tanigororo: 10:54am On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
Nurse or Gynaecologist : Both

On what ground? First time

Still on first trimester and I wasn’t demanding for sex Just asking how do men survive this period.
As you are holding body right now is how every other person too is holding body.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by PeterObi4Presid: 12:43pm On Jan 20
What help again do you need
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Kobicove(m): 12:44pm On Jan 20
Congratulations to you and your family! grin
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Mosco100(m): 12:44pm On Jan 20
BodyCount:
So because they asked you not to have sex for just 4 weeks, which is one month, it's a huge problem and concern for you, and you had to open a thread to complain!?
Wow!
What kind of so-called men do we have in this generation? It's disgusting... No self control..m
If he really loves her, he would care enough about her safety than his pleasure. “ Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.”(1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by bestman09(m): 12:45pm On Jan 20
Thats a very wicked nurse except there is a medical issue behind it!
desireoge:
Only 4 weeks. Chai cry
I pity your wife
The OP said 14 weeks o!
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by TheStoriesOfMan: 12:47pm On Jan 20
If Kongi dey hold you,get one side chick wey go dey make you dey alright.

BUT NEVER DISRESPECT YOUR WIFE BY GETTING YOUR SIDE CHICK PREGNANT OR TAKING HER TO YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOME.

Use a hotel, use nylon and use your head.

If you are a non-chalant man, command your wife to set dodgy for you, otherwise no antenatal for her.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Difrent: 12:48pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
For only four weeks you no fit hold body?
You're joking right
Cos if you actually open a thread cos of that
You no serious abeg
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by affable4(m): 12:49pm On Jan 20
So in all of these, na sex be your concern? Not even the well being of your wife and the health of your child.

You have a good conscience to direct your priorities
.

Sha no do kpoi kpoi for the baby head before he gets bald from birth.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Trojan8(m): 12:49pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
Been holding myself just asking how do men survive this period.
You don't know how to survive 4 weeks without having sex while looking over your pregnant wife?

Some of una dey pami
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 12:49pm On Jan 20
grin[color=#990000][/color] grin grin grin grin Ba Ankali Ajeh



U need to change
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Sicklebear28: 12:50pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
When my wife gave birth to my last child. I stayed away from sex for two years. Most men are not discipline.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by DeltaBachelor(m): 12:51pm On Jan 20
lol. Moomoo man. Wetin you dey find since for 3 years, God don bless you with am , but you nor fit hold body for just few weeks. Chai ! 70 years old man
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Kaybaba5(m): 12:51pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
Nurse or Gynaecologist : Both

On what ground? First time

Still on first trimester and I wasn’t demanding for sex Just asking how do men survive this period.
Just ask your wife to gbenu si microphone and massage before you know it wa da towo ele... Very simple
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by bestman09(m): 12:51pm On Jan 20
Difrent:
For only four weeks you no fit hold body?
You're joking right
Cos if you actually open a thread cos of that
You no serious abeg
@op said 14 weeks! FOURTEEN WEEKS
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Trojan8(m): 12:55pm On Jan 20
bestman09:
@op said 14 weeks! FOURTEEN WEEKS
Oga, she is 10 weeks pregnant already and they asked him to wait till the 14th week.
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