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I have a friend that married in 2019 and got separated in 2024.
Just five years of marriage.
When I asked him what really happened.
He said she is tired of his wife's constant nagging.
Always accusing him of cheating without evidence.
He had to divorce her.

Insecurity

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It is better he divorced her than to eat poison and wake up in the after life. Women are heartless these days.

From my experience in life, when a lady starts accusing a man of cheating, with no evidence to reference, the lady has been cheating.

Know what else? She has dug through the thoroughly and found no evidence of him cheating so as to justify her cheating or be free from the guilt.

It's very toxic remaining, cohabiting, dating, marrying or living with such a person. Breaking up is the way to go.

If you ever find yourself in such situation, don't stay because of what people will say or think, don't stay because of your kids (as you don't want them to have a broken home).

You don't owe people an explanation on why you separated from your spouse (so as to protect stigma against your kids as you'll expose them to ridicule if you expose your spouse)

You also need to be alive to make sure your kids (your very own descendants) do well in life.

Also, (this is my first time saying this ever) run DNA tests on your kids if you guys have any.

BOTTOM LINE:
When your partner starts accusing you of cheating with no evidence or a reference that pricks your conscience, RUN !

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to me about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

Una no dey rest? Haba... Na wa ooh

Omoh! This post is so for me.

What works for you may not work for others.

This is about people's experiences post-divorce.

I'm hoping it won't be turned to another female-bashing episode.

Even to date now dey scare me sef

Share which yeye experience....


Abeg shift

People will stop getting married in less than 100 years to come coz marriage these days is no longer what it used to be. I mean, these days our ladies leave their homes coz their husbands can't do what their father couldn't do for their mother. Social media makes the comparison too much and they forget that most good things we see online aren't true especially now that almost every body is into content creation of "catching cruise"

Take away social media and marriages will start to last like the good old days...pre 2010s

Sirchiboy:
I have a friend that married in 2019 and got separated in 2024.
Just five years of marriage.
When I asked him what really happened.
He said she is tired of his wife's constant nagging.
Always accusing him of cheating without evidence.
He had to divorce her.

Our culture and beliefs that put men at receiving end is crazy.

a lady that cheats don't bother if the husband is cheating. That's why as a man, if you are cheating and your wife doesn't bother,accuse or fight you over it even when she knows, please check, she is cheating also 💯

LeoThaGreat:
From my experience in life, when a lady starts accusing a man of cheating, with no evidence to reference, the lady has been cheating.

Know what else? She has dug through the thoroughly and found no evidence of him cheating so as to justify her cheating or be free from the guilt.

It's very toxic remaining, cohabiting, dating, marrying or living with such a person. Breaking up is the way to go.

If you ever find yourself in such situation, don't stay because of what people will say or think, don't stay because of your kids (as you don't want them to have a broken home).

You don't owe people an explanation on why you separated from your spouse (so as to protect stigma against your kids as you'll expose them to ridicule if you expose your spouse)

You also need to be alive to make sure your kids (your very own descendants) do well in life.

Also, (this is my first time saying this ever) run DNA tests on your kids if you guys have any.

BOTTOM LINE:
When your partner starts accusing you of cheating with no evidence or a reference that pricks your conscience, RUN !

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

Wahala oOoOO, naso many ladies telling me God will help us when they don't have a Job. I know of one wey sapa is frustrating her 😅😂🤣.

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

Oga no mind old bachelors like us o. If you get someone wey you convince yasef say dey okay for yasef, marry o.

Abi una don kolo ni? Where we go come dey see wedding party rice chop? This one all of una no wan dey marry again...

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,I for dey cry by now

I am very sure, remaining small, na President Tinubu name we for hear?

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year


If not,I for dey cry by now

U no get plans to marry this ur current banny?

If you experience nagging woman,then you will understand how hell fire looks like,it is better to stay alone than to stay with a nagging woman

Nedu522:
About to divorce due to my wife infidelity

Do you know any chairman / chairmen in charge of her infidelity?
Those eating your food.

Feminist can't relate because no man dey even gree marry them

Marriage is overrated, baby mama is the way to go.

Kikiki,buh Las Las u go still mary. Marriage is sweet bro, not everybody is having a bad time in it.

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,I for dey cry by now

Leave a cheating woman,no excuse whatsoever to remain in that marriage......just run for your life!!

where is my popcorn and cold heineken

Omo! Like this now, I'm about to get divorce. The constant nagging and accusations are too much

As someone who has gone through that phase, I will make a drop on the topic.

Ensure you guys are one another's best friend and confidant. Once the other starts taking advise from outsiders over what you both generally agree on, weeds are being sown. It might first start with good and valid advise and then the manipulation starts. This is quickly followed by challenges over what people said.

Immediately you notice this, sit your partner down and talk heart to heart. If you notice the pattern repeat itself with the same advisor involved, then you have a problem. You either talk to the advisor directly (a wise one would pull back while one with an agenda would double down) or get ready to emotionally lose the one you love but takes an outsider's words as constitution over your relationship.

Not my story but happened to someone I know.
Guy is a very handsome and a natural flirt, his wife made sure she pushed other girlfriends away and ensured they got married. But as a regular ladies man she couldn't stop him from being who he is. 5 years later, she intentionally hacked into his phone and got proof of him cheating, sent screenshot proofs to friends and famly as prood. Then left him, my man begged and tried to make it up to her, but she refused. Before you know it, she has japa'd and is living a new life with the kids. Man is single in Naija, wondering if he should still get married as he edges close to 50. Yeah he messed up but, if he knew he should have just been a single man and continued his flirty life.

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

but u love ur woman wella na

LeoThaGreat:
From my experience in life, when a lady starts accusing a man of cheating, with no evidence to reference, the lady has been cheating.

Know what else? She has dug through the thoroughly and found no evidence of him cheating so as to justify her cheating or be free from the guilt.

It's very toxic remaining, cohabiting, dating, marrying or living with such a person. Breaking up is the way to go.

If you ever find yourself in such situation, don't stay because of what people will say or think, don't stay because of your kids (as you don't want them to have a broken home).

You don't owe people an explanation on why you separated from your spouse (so as to protect stigma against your kids as you'll expose them to ridicule if you expose your spouse)

You also need to be alive to make sure your kids (your very own descendants) do well in life.

Also, (this is my first time saying this ever) run DNA tests on your kids if you guys have any.

BOTTOM LINE:
When your partner starts accusing you of cheating with no evidence or a reference that pricks your conscience, RUN !

A lady who cheats will not care to know if her husband is cheating or not and that’s a woman one should be scared of..

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

this warri man on the beat. enough doings dey your CV. shaa invite us to your trad or tell us when e don finally sup