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Unlimited22:
You no dey use twitter?

No sir

Just found out that the Mirabel lady could be lying.

Abeg wetin dey inside Nigerian prison wey people dey hurry to go there?

iamoyindamola:
This is not what I said i am not talking about support or opinion
Simi said every men is a potential abuser/rapist, for someone with man/husband at home its fair to drag the husband into it
If AG can't caution his wife on some sensitive take online especially when it can affect him directly, they should both bear the brunt.

She didn't say that bro. She said men who shut victims up when they come out with their stories about being sexually assaulted are no different from rapists. I don't agree with some of the things she tweeted , but she didn't say all men are potential abuser.

She may be fooolish in some of her takes on the matter especially the part where she said she wasn't interested in having a conversation about false rape accusers, but saying her husband needs to be dragged for her personal opinion is a no no.

As much as the matter is a sensitive one, what she posted still remains her opinion and not necessarily her husband's opinion on the same matter. We are not in the pre-civilization era when women need to first consult their husband for his opinion before making her opinion (which is the husband's) known to an outsider.

Let them leave Adekunle Gold out of whatever dragging they may have in store for Simi. Until Adekunle Gold comes out to claim Simi's opinion as his, I don't see any sense in dragging him at all.

iamoyindamola:
I support Simi's dragging though
She's more of an emotional fool and I am glad AG was dragged into it.
As a man if you can't control or manage how your wife lose her mouth online be ready to get same reaction from people

Hmm, Simi effed up but I do not support AG being dragged for it.

Simi is a grown adult, not a minor. She's a wife and not AG's subordinate. She has agency, freedom of expression and does not need control or supervision.

She should be held accountable for her words and actions. Dragging her hubby because he did not manage her mouth be like say na him be her owner.

It's unfortunate that AG was dragged into her ish but hopefully she has learnt the hard lesson that her family is not off-limits to internet people and will be dragged if she talks recklessly.

Is it really possible to drag one spouse and leave the other?

If wife dey craze for market, you think say people no go use that same eye look the husband the next day?

I think his dragging was inevitable, not like he deserved it

iamoyindamola:
Simi is yet to post after mirabel confession.
When i watched the video, i knew she was lying the story didn't gel at all same way i didn't believe timi dakolo's wife back then
But emotional people everywhere will tag you rapist

I don't care. I've been asked even by my lady to stop such posts as it would scare potential female leads for gigs off. I don't care.

If posting on Whatsapp and Facebook that I avoid getting personal with feminists and gender war instigators will scare them away, let them go. I'm immune to such Cancel Culture.

I will continue to post it publicly. There are 220 million people in Nigeria alone. 45+ million active on Facebook monthly. If, say, 3 million feminists refuse to deal with me for business, I'm safer and better off. There are 42 million potentially sane ones.

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Ironically, the same women reach out for shared intimacy privately because, based on female logic, they want the exclusivity of being in the good books of such men.

Ask any of the Red Pill gang or blunt men on Facebook and X, and they'd tell you the same women reach out to get friendly.

semid4lyfe:
Hmm, Simi effed up but I do not support AG being dragged for it.

Simi is a grown adult, not a minor. She's a wife and not AG's subordinate. She has agency, freedom of expression and does not need control or supervision.

She should be held accountable for her words and actions. Dragging her hubby because he did not manage her mouth be like say na him be her owner.

It's unfortunate that AG was dragged into her ish but hopefully she has learnt the hard lesson that her family is not off-limits to internet people and will be dragged if she talks recklessly.

Why? It's not the first time she has gone ballistic on men in general. She's always stoked gender wars.

If I go about terming all women as whøres and damaged goods to be used and subjugated like Andrew Tate does, my partner is fair game too.

Adesuwa Etomi is married and was a name in her own rights before she met Banky W. Prettier and classier than Simi and she could easily walk all over men but she keeps it classy and moderate.

Adesuwa campaigns for women's right too. Check her Instagram but she's not out there making men out to be monsters.

I can go on and on.

What is it with damaged Simi to always paint men as monsters at ever chance she gets?
When it doesn't favour her, she plays the victim.

izzou:
Is it really possible to drag one spouse and leave the other?

If wife dey craze for market, you think say people no go use that same eye look the husband the next day?

I think his dragging was inevitable, not like he deserved it

He obviously had no control over her

https://youtube.com/shorts/aIN2wyRU4E4?si=BwaSFZlgwSoBFhY7

Happy Friday y'all

Adesuwa Etomi, Mo'Cheddab and the likes campaigning for women's right in 2016.
https://www.bellanaija.com/2016/08/girl-power-heres-what-adesua-etomi-sika-osei-mocheddah-beverly-naya-have-to-say-about-negative-stereotypes-feminism-more/#:~:text=Adesua:%20The%20fight%20for%20women's,a%20wife%20and%20a%20mother. Doing the actual work instead smearing Nigerian men as ràpîsts every other day.

Both have been married for close to a decade.

Adesuwa has been at symposia and headlining events about women's rights. She partners with Banky W to do same too sometimes.

No jumping on drama. That's why Banky doesn't get insulted. He chose his wife carefully.

If you marry a loose-mouthed woman with combative, masculine energy, you played yourself.

Adekunle Gold has always been a cool guy. But Churchill was always a cool guy too who got hitched with a crazy Tonto Dike. Since he left her, he's no longer getting disrespected by random people on the internet.

iamoyindamola:
He obviously had no control over her

Wait let me ask you a question.

What do you think Adekunle Gold should do in this instance after the wife has already said what she said?

semid4lyfe:
Hmm, Simi effed up but I do not support AG being dragged for it.

Simi is a grown adult, not a minor. She's a wife and not AG's subordinate. She has agency, freedom of expression and does not need control or supervision.

She should be held accountable for her words and actions. Dragging her hubby because he did not manage her mouth be like say na him be her owner.

It's unfortunate that AG was dragged into her ish but hopefully she has learnt the hard lesson that her family is not off-limits to internet people and will be dragged if she talks recklessly.

1) we are still a patriarchal society where the man is the head the woman the neck and all that

2) both of them are celebrities with a high sm presence

3) nothing is off limits for Nigerians. It is what it is.

izzou:
Is it really possible to drag one spouse and leave the other?

If wife dey craze for market, you think say people no go use that same eye look the husband the next day?

I think his dragging was inevitable, not like he deserved it

Woman wey no submit to her husband counsel go submit to the counsel of the online mob - Glorious patriarch 2026

izzou:
Just found out that the Mirabel lady could be lying.

Abeg wetin dey inside Nigerian prison wey people dey hurry to go there?

Could bawo
Have you seen anyone survived sniper
Have you seen where a female give birth recently and start rocking jeans because of tear
Lastly can a rapist and the victim type same way

BlueRayDick:
Wait let me ask you a question.

What do you think Adekunle Gold should do in this instance after the wife has already said what she said?

If he had talked to her when she said all those disparaging things about men in times past, she wouldn't have jumped head-on into this one.

He obviously has no control over his household.

BlueRayDick:
Wait let me ask you a question.

What do you think Adekunle Gold should do in this instance after the wife has already said what she said?

AG saw what his wife is doing, they can even gist about it from there he should be able to caution her madam calm down choose your words carefully because this is a sensitive case and nobody was there when it happened.
I am not saying you shouldn't defend your gender but go the right way dont go about attacking people in the name of justice.

BTW this isn't the first time simi have been attacking men, like disstory said I haven't seen adesuwa caught up in emotional gender battle even though she's an ambassador for women.

izzou:
Just found out that the Mirabel lady could be lying.

Abeg wetin dey inside Nigerian prison wey people dey hurry to go there?

Social media is monetized by views

It is far easier to generate views by controversial nonsense

It is why we have gender wars and other nonsense. Because all those nonsense takes bring in views

Most of these tiktokers and twitter boys are flying by the seat of their pants and don't know or don't care about the law, or think they can beg their way out.

She did not appear to have named the rapist (who allegedly sent her a text) so the story already sounded sus. Also would take a very very bold guy to enter an unknown neighbourhood and enter a person's house to do this. In naija where they burn people for less. But I was already wrong on the other case (modelling in ajah) where I thought the victim was making it up so let's see where it goes.

Izzou it's time to stop Gold circle
Fire on my brother
https://www.nairaland.com/8621839/lenacapavir-now-nigeria-costs-58000

DissTroy:
If he had talked to her when she said all those disparaging things about men in times past, she wouldn't have jumped head-on into this one.

He obviously has no control over his household.

People like simi empower these females to manufacture more lies
They are always the victims

GloriousGbola:
Social media is monetized by views

It is far easier to generate views by controversial nonsense

It is why we have gender wars and other nonsense. Because all those nonsense takes bring in views

Most of these tiktokers and twitter boys are flying by the seat of their pants and don't know or don't care about the law, or think they can beg their way out.

She did not appear to have named the rapist (who allegedly sent her a text) so the story already sounded sus. Also would take a very very bold guy to enter an unknown neighbourhood and enter a person's house to do this. In naija where they burn people for less. But I was already wrong on the other case (modelling in ajah) where I thought the victim was making it up so let's see where it goes.

Like that was the first loophole and what kind of rapist carry gloriousgbola so big he will need blade to tear up and still penetrate
Sounds like Horror movie to me

abeg link me to the ajah model case

DissTroy:
If he had talked to her when she said all those disparaging things about men in times past, she wouldn't have jumped head-on into this one.

He obviously has no control over his household.

You didn't answer the question. What should he do since she already said what she said ?

iamoyindamola:
AG saw what his wife is doing, they can even gist about it from there he should be able to caution her madam calm down choose your words carefully because this is a sensitive case and nobody was there when it happened.
I am not saying you shouldn't defend your gender but go the right way dont go about attacking people in the name of justice.

BTW this isn't the first time simi have been attacking men, like disstory said I haven't seen adesuwa caught up in emotional gender battle even though she's an ambassador for women.

You also didn't answer the question.

What should he do since she already posted her opinion which a lot of people obviously do not agree with?

iamoyindamola:
Like that was the first loophole and what kind of rapist carry gloriousgbola so big he will need blade to tear up and still penetrate
Sounds like Horror movie to me

abeg link me to the ajah model case

https://www.nairaland.com/8616722/two-women-raped-knife-point-ajao

apparently the guy in this case has already been arrested

BlueRayDick:
You also didn't answer the question.

What should he do since she already posted her opinion which a lot of people obviously do not agree with?

Like I said this wasn't the first time, if he had spoken to her before she would have adjusted or he doesn't have control over her

GloriousGbola:
https://www.nairaland.com/8616722/two-women-raped-knife-point-ajao

apparently the guy in this case has already been arrested

I have issues with this kind of story
Did she report to throw police and did she go to the hospital to get tested.
Finally there's no emotion or distress feeling

We are in trouble, its becoming a pandemic

iamoyindamola:
I have issues with this kind of story
Did she report to throw police and did she go to the hospital to get tested.
Finally there's no emotion or distress feeling

We are in trouble, its becoming a pandemic

https://www.nairaland.com/8616722/two-women-raped-knife-point-ajao/1#138449534
apparently the guy has been caught and is a serial offender

iamoyindamola:
Like I said this wasn't the first time, if he had spoken to her before she would have adjusted or he doesn't have control over her

If you misbehave, people will pity your wife: "Poor woman. God knows what she's putting putting up with."

If your wife misbehaves, people will sreprimand you: "Weak man. Simp. He can't control his home."

BlueRayDick still hasn't come to terms with the fact that, as men, in the gender debate, we are playing the losing game. If you lose 0-1, you're luckier than the man who lost 0-17. But you with lose regardless.
Life has a sure penalty against you as a man. You're playing against Real Madrid in the Bernabeu, guys - the referee dislikes you before the kick off. Just don't concede too many goals.

Now Adekunle Gold has manned up to control his wife. Simi has apologized, stating her husband is angry, her in-laws are too, and it's causing a rift in her marriage:

https://www.facebook.com/100063752402145/posts/1475600274575039/ .

Something he should have done years ago.

GloriousGbola:
https://www.nairaland.com/8616722/two-women-raped-knife-point-ajao/1#138449534
apparently the guy has been caught and is a serial offender

Good

DissTroy:
Now Adekunle Gold has manned up to control his wife. Simi has apologized, stating her husband is angry, her in-laws are too, and it's causing a rift in her marriage:

https://www.facebook.com/100063752402145/posts/1475600274575039/ .

Something he should have done years ago.

Blueraydick et semid4lyfe
If you guys see Simi post on issues like this again just know her account is hack

iamoyindamola:
Like I said this wasn't the first time, if he had spoken to her before she would have adjusted or he doesn't have control over her

You make a lot of assumptions, but you make it sound like it is a fact when it's not.

You said if he had spoken to her before about the issue, then she ought to have adjusted. Do you even know if he has discussed with her and she chose to still air her opinion the way her brain processes it?

When you say a man having control over his wife, you are literally saying a man should decide what his wife can say and what she can't say. Like, we are talking about two adults who have their own individual opinions about same issue o.

See ehn, some of these things u guys are saying are not really practicable in the real sense. We are not in the days when Bible and quran were written when a woman's thought is shaped by her husband's. A woman can have her own opinion however fooolish or wise it may sound to the public.

The right thing to do is drag that woman for her opinion she made in her personal capacity except her husband comes out to claim he's down with her in that line of thought.

BlueRayDick:
You make a lot of assumptions, but you make it sound like it is a fact when it's not.

You said if he had spoken to her before about the issue, then she ought to have adjusted. Do you even know if he has discussed with her and she chose to still air her opinion the way her brain processes it?

When you say a man having control over his wife, you are literally saying a man should decide what his wife can say and what she can't say. Like, we are talking about two adults who have their own individual opinions about same issue o.

See ehn, some of these things u guys are saying are not really practicable in the real sense. We are not in the days when Bible and quran were written when a woman's thought is shaped by her husband's. A woman can have her own opinion however fooolish or wise it may sound to the public.

The right thing to do is drag that woman for her opinion she made in her personal capacity except her husband comes out to claim he's down with her in that line of thought.

But she apologised after he spoke to her because he was dragged into it
This as been going on and he left her alone until now he was dragged
Am I still making assumptions?

DissTroy:
If you misbehaves, people will pity your wife: "Poor woman. God knows what she's putting putting up with."

If your wife misbehaves, people will say reprimand you: "Weak man. Simp. He can't control his home."

BlueRayDick still hasn't come to terms with the fact that, as men, in the gender debate, we are playing the losing game. If you lose 0-1, you're luckier than the man who lost 0-17. But you with lose regardless.
Life has a sure penalty against you as a man. You're playing against Real Madrid in the Bernabeu, guys - the referee dislikes you before the kick off. Just don't concede too many goals.

I don't do all this whole gender war and "them vs us" takes when it comes to matters involving the two genders. I look at things from a logical point of view and not from the prism of pre conceived whataboutism.

A woman decided to have a spat with people online based on her own opinion. The right and reasonable thing to do is for the people who disagree with her to dig it out with her.

Crossing over to start dragging her husband up and down just doesn't make any sense to me. Simple.