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ChoCho54:
Nairaland red piller! Online tiger! If one takes a closer look, na woman dey feed you.

Let a real nicca educate you. Every woman is not a ho but every ho is a woman. Where do you belong ? A real woman or a ho ?

You can make a real woman a Housewife but you can't make a ho a housewife. The 305s never

Jagabanfromcali:
BS , never had any respect for abati , knew he was never up to it , just propelled by the establishment, never a good measure of a man , imagine a twice divorced woman with all the lies she is spitting out , we go soon hear that abati is a one minute man when this one packs up

The abati himself is not a good man now, or is because he on TV or a journalist?

SixSeven:
The man who marries a beautiful woman is like the man who plants maize on the roadside.

He is not likely to eat the maize alone!! Harry and Meghan!!!

DatNiggaDaz:


Let a real nicca educate you. Every woman is not a ho but every ho is a woman. Where do you belong ? A real woman or a ho ?

You can make a real woman a Housewife but you can't make a ho a housewife. The 305s never

Abeg go Siddon. Jasper!

DatNiggaDaz:


E be like say you be one for real life. Because i actually don't see how my comment upset you except you are one

Hos can't feed real niccas

You think I'm upset because I saw into you. Leemao.

Who cares?

If you like, be with Hitler before finally settling for your SIMPle man

No one cares

Nonsense

ChoCho54:
You think I'm upset because I saw into you. Leemao.

No. You are sadly upset cos you are one

ChoCho54:
Abeg go Siddon. Jasper!

304s & 305s

Freshandfitpod:
Abati ended up being the $!mp, the left over man after all the juice have dried up. I shake my head

Your statement only makes sense of this is Reuben Abati's wife of his youth.
This is his third wife, nothing simp in it. It's a case of a divorcee meeting a polygamist.

Abati said he's a struggling journalist...lol.
If you were not the popular and renowned Rueben Abati do you think she would have considered marrying you? Infact, let your brand value drop then you will regret saying what you just said.

“You must find somebody who will align with your journey.


Let me not say what is on my mind.

“You must find somebody who will align with your journey.


Hope she wasn't refering to Nigerian girls sha...

She's a fine woman.

Probably no older than 35.

Looking at this exotic madam, I remembered The Rapper , the late Black Rob once said . . . . . . .

I suspect one of her former husband is here spilling hate and liking negative comments . Well then , are you the gay-briel or the womaniser ?

Freshandfitpod:
That was why she kept jumping from one man to another. She is a promiscuous woman.

Ha
Fear God

Abati himself has a reputation...
Of being a prolific journalist

[quote author=Freshandfitpod post=138377007]Abati ended up being the $!mp, the left over man after all the juice have dried up. I shake my u]
As the 3rd wife??

C'mon!

Jagabanfromcali:
BS , never had any respect for abati , knew he was never up to it , just propelled by the establishment, never a good measure of a man , imagine a twice divorced woman with all the lies she is spitting out , we go soon hear that abati is a one minute man when this one packs up

They're both in their 3rd marriages with children from those unions, they're a perfect fit for each other. I initially thought she settled to be a 3rd wife but it turned out that Abati divorced his first and 2nd wives before marrying her. A union between 2 serial divorcees ehnnn, make we no hear stories that touch in the nearest future.

motymop:
when a simp marries a fair woman, they think they have arrived.

i have been seeing a certain pattern, it is either these old men are obsessed with fair women

infact another example is the way they treat bianca, like they literally worship her, i have nothing against her but these men think she is the only beautiful woman in nigeria, i am 100% sure she can never date any of these simp men.

The world is full of simps.
Alpha men like us are rare.

Look at me this morning without filters and without enhancement and without makeup and in natural light.
And Abati says I am older than him.

dominique:
How I ended up with a philanderer, gay man, before marrying Reuben Abati – Kikelomo Atanda-Owo

Kikelomo Atanda-Owo, the wife of veteran journalist Reuben Abati, has spoken about her previous failed marriages.



https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/naija-fashion/854606-how-i-ended-up-with-a-philanderer-gay-man-before-marrying-reuben-abati-kikelomo-atanda-owo.html

She slept with 2 men even more before rueben abati

TechBaron:

“You must find somebody who will align with your journey.


Hope she wasn't refering to Nigerian girls sha...

You can't go on a journey without money with this kind of woman

Freshandfitpod:
Abati ended up being the $!mp, the left over man after all the juice have dried up. I shake my head

Simp for where... Na Abati 3rd wife ooo.. Na just top up Abati dey do .....

SixSeven:
This statement is more ignorant than true. It’s a subjective, dismissive remark using slang and metaphor to ridicule Abati’s romantic choice. You are telling divorcees how to pick leftovers and extract juice. You never see anything for this life. Inexperience clings to rules, experience knows value cannot be timed.

Life will humble you. Just wait your turn.

Well said He doesn't know yet, little time will tell! Let him keep judging & making assumptions there

motymop:
and this life will humble you..just wait for your turn is a quote by less previledge people, it is this type of quote that put them in a box.

Life gives us our examination questions differently. You will answer yours, I will answer mine. Until then, I can always review past questions and call the past candidates olodo till e reach my turn

motymop:
you guys will just be quoting old school quotes, that does not even make sense

she is just a light skin woman, i do not see any beauty

I asked AI to help me give you a response because in Africa, proverbs are considered VIP and a passage to adulthood. The machine was giving me biblical passages until I told it to relax, African proverb na palm oil. Let's go!



Depending on the context, there are several famous proverbs and biblical verses regarding those who "do not understand."

Most Common Sayings
A. The Persian Proverb on Four Types of People: A classic breakdown of knowledge and awareness often attributed to Persian or Arabian wisdom:
“He who knows not, and knows not that he knows not, is a fool—shun him.”

“He who knows not, and knows that he knows not, is simple—teach him.”

“He who knows, and knows not that he knows, is asleep—waken him.”

“He who knows, and knows that he knows, is wise—follow him.”

B. Silence and Words: A popular quote (often misattributed to J.R.R. Tolkien or others) states:
“He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words.”

C. Biblical Proverbs
The Book of Proverbs frequently contrasts the "wise" with the "foolish" (or "brutish" based on their desire for understanding:
Proverbs 18:2: "A fool has no delight in understanding, but only in expressing his own heart" (or "airing his opinions". This refers to someone more interested in talking than learning.

Proverbs 30:2: "Surely I am more brutish than any man, and have not the understanding of a man." This is a humble admission by Agur, acknowledging that human wisdom is limited before God.

Proverbs 30:18: "There are three things which are too wonderful for me, yes, four which I do not understand." This verse highlights the awe-inspiring mysteries of the natural world.

Proverbs 3:5: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding." One of the most famous verses, advising against relying solely on human intellect.


I was going to remove the above but I liked them. They had their own wisdom. Now, this is the African response.

In African traditions, especially among the Igbo people of Nigeria, there is a deep cultural belief regarding those who do not understand proverbs.

A. The Most Relevant Proverb
The saying often follows this logic:
"He who does not understand a proverb is like a child who hasn't been born yet."
Meaning: In many African cultures, proverbs are seen as the "palm-oil with which words are eaten" (a famous quote by Chinua Achebe). To miss the meaning of a proverb is to miss the essence of wisdom and social intelligence.

B. Other Related African Sayings
Knowledge of Ancestors: "One who knows no proverbs does not know the ancestors". This emphasizes that proverbs are the vessel for cultural heritage and the wisdom of those who came before.

Ignorance and Perception: "To the one who does not know, a small garden is a forest". This suggests that a lack of understanding makes simple things seem overwhelming or mysterious.

The Fool vs. The Wise: "The wise create proverbs for fools to learn, not to repeat". It cautions against just memorizing words without understanding their deeper application to life.

Limited Vision: "When you show a child the moon, it sees only your finger". This is used for those who lack the maturity or insight to see the "bigger picture" being pointed out.

C. The "Palm-Oil" Metaphor
In Chinua Achebe’s Things Fall Apart, proverbs are compared to palm oil because they make "unsavory" or difficult truths easier to "digest". If someone doesn't understand the proverb, they are essentially trying to eat "dry" words, which is seen as a lack of social grace and maturity.

I hope this helps but I can predict a response to which I leave you with the words of Bruce Lee. I see that he too has combined old words in his sayings. Have a nice day my friend

So na remnant Reuben Abati dey chop. Na wa o.

The one you are with is not even your husband...Abati won't survive this

Freshandfitpod:
Abati ended up being the $!mp, the left over man after all the juice have dried up. I shake my head

You are very wicked