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God forgive me, I know i shouldn't be laughing but everytime I come across this video, I just can't help it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ee925OTFBCA&pp=ygUNYmVzdCBjcnkgZXZlcg%3D%3D

R.I.P Rocky Lockridge.

DissTroy:
Well, she uploaded without cause. She intended to cause damage to his reputation if true. Most people are yet to fully read the Cybercrime Act (amended in 2024). If we all did, we'd be careful about our online activities.
If the President had called her a whōre he's never met yet pestering him, the video is proof to exonerate her.

Like Macron shaming and disparaging Trump during Davos, only for DJT to upload chats which prove Macron is in bed with the Trump administration on everything from Syria to Venezuela yet making DJT take the fall as the lone bad guy. That was fair game. Macron hasn't really said much since then because he brought it on himself.

While I get the crux of what you are saying, it can only protect you so far. After a while of being in a romantic relationship, you drop your guard. A man with a steady babe, whether main or side, you cant be recording everything that goes down between you two.

That doesnt account for non verbal cues between partners where you both give each other eyes, but you do not have to say explicitly"Do you wantu nack? Yes r NO? which is the bulk of nacks that goes on between partners

but that does not stop her from coming out at a time in the future when she felt slighted or see you trying to expand your mentorship grounds to say on November 15 2024 at 5:23pm, I only consented to 1 round and not the 2nd round. Or I told diss-troyy to stop after 5mins an he continued for an additional 7mins

A woman that wants to catch you has a lot of weapons which you cannot prepare for every scenarios, even when they try to take down cartel bosses, na women dem dey send to them who will be steady for years nack them thousands of times gain their trust but still have an agenda

izzou:
Abeg why is Simi being dragged for some days now?

All Men are Rapists feminist talking points.

raumdeuter:
Which one be mommy white gucci pant, Alhaji, share the link if its Ramadan and lent compliant

That grandma na

The one who said she slept with ooni

She also said something about tinubu

patrickmuf:
Benue? You do realise Ortom supported Obi, right? How then did the APC rig the state?

What INEC announced was not what was in the IREV. It was clearly proven that Tinubu didn't win Benue, Plateau and Taraba.

He rigged some votes in Lagos but not able to rig enough to win.

This information is everywhere

True true that Mirabel girl faked the whole rape stuff

🤦🤦🤦

Ellexy:
True true that Mirabel girl faked the whole rape stuff

🤦🤦🤦

You no know before, do you know what it mean when a female have tear and she was still rocking jeans
This gen z go extra length just to trend, madness

GloriousGbola:
That grandma na
The one who said she slept with ooni
She also said something about tinubu

That mama esabod na mental case

raumdeuter:
While I get the crux of what you are saying, it can only protect you so far. After a while of being in a romantic relationship, you drop your guard. A man with a steady babe, whether main or side, you cant be recording everything that goes down between you two.

That doesnt account for non verbal cues between partners where you both give each other eyes, but you do not have to say explicitly"Do you wantu nack? Yes r NO? which is the bulk of nacks that goes on between partners

but that does not stop her from coming out at a time in the future when she felt slighted or see you trying to expand your mentorship grounds to say on November 15 2024 at 5:23pm, I only consented to 1 round and not the 2nd round. Or I told diss-troyy to stop after 5mins an he continued for an additional 7mins

A woman that wants to catch you has a lot of weapons which you cannot prepare for every scenarios, even when they try to take down cartel bosses, na women dem dey send to them who will be steady for years nack them thousands of times gain their trust but still have an agenda

True. The whole point isn't even recording - it's having evidence. For example, I hold most chats on Whatsapp. I don't delete messages with females (no matter how nasty and explicit) and I'd just archive them. I don't hold such anywhere else. I just backup my chats regularly, including raunchy media any must have sent - as it. I forget such conversations or people even. I still have chats with exes and randoms from 2014 or so. With images and videos shared.

And I don't chat with females who use disappearing messages or delete chats.

And I mentioned about choosing women wisely who have shown 100% loyalty. You date and marry a Tonto Dike and you deserve what you get. Or all these "purrr" females; or the ones with tags.

Also quell allegations immediately. I once told mine, 'Why did you chat me up to say I hurt you? You know it's because I dismissed what you said when you went on and on about XYZ. What if someone reads your chats like your sister or friend, wouldn't the assumption be that I physically hurt you? Is it deliberate?' It was the last time she did it and she'd rather talk about her concern in person.

If she had continued, then it would have been intentional. I don't keep female besties - any woman I am committed to is my bestie while it lasts so of course I have to be free around her.

Imagine your wife being hit in the face by the edge of the door on her own or by the kids mistakenly. Her face is swollen then she wants to go for a family function or work or church...

No, madam, you will treat it first. Thousands of people will see it and assume her husband beat her up.

If they have a breakup or enstraged in the future, those people will testify they saw her with swollen face.

See, you have to be preemptive about these things.

Society is merciless to men regarding these issues. As a man, society deems you a monster by default. Your whole life is proving you are not. Neo Akpofure just found out yesterday.

iamoyindamola:
You no know before, do you know what it mean when a female have tear and she was still rocking jeans
This gen z go extra length just to trend, madness

Also she drank sniper and was fine lol

Ellexy:
Also she drank sniper and was fine lol

Still quickly add DM for advertisement

Ellexy:
Also she drank sniper and was fine lol

Exactly that sniper is highway to hell

DissTroy:
Simple! That's what I have been preaching for years and truly understanding the nature of emotional beings.

For example, during e-fights here, the most logical ones control how far they go; the most emotional ones here are always the first to dox with information outside of Nairaland. Now imagine what it'd be like with a being running on a full self-replenishing tank of oestrogen coursing through her. That's a disaster waiting to happen.

I do not preach all that red pill nonsense of treating women like trash or campaigning against marriage or saying a girl who isn't a virgin is automatically a whôre. None of that.

All I preach during gender debates:

1. How men should protect themselves from false accusations and extortions, and;
2. Demanding 100% loyalty from women before giving commitment to them.

Nothing more.

Hmmm

Shegzdave:
Still quickly add DM for advertisement

Because there are no consequences for false rãpe allegations. The only popular case of a fãpé accuser being followed up is Rudeboy PSquare charging the accuser to court.

Actress Dorcas Fapson (whom I have mentioned here a thousand times) continued to get roles and endorsements after she falsely accused a Taxify drîver of rápe in 2019. He was already sacked and lost friends by the time he was exonerated.

B_Moore accused UchedandyMUFC. She moved on with no consequences even when she recanted her lies.

The Emmanuel copywriter guy I mentioned in the morning responding to Semid falsely accused by his fianceé is still reeling from it.

Mason Greenwood? Didn't his girlfriend recant her allegations?

No consequences.

The real villians are the men who champion these allegations without hearing from the accused men or seeking proof.
The VeryDarkwhatever is doing it now.

A lot of you did it on this thread to Akpabio beginning around this time last year. Nothing he said was heard. You all believed Natasha without a single proof.

Mirabel saw the massive support Natasha got and how to monetize it so she used the format.

We created Mirabel. Those of us who support these women at face value.
You are the reason more men's lives will be destroyed by false ràpe allegations. All of us.

Male filmmakers and television houses continued to give actress Dorcas Fapson roles in the same 2019 she accused the Taxify driver falsely, in 2020, 2021 and beyond.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dorcas_Shola-Fapson

No man would have had that grace.
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Safe for Ghislaine Maxwell who orchestrated the Epstein pedóphila ring, no other woman in the Epstein files has been arrested or prosecuted. Whoopie Goldberg, Hillary Clinton, Oprah who went deep...

But many men have been charged. For being in the files. Some without evidence of actually doing it.

There's an actress who messaged Epstein about gifts to the minor girls.

Remember Johnny Depp and Amber Heard? You forgot so soon. Need I go on? Is Amber Heard not living free? Has Depp recovered?

Society considers you a monster by default as a man. From birth to the end of your mortality, your job is to prove you are not. Stay on guard!

DissTroy:
True. The whole point isn't even recording - it's having evidence. For example, I hold most chats on Whatsapp. I don't delete messages with females (no matter how nasty and explicit) and I'd just archive them. I don't hold such anywhere else. I just backup my chats regularly, including raunchy media any must have sent - as it. I forget such conversations or people even. I still have chats with exes and randoms from 2014 or so. With images and videos shared.

And I don't chat with females who use disappearing messages or delete chats.

And I mentioned about choosing women wisely who have shown 100% loyalty. You date and marry a Tonto Dike and you deserve what you get. Or all these "purrr" females; or the ones with tags.

Also quell allegations immediately. I once told mine, 'Why did you chat me up to say I hurt you? You know it's because I dismissed what you said when you went on and on about XYZ. What if someone reads your chats like your sister or friend, wouldn't the assumption be that I physically hurt you? Is it deliberate?' It was the last time she did it and she'd rather talk about her concern in person.

If she had continued, then it would have been intentional. I don't keep female besties - any woman I am committed to is my bestie while it lasts so of course I have to be free around her.

Imagine your wife being hit in the face by the edge of the door on her own or by the kids mistakenly. Her face is swollen then she wants to go for a family function or work or church...

No, madam, you will treat it first. Thousands of people will see it and assume her husband beat her up.

If they have a breakup or enstraged in the future, those people will testify they saw her with swollen face.

See, you have to be preemptive about these things.

Society is merciless to men regarding these issues. As a man, society deems you a monster by default. Your whole life is proving you are not. Neo Akpofure just found out yesterday.

1. Your wife chats you that you hurt her, and your first instinct is not "how, what did I do?" Instead, you overanalyze her wording and get annoyed. You interrogate het and question her motive. You wonder who might see the chat and screenshot it. You frame it like she's trying to set you up. Ko buru.

2. Your wife mistakenly hits her face on a door and it swells. You stop her from going to a family function, church or work because of optics. Because people might assume wrongly. Because people go talk. Because in your head, future witnesses are already lining up to testify for something that never happened.

You do not trust your wife. You suspect and are negatively perceptive about everything. That's siege mentality, and I gats say you're imprisoned by your inordinate fear, negative perception and distrust of women, and really no one should be living like that.

Ja ara eh.

semid4lyfe:
1. Your wife chats you that you hurt her, and your first instinct is not "how, what did I do?" Instead, you overanalyze her wording and get annoyed. You interrogate het and question her motive. You wonder who might see the chat and screenshot it. You frame it like she's trying to set you up. Ko buru.

2. Your wife mistakenly hits her face on a door and it swells. You stop her from going to a family function, church or work because of optics. Because people might assume wrongly. Because people go talk. Because in your head, future witnesses are already lining up to testify for something that never happened.

You do not trust your wife. You suspect and are negatively perceptive about everything. That's siege mentality, and I gats say you're imprisoned by your inordinate fear, negative perception and distrust of women, and really no one should be living like that.

Ja ara eh.

Wait! You don't realize in the social media age you're living a seige where even the most harmless things are misread?

I swear by the Heavens, she's reclining beside me as we type. Munching on biscuits while seeing a movie.

I swear by everything sacred what I type here about this issue is the same I have posted with my full names and information on Facebook over the years. At least a certain Uyai on Nairaland you might all know has seen my posts on pages and groups and interacted with them by calling me "Disstroy".

I swear by the divine that she has (my lady) also seen me post these things...even before we became a couple.

I've seen people being ruined, man, by vindictive women.

You understand how crazy it is that a girl in years past is sex-chatting with you but you'd rather switch to WhatsApp call?

Always ask yourself when chatting with a woman, "How would this be interpreted if a group of 300 random women are reading it?" Imagine the craziest scenarios.

All my life, no woman has posted a screenshot of my chat with her publicly. None that I know. I also have never been accused. Mostly because I choose them carefully. But if that day comes (and hoping it never comes), Diss-troy has his armoury stocked only to defend himself.

DissTroy:
Wait! You don't realize in the social media age you're living a seige where even the most harmless things are misread?

I swear by the Heavens, she's reclining beside me as we type. Munching on biscuits while seeing a movie.

I swear by everything sacred what I type here about this issue is the same I have posted with my full names and information on Facebook over the years. At least a certain Uyai on Nairaland you might all know has seen my posts on pages and groups and interacted with them by calling me "Disstroy".

I swear by the divine that she has (my lady) also seen me post these things...even before we became a couple.

I've seen people being ruined, man, by vindictive women.

You understand how crazy it is that a girl in years past is sex-chatting with you but you'd rather switch to WhatsApp call?

Always ask yourself when chatting with a woman, "How would this be interpreted if a group of 300 random women are reading it?"

All my life, no woman has posted a screenshot of my chat with her publicly. None that I know. I also have never been accused. Mostly because I choose them carefully. But if that day comes (and hoping it never comes), destroy has his armoury stocked only to defend himself.

This is the case for at least 99% of men, 99% of whom aren't as paranoid as you've become.

And note that this isn't me telling you to stop being cautious or paranoid, after all a man that sleeps with a cutlass by his side every night has to be proven right but once.

I only think of the stress and wonder if you show this level of paranoia to every aspect of your life, afterall people have tales of betrayal come their way from men and women alike, and yea it doesn't pertain to rape cases alone.

Theflint1:
This is the case for at least 99% of men, 99% of whom aren't as paranoid as you've become.

You admit it at least. That's the realization I want men to come to.

Maybe it's my writing style which comes off as combative and aggressive most times - or overly assertive. ChatGPT did summarize it's my on-Nairaland persona when I searched for "Disstroy".

Maybe it's because I preach it consistently, harping on it without fail. It's like a Pastor preaching about fleeing from bad company daily and the congregation concludes he's paranoid because he harps on it.

But I understand how the world truly views men and men don't have the benefit of doubt.

That's why a single mother asked me to let her minor daughter understudy me years ago as she's interested in UI/UX designs. Girl was 16 or 15 and done with high school. I turned her down politely with excuses.

First question I asked myself was, "If this girl becomes entitled or her mother becomes entitled asking for stipends as my understudy or something else and we fall out then she accuses me, what would I say? I'd be soiled forever. "

Few months later, the woman approached me if I could help with TikTok monetization. I went to view her account. She was dancing and shaking her parts in the videos. The exact kind of women like Mirable who would do anything to trend and get engagements.

My supposed paranoia potentially saved me.

Theflint1:
I only think of the stress and wonder if you show this level of paranoia to every aspect of your life, afterall people have tales of betrayal come their way from men and women alike, and yea it doesn't pertain to rape cases alone.

You just added this part.

I state it that I do so when interacting with women. You should do so when interacting with people who are more emotional than logical. Emotionality is a flaw sometimes - it beclouds logical judgment.

As a rule, before becoming intimate with a woman, I check her out on social media. If you're into mentoring, flee from any woman who is blindly supporting that Mirable girl this minute. CEASE COMMUNICATION. This is the litmus test you were looking for.

If she has the gender-related tag of "Women right activist" or "feminist", run.

If she's always instigating gender wars or resharing to give hot takes painting men as villians, run.

I did run years ago from one I was with who was supporting and calling Tonto Dike "King Tonto" when she was humiliating Churchill. Sweet lady, she could go all the way for me. Was nurturing. She gave gifts too. But the signs were there.

What if she became vindictive because I didn't do what she wanted? At the slightest opening of getting a role in another city, I eased out. It could have blossomed but that was my cue.

In all, you don't have to agree with me in public. I know I am too blunt with these things. Just protect yourself.

If you live in the West where as a man you are already a crime, telling you this is akin to preaching to the choir.

Protect yourself. Defend yourself. The U.S. hasn't been attacked in years but Pentagon is 24/7 ready.

DissTroy:
Because there are no consequences for false rãpe allegations. The only popular case of a fãpé accuser being followed up is Rudeboy PSquare charging the accuser to court.

Actress Dorcas Fapson (whom I have mentioned here a thousand times) continued to get roles and endorsements after she falsely accused a Taxify drîver of rápe in 2019. He was already sacked and lost friends by the time he was exonerated.

B_Moore accused UchedandyMUFC. She moved on with no consequences even when she recanted her lies.

The Emmanuel copywriter guy I mentioned in the morning responding to Semid falsely accused by his fianceé is still reeling from it.

Mason Greenwood? Didn't his girlfriend recant her allegations?

No consequences.

The real villians are the men who champion these allegations without hearing from the accused men or seeking prove.
The VeryDarkwhatever is doing it now.

A lot of you did it on this thread to Akpabio beginning around this time last year. Nothing he said was heard. You all believed Natasha without a single proof.

Mirable saw the massive support Natasha got and how to monetize it so she used the format.

We created Mirable. Those of us who support these women at face value.
You are the reason more men's lives will be destroyed by false ràpe allegations. All of us.

How will she be playing with such sensitive matter. She wants to trend but picked the wrong topic at the wrong time to trend and thank God it backfired

She should face the full wrath of the law,

raumdeuter:
Dem fit use this plate kidnap me

Kudos to those who made amala and abula so cool. Nowadays at Naija parties, people will ignore jollof rice and the queue for Amala will be like fuel queues in Abacha times

No be lie!

During my baby's naming ceremony most of our guests (including non Yorubas) made it a point of duty to eat our "Amala on the Spot" menu which comprise of succulent Amala prepared as e dey hot right there at the venue, ewedu & gbegiri, diced assorted meat and fresh ọwẹrẹ fish.

Na after the Amala finish dem come dey request for jolof and fried rice, ọfàda rice and semo.

Amala and abula don really get PR now o, it's not what it used to be before. It's literally the king of menu at parties now.

BlueRayDick:
No be lie!

During my baby's naming ceremony most of our guests (including non Yorubas) made it a point of duty to eat our "Amala on the Spot" menu which comprise of succulent Amala prepared as e dey hot right there at the venue, ewedu & gbegiri, diced assorted meat and fresh ọwẹrẹ fish.

Na after the Amala finish dem come dey request for jolof and fried rice, ọfàda rice and semo.

Amala and abula don really get PR now o, it's not what it used to be before. It's literally the king of menu at parties now.

Even abroad na only children and non Nigerians dey eat jollof rice. Every Nigerian go queue for the abula ni. If 100 people dey come budget 90 Alama/Abula and 10 jollof rice and etc

For restaurant Amala/Abula is about $30 whle Jollof rice fit be $10 and under

Arsenal fan must dey front and center

iamoyindamola

https://www.nairaland.com/8621651/17-arraigned-lagos-court-urinating

raumdeuter:
Even abroad na only children and non Nigerians dey eat jollof rice. Every Nigerian go queue for the abula ni. If 100 people dey come budget 90 Alama/Abula and 10 jollof rice and etc

For restaurant Amala/Abula is about $30 whle Jollof rice fit be $10 and under

Yes o! Amala and abula don go premium in this 2020's

raumdeuter:
Even abroad na only children and non Nigerians dey eat jollof rice. Every Nigerian go queue for the abula ni. If 100 people dey come budget 90 Alama/Abula and 10 jollof rice and etc

For restaurant Amala/Abula is about $30 whle Jollof rice fit be $10 and under

E Dey easy to chop Jollof na but correct Amala scarce… so if we see restaurant selling anywhere, na first choice.

raumdeuter:
Arsenal fan must dey front and center

iamoyindamola

https://www.nairaland.com/8621651/17-arraigned-lagos-court-urinating

I support Simi's dragging though
She's more of an emotional fool and I am glad AG was dragged into it.
As a man if you can't control or manage how your wife lose her mouth online be ready to get same reaction from people

iamoyindamola:
I support Simi's dragging though
She's more of an emotional fool and I am glad AG was dragged into it.
As a man if you can't control or manage how your wife lose her mouth online be ready to get same reaction from people

I disagree with the bolded. Simi and Adekunle Gold are two different people, it makes no sense to me trying to drag Adekunle Gold into whatever issues they have with Simi simply because they are married to each other . It's not like Adekunle Gold will be monitoring her social media posts or policing her phone to know she decides to post.

Moreover, two people can be married to each other and have two different opinion about the same issue. There's no law that says the husband's opinion on a matter must be the wife's opinion. For example, this Yoruba actress called Foluke Daramola, she is an APC supporter through and through; she supported APC at the Federal level and Lagos state in the last election. Her husband on the other hand supported labour party and was even a chieftain of labour party in Lagos.

BlueRayDick:
I disagree with the bolded. Simi and Adekunle Gold are two different people, it makes no sense to me trying to drag Adekunle Gold into whatever issues they have with Simi simply because they are married to each other . It's not like Adekunle Gold will be monitoring her social media posts or policing her phone to know she decides to post.

Moreover, two people can be married to each other and have two different opinion about the same issue. There's no law that says the husband's opinion on a matter must be the wife's opinion. For example, this Yoruba actress called Foluke Daramola, she is an APC supporter through and through; she supported APC at the Federal level and Lagos state in the last election. Her husband on the other hand supported labour party and was even a chieftain of labour party in Lagos.

This is not what I said i am not talking about support or opinion
Simi said every men is a potential abuser/rapist, for someone with man/husband at home its fair to drag the husband into it
If AG can't caution his wife on some sensitive take online especially when it can affect him directly, they should both bear the brunt.

DissTroy:
You just added this part.

I state it that I do so when interacting with women. You should do so when interacting with people who are more emotional than logical. Emotionality is a flaw sometimes - it beclouds logical judgment.

As a rule, before becoming intimate with a woman, I check her out on social media. If you're into mentoring, flee from any woman who is blindly supporting that Mirable girl this minute. CEASE COMMUNICATION. This is the litmus test you were looking for.

If she has the gender-related tag of "Women right activist" or "feminist", run.

If she's always instigating gender wars or resharing to give hot takes painting men as villians, run.

I did run years ago from one I was with who was supporting and calling Tonto Dike "King Tonto" when she was humiliating Churchill. Sweet lady, she could go all the way for me. Was nurturing. She gave gifts too. But the signs were there.

What if she became vindictive because I didn't do what she wanted? At the slightest opening of getting a role in another city, I eased out. It could have blossomed but that was my cue.

In all, you don't have to agree with me in public. I know I am too blunt with these things. Just protect yourself.

If you live in the West where as a man you are already a crime, telling you this is akin to preaching to the choir.

Protect yourself. Defend yourself. The U.S. hasn't been attacked in years but Pentagon is 24/7 ready.

Simi is yet to post after mirabel confession.
When i watched the video, i knew she was lying the story didn't gel at all same way i didn't believe timi dakolo's wife back then
But emotional people everywhere will tag you rapist

Simi was a gender warrior from around 2018 or so. Go check out her fights with Mazi Ibe on Twitter (who was iPissVodka then). Simi was always showing signs of being bitter about men. In 2017. She has several tweets giving the misandrist vibe over the years.

Then look at her familial background. She was raised by a mother who never submitted to men. Two failed marriages, no strong male authority figure... I know it's harsh but men have to be logical.

A girl is a reflection of her mother. If she didn't submit to a male authority figure who had influence over her like her father, uncle or elder brother or saw her mother submit totally to a male authority figure, why do you think she'd submit to you as a man?

Go check out the way Phyna of BBNaija behaves then check her family. Tonto Dikeh? Now compare to Bimbo Ademoye who has a strong male authority figure in her father then see the difference...

I have refused to commit to women for this singular reason. When you see a woman being combative online or in-person, go dig up her family. Including all those "I left home to feed home" types.
I refused to commit to a girl because I saw her mother humiliate her father by talking to him carelessly. The girl played it off but I couldn't shake it off. I didn't tell her why – I simply drifted off because she was pushing for commitments with public tags. Not with that type.

Adekunle Gold knew what he got into. But, if we are being blunt as men, being SS himself reduced his chances with women back then and Simi was going to take a chance with him, the risk regardless. Different now that he's rich and famous. I understand why he committed to her but he sure knew who she really was and is.