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Therokstar:
This is obviously Ai write up, not realistic at all. Why was there no discussion about their finances and plans for the future before the wedding? If she got married at 27 & now 70, the husband is probably way older,how realistic is it that a 70+ old is immersed on his phone like a Gen Z especially at an hospital? Then If she wasn't working for the majority of her life, i wonder what income she's depending on at 70. I guess the point is about DIVORCE & it's wonders.

You people are funny with this your AI. Do you think AI won't know to add finances?
This is a heartfelt narrative and the woman is NOT AI

epainos:
Lol. You are a typical example of who the woman is talking about. Men who refuse to see. Don't worry, you will understand it at the right time, just like the man.

why are you feeling like the man lost something? A self centered woman got out and got lost. Any, no opinion until I hear the man's side of the story, knowing women for their manipulative prowess and always playing the victim card when a red piller refuses to fall for their drama.

Inyaky:
Illiterate people, they won't learn the lesson in the message, this article could apply to any gender, it's a lesson that one should learn to walk away from anything that doesn't not make one happy. Most of you trying to mock the woman don't know that your mother could have gone through the same thing or is going through the same thing right now because mothers stay in an unhealthy relationship for the sake of their children. No empathy, everything a woman says is attack on Nigerian men, they act as if they don't have mothers or sisters at home.

Well said. Most Nigerian mothers go through something similar to some extent

QuinQQ:
Take care too.
You obviously lost the argument!😅

So, you thought I was arguing with you to win with the questions I asked based in your style? Wonderful! And you made sure you won the argument. Mehn! Una eh! Bravo! Keep winning arguments with your partner. OK.

See eh...you won the argument. This exactly is how all you men see this issue. Lol. Again, keep winning arguments with your wife....you all win learn. No worry. So, I agree...you won.

You all will learn.

Breaker001:
Anti-marriage agents using AI video to propagate false narratives from the pit of hell.
Which marriage? Which 69 year old woman? It's all lies, and we know it. Nonsense 😎

You people and this your AI itch. Is this below from the comment section also AI?

We4all:
Most married women are not happy, but are just enduring. The woman made the right decision to leave her husband. More women should do the same for the sake of their mental health.

After a long time of same-same a radical change is always good for the soul

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Kobijunkie went through the. entire YouTube looking for a video to reinforce her bitter perspective on marriage and the best she could obtain is an AI generated video. If you feminists like, keep listening to her, all I know is Tonto Dike with her hot head is now speaking in tongues. Jungle go soon mature for una!

😅🤣😂
My thoughts exactly. But I don't think it is AI

emmyN:
TLDR; Woman had chemotherapy due to cancer and apparently some brain cells got fried in the process. Now she thinks her husband of 42 years was a demon. Culled from the stables of Kobojunkie.

Mad people full Nairaland.

epainos:
So, you thought I was arguing with you to win with the questions I asked based in your style? Wonderful! And you made sure you won the argument. Mehn! Una eh! Bravo! Keep winning arguments with your partner. OK.

See eh...you won the argument. This exactly is how all you men see this issue. Lol. Again, keep winning arguments with your wife....you all win learn. No worry. So, I agree...you won.

You all will learn.

YOU LOST, no big deal, you're not the first loser and won't be the last!😅

You made a good point...hearing the man's side of the story will make a lot of sense. Otherwise any third party conclusion is biased to say the least.

bigiyaro:
why are you feeling like the man lost something? A self centered woman got out and got lost. Any, no opinion until I hear the man's side of the story, knowing women for their manipulative prowess and always playing the victim card when a red piller refuses to fall for their drama.

QuinQQ:
😅🤣😂
My thoughts exactly. But I don't think it is AI

Oh come! It is screaming AI! see what the description on the YouTube video says:

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Oh come! It is screaming AI! see what the description on the YouTube video says:

How is it screaming AI?
Here's the description about how it was made.
It's originally fron Facebook

epainos:
Lol. Quality life is precious during old age. Since being a Methuselah isn't possible for everyone is the reason you don't want to treat your wife well, goodluck. You will understsnd the value of living a quality life after 60 to death. Don't worry. Lol!

Why not talk about the amount of male death that happens before 60 due to woman's pressure?

QuinQ:
Good one Kobo!
Nlfpmod Frontpage o

Previous thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/8604456/married-lonely

How do you link the 2 threads by different authors (usernames). Are you sure they are related? The 1st one seems to still be married, while this one is already divorced.

safarifarms:
How do you link the 2 threads by different authors (usernames). Are you sure they are related? The 1st one seems to still be married, while this one is already divorced.

That one gave birth to this one. Kobo was there Vigorously advocating for divorce. This thread is an extension of that advocacy!

Who she help

JoeEeL:
Why not talk about the amount of male death that happens before 60 due to woman's pressure?

Dem talk say make the man no divorce her? If the woman likes, let her be "ayamatanga" in the relationship na. Some responses and remarks sef are somehow.

QuinQQ:
How is it screaming AI?
Here's the description about how it was made.
It's originally fron Facebook

Op shared a YouTube video, I opened the same video on YouTube using the link OP gave herself, I opened the description on the video (and YouTube compels content makers to inform viewers if their videos are AI generated), I showed you how the description on the video says it was AI generated, yet you went and brought a Facebook link that said nothing about the nature of the video to counter me? Kai!

Like seriously?

donleo92:
I hate silence In a marriage..

E better make you beat me than my wife keeping me malice

mkpologwu:
Leaving is not a big issue. The bigger issue is what next. Are you gonna try someone else or are spending the rest of your life single?

I left mine after 11 years and I've been single and happier but not truly happy because I like family structure.

Unfortunately very few people respect family structure these days. No regards anymore for marriage.

Why do you leave your marriage?

Diamond098454:
Like seriously?

Yes oooh.. me and malice keeping wife no fit cohabitate

Kobo
What's your plans now in terms of marriage?

Are you in a relationship now? Are you planning to give marriage a chance again?

donleo92:
Yes oooh.. me and malice keeping wife no fit cohabitate

You would have tried sorting thing out with her. Women are so soft and very understandable

Diamond098454:
You would have tried sorting thing out with her. Women are so soft and very understandable

Soft?? Not when she becomes a wife

Sometimes People talk about marriage like they didn't know what they were doing when they were dating.

Nobody changes to a monster or stranger overnight, the signs are always they even when they pretend, if ure attentive u will see it at dome point but u ignore those red flags and don't even question them to gain clarity or address them to maybe correct them where possible cos once ure marriage its all water under the bridge.

Diamond098454:
Kobo✓ What's your plans now in terms of marriage?
Are you in a relationship now? Are you planning to give marriage a chance again?

a) Marriage is not an achievement.
b) Leaving a marriage is not the end of a life. You had life, dreams and desires -- longings-- while you were single. Those dreams ,desires and longings never disappear whether you are married or divorced
c) your dreams and desires are part of who you are. Never sacrifice or compromise them for the desires and dreams of another individual, not even someone you claim to be married to. That longing will always be there telling you of how much you should be doing with the time you have. . They should be part of your non-negotiable in life.
d) Center and love yourself first regardless of where you are in life. 🥱🥱🥱

Diamond098454:
✓ You would have tried sorting thing out with her. Women are so soft and very understandable

Women have never been a monolith. 🥱🥱🥱

QuinQ:
Women too. This Nigerian lady below, after diligent calculation and thought, came to the conclusion that men are useless:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tsW_7iy0NO4?si=eDf4kyfenAy8nb5Q

Okay

Kobojunkie:
a) Marriage is not an achievement.
b) Leaving a marriage is not the end of a life. You had life, dreams and desires -- longings-- while you were single. Those dreams ,desires and longings never disappear whether you are married or divorced
c) your dreams and desires are part of who you are. Never sacrifice or compromise them for the desires and dreams of another individual, not even someone you claim to be married to. That longing will always be there telling you of how much you should be doing with the time you have. . They should be part of your non-negotiable in life.
d) Center and love yourself first regardless of where you are in life. 🥱🥱🥱

Well spoken

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Op shared a YouTube video, I opened the same video on YouTube using the link OP gave herself, I opened the description on the video (and YouTube compels content makers to inform viewers if their videos are AI generated), I showed you how the description on the video says it was AI generated, yet you went and brought a Facebook link that said nothing about the nature of the video to counter me? Kai!

My description is also from the video. Click where arrow points. It is fairly easy to spot AI because the words misaligne with mouth and body movements from time to time.
Also, see that post from the comment section. Is it Al?

Whois:
Who she help

Herself
Duh