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NFBI:
I don’t even know why I’m still holding on. I wake up every morning feeling like I’m carrying the weight of the world. My parents are getting older, my siblings depend on me, and my salary doesn’t even cover half of what I owe.

I used to dream of a life where I could breathe, laugh, maybe travel, but now I can barely sleep. I’ve lost friends because I can’t afford to go out. I cry sometimes in the dark, but nobody sees.

I feel invisible. I try to pray, I try to hope, but every day just reminds me that I am alone in this fight. I don’t know how much longer I can keep pretending that I’m okay.

People who have gone through something like this… how did you survive yours in this country?

Na money matter be the problem. So the question is how do you make more money to take care of your needs and have spare to spend or invest.


The money you are earning today is based on the value you bring to the market place. The value you bring to the market place is dependent on the skills you have acquired.

My advice to you is to go learn a skill that is in top demand in any field of your choice.

When you are done learning, use that skill to get a better means of making more money.

Your problem go solve.

otipoju:
Na money matter be the problem. So the question is how do you make more money to take care of your needs and have spare to spend or invest.


The money you are earning today is based on the value you bring to the market place. The value you bring to the market place is dependent on the skills you have acquired.

My advice to you is to go learn a skill that is in top demand in any field of your choice.

When you are done learning, use that skill to get a better means of making more money.

Your problem go solve.

Skills are important, I know. But learning them doesn’t pay the bills immediately. I just want to know..how did people survive theirs?

Hmmmmm ...It got soo much for me that when I see a mad man passing I will wish it was me so I can forget about everything in this life, I see obituary posters and wish I was the one but guess what? ..

As I speak, the coast is not yet clear but remember that their is God up there who crated me and knows what I am passing trough, I still hold on to him with the hope that one day I will be free and live like others if God willing .

Check this out:

(1) When you are counting how many of your mate who have made it in life, don't forget to count the ones in the grave, prison for crimes they know nothing about and are not sure they might regain their freedom, some are in hospitals suffering from various incurable sickness and whish to just be able to rise from their sick bed and walk outside even if it is for a minute.

(2) Person wey get one eye no dey thank God untill him see blind man.....at least you have good health, a job , siblings and parents around you , you just need to thank God and keep pushing.

(3) If God should call everyone on this earth to bring their problem and dump it on a table......how many people do you think will cone?...I bet you that everyone will be their including Elon Musk and Dangote, and I assure you that,if every one drop their problem and God permit us to search and pick any problem that is better for them, you will rush to pick back your problem before someone else will pick it because the problems you will see , your own problem will even be a solution to some people's problem.

So, in every situation thank God my brother and know that there millions of people out their that are wishing to be in your position.

If you are a believer, then go on your kneels and submit your challenges to God and ask him to deal with you according to his will and purpose of creating you....

Don't give up, keep pushing and praying one day God will see you trough ...you are still better than others but the difference between you and some of them is that,they are contented with what they have not that the won't like to grow higher, but they decided not to kill themselves over things they do not have the power to change ...

Ever8090:
Hmmmmm ...It got soo much for me that when I see a mad man passing I will wish it was me so I can forget about everything in this life, I see obituary posters and wish I was the one but guess what? ..

As I speak, the coast is not yet clear but remember that their is God up there who crated me and knows what I am passing trough, I still hold on to him with the hope that one day I will be free and live like others if God willing .

Check this out:

(1) When you are counting how many of your mate who have made it in life, don't forget to count the ones in the grave, prison for crimes they know nothing about and are not sure they might regain their freedom, some are in hospitals suffering from various incurable sickness and whish to just be able to rise from their sick bed and walk outside even if it is for a minute.

(2) Person wey get one eye no dey thank God untill him see blind man.....at least you have good health, a job , siblings and parents around you , you just need to thank God and keep pushing.

(3) If God should call everyone on this earth to bring their problem and dump it on a table......how many people do you think will cone?...I bet you that everyone will be their including Elon Musk and Dangote, and I assure you that,if every one drop their problem and God permit us to search and pick any problem that is better for them, you will rush to pick back your problem before someone else will pick it because the problems you will see , your own problem will even be a solution to some people's problem.

So, in every situation thank God my brother and know that there millions of people out their that are wishing to be in your position.

If you are a believer, then go on your kneels and submit your challenges to God and ask him to deal with you according to his will and purpose of creating you....

Don't give up, keep pushing and praying one day God will see you trough ...you are still better than others but the difference between you and some of them is that,they are contented with what they have not that the won't like to grow higher, but they decided not to kill themselves over things they do not have the power to change ...

God bless you for this bro

You welcome...just keep holding on, as long as your hope is on God, you will one day see the work of God manifest in your life .. doubt will come, anxiety will rise, frustration will come but always run back to God after all that, he knows you are human and bound to get weary ,frustrated and doubt but remember he said when we are weak he will be strong for us, when we are faithless he will remain faithful,he will not deny himself.....just hold on to him no matter what..

NFBI:
God bless you for this bro

Good morning 🙏, I'm here to let you know, I totally understand how you feel, its not really in a good place to be, speaking from experience...
I'm here to encourage you to please be strong and stay true to yourself... Only God sees our heart and know truly how you feel, but please dont giveup, it's a hard phase,but it will pass, just do the best you can do for your family...Speak up and if no one understands, dont push further...
Please dont leave God, keep communicating with the holy spirit in any way you can...
If God can turn things for me, he will do yours too,
Please avoid sin...

Few years I was struggling 😪 😩 with a baby, a God sent on this platform reached out to me,
God bless you sir daddy Enoch
Please dont giveup ok....all will be fine soon 🙏
Help is coming, I will come back here to give back and you will be included.... sending endless ❤️ ♥️ 💓

NFBI:
I don’t even know why I’m still holding on. I wake up every morning feeling like I’m carrying the weight of the world. My parents are getting older, my siblings depend on me, and my salary doesn’t even cover half of what I owe.

I used to dream of a life where I could breathe, laugh, maybe travel, but now I can barely sleep. I’ve lost friends because I can’t afford to go out. I cry sometimes in the dark, but nobody sees.

I feel invisible. I try to pray, I try to hope, but every day just reminds me that I am alone in this fight. I don’t know how much longer I can keep pretending that I’m okay.

People who have gone through something like this… how did you survive yours in this country?

Try to be strong and move more closer to God, am sure God will change your story soon