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Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by AlabiKILLER2023: 8:15am On Feb 18
Pastor Enoch Adebayo the Yoruba APC pastor
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by oluxy(m): 8:17am On Feb 18
alphonsojidebab:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/02/18/carter-efe-why-i-dont-go-to-church/
Is he the only member that pastor call for beans and fuel, I doubt his comment.

He should just say, he's no longer interested in going to church instead of hanging it on pastors.

We have many dudes who before they made it in life are church goers and clinched to church and prayer but after they are made, that's prayer answered, they stopped going to church.

We have them alot.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by frankson1(m): 8:17am On Feb 18
Very weak excuse...ohh...he's a skit maker
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by amah4game: 8:21am On Feb 18
He who is without sin ... Cast the first stone. If judgement comes today and na only you go stand give answer... Are you saying all pastors in Nigeria are judged bad and you the accuser is perfect? Find a gathering that feeds your spirit (they are out there) stop making excuses...
alphonsojidebab:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/02/18/carter-efe-why-i-dont-go-to-church/
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Bahamas95(m): 8:27am On Feb 18
kaywhy09:
Na you dey attend hungry man's church
Which one is hungry man's church?


Even the ones with big churches still task members to contribute money.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by ravensckar(m): 8:36am On Feb 18
TheStoriesOfMan:
I don't give to pastors because they are fraudulent, ALL OF THEM.

Reverend father, pastor, prophet, ALL ARE PULPIT SCAMMERS.

I help those who truly are needy, not those who can see food the next day.

This is one of the reasons I like Islam. Alfa no go fit dey bill me like kilo de.
Dude, you probably don't know anything about Islam and Alfas.

Alfas dem worse for billing pass pastors. Some of them even use diabolical means to steadily bill their congregation. Especially all those young Alfas, those ones get formats pass Yahoo boys.

Don't ask how I know this, I'm a staunch Muslim.

Carter Efe's decision to quit going to church is the most childish that I've heard. If you think being close to pastors will cause them to be exploiting you, won't you maintain your distance and cut off any form of familiarity? Shebi after "let's share the grace" you go waka dey go your own house? Shuo!
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by GenFunction: 8:40am On Feb 18
Na una know the kind church una dey go,pastor wan cook Beans e say e need oil grin
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by TheStoriesOfMan: 8:46am On Feb 18
ravensckar:
Dude, you probably don't know anything about Islam and Alfas.

Alfas dem worse for billing pass pastors. Some of them even use diabolical means to steadily bill their congregation. Especially all those young Alfas, those ones get formats pass Yahoo boys.

Don't ask how I know this, I'm a staunch Muslim.

Carter Efe's decision to quit going to church is the most childish that I've heard. If you think being close to pastors will cause them to be exploiting you, won't you maintain your distance and cut off any form of familiarity? Shebi after "let's share the grace" you go waka dey go your own house? Shuo!
I know say fraudulent Alfas dey, them even dey run diabolical matter as billing for clients, but for me, I have not seen plenty ones, but I see thousands of fraudulent pastors. Maybe is because I no dey waka anyhow, or maybe because I don't stay more than one day at a town.

As for Carter, maybe the church he attends is a small one, where the pastor may know almost all of the congregation. In a small church, it is impossible to hide or become clandestine, so the pastor will always try to be close to the members he perceive as rich, plus efe is a well-known figure.

Big church, I doubt. Except if he wants to get close to the pastor and baba dey use billing tactics take collect him own share of Twitch money🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by eagleonearth(m): 8:49am On Feb 18
ruggedtimi:
One reason I stopped going to church is that I noticed pastors often make it seem like God is only present in their particular congregation. It’s as if the whole world revolves around their church, and they imply that other churches aren’t serving God the right way.
Also there are about three churches around my family house, the pastors of the churches have had several scandals. The most prominent among them was involved in multiple sexual and fornication scandals. He was shot early one Sunday morning in December 2024 on his way to church( i heard the Gunshot and it sounded like knockout since it was during the festive period).
All of this gave me a different mindset toward today’s church. Still, I believe in Jesus and God Almighty 100%.
see gobe, did he make it?
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by okeke6969: 8:52am On Feb 18
GanagiBitrus:
Imagine someone refusing to own a car because the Benz he bought previously, exhausted so much of his money on mechanics.
His choice. Do you have problem with his personal decision?
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by naijapikin2(m): 8:55am On Feb 18
That shouldn't stop you from going to church
Here's my suggestion...it'll help anyone

If any pastor asks you for money..if you feel led to give go ahead..if you don't, OPENLY tell the pastor that you are not led to give..if he insists...LEAVE THAT CHURCH. Any pastor that argues with you quote 2 corinthians 9:6-10...the pastor cannot argue with that...it talks about giving WILLINGLY.

Meanwhile continue going to church because the Bible admonishes us to... Psalms 65:4

Shalom 🙏🙏
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by dederocs(m): 8:58am On Feb 18
You can be a Christian, start your fellowship with your family and people you trust. Jesus never had a church, he was fellowshipping, moving from place to place, the early Christians too followed this pattern, the Apostles were always moving. Christianity the faith and church denominations are two different things.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by okeke6969: 8:58am On Feb 18
Decapo:
So because he get to give make dem collect everything, others wey no get who Dey recognize them? Na so ur own church be ? You better disembark ASAP
Don't be surprised, he is likely one of those parasitic good for nothing pastors🤣🤣🤣
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by dederocs(m): 9:32am On Feb 18
TheStoriesOfMan:
I don't give to pastors because they are fraudulent, ALL OF THEM.

Reverend father, pastor, prophet, ALL ARE PULPIT SCAMMERS.

I help those who truly are needy, not those who can see food the next day.

This is one of the reasons I like Islam. Alfa no go fit dey bill me like kilo de.
Pastor or church is not the Christian faith, the Christian faith is about emulating Jesus, if a church is not good, go to another one or start your fellowship. The Christian faith is about emulating the life of Jesus, Jesus never had any church building, he was fellowshipping, doing missionary from place to place. Christianity is not about pastor or church, these are people who claim the faith, but the faith is not about pastor or church, missionary of those early Christian days emulated Jesus, they moved from place to place, never had church but were very righteous Christians.
Na Muslim you be, stop pretending.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Nobody: 9:36am On Feb 18
Na you Dey go upcoming churches. If you don’t want to support the ministry, then go to an advanced church. I doubt pastor Chris will even know you’re a member😂
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by TheStoriesOfMan: 9:44am On Feb 18
dederocs:
Pastor or church is not the Christian faith, the Christian faith is about emulating Jesus, if a church is not good, go to another one or start your fellowship. The Christian faith is about emulating the life of Jesus, Jesus never had any church building, he was fellowshipping, doing missionary from place to place. Christianity is not about pastor or church, these are people who claim the faith, but the faith is not about pastor or church, missionary of those early Christian days emulated Jesus, they moved from place to place, never had church but were very righteous Christians.
Na Muslim you be, stop pretending.
If I'm assumed to be a Muslim, why are you crying on my post?

Muslim dey agitate for sovereignty?

Abi overconsumption of garri frittata dey kalampoo your eyes?

Stop taking too much garri. Try go buy better shawarma chop, Biko!
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by blowjohn(m): 9:51am On Feb 18
But if ashawo call u for money for beans and oil after she don claim say she love u u go double the money give her...

See e face like abuja ponmo
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by GanagiBitrus:
okeke6969:
His choice. Do you have problem with his personal decision?
No I don't.
I only expounded on his choice for clarity; so that he will not be misinterpreted.

Do you have a problem with that?
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by KnownUnknown: 10:21am On Feb 18
Stephen0mozzy:
To each one his own.

God loves a cheerful giver, be cheerful in giving. But set boundaries that dem no go even was gaslight you into giving.
Dem don gaslight you already. “God loves a cheerful giver” says the swindler. Meanwhile, god is utterly incapable of saying anything.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Stephen0mozzy: 10:37am On Feb 18
KnownUnknown:
Dem don gaslight you already. “God loves a cheerful giver” says the swindler. Meanwhile, god is utterly incapable of saying anything.
Na you know the kain problem wey you get with god. My own wey I believe loves a cheerful giver.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by KnownUnknown: 10:43am On Feb 18
Stephen0mozzy:
Na you know the kain problem wey you get with god. My own wey I believe loves a cheerful giver.
The con men who bamboozle you love a cheerful giver.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Hassanmaye(m): 11:23am On Feb 18
Christians are wising up, you should allow pastors collect tithes and build universities poor contributors can't afford
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by InvertedHammer: 11:26am On Feb 18
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No comment necessary.

However,....

The fact that churches litter every street in Nigeria while the country continues to retrogress morally, ethically and logically tells all the stories. The delusional ones will always find reasons to give money to randy Nigerian pastors to maintain their Nollywood girlfriends (like the Doris Ogala's of this world) and live flamboyant lifestyle.

Who said morons are in short-supply? Not in Nigeria for sure. Instead of complaining, open a church and tap into the exploitation industry. It is a gift that keeps giving.

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Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by communi: 12:15pm On Feb 18
It is actually the dumbest reason for anyone to make for turning his back against the Church.
WOULD YOU ALSO RUN AWAY FROM YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE THEY IMPOSE DISCRETE FINANCIAL LEVY ON YOU OR FOR THEIR INCESSANT MONETARY REQUESTS? If you could link the favor upon you to your generosity, you will prosper more.
The roots of your problem is purely self-centeredness and Avidity. Could you not say NO, If you do not want to give? shocked shocked shocked
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Moneyyman: 1:16pm On Feb 18
But you still go to the hospital despite having fakes around.

You still buy food and drinks despite having adulterated and expired products.

You still enter cars even when some of them don't meet standards.


Go back to church.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by stainzville: 2:21pm On Feb 18
This one na yeye talk
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Zocalite: 3:18pm On Feb 18
Haba!

Why this boy dey lie 😆

Which pastor will ask of oil

One popular g.o, when they see that you have money or na your husband get money

They will first give you position eg deacon, ap, etc

Later they will announce you to be leader or member of one sakamaje group

They will say nehemiah, good man, dkingdom financier etc

They will now be saying you don't need to be going around with them, but your money will go

Small small after scukin you dry they will abandon

If they see you be odogu money, g.o go come do your pikin marriage or open your new house
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Zocalite: 3:20pm On Feb 18
InvertedHammer:
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No comment necessary.

However,....

The fact that churches litter every street in Nigeria while the country continues to retrogress morally, ethically and logically tells all the stories. The delusional ones will always find reasons to give money to randy Nigerian pastors to maintain their Nollywood girlfriends (like the Doris Ogala's of this world) and live flamboyant lifestyle.

Who said morons are in short-supply? Not in Nigeria for sure. Instead of complaining, open a church and tap into the exploitation industry. It is a gift that keeps giving.

/
Wolai!

When doris don expire alagba go carry another fresh blood
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Zocalite: 3:25pm On Feb 18
amah4game:
He who is without sin ... Cast the first stone. If judgement comes today and na only you go stand give answer... Are you saying all pastors in Nigeria are judged bad and you the accuser is perfect? Find a gathering that feeds your spirit (they are out there) stop making excuses...
Judgement is for everyone even the wolfs in sheep clothings

It's good to point people about the wolfs

Do you know Jesus said about them in Matt 23
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by InvestSmart(f): 6:13pm On Feb 18
papagiddy:
Its not a correct reasons for not going to church.......just tell us the truth....u intentionally dont to want to go.....
U give what u have.... or tell u dont have......but it's better to give than to be receiver
Zocalite:
Judgement is for everyone even the wolfs in sheep clothings

It's good to point people about the wolfs

Do you know Jesus said about them in Matt 23
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by amah4game: 7:53pm On Feb 18
Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law...
There is only one Lawgiver and Judge....
Based on his standards... Is he HE a perfect being?
Zocalite:
Judgement is for everyone even the wolfs in sheep clothings

It's good to point people about the wolfs

Do you know Jesus said about them in Matt 23
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Solseal007: 9:28pm On Feb 18
There's too much drama I'm church envy gossip extortion juju and ppl making mockery of you and jealousy !!

When I used to attend church in my bachelor days I left immediately after sermon
Before the drama start and pastor sights me I don reach house. Na those devils and busy body dey stay till end and start looking for who to greet report and call aside to advise!

It takes the grace of God to go to church
My father too is very strict, he picks up his bible and pian e don reach house, if you wish to greet him after service Omoh u dey joke ! Na habd wave and how u shikena
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