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Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by manuelkel(m): 6:49pm On Feb 10
Solofresh2:
Na who get dey give oga.If you get good heart and you no get nko
It still doesn't justify the post.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by manuelkel(m): 6:51pm On Feb 10
kaludestiny10:
Stupid talk. It's only a devil incarnate that will see a fellow human suffering and wouldn't want to assist that person.
This your comment is arguable bros.
It depends on the human, it depends on the mode of sufferings and it depends on the vision of the sufferer.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by wunmi590(m): 6:54pm On Feb 10
huh

All these nonsense they always say...

If everybody are financially rubbish that he's saying, how would he have made it, if everyone stop using their data to watch his skit, would he have made it...
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Bouncingbabyboy(m): 6:59pm On Feb 10
I disagree to agree

Empower them but never draw them close
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Lamasta(m): 7:01pm On Feb 10
QuinQ:
Y'all miss his point. He's talking of TO GET OUT OF POVERTY!!!
TO BREAK THE CYCLE OF POVERTY!!!
Otherwise the cycle continues. That's his point!

Getting out of poverty requires accumulation of assets or you win the lottery, there is no other way.
You can't accumulate if you give everything you get as you're begged. Simple as that
Why will you cut your family off in the first placehuh That is the point we are talking about
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by greatefa1011(m): 7:03pm On Feb 10
The truth about this life is "You came naked with nothing. you hustle and get everything. When you die they family who nortured you from birth till death will still package you naked with nothing back to your maker." This life is vanity youngman. Let love lead .
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by QuinQ: 7:10pm On Feb 10
Lamasta:
Why will you cut your family off in the first placehuh That is the point we are talking about
Funny guy. You know fully well the guy said nothing about cutting off your family. His obsession is about breaking the cycle of poverty - we all know what that means. Once the flow of money becomes constant, you have broken the cycle, you then unleash generosity!
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by kaludestiny10(m): 7:21pm On Feb 10
Pls elaborate further sir.
manuelkel:
This your comment is arguable bros.
It depends on the human, it depends on the mode of sufferings and it depends on the vision of the sufferer.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by emmaodet: 7:34pm On Feb 10
Hmmmmm2024:
Must you suffer before you die ?

Not giving people what belongs to you is not heartless...

Heartless is depriving or taking what belongs to other people unwillingly

In this case, the money belongs to him...so where is the heartlessness coming from ?
grin grin grin
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Prettychild(f): 7:36pm On Feb 10
Sirchiboy:
To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members — Skitmaker Ziczaloma

Popular skitmaker Ziczaloma has shared his thoughts on financial independence, advising people to adopt strict financial boundaries if they truly want to escape p%verty.

In a short video clip posted online while speaking on financial independence, the entertainer stated that “if you know you want to come out of p%verty, you need to be financially heartless even to your direct family”.

He explained that such a decision is not about being wicked, but about breaking out of the poverty cycle. Recounting his personal experience, he said growing up he always wanted to be financially stable. However, many of his business attempts did not succeed. “I did a lot of business while growing up but most of them failed because of family,” he stated.

Ziczaloma further stressed that “African family and even your own family are very entitled to your wealth. Even when the purpose of working is to save money and build a better future”.

Reinforcing his point, he stated; “It is very very okay to be financially heartless even to your friends and family so that you can even save up and break that circle. They will h@te you for it but trust me it is for your own good.” He concluded.
If you have to save to break the cycle of poverty, then you are still poor. True wealth is when you can help someone and still not go broke after helping
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by MartinsD12(m): 7:43pm On Feb 10
Sirchiboy:
To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members — Skitmaker Ziczaloma

Popular skitmaker Ziczaloma has shared his thoughts on financial independence, advising people to adopt strict financial boundaries if they truly want to escape p%verty.

In a short video clip posted online while speaking on financial independence, the entertainer stated that “if you know you want to come out of p%verty, you need to be financially heartless even to your direct family”.

He explained that such a decision is not about being wicked, but about breaking out of the poverty cycle. Recounting his personal experience, he said growing up he always wanted to be financially stable. However, many of his business attempts did not succeed. “I did a lot of business while growing up but most of them failed because of family,” he stated.

Ziczaloma further stressed that “African family and even your own family are very entitled to your wealth. Even when the purpose of working is to save money and build a better future”.

Reinforcing his point, he stated; “It is very very okay to be financially heartless even to your friends and family so that you can even save up and break that circle. They will h@te you for it but trust me it is for your own good.” He concluded.
I humbly disagree with this , you don't need to be heartless to your family members to make it out of poverty, imagine not helping them they suffer die in poverty who will be your father , mother , sisters , brothers or relatives then in the end you make the money and you will be full of regret you were heartless to them to the point of death, this useless skit makers keep deceiving the public with sense ideas
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by femi4: 7:47pm On Feb 10
QuinQ:
Y'all miss his point. He's talking of TO GET OUT OF POVERTY!!!
TO BREAK THE CYCLE OF POVERTY!!!
Otherwise the cycle continues. That's his point!

Getting out of poverty requires accumulation of assets or you win the lottery, there is no other way.
You can't accumulate if you give everything you get as you're begged. Simple as that.
Once the flow of money becomes somewhat stable, you have broken the cycle, you then unleash generosity!
It's wrong...Wealth does not work like that

Just work on yourself that you have service to provide

Linda alone took her family out of poverty
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Wotowotoman: 7:58pm On Feb 10
Sirchiboy:
To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members — Skitmaker Ziczaloma

Popular skitmaker Ziczaloma has shared his thoughts on financial independence, advising people to adopt strict financial boundaries if they truly want to escape p%verty.

In a short video clip posted online while speaking on financial independence, the entertainer stated that “if you know you want to come out of p%verty, you need to be financially heartless even to your direct family”.

He explained that such a decision is not about being wicked, but about breaking out of the poverty cycle. Recounting his personal experience, he said growing up he always wanted to be financially stable. However, many of his business attempts did not succeed. “I did a lot of business while growing up but most of them failed because of family,” he stated.

Ziczaloma further stressed that “African family and even your own family are very entitled to your wealth. Even when the purpose of working is to save money and build a better future”.

Reinforcing his point, he stated; “It is very very okay to be financially heartless even to your friends and family so that you can even save up and break that circle. They will h@te you for it but trust me it is for your own good.” He concluded.
Kalulu44, na true this guy dey talk? Na so that your uncle wey wan chance you for village dey do nowadays wey he don hammer? 🤔
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by manuelkel(m): 8:08pm On Feb 10
QuinQ:
Y'all miss his point. He's talking of TO GET OUT OF POVERTY!!!
TO BREAK THE CYCLE OF POVERTY!!!
Otherwise the cycle continues. That's his point!

Getting out of poverty requires accumulation of assets or you win the lottery, there is no other way.
You can't accumulate if you give everything you get as you're begged. Simple as that.
Once the flow of money becomes somewhat stable, you have broken the cycle, you then unleash generosity!
I didn't miss the point, he should have stated it clearly and specifically. The way he quoted that logically has a different meaning to what you states. I know he's referring to what you stated but as a logician we intend to focus on premisses of statements.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Lamasta(m): 8:11pm On Feb 10
QuinQ:
Funny guy. You know fully well the guy said nothing about cutting off your family. His obsession is about breaking the cycle of poverty - we all know what that means. Once the flow of money becomes constant, you have broken the cycle, you then unleash generosity!
Why will you be financially heartless to your family because you want to break poverty it doesn't make any logical sense, you give to your family what you can afford to support and continue your hustle to liberate yourself from poverty.....

Those who have gotten to the point you are dreaming to get to did they become financially heartless to their familyhuh Go and ponder about this cool
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by QuinQ: 8:15pm On Feb 10
manuelkel:
I didn't miss the point, he should have stated it clearly and specifically. The way he quoted that logically has a different meaning to what you states. I know he's referring to what you stated but as a logician we intend to focus on premisses of statements.
How is this below different from what I said?

Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Yomit71(m): 8:16pm On Feb 10
Crooked Igbotic thoughts
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by QuinQ:
Lamasta:
Why will you be financially heartless to your family because you want to break poverty it doesn't make any logical sense, you give to your family what you can afford to support and continue your hustle to liberate yourself from poverty.....

Those who have gotten to the point you are dreaming to get to did they become financially heartless to their familyhuh Go and ponder about this cool
Kalulu44:
The guy is talking absolute bumkum. What are you without your family. I guess many people gave him the answer he needed on the thread.
Ok, let's put it this way: let's say you win N30m lottery. And you see property for N27m that if you own it the rental income will lift you out of poverty for good. But your brother just gained opportunity to study abroad for N10m and he knows you'd be "heartless" not to give it to him because you just won N30m - you'd still have a whole N20m left!
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by dominique(mod): 8:26pm On Feb 10
Of course he needs to have sufficient funds to do all sorts of plastic surgery. His face is starting to have that plastic look.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Lamasta(m): 8:26pm On Feb 10
QuinQ:
Ok, let's put it this way: let's say you win N30m lottery. And you see property for N27m that if you own the rental income will lift you out of poverty for good. But your brother just gained opportunity to study abroad for N10m and he knows you can afford to give it to him because you just won N30m.
This your thinking you need to work on it cos wealth is not built by winning lottery, you need a sustainable business with to take you out of poverty.......

If God blesses you U am 100% sure you won't ever think of becoming financially heartless to your family members
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by QuinQQ: 8:39pm On Feb 10
Lamasta:
This your thinking you need to work on it cos wealth is not built by winning lottery, you need a sustainable business with to take you out of poverty.......

If God blesses you U am 100% sure you won't ever think of becoming financially heartless to your family members
Using lottery as example is to simplify things.
The point is, you can use the 30m to permanently lift the family out of poverty or you can dole it out to family members as needs arise until it is gone!
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Kalulu44: 8:53pm On Feb 10
Wotowotoman:
Kalulu44, na true this guy dey talk? Na so that your uncle wey wan chance you for village dey do nowadays wey he don hammer? 🤔
The guy is talking absolute bumkum. What are you without your family. I guess many people gave him the answer he needed on the thread.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Chopbeleful100: 9:24pm On Feb 10
Get the money first
weslay:
What's the purpose of wealth if not to impact the lives of people around you.

Coming from a guy who did a cosmetic surgery, I'm not surprised.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by CyracksMrBlogger(m): 9:42pm On Feb 10
LegendHero:
I disagree totally to this.

To make it truly, you have to ensure your family are self sufficient, that is the definition of making it and having rest of mind.

Except if you have heartless family members then you use your own discretion
that is when you have made it. When struggling to make it, if you wish to settle family financial issues, you have to be very stingy. My mum convinced me to help pay my elderly bro school fees, he claim he got admission into the university, I was saving money for my masters, they made it look like I don't want to help. Then I gave him money for school fees, now na stories we dey hear. That he gave the money to someone at jamb office to pay school fees, the guy claim there was no network, when network resumes, he will pay and print receipt for him. My bro left the guy with the money and came back, now the guy is not picking calls, school have resume lectures, he is just roaming at home. I told my mum hmmm next time they shouldn't bother me. Make I make am first.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by ngel0v3(m): 9:46pm On Feb 10
You can't be eating good food, knowing your mother and father and siblings are starving. So I hope this is NOT what he means by "be stingy" to your direct family members.

I hope not.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by manuelkel(m): 9:46pm On Feb 10
QuinQ:
How is this below different from what I said?
The conclusion from However has made his points fallacious.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by ThiefnubuBandit(f): 9:48pm On Feb 10
tnerro1:
I swear na true talk be this or else dem go finish you and blame you for be finished 😂😂
That's why you haven't left that one room apartment.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by QuinQQ: 9:54pm On Feb 10
manuelkel:
The conclusion from However has made his points fallacious.
He said his businesses failed because he was more interested in helping family than in building his business.
How is that fallacious? What logical fallacy exactly is that??
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by cardoctor(m): 11:49pm On Feb 10
Just simply say you have to be evil and wicked. And heartless.
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by ariesbull: 5:39am On Feb 11
So has he made it ? How many billion does he have ? Who is he by the way ?
Re: To Make It, You Have To Be Financially Heartless Even To Your Family Members by Hhh4444: 5:41am On Feb 11
CyracksMrBlogger:
that is when you have made it. When struggling to make it, if you wish to settle family financial issues, you have to be very stingy. My mum convinced me to help pay my elderly bro school fees, he claim he got admission into the university, I was saving money for my masters, they made it look like I don't want to help. Then I gave him money for school fees, now na stories we dey hear. That he gave the money to someone at jamb office to pay school fees, the guy claim there was no network, when network resumes, he will pay and print receipt for him. My bro left the guy with the money and came back, now the guy is not picking calls, school have resume lectures, he is just roaming at home. I told my mum hmmm next time they shouldn't bother me. Make I make am first.
bros avoid family financial wahala when you never stand,e get why. Better to be called stingy and build your finances.
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