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KobolanderSegun:
There is only one Reason Women want Divorces from " Perfect " Men, the real reason is lack of Control.

Alot of Women don't quite understand why they are in a relationship with a man. They erroneously think they can " mold " men. Men cannot be molded by women even molding children is rather hard, tricky and can lead to children rebelling or children becoming hateful of their parents.

What are Women to do with men then ? Women are meant to use men this is the only formula that works for both parties.

When I say use. I do not mean " use and dump " I mean use then refill. Women are meant to Use men, then Refill men then Use them then Refill them.

A lot of Nigerian women are in the habit of constantly " billing " men or charging men for everything in the relationship. A One way Relationship never works because everyone weighs what they give.

Being a Very Beautiful Woman with Fantastic curves is not enough to hold a long lasting relationship. Do you use your energy to make him stronger? Do you thank him if he does very little ? Do you thank him when he pays for the children's school fees ? Do you hug him and kiss him for paying school fees. Do you thank him when he pays Nepa Bills since you also are enjoying the " oye " as the air-conditioning is blowing tight. Do you thank him for providing the food for the house.

Some women will say he is doing his duty as a man, but thanking a man for doing his duty makes him know his efforts are appreciated.

The Only way a Woman can control a man is not running after men she likes but looking at the man who loves her the most. Once a man loves a Woman it is for the woman to be grateful for his love, thank him for his love.

Women must understand you can only " control " a man who is in love with you. You cannot mold him. And why will you mold what that already loves you ?

One's whose mind is molded to you

When you hear of Women walking away from " Perfect " men it has nothing to do with the men but everything to do with the Women.

Let's Assume a Woman needs space to think she can simply move into another room and be less around the man.

When you see a Woman saying she grew to big for the relationship it is often a need to massage her Ego that she became bigger than a man..

The problem with thinking you become bigger than people is a mental illusion. One can be fantastic in one realm like be highly intelligent but lacking in human interaction intelligence. One could be very wise in knowledge but very foolish in compassion.

A friend of mine in America is currently dating a TikTok influencer who has done some X Rated content before. He loves her to bits and he has not stopped her from twerking for her followers. Despite being a nerd na TikTok influencer he won marry. From what I can see it will work because he is very emotionally stable hates drama and does not like raising his voice.

So people when you see a Woman leaving a Perfect man it's not the man's fault regardless of what the woman says.

It's like having the perfect job and walking away from it. Na the job fault ?

KobolanderSegun:
I came out of my Nairaland retirement to set the record straight. I'm Michael Jordan of Nairaland

KobolanderSegun:
There is only one Reason Women want Divorces from " Perfect " Men, the real reason is lack of Control.

Alot of Women don't quite understand why they are in a relationship with a man. They erroneously think they can " mold " men. Men cannot be molded by women even molding children is rather hard, tricky and can lead to children rebelling or children becoming hateful of their parents.

What are Women to do with men then ? Women are meant to use men this is the only formula that works for both parties.

When I say use. I do not mean " use and dump " I mean use then refill. Women are meant to Use men, then Refill men then Use them then Refill them.

A lot of Nigerian women are in the habit of constantly " billing " men or charging men for everything in the relationship. A One way Relationship never works because everyone weighs what they give.

Being a Very Beautiful Woman with Fantastic curves is not enough to hold a long lasting relationship. Do you use your energy to make him stronger? Do you thank him if he does very little ? Do you thank him when he pays for the children's school fees ? Do you hug him and kiss him for paying school fees. Do you thank him when he pays Nepa Bills since you also are enjoying the " oye " as the air-conditioning is blowing tight. Do you thank him for providing the food for the house.

Some women will say he is doing his duty as a man, but thanking a man for doing his duty makes him know his efforts are appreciated.

The Only way a Woman can control a man is not running after men she likes but looking at the man who loves her the most. Once a man loves a Woman it is for the woman to be grateful for his love, thank him for his love.

Women must understand you can only " control " a man who is in love with you. You cannot mold him. And why will you mold what that already loves you ?

One's whose mind is molded to you

When you hear of Women walking away from " Perfect " men it has nothing to do with the men but everything to do with the Women.

Let's Assume a Woman needs space to think she can simply move into another room and be less around the man.

When you see a Woman saying she grew to big for the relationship it is often a need to massage her Ego that she became bigger than a man..

The problem with thinking you become bigger than people is a mental illusion. One can be fantastic in one realm like be highly intelligent but lacking in human interaction intelligence. One could be very wise in knowledge but very foolish in compassion.

A friend of mine in America is currently dating a TikTok influencer who has done some X Rated content before. He loves her to bits and he has not stopped her from twerking for her followers. Despite being a nerd na TikTok influencer he won marry. From what I can see it will work because he is very emotionally stable hates drama and does not like raising his voice.

So people when you see a Woman leaving a Perfect man it's not the man's fault regardless of what the woman says.

It's like having the perfect job and walking away from it. Na the job fault ?

lagosforever123:
U are absolutely right. Look at the footballer KAKA who was a real gentleman to everyone and was big on female advocating. His wife said she divorced him because he was too perfect.

KobolanderSegun:
There is only one Reason Women want Divorces from " Perfect " Men, the real reason is lack of Control.

Alot of Women don't quite understand why they are in a relationship with a man. They erroneously think they can " mold " men. Men cannot be molded by women even molding children is rather hard, tricky and can lead to children rebelling or children becoming hateful of their parents.

What are Women to do with men then ? Women are meant to use men this is the only formula that works for both parties.

When I say use. I do not mean " use and dump " I mean use then refill. Women are meant to Use men, then Refill men then Use them then Refill them.

A lot of Nigerian women are in the habit of constantly " billing " men or charging men for everything in the relationship. A One way Relationship never works because everyone weighs what they give.

Being a Very Beautiful Woman with Fantastic curves is not enough to hold a long lasting relationship. Do you use your energy to make him stronger? Do you thank him if he does very little ? Do you thank him when he pays for the children's school fees ? Do you hug him and kiss him for paying school fees. Do you thank him when he pays Nepa Bills since you also are enjoying the " oye " as the air-conditioning is blowing tight. Do you thank him for providing the food for the house.

Some women will say he is doing his duty as a man, but thanking a man for doing his duty makes him know his efforts are appreciated.

The Only way a Woman can control a man is not running after men she likes but looking at the man who loves her the most. Once a man loves a Woman it is for the woman to be grateful for his love, thank him for his love.

Women must understand you can only " control " a man who is in love with you. You cannot mold him. And why will you mold what that already loves you ?

One's whose mind is molded to you

When you hear of Women walking away from " Perfect " men it has nothing to do with the men but everything to do with the Women.

Let's Assume a Woman needs space to think she can simply move into another room and be less around the man.

When you see a Woman saying she grew to big for the relationship it is often a need to massage her Ego that she became bigger than a man..

The problem with thinking you become bigger than people is a mental illusion. One can be fantastic in one realm like be highly intelligent but lacking in human interaction intelligence. One could be very wise in knowledge but very foolish in compassion.

A friend of mine in America is currently dating a TikTok influencer who has done some X Rated content before. He loves her to bits and he has not stopped her from twerking for her followers. Despite being a nerd na TikTok influencer he won marry. From what I can see it will work because he is very emotionally stable hates drama and does not like raising his voice.

So people when you see a Woman leaving a Perfect man it's not the man's fault regardless of what the woman says.

It's like having the perfect job and walking away from it. Na the job fault ?

meobizy:
https://www.nairaland.com/8601145/it-finished

Alikoooooooooo:
Michael Jordan ko, Kobe Bryant ni......stop smoking and go to work

Pmoney0123:
Gbam 😂 😂

KobolanderSegun:
Watin na Gbam ?. I am Michael Jordan of Nairaland.

Pmoney0123:
And so? 🙄 😂
Make I run

KobolanderSegun:
Bro I am the Michael Jordan of Nairaland. I'm the GOAT

KobolanderSegun:
Yes Kaka was the perfect husband. I think the problem women face is they are simply scared of perfect men . Women like it when men have a weakness. So that they can nag him about that weakness to make him feel inferior

KobolanderSegun:
➜Yes Kaka was the perfect husband. I think the problem women face is they are simply scared of perfect men . Women like it when men have a weakness.
➜So that they can nag him about that weakness to make him feel inferior