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Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by bmd1010(op): 9:08am On Feb 09

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=splOiuhOgdw?si=BFHKiZGuIyBuwyBy

Drama as woman refuses to allow her husband’s second wife into the house, says she stood by him through poverty and he secretly married the lady

A Gambian woman has refused to allow her husband’s second wife into the house, saying she stood by him when he had nothing, only for him to betray her by marrying another lady without informing her.

According to a Gambian news portal, the woman said she accepted her husband and stood by him through poverty.

“After she helped him build himself up, he secretly married a second wife without informing her. That is why she will not accept her home,” the report says.
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Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Samantha125(f): 11:09am On Feb 09
I sense some hypocrisy coming from her, You can't be a practicing muslimah married to a Muslim man and act betrayed when he takes another wife knowing very well that Islam consents to men marrying more than one wife.

If perhaps she doesn't like the other woman's personality, then she should've helped her husband in searching for another woman whose personality resonates with hers to be her sister wife.
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Diamond098454(f):
It's there culture and she should get ready to welcome more because her husband is entitled to marry 4 or 7 wives
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by mecuries(m): 1:14pm On Feb 09
Isn't this act permitted in their religion?... What is the point in the woman wearing a hijab if she doesn't adhere to it's practice
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by SpaceX: 3:30pm On Feb 09
Let her go and marry another man and bring him in, so 50/50
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by vdestro: 5:00pm On Feb 09
See them, awon native side òcùkòò don come thread. 2nd or 15th wife una no go see, na so so use and dump in dorty dump.
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by AllBlack: 6:01pm On Feb 09
that man better be sleeping with his 2 eyes wide open.

He should also remove everything that looks like a KNIFE far from the house before SOMEONE cuts off his PIPE
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by bmd1010(op): 7:53pm On Feb 09
AllBlack:
that man better be sleeping with his 2 eyes wide open.

He should also remove everything that looks like a KNIFE far from the house before SOMEONE cuts off his PIPE
lol abi
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by teeteepeejay: 9:58am On Feb 10
Samantha125:
I sense some hypocrisy coming from her, You can't be a practicing muslimah married to a Muslim man and act betrayed when he takes another wife knowing very well that Islam consents to men marrying more than one wife.

If perhaps she doesn't like the other woman's personality, then she should've helped her husband in searching for another woman whose personality resonates with hers to be her sister wife.
Lol. I somewhat agree with you on this.
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by kpresh: 9:58am On Feb 10
Sorry men we gonna be good
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Mrtaye: 9:58am On Feb 10
Samantha125:
I sense some hypocrisy coming from her, You can't be a practicing muslimah married to a Muslim man and act betrayed when he takes another wife knowing very well that Islam consents to men marrying more than one wife.

If perhaps she doesn't like the other woman's personality, then she should've helped her husband in searching for another woman whose personality resonates with hers to be her sister wife.
Na so the matter be gaan gaan
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Chibuzoc(m): 9:59am On Feb 10
This woman just committed haram. In Pakistan or Afghanistan the woman might be stoned to death even in Abegistan the matter de long
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Day169: 10:00am On Feb 10
(.. in Portable's voice) Wahala Wahala! cheesy
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by oweniwe(m): 10:00am On Feb 10
Samantha125:
I sense some hypocrisy coming from her, You can't be a practicing muslimah married to a Muslim man and act betrayed when he takes another wife knowing very well that Islam consents to men marrying more than one wife.

If perhaps she doesn't like the other woman's personality, then she should've helped her husband in searching for another woman whose personality resonates with hers to be her sister wife.
Read again...

She was not informed...
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Btruth: 10:01am On Feb 10
She is fighting for her right. The man overdo without informing her now, a bi? 🤷
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Sccarrr(m): 10:01am On Feb 10
Chibuzoc:
This woman just committed haram
low-key you wish u can marry more than one, alabosi🥱
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by BOOZELEE: 10:03am On Feb 10
Dis set of people sef

No money instead of managing dem lean change dem go use am marry more wives dey breed like rats.later for future dem pikin go dey constitute nuisance to society
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by BossDante: 10:03am On Feb 10

Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Chibuzoc(m): 10:04am On Feb 10
Sccarrr:
low-key you wish u can marry more than one, alabosi🥱
Why marry two when you can’t take care of one ehn aboki
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by AZControversial: 10:04am On Feb 10
undecided

Some men just know how to create problems for themselves
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by dcncorniels3377: 10:06am On Feb 10
huhjust as the religion demands
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by AdolfHitlerxXx: 10:06am On Feb 10
Hehehe. She never sabi her men.

The husband will use it as an excuse to finally chase her completely.

More space for quota of 4.

Divorce culture in the North is crazy. Especially in Kano.

Saw men divorce their wives over tea being too cold. Talaq, Talaq and Talaq... You don land for your Papa house.

Only there will you see a man divorce a pregnant woman. She too as soon she can force the baby to wean, she can go and drop off the baby at their gate even with the maiguard!

Where I come from, you will be forced to stay with her at least till after she delivers.

In Kano, I know a rich man whose first 2 wives are safe because they are his cousins and the extended family wouldn't take it. The other wives 3 &4, soon as they get pregnant, they seem to irritate him because he divorces them. He's done this over 20 times. I know a Bauchi woman with 9 different husbands. 3 of them on the same street shocked

Divorce isn't stigmatized and women use their fathers names so it's easy to hide if you don't do your homework.

I was house hunting at a point and saw a very well furnished apartment. Was wondering about the brand new electronics when agent told it was a couple who married 3 months previously but before moving into the house, they had divorced.

Side-pieces aren't really permitted, you marry her in, unlike Southern men get away with. But Northern men will marry a specific lady simply to taste the sugar. 6 months after when she's shown she can't even lay the bed... She gets her 3 Talaqs.
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Samantha125(f): 10:06am On Feb 10
Still, she a practicing muslimah married to a Muslim husband, what was she expecting?
oweniwe:
Read again...

She was not informed...
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Emu4life(m): 10:07am On Feb 10
Wahalurrr gringringrin

Why u wa pack dem for house like Sardinehuh

Any man that wants tonpractice Polyandry should have funds to get the wives separate house. It's preposterous to deprive a Woman of her privacy
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by hassinho707(m): 10:07am On Feb 10
Diamond098454:
It's there culture and she should get ready to welcome more because her husband is in tittle to marry 4 or 7 wives
a Muslim is entitled to 4 wives..,. Not more than 4
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by free2ryhme: 10:11am On Feb 10
bmd1010:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=splOiuhOgdw?si=BFHKiZGuIyBuwyBy



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I support the woman scatter everywhere in fact scatter the marriage 🤣🤣🤣
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by Sccarrr(m): 10:12am On Feb 10
Chibuzoc:
Why marry two when you can’t take care of one ehn aboki
you have a point tho👍🏻, cos I saw a video last week where children dey chop left over for one party in the East....and na those wey marry one be that o🫡
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by muyico(m): 10:13am On Feb 10
Congratulations 👏🎉 to her
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by bigpicture001: 10:23am On Feb 10
Samantha125:
I sense some hypocrisy coming from her, You can't be a practicing muslimah married to a Muslim man and act betrayed when he takes another wife knowing very well that Islam consents to men marrying more than one wife.

If perhaps she doesn't like the other woman's personality, then she should've helped her husband in searching for another woman whose personality resonates with hers to be her sister wife.
It's not about religious tolerance, nits about being informed.. Islam also per it divorce..

If he has informed her, sh was will and have time to either accept her new status or divorce..

This one, the man is imposing a new wife on her...

Sh can go to court!
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by grandstar(m): 10:24am On Feb 10
You're saying rubbish.

Islam endorses polygamy.

The sooner she accepts her lot in life, the sooner, the better.

She coufld protest in other ways such as leaving her matrimonial home, or outright divorce.

Some women will never accept another woman no matter the religion.
Re: Betrayed First Wife Refuses To Welcome Husband’s Second Wife Into Their Home by grandstar(m): 10:24am On Feb 10
You're saying rubbish.

Islam endorses polygamy.

The sooner she accepts her lot in life, the sooner, the better.

She coufld protest in other ways such as leaving her matrimonial home, or outright divorce.

Some women will never accept another woman no matter the religion.

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