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To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Sirchiboy(op): 9:21am On Feb 10
To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members — Skitmaker Ziczaloma

Popular skitmaker Ziczaloma has shared his thoughts on financial independence, advising people to adopt strict financial boundaries if they truly want to escape p%verty.

In a short video clip posted online while speaking on financial independence, the entertainer stated that “if you know you want to come out of p%verty, you need to be financially heartless even to your direct family”.

He explained that such a decision is not about being wicked, but about breaking out of the poverty cycle. Recounting his personal experience, he said growing up he always wanted to be financially stable. However, many of his business attempts did not succeed. “I did a lot of business while growing up but most of them failed because of family,” he stated.

Ziczaloma further stressed that “African family and even your own family are very entitled to your wealth. Even when the purpose of working is to save money and build a better future”.

Reinforcing his point, he stated; “It is very very okay to be financially heartless even to your friends and family so that you can even save up and break that circle. They will h@te you for it but trust me it is for your own good.” He concluded.

Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by yarimo(m): 11:06am On Feb 10
Will that Stop you not from dying leaving everything that you choose to be heartless against people?
Sirchiboy:
To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members — Skitmaker Ziczaloma

Popular skitmaker Ziczaloma has shared his thoughts on financial independence, advising people to adopt strict financial boundaries if they truly want to escape p%verty.

In a short video clip posted online while speaking on financial independence, the entertainer stated that “if you know you want to come out of p%verty, you need to be financially heartless even to your direct family”.

He explained that such a decision is not about being wicked, but about breaking out of the poverty cycle. Recounting his personal experience, he said growing up he always wanted to be financially stable. However, many of his business attempts did not succeed. “I did a lot of business while growing up but most of them failed because of family,” he stated.

Ziczaloma further stressed that “African family and even your own family are very entitled to your wealth. Even when the purpose of working is to save money and build a better future”.

Reinforcing his point, he stated; “It is very very okay to be financially heartless even to your friends and family so that you can even save up and break that circle. They will h@te you for it but trust me it is for your own good.” He concluded.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by LegendHero(m): 3:29pm On Feb 10
I disagree totally to this.

To make it truly, you have to ensure your family are self sufficient, that is the definition of making it and having rest of mind.

Except if you have heartless family members then you use your own discretion
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by FutureFocus:
No, not necessarily heartless, you just need to have limitation and set limit to amount of resources going to black tax , prioritize business survival over every thing, including your own flamboyant lifestyle , a relation crying for help for need to replace her iPhone 15 that got missing while you need to pay staff salary, what do you do? Get the relation a simple basic phone and pay your staff salary

Your fiancé says, this relationship is over if you don’t give me the 500k I asked for, what do you do? Simply refuse to subscribe to relationship, give a token and invest the rest in your business, it’s more promising .

But if you are rich like Darosha , you can sponsor your village annual masquerade festival, it’s allowed but until then you must get your priorities right.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Hmmmmm2024: 3:32pm On Feb 10
yarimo:
Will that Stop you not from dying leaving everything that you choose to be heartless against people?
Must you suffer before you die ?

Not giving people what belongs to you is not heartless...

Heartless is depriving or taking what belongs to other people unwillingly

In this case, the money belongs to him...so where is the heartlessness coming from ?
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by dheolexaone(f): 3:32pm On Feb 10
Some things money can't buy, LOVE!!!

Being heartless isn't required for wealth. Cutting off family can sometimes protect savings short-term, but it sometimes leads to isolation, regret, or loss of motivation.

True wealth includes peace of mind and meaningful relationships. Many rich families support each other, the idea is to give what you can afford.

Set clear limits and have a financial support boundary you can go that won't jeopardize your own growth. I love my family, immediate and the core values we share isn't parasitic.

May God save us from families from the pit of hell.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Switruth: 3:35pm On Feb 10
Thrash......No be who get dey give,na who get good heart dey give.....

Most billionaires are philanthropists....does that take away any positivity from their lives....

Tomorrow if you broke now you go say na village people...
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by IsraeliAIRFORCE: 3:36pm On Feb 10
What a worthless submission. But you expect someone to give you contract or patronize your bussines.

Evil minds
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by weslay: 3:36pm On Feb 10
What's the purpose of wealth if not to impact the lives of people around you.

Coming from a guy who did a cosmetic surgery, I'm not surprised.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by ElSudani: 3:37pm On Feb 10
Absolute nonsense, just don't give more than you can afford to give.
Giving doesn't make one poor. You may actually end up poor if you are too stingy.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by DeltaBachelor(m): 3:37pm On Feb 10
Very very true. Frugality is a must for prosperity
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by spiceadole(f): 3:38pm On Feb 10
Capping rub.bish because he believes he has made it and doesn't need anybody, will never need anybody's money.
May life be kind to us so we do not have to beg/ask people like this for financial assistance
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Wealthyonos(m): 3:41pm On Feb 10
This one don smoke something kon dey feel motivated like Dangote to give financial advice
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by oluwaseyi0: 3:41pm On Feb 10
Very true else you will keep getting bill that will make you be in poverty
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Agricmoney(m): 3:42pm On Feb 10
trash if you ask me. If your family can't enjoy your wealth then it's nothing. What you can say is to consider business to be business whenever undertaking it with family members that is understandable.

Agriculture is life
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Eriokanmi: 3:44pm On Feb 10
I disagree. The more I give, the richer I get
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by boxypane: 3:44pm On Feb 10
Who be dis one with kpomo mouth? If your father and mother were heartless to you? You for no even dey breath. Nonsense ideaologies online.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by bikefab(m): 3:45pm On Feb 10
This has to be the most shallow-minded line of thought I've heard this 2026.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by autoez: 3:46pm On Feb 10
Being selfish is in your DNA. Stop misinterpreting your evil deeds.

Go and ask Wigwe how he's enjoying his fortune now
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Solofresh2: 3:49pm On Feb 10
You can't be heartless to your immediate family.If you fall, they will probably still be the ones to rise you again
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by yesloaded: 3:51pm On Feb 10
Not heartless but be prudent with your expenses
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Solofresh2: 3:52pm On Feb 10
Switruth:
Thrash......No be who get dey give,na who get good heart dey give.....

Most billionaires are philanthropists....does that take away any positivity from their lives....

Tomorrow if you broke now you go say na village people...
Na who get dey give oga.If you get good heart and you no get nko
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by oluxy(m): 3:55pm On Feb 10
Sirchiboy:
To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members — Skitmaker Ziczaloma

Popular skitmaker Ziczaloma has shared his thoughts on financial independence, advising people to adopt strict financial boundaries if they truly want to escape p%verty.

In a short video clip posted online while speaking on financial independence, the entertainer stated that “if you know you want to come out of p%verty, you need to be financially heartless even to your direct family”.

He explained that such a decision is not about being wicked, but about breaking out of the poverty cycle. Recounting his personal experience, he said growing up he always wanted to be financially stable. However, many of his business attempts did not succeed. “I did a lot of business while growing up but most of them failed because of family,” he stated.

Ziczaloma further stressed that “African family and even your own family are very entitled to your wealth. Even when the purpose of working is to save money and build a better future”.

Reinforcing his point, he stated; “It is very very okay to be financially heartless even to your friends and family so that you can even save up and break that circle. They will h@te you for it but trust me it is for your own good.” He concluded.
And when you are in grave problem and difficulties, they have to be heartless to you
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Switruth: 3:57pm On Feb 10
Solofresh2:
Na who get dey give oga.If you get good heart and you no get nko
Having a good heart shows when you get....
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 3:59pm On Feb 10
LegendHero:
I disagree totally to this.

To make it truly, you have to ensure your family are self sufficient, that is the definition of making it and having rest of mind.

Except if you have heartless family members then you use your own discretion
Some people think everyone has wicked miserable family members like them.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by EliteDrive: 3:59pm On Feb 10
Wrong! The opposite is correct. You can't understand
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Toosure70: 3:59pm On Feb 10
Nonsense, and what is the money for? God I don't need that
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by tnerro1(m): 4:00pm On Feb 10
I swear na true talk be this or else dem go finish you and blame you for be finished 😂😂
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by jericco1(m): 4:02pm On Feb 10
If my people were financially heartless I wouldn't be where I am today.


Bro talk about yourself mumu
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by kaludestiny10(m): 4:03pm On Feb 10
Stupid talk. It's only a devil incarnate that will see a fellow human suffering and wouldn't want to assist that person.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Uteghe(m): 4:04pm On Feb 10
...but not to your girlfriends and beer parlour right? Oga help your brother.
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