₦airaland Forum

maasoap:
The woman is already dead, she can't say what happened. I only picked holes in the man's claims. He had a voice when the woman was alive, what happened to that voice at the time?
He just remembered now to speak up, right? We saw how people cried out whenever their ex tried to block them from having access access to the kids

angelboy01:
The question you should ask yourself is that did any of what the man said is true?

People like you who carry woman for head usually get the most burnt.

How can someone who resides and work in the UK to be coming to Nigerian court to fight for custody?

He Probably wanted the best for his kids to even settle in the UK

but the woman's infidelity and selfishness made her deny her kids good life.

Abi you didn't read where he said he met her with a well known musician in a hotel with towel tied. That man is still alive and why hasn't he come out to debunk it?

maasoap:
Any of it could be true but any of it could be a lie too.


Carry woman for head because I picked holes in his story? My position is about humanity and dignity while yours and other men is about men supporting fellow man. That's clearly wrong. That man lacks dignity and no man should support what he did.
For me, it is even about how he neglected his own kids all these years.


Fight? Court? No! All what he had to do was to let the kid see him trying his best to be present in their lives. Make himself visible, felt, seen.


No, he didn't want the best for them because of his hatred for their mother. He only turned up now that the person he hated has died.


One. What made you think that they're not having good life? All Nigerians must be in UK or USA before they can be said to have good life even if they are working like slaves, right? You need change your mentality. If the kids want him now in their lives, they have opportunity now.


The report said he himself has remarried. Is it only him that deserves happiness and free to do what he likes?

angelboy01:
Oga rest from this talk.

Na woman suppose dey follow me yarn this.

If you get issue with your papa, go and settle with him and if you can't, carry the hatred to grave. Na una wahala be that. Bye.

maasoap:
May be you should.


This is your problem, men vs women.


You're the one sounding like you have issue with your mother now because you refused to look at this issue objectively like I'm doing.

opeldavid:
I hope you are not depressed 😔

Please reach out or talk to someone matured and reasonable.
If possible go see a counsellor.

iichidodo:
It's just hot emotions at play here and to some extent the dad deserves such as he was quite tactless on that occasion and couldn't read the room, be that as it may,they will see the need to go back to their genealogy not for their sake but children and children's children ..

correctguy101:
Especially the son. He'll one day find that he's beginning to understand his father. Women would surely psut him in that position.

Ordinary my friend wey dey do supervisor at one IKOYI big house, he decided to stay at the island until weekends to cut transport. Baba don begin go house everyday now. Reason is, his wife dey tell his children say their papa dey island dey enjoy himself with other women. Na his youngest daughter mistakenly voice the thing wey e hear. No be small quarrel for his house that period. I too follow beg am to forgive madam😁...

You wey decide to marry, be ready for wahala if ya woman na problem person.

maasoap:
The woman is already dead, she can't say what happened. I only picked holes in the man's claims. He had a voice when the woman was alive, what happened to that voice at the time?
He just remembered now to speak up, right? We saw how people cried out whenever their ex tried to block them from having access access to the kids

Tenses:
That's what the powers of this world want you to. Give up on humanity.

Don't let them win. Strive to find good in even the most loathsome person.

goslowgoslow:
Mr you are too little to teach me Yourba, I am a full-fledged Yoruba and I am sure you weren't in this life when I started talking.
I was making reference to the use of the name as a kind of "nickname" so if you don't understand my comment go to sleep.

Namaster:
ALL of them are like that.

Once a marriage BREAKS down, they go to work on expertly BRAINWASHING the children against their father.

Someone SNATCHED kids away from their father in the UK to come tough it out here in Nigeria.
ALL because the man was UNWILLING to tolerate her infidelity.

God bless you

She ROBBED the kids of the OPPORTUNITY to live in a decent country with the possibility of CITIZENSHIP.

Also, the husband FORKED UP.

When you break up your marriage to a GOSPEL SINGER because of her INFIDELITY, NEVER be civil about it.

NEVER allow the hypocrite to continue to pretend to be a SAINT.

Even MORE importantly, DON'T wait until she's dead before making allegations about her INFIDELITY.

Now, the children are just going to BAND together and LOATHE him more for trying to SULLY the reputation of their dead mother.

UNLESS DNA results can corroborate his accusations.

angelboy01:
Baba they are now matured o. Not kids anymore, the boy wanted to beat his father in public. Shameless coward being manipulated. They aren't even listening to their father's side of the story. If they don't want the man they should contribute the money he spent on their education and refund the man. Ungrateful children.

ERockson:
Women are the same in this type of issue. Once they go separate way they brainwash their children against their father and try to block all access to the children. Thank God for Tonto dIke recent act, she could have brainwashed the little boy to hate his father

DeclanR:
It's not that easy sir

TheGift:
What exactly are you finding, not easy?

bigcasava1:
with this explanation you don't expect us not to comment, you sound as if you in charge here!

Sirmwill:
It's just common sense

bigcasava1:
why not make ur insult direct! What do you mean by that!

narite:
Those men na mumu man, how a woman go block your access to your children. I think they themselves are not ready for children wahala, dem just Dey use that as excuse.

The day my uncle caught his wife cheating, na the very day he sent her packing and took their one and only son away from he, never seeing the boy again. The woman died about 2 years later, possibly from shame, guilt, depression. Left me shocked and sad cause she is someone I really liked. The cheating aside, She is a good woman.