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gerizzim:
Why not ask the mother in-law to quit the place Dan destroying the building.

t he land may not be his, so quick justice

Dtruthspeaker:
Baba is correct ooo. This is the result when love is burnt. Exactly what God has to do those He loved who now rubbished it

Somehow, una know how to belittle this una God without even knowing it.

See comparison na.

SMH

Jagermeister:
What would I have done differently? Question should be what would I have done to make the message clearer… perhaps set the house plus the land on fire..

God almighty destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah after he was betrayed, e come be small bungalow.

Lol 😂

I feel sad for the mother but experience has thought some men bitter lessons.Women can be very ungrateful.A woman would ask a man that has been supportive to her and her family, about what he has ever done for her.It can be quite frustrating and overwhelming for some men to move on.The people that helped me, when l left home to fend for myself are still special in my mind.Although we don't meet any longer,l still hold them dear and pray for them because l know they helped out when l needed it most.But most of you women would turn around and insult a man that has shaped your life from nothing.Men have the highest rate of suicide globally, heart diseases, mental health problems,Type 2 diabetes and other chronic ailments.Some of these diseases are partly caused by issues with their spouses or long-term partners.

kolafolabi:
His feelings are valid, but demolishing the house was wrong. Pain explains behavior, but it does not excuse it.

True.

But na the man know where the thing dey pain am.

Even gentle me sometimes dey lose my cool. Let alone you people

The land is not likely his own

gerizzim:
Why not ask the mother in-law to quit the place Dan destroying the building.

gerizzim:
Why not ask the mother in-law to quit the place Dan destroying the building.

Probably the woman own the land he just developed it

Is there no child or children in their relationship, then I will not use my own to demolished what are use my money to build, for me I will just leave the building for them,the shame is on their side,I have to strong believe that my God I am worshipping will not put me to shame,he will provide and bless me abundantly and give me my own soul mate,who stay with me till end

He should be given man of the year award

accused:
I just love what this guy did,let the dream man the daughter has found build her dream home .this gender I no understand at all

He is not a matured man.
Men with class would move on, irrespective of the situation.

gerizzim:
Why not ask the mother in-law to quit the place Dan destroying the building.

Na yahoo boy, they just like wasting money

Thank God I don't give a damn about a woman's family. I married her, not her mother or her family. They have collected their only and final entitlement during the traditional wedding.

I don't object to their daughter spending her money on them but she dare not make such proposal to me. The fact that they call me " stingy and irresponsible man" delights my soul. I am not financially responsible for them and I will never be.

The tears is unending when you spend on them and the woman quit. Ask Epa. Only a weak man does that anyway because the only way to they that can penetrate a woman is money.

Mariangeles:
Honestly, I don't know what to say to this.

On one hand, this is wrong, on the other, it's his money.

I know a family whose son in-law abandoned the house he was building for them when he and their daughter separated.
He already did it up to lintel level.
Now, they're completing the house.

did you get educated, whose property is it? if it is his own then it is fine else, if the property is his mother in-law's name, then he should be arrested.

gerizzim:
Why not ask the mother in-law to quit the place Dan destroying the building.

To pay for the land?

What a man of nightmare can do, a dream man can do better. 😂

What if the dream man is Dangote? 😂

An eye for an eye.

So he wasnt the man of her dreams but she allowed him make commitment this huge?
Sounds like a case of betrayal of trust.

Imagine if the man of her dreams no come marry her again...

Dtruthspeaker:
Baba is correct ooo. This is the result when love is burnt. Exactly what God has to do those He loved who now rubbished it

And later you say G is Love...
No he is not, we are all a reflection of sky diddy

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Marvieduke:
#divorce - Man Demolished House Built For Mother In-law After Divorce



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She did him strong thing

Marvieduke:
#divorce - Man Demolished House Built For Mother In-law After Divorce



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Just being wasteful,could have asked her to move out instead...also his move isn't matured,will he return all the prayers that was prayed for him on the day he gave her the house for a gift??

He did not complete the demolition sef...
See as he remain the roof

Marvieduke:
#divorce - Man Demolished House Built For Mother In-law After Divorce



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The man of her dreams don enter wahala because everyone will expecting him to do something like provide a place or build another house.

Not Necessary, A man like this hardly moves on, Seek happiness and make peace within yourself so anger won't destroy you! Taking back everything will only create an unending hatred btw both parties

tunjijones:
If I am the one, after they complete the house, I will tell them the I want to collect my land ...

That's the thing; the house was built on their family land, in their village.

I agree with those above that said the new side guy should step up. Will he actually marry the woman and also build her mom a better adobe or will he be the village pariah with everyone looking and walking past that pile of rubble.

alobright17:
you guys just Dey talk anyhow. What if na village land that belongs to the mother in law’s family, the guy will tell him to quit ?

violent Boy, drink a cup of chilled water to cool ur temper. You read to comprehend . Not read to attack. I only opined.

by the way,are you a next door neighbor to dt woman? I wouldn't have replied you if truly the land belongs to the village

Let me take you to class boy.
if you understand the meaning of the word "if" you used then you shud have not used it at all in your sentence you constructed.

"If" means probable, probably, not sure or certain.
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so none of us here online knows who owns the land .

Marvieduke:
#divorce - Man Demolished House Built For Mother In-law After Divorce



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Bros please sell d land 2

Mariangeles:
Honestly, I don't know what to say to this.

On one hand, this is wrong, on the other, it's his money.

I know a family whose son in-law abandoned the house he was building for them when he and their daughter separated.
He already did it up to lintel level.
Now, they're completing the house.

What a very foolish son in-law.

House he was supposed to take back and sell out to recover his money? What a very foolish young man.

The new guy go de talk say which kind wahala e put e hand ...cos the poverty family will be expecting him to build a duplex floor pepper the ex ... throwey money for used item

I love this act so much

His a weak man

Nackzy:
Strong Man the alpha man