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Lickinsidetoto3:
If na this sense you take dey cross road ehhh... RIP in advance.. if you know wetin father be.. u go rearrange your words... dirty boy

Lol dumb statement, who forced him to be a father?? Was he not aware of the responsibilities of a father when he was doggying out the lady.
He's a fool, he should either go and work or stop disturbing us online.
I wonder how you guys think.

EdonhappenTv:
"I can't raise this child alone. I need help" Frustrated single father cries out for help from women after his girlfriend abandoned him with their weeks-old baby.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I86FDuZkXLc

This guy looks like an idiot on drugs, makes me not even interested in his jagons! I feel sorry for the innocent child.

uvie66:
....help, from where, when Im dey knack e ask for help.

Na the baby i dey pity oga..

greatseed:
This guy looks like an idiot on drugs, makes me not even interested in his jagons! I feel sorry for the innocent child.

but he was responsible to say the truth and seek help? Stop being a judgemental prick.

fyneboi79:
but he was responsible to say the truth and seek help? Stop being a judgemental prick.

Birds of the same feather! I am not being judgemental, if he was composed & at least talking properly, then he deserves sympathy, but not the non challant way he was expressing himself. My reason

greatseed:
Birds of the same feather! I am not being judgemental, if he was composed & at least talking properly, then he deserves sympathy, but not the non challant way he was expressing himself. My reason

Birds of same feather kee your palle there.

Something single women do daily. Man cries out, indeed.

Content creator

This kind post they vex person. You dey find mumu woman wey you wan deceive. Yeye scope.

Lickinsidetoto3:
If na this sense you take dey cross road ehhh... RIP in advance.. if you know wetin father be.. u go rearrange your words... dirty boy

I b fada also.

Wen hin dey gv her belle weiting hin dey expect.
Mk hin carry hin cross..., we dont care

correctguy101:
Oh.. why do you call him that?

Mk hin carry hin cross.

Wen hin gv her belle, wat was he expecting?

I b fada also.
U plan b4 inviting children into ds world

ImoleNaija:
E no get mother or family members wey fit help?

There is no need for that, he should take care of his blood himself. Nigerian women are yuslez, not wife material and brings absolutely nothing to the table.

U can't raise the child but ur preek can raise

seanery:
Mk hin carry hin cross.

Wen hin gv her belle, wat was he expecting?

I b fada also.
U plan b4 inviting children into ds world

See this man o...

Some of us didn't plan o. We simply went with the flow and gbam, she's pregnant. I didn't plan my first but I was sure I was capable enough to shoulder such happenstance 😁...

But the old boy is not saying he can't care for the child. He's just saying he can't care for the child the way the females know how to. Even me wey dey here, I no go fit o.

A child isn’t content or a test run - it’s a lifelong responsibility.

Carry your Cross bros no panic,when you where pounding no one knows.

This situation shows why parenting should never be taken lightly

👏👏👏👏👏👏😂

EdonhappenTv:
"I can't raise this child alone. I need help" Frustrated single father cries out for help from women after his girlfriend abandoned him with their weeks-old baby.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I86FDuZkXLc

Now single ladies won't volunteer to help the young guy..
Buh if na OS work dem go rush go dey guy handle ..

Where are you?

Please provide your contact.

Kobojunkie:
She made sacrifices to raise him, so she should also make additional sacrifices to raise his child, too? 🥱🥱

2. Oh, he is not a family member and blood equally capable of making similar sacrifices for his own child as his own mother did for him? 🥱🥱

3. So, the father of the child cannot raise the child he wanted to have and impregnated a woman to have? 🥱🥱

What do you know about this person to know his mother never got help to "raise" him as a newborn baby?.

Our mothers know it's dangerous to leave a first-time mother alone with a newborn. It's for this reason we have cultural practices like "Omugwo" so an experienced mother or close relative can stay temporarily to provide critical care and assistance during the most vulnerable period of a baby's life..

This young man, aware he lacks the experience to provide that care, is wisely calling for help to prevent the baby from suffering, and he's willing to pay for it.

Yet people like you, for some strange reason, insist he do it himself. Do you want the baby to suffer the more, or even die, just so you can later blame him for failing at a task he was set up to fail?. That is not empathy. It's cruelty.

We're talking about a newborn, not a 3- year old who can walk and talk. Can you name one first-time mother in this country, or anywhere, who raised her newborn completely alone without any temporary help. You can't.

Even your own mother, when she had you certainly had help from her mother, mother-in-law or a close relative. She did not do it alone. Unless you're prepared to lie about that, your argument crumples. If you insist she did, then sorry to say, she acted irresponsibly by putting your life in severe danger.

A newborn needs all the care in the world to help its fragile brain develop in a way that will not impact its mental health later. And that care can only come from an experienced hand, which is why I believe this young man is begging for help. He is aware of his limitations, which is the first sign of a responsible parent. The baby's constant crying is toxic stress for its development.

correctguy101:
See this man o...

Some of us didn't plan o. We simply went with the flow and gbam, she's pregnant. I didn't plan my first but I was sure I was capable enough to shoulder such happenstance 😁...

But the old boy is not saying he can't care for the child. He's just saying he can't care for the child the way the females know how to. Even me wey dey here, I no go fit o.

You have spoken well ,and it shows you have empathy and are reasonable.

triplechoice:
➜What do you know about this person to know his mother never got help to "raise" him as a newborn baby?.
Our mothers know it's dangerous to leave a first-time mother alone with a newborn. It's for this reason we have cultural practices like "Omugwo" so an experienced mother or close relative can stay temporarily to provide critical care and assistance during the most vulnerable period of a baby's life..
This young man, aware he lacks the experience to provide that care, is wisely calling for help to prevent the baby from suffering, and he's willing to pay for it.
Yet people like you, for some strange reason, insist he do it himself. Do you want the baby to suffer the more, or even die, just so you can later blame him for failing at a task he was set up to fail?. That is not empathy. It's cruelty.
We're talking about a newborn, not a 3- year old who can walk and talk. Can you name one first-time mother in this country, or anywhere, who raised her newborn completely alone without any temporary help. You can't.
Even your own mother, when she had you certainly had help from her mother, mother-in-law or a close relative. She did not do it alone. Unless you're prepared to lie about that, your argument crumples. If you insist she did, then sorry to say, she acted irresponsibly by putting your life in severe danger.
A newborn needs all the care in the world to help its fragile brain develop in a way that will not impact its mental health later. And that care can only come from an experienced hand, which is why I believe this young man is begging for help. He is aware of his limitations, which is the first sign of a responsible parent. The baby's constant crying is toxic stress for its development.

Could you ever quit with the useless storytelling? 🥱🥱🥱

So elder female family members no get work to do?

OlujobaSamuel:
E no get older female family members??

Kobojunkie:
Could you ever quit with the useless storytelling? 🥱🥱🥱

If the wellbeing of an innocent newborn is "useless storytelling to you, then nothing left to discuss with you. My concern remains with the child. Yours, it seems, is with scoring cheap points as well as protecting your ego.

Hopefully, men will have more respect for single mothers.
By the time he bonds with the child for 1 month, his priorities of running the streets and chasing skirts will be eradicated.
My father was a single custodial parent of 4 children.
He lost his life raising all 4 children himself.
My mom was always around to check up on us, but was not enough to save him from financial and emotional ruin.

More women should have the courage to leave their children with the fathers.
So they will have more consideration and empathy for women.
Unless it is unsafe to do so.

KanwuliaExtra:
Hopefully, men will have more respect for single mothers.
By the time he bonds with the child for 1 month, his priorities of running the streets and chasing skirts will be eradicated.
My father was a single custodial parent of 4 children.
He lost his life raising all 4 children himself.
My mom was always around to check up on us, but was not enough to save him from financial and emotional ruin.

More women should have the courage to leave their children with the fathers.
So they will have more consideration and empathy for women.
Unless it is unsafe to do so.

Ignoring the fact that the newborn need urgent experienced care to make your point is cruelty redirected at the most vulnerable person in this story.

In fact, your own story supports the need for help. You say your mother was "always around to check up". That means your father did have a form of support and guidance to raise you and your siblings.. That's exactly what this man is begging and willing to pay for: the temporary hands-on help that your father had and that our culture institutionalises as "Omugwo"

Your goal , that men gain more empathy for mothers, is a worthy one. But this should not come at the cost of the baby's immediate safety and healthy brain development.

triplechoice:
But this should not come at the cost of the baby's immediate safety and healthy brain development.

Ignoring the fact that the newborn need urgent experienced care to make your point is cruelty redirected at the most vulnerable person in this story.

In fact, your own story supports the need for help. You say your mother was "always around to check up". That means your father did have a form of support and guidance to raise you and your siblings.. That's exactly what this man is begging and willing to pay for: the temporary hands-on help that your father had and that our culture institutionalises as "Omugwo"

Your goal , that men gain more empathy for mothers, is a worthy one. But this should not come at the cost of the baby's immediate safety and healthy brain development.

Good! He should go and bring his mama to help. My father did. In fact, we were raised by my grandmother.

Shikena!