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Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Mosco100(m): 12:56pm On Jan 20
TheStoriesOfMan:
If Kongi dey hold you,get one side chick wey go dey make you dey alright.

BUT NEVER DISRESPECT YOUR WIFE BY GETTING YOUR SIDE CHICK PREGNANT OR TAKING HER TO YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOME.

Use a hotel, use nylon and use your head.

If you are a non-chalant man, command your wife to set dodgy for you, otherwise no antenatal for her.
Can you tell this same thing to your son-in-law?
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Ishilove: 12:56pm On Jan 20
bestman09:
@op said 14 weeks! FOURTEEN WEEKS
Thank you. I was wondering if I wasn't seeing well. I had to read his post three times to be sure, and I still didn't see "4 weeks".
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Difrent: 12:57pm On Jan 20
bestman09:
@op said 14 weeks! FOURTEEN WEEKS
So?
4 or 14 weeks too much to hold body?

Abegii na joke joor
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Chucks13: 12:57pm On Jan 20
For the first 1 month don't konji her orelse you go use your konji commot d pikin or your konji come give your pikin long neck like dat comedian called I go die but after the first one month you can give konji small small bro not hard konji I dey warn you ehn better listen....

I won't advise you to go and do konji outside because I don't know if u be kpekus weakling like my guy Davido wey be say na every corner d thing hold him he go fire gun 2 years later social media will start another round of collect d pikin na, give her money na etc.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by ultraviolet27(f): 12:59pm On Jan 20
desireoge:
Only 4 weeks. Chai cry
I pity your wife
I don't think you can read? he said 14 weeks not 4 weeks that's almost 4 months what kind of nurses do they produce nowadays anyways? because in the days of our mothers they advice the husband to meet his wife frequently to ease delivery!!
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Emeskhalifa(m): 12:59pm On Jan 20
BodyCount:
So because they asked you not to have sex for just 4 weeks, which is one month, it's a huge problem and concern for you, and you had to open a thread to complain!?
Wow!
What kind of so-called men do we have in this generation? It's disgusting... No self control..m
Very weak, simpleton men if you ask me
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Mamaafrik1(m): 1:02pm On Jan 20
Except if there is a strong medical reason medical.
You are okay having sex with your wife gently.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by TheStoriesOfMan: 1:03pm On Jan 20
Mosco100:
Can you tell this same thing to your son-in-law?
Can't you tell this same thing to your son-in-law?
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by bestman09(m): 1:06pm On Jan 20
Trojan8:
Oga, she is 10 weeks pregnant already and they asked him to wait till the 14th week.
You have to quote what the @op wrote, not what he meant or what he assume. He never wrote that they were asked to wait till the 14th week, rather, that they should wait for 14 weeks! This is basic English.

Except the @op modifies his post, what he wrote is 14 weeks.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by REGINALD001(m): 1:08pm On Jan 20
desireoge:
Only 4 weeks. Chai cry
I pity your wife
Keep your mouth sealed.....

Give him option and not to weaponise what his concern is.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by SwordBezalel: 1:21pm On Jan 20
SisterAnn:
Buy a jar of petroleum jelly.
You have to rent a room at the brothel for the main time while your wife is resting.. no time to check wrist watch. shocked shocked shocked
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by IamAsiri: 1:21pm On Jan 20
bestman09:
Thats a very wicked nurse except there is a medical issue behind it!


The OP said 14 weeks o!
Why is comprehension usually an issue?
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by johnog4sure: 1:24pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
I have not had sex with my wife for 14 months still counting, partially because of medical reasons, and partially because I do not like lactating mothers, still waiting for her to stop breast feeding, that is, since she took in to when she will stop breastfeeding that will be about 2 years, we are happy and very fine. I dey go outside sometimes sha...I don go like 5 times...
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by 89green: 1:27pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
grin you just have to abstain bro. The period of pregnancy is a real test, that's when it is known if a man truly loves his wife
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by sfinkzslot(m): 1:34pm On Jan 20
for Some women if you near them in the 1st trimester the belly go come down o,I know from experience, its not even funny, so its better to be christianly at this time.
congratulations to both of you
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by We4all: 1:34pm On Jan 20
johnog4sure:
I have not had sex with my wife for 14 months still counting, partially because of medical reasons, and partially because I do not like lactating mothers, still waiting for her to stop breast feeding, that is, since she took in to when she will stop breastfeeding that will be about 2 years, we are happy and very fine. I dey go outside sometimes sha...I don go like 5 times...
You don't care because you're cheating on your wife.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by victorVIC1(m): 1:38pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
Even after 14 weeks, avoid hard sex. Some years back my wife lost her first pregnancy just after we had sex. Trust me, the trauma was severe. The first trimester phase of pregnancy is extremely sensitive, treat it as you would treat a raw egg.
Blessings.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by yemkoguru(m): 1:45pm On Jan 20
she can put am for mouth work am for you grin grin grin
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by SouthSouth1914: 1:50pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
You can ask diddy for oil if you can’t wait. That simple
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by PDJT: 1:54pm On Jan 20
- OP, don't you worry yourself. Pregnant women are the horniest people alive. Soon, na you go run.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by NovusHomo(m): 1:56pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
Big deal, until you realize that your mother was pregnant before your wife.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Pious101: 2:00pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
Not complaining just want to know how experience people survive this period.

How is it disgusting 🤮?

You don’t even know the meaning of self control
just try and hold ur self. I have been holding for the last 8 months. There are some women when pregnant they don't even want to use eye to see that junior....women differs. I will even advise to stay off until the end of the first trimester
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Pious101: 2:00pm On Jan 20
PDJT:
- OP, don't you worry yourself. Pregnant women are the horniest people alive. Soon, na you go run.
I don't think so
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by chloride6: 2:04pm On Jan 20
Why did the nurse say so? On what basis?

Quacks
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Osanoghodua1: 2:06pm On Jan 20
Never heard before that a heavily pregnant woman doesn't need sex. All I know was You have her from the back to avoid putting pressure on the baby or weakening her legs. I also heard it can be possible to avoid sex in the first few weeks. Well the doctor has to give a medical advise, if you have waited for 3yrs for the first pregnancy, it's best you stick to doctor's not nurse counsel.

You will not die for staying away from sex even for 1yr.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Seunmuham: 2:09pm On Jan 20
kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?
nigga!! Na konji be your immediate problem?
I open thread thinking Nica ba talking about how to have a healthy baby, instead is talking about konji
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Seunmuham: 2:12pm On Jan 20
TheStoriesOfMan:
If Kongi dey hold you,get one side chick wey go dey make you dey alright.

BUT NEVER DISRESPECT YOUR WIFE BY GETTING YOUR SIDE CHICK PREGNANT OR TAKING HER TO YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOME.

Use a hotel, use nylon and use your head.

If you are a non-chalant man, command your wife to set dodgy for you, otherwise no antenatal for her.
I guess when the man is down and out also, the wife should get a side Nica.
Dopemu
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Nachory: 2:13pm On Jan 20
You be yẹyẹ man. Instead of thanking God and praying for safe delivery of your first child, it's sex you're preoccupied with. You need to be flogged. 🤣🤣
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by johnog4sure: 2:13pm On Jan 20
We4all:
You don't care because you're cheating on your wife.
Well its not called cheating, its spouser support, there are valid reasons
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by PDJT: 2:14pm On Jan 20
Pious101:
I don't think so
- Any contrary evidence you would like to share?
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by PDJT: 2:16pm On Jan 20
Seunmuham:
nigga!! Na konji be your immediate problem?
I open thread thinking Nica ba talking about how to have a healthy baby, instead is talking about konji
- Regular sex for a pregnant woman is very important and can contribute to having a healthy baby.
Re: My Wife Is Pregnant For The First Time And I Need Help. by Pious101: 2:16pm On Jan 20
PDJT:
- Any contrary evidence you would like to share?
my wife is currently pregnant and she don't want to see junior at all....also witness same thing during first pregnancy
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