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Woman Divorces Husband Because Of Culture Shock That Involves Death Of Husband If The Wife Cheats, But No Death When The Man Cheats.

According to her, "anything can happen".

Watch the video via this link below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7sbPF6zSrAY?si=SwSBAZ8IGY7E8_C8

Wait till she clocks 60! And, we shall return to whatever it is I didn't watch.

Are there still people who watch this kind of video because of the kind of caption used here?

If I want to watch videos, I will go straight to a video platform.

....la click la oloshomole, wait a minute

Arochukwu in Abia has that culture of severe consequences when a wife cheats, but when the man cheats, nothing happens.

Death is the only constant thing in life that equals all human beings.

Tradition that feeds on fear will one day starve on truth because a home that threatens death cannot teach loyalty but fear. As much as I want to be ethical and tell you it's wrong for anyone to cheat, the reality is that life is not fair and we know who is affected the most. Some of these laws were written for inheritance, not for fairness. It's just like someone who says a man should live in his in-laws house when there are proverbs that warn against it. So if that his wife dies, what does her family do the man (widower)? Send him back? Customs and traditions protect the future first, even when the present bleeds. We all want order, that's why they had many of these things as deterrent to prevent people from the disruption of social order.

When a child is born, the mother is known but the father must be proven. Our people were not ready for confusion, no DNA so they came up with another proverb that only a mother knows the father! This is still true today if you watch paternity cases, despite DNA and advancement in tech. The elders punished where they were certain, not where guessing began because lineage fears confusion. Some of the judgment they served then is now called jungle justice. Bear in mind that we have a lot of traditional families and they didn't want a bastaaard to inherit the throne.

There is a popular case on Justice Funmi's show. You now understand why they say only a mother knows the father. If you listened to the woman alone, you would have made your own wrong conclusions and convicted the guy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bfy9hr-zf_I

But when the guy came to give his story, you now understand the wisdom of our fathers that it's only an old foooool who judges by listening to one side alone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPjKmVkw-jU

I am just trying to remind women that the reality of their promiscuity is more dangerous than the reality for men. Call it unfair but that's the reality.

Have we thought of why parents focus on the girl child more than the boys? The womb is the doorway of ancestry, so it bears the heaviest lock. The best way mothers knew then was fear that's why they said if you slept with a boy you will die

What enters the house through the woman stays for generations. A man’s mistake shames him but a woman’s mistake reshapes the clan. That's why even if a man did OS, by the time he repents, he will find a virgin to marry. Same cannot be said of a woman. Call it double standards but its the reality of life. That's why I said there's ethics, there's reality of the morality and there's understanding of why we do things because....

A man’s doubt sleeps in his mind but a woman’s doubt sleeps in the child.
Everything is just to protect women from giving us children we are not sure who the father is or causing confusion by breaking social order

The culture is weird indeed, there should be consequences for both.

Aunty wey mumu bodi go still tell you



The women folk is just plain silly! For all the risk we take as men to fend and cater for the family, risk of early death and all the stress involved and all that pains them is man's need to be polygamous?

What freedom do you want as a woman being provided for? Na so you free for ya papa house? Conform to a man's authority or stay with your father!

His own consequence is already death whenever the wife cheats on him 🤷🏽‍♀️

LabStores:


The culture is weird indeed, there should be consequences for both.

Na intentions make her run.

This one no just get single sense. Were you planning to cheat on him before?

This is how my Urhobo culture is .... If a wife cheats, the man will start having some bad omen and he can loose one of his children if they are infants or still little due to illness. He may die too if the cheating continues with her under his roof and she will not die o o. If the husband cheats nothing happens at all. Some times the husband will even have good luck from cheating on his wife

I no dey believe all this kind mumu talk.

This practice is rooted in Igala culture

It would have been a sensible culture if the person that cheats pay the ultimate price .

Na Olosho woman.
Another man go still marry this one ?

Reasoning of an olosho and runz girl that see marriage as retirement.
Many may assume after She don born pikin for first husband na then she reason the matter.

That means she can't trust herself and hold her body in any marriage. Her point could be a reason why she is cheating on her current husband since nothing will happen to him if she sleeps around anytime she likes.

nlfpmod:
Arochukwu in Abia has that culture of severe consequences when a wife cheats, but when the man cheats, nothing happens.

because western ideology deceived modern men ...all of humans history, man has always been expected to have more than 1 woman...and women never saw it as a problem... Solomon, David all had different women ... women never saw it as a problem...

So, if you despise your husband so much, and want him dead - just go and cheat.

While nothing happens to the wife or the husband when the husband cheats.


The gods are ;Dümb sometimes, if not all the time.

Way to go...... Nobody is allowed to die, from cheating...... Let's cheat in peace....... 😂🤣✌️

Almost always women from the south. The woke culture in the south is seriously eroding shame and traditional values that we once revere so much. It scares me so much to marry from the south.

She divorced him not because he cheated or he abused her, but because she finds out that if she cheats in the future, there'll be consequences. She ran because she doesn't trust herself not to cheat.
She's definitely a ho and belongs to the streets. Good riddance to b@d rúɓɓish.

nlfpmod:
Arochukwu in Abia has that culture of severe consequences when a wife cheats, but when the man cheats, nothing happens.

When we tell you people marriage was an institution men created for themselves and themselves only, una no go gree.

Now, time and modern ways has started eating at the whole thing. Modern woman no gree again o...

Lols

nlfpmod:
Arochukwu in Abia has that culture of severe consequences when a wife cheats, but when the man cheats, nothing happens.

So long as there is no death with the wife... It should not bother her

She should have said she wasn't in love with the man , when a woman isn't in love, na different flimsy excuse...

GIFTEDPLANNERS:
This is how my Urhobo culture is .... If a wife cheats, the man will start having some bad omen and he can loose one of his children if they are infants or still little due to illness. He may die too if the cheating continues with her under his roof and she will not die o o. If the husband cheats nothing happens at all. Some times the husband will even have good luck from cheating on his wife

Your Urhobo. Not mine. All does has since been extinct. Are you entering marriage to cheat before. Why should it bother you

EmperorIsaac:
Wait till she clocks 60! And, we shall return to whatever it is I didn't watch.

Lool....how can u threaten her with a good time. So happy women of these days are giving men their trash back.....Its also been statistically proven that men suffer from old age loneliness and abandonment much more than women do. And no, it's not about money.

Ps I'm a firm believer that men need women and vice versa and every party deserves love, mutual understanding and respect.

Lexusgs430:
Way to go...... Nobody is allowed to die, from cheating...... Let's cheat in peace....... 😂🤣✌️

EOD... Let people that want to cheat, do it in peace. The highest na divorce

fyneboi79:
Aunty wey mumu bodi go still tell you



The women folk is just plain silly! For all the risk we take as men to fend and cater for the family, risk of early death and all the stress involved and all that pains them is man's need to be polygamous?

What freedom do you want as a woman being provided for? Na so you free for ya papa house? Conform to a man's authority or stay with your father!

Funny thing is...

Most lazy boned women wants the authority of the male yet run from the responsibilities of the male.

Una no dey see man wey run from his responsibilities? How e life dey be? Na so you go end up as a woman if you run from ya responsibility and do wetin nature no send you.

Truth is...

Modern ways are harmful on matters like these.

Our women are mothers and queens and should be treated as such. Our men are fathers and Kings and should receive corresponding acknowledgement.

But today, our supposed queens and kings are so lost, they do things that makes them unworthy of such titles and the benefits that come with them.

Everything suffers because of deviation from the norm.

Smh