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DissTroy:
Now Adekunle Gold has manned up to control his wife. Simi has apologized, stating her husband is angry, her in-laws are too, and it's causing a rift in her marriage:

https://www.facebook.com/100063752402145/posts/1475600274575039/ .

Something he should have done years ago.

This doesnt look believable and the wordings look so strange.

Why would Simi type or utter the words "Please dont let this spoil my marriage"

Most Likely fake.

GloriousGbola:
spambot ate my post

because of numerous infrastructural issues and safety, streetlights are strongly recommended for roads in general and lagos roads in particular

you have trailers without proper light ,
big potholes
traffic robbers
broken down trailers without any hazard light or flare or anything
obstructions like dividers, pipes etc

and if we had proper road lighting maybe roads would be cleaned and repaired at night instead of during the day

legacy street lights requires cable,, conduit, requires generator and diesel and internal pole cabling

cable is regularly stolen and vandalized
generator means maintenance and operating cost


the solar lights eliminate all of the wahala of conduit, wire , theft.
you don't need nepa or generator as power supply so reduced total cost of ownership

what you have to do though is periodical cleaning of the solar panel, and maybe replacement of the battery in 4 to 5 years
this means you need a vehicle with a worker lift
theft/vandalisation is possible but it is much more difficult and can be counted by putting spikes at points on the lighting pole

now pay me - i know what you are really doing is reviewing road construction proposal from your governor clients

Don't mind him
He's old skool and wicked abroadian that think Naija can elevate to use solar street lights, even my community uses solar and sensor street light

iamoyindamola:
Don't mind him
He's old skool and wicked abroadian that think Naija can elevate to use solar street lights, even my community uses solar and sensor street light

very cheap and stingy brit
that is how oga CFO will be vetoing lighting in the office park and saying people should use their phone

in posh CFO accent -

who would pay the lighting bills, though? should we have you pay the electricity bills if you work late?

User09:
This doesnt look believable and the wordings look so strange.

Why would Simi type or utter the words "Please dont let this spoil my marriage"

Most Likely fake.

Everyone says it's on her Snapchat. Many accounts have posted same. I can't confirm because I'm not on Snapchat and I'd sooner confess being a City Boy than create a Snapchat account to view.

When misandrists masquerading as women right activists and feminists continue to make men out to be villains and monsters, you further embolden the Patriarchy to be more strict.

https://x.com/i/status/2024175381629083654

Check "Mirabel Taliban" or "Simi Taliban" and you'd find hundreds of accounts agreeing with the Taliban eroding women's rights since Wednesday – something nobody on Twitter NG agreed with prior.

GloriousGbola:
very cheap and stingy brit
that is how oga CFO will be vetoing lighting in the office park and saying people should use their phone

in posh CFO accent -

who would pay the lighting bills, though? should we have you pay the electricity bills if you work late?

https://x.com/i/status/2024612128422793276

Too many entitled religion fanatics, why didn't he wear nose mask or stay at home

Listen to how jealous wife turned this man's life upside down

https://x.com/omoelerinjare/status/2024792721932820508?s=46

iamoyindamola:
https://x.com/i/status/2024612128422793276

Too many entitled religion fanatics, why didn't he wear nose mask or stay at home

Is this real or a skit?

Seems like he's just rage-baiting her Sha.

This girl's name is Itohan. She tweeted women should falsely accuse men of ràpe in 2024.
A year later, she falsely accused an InDrive driver of robbery and ràpe.

His life was ruined for months. He came crying online. Investigations proved she lied. She's walking free and no consequence. She's still giving hot takes on X.

https://x.com/i/status/2024667095812759877

Imagine if it wasn't a digital transaction and he had no evidence?

If you like don't protect yourself, especially around women who haven't proven 100% loyalty and their strength of character.

Ibime:
So the solar and lights are free and not an additional cost to the project?

Anybody with eyesight bad enough not to be guided by reflective cat eyes and car lights on motorway should have their licence withdrawn

Nigerians love thinking about problems in the first order. If your eyesight is bad, wetin you dey do for road in the first place? E get why them dey ask for eye test result first before you even Dey eligible for driving lessons here

https://www.nairaland.com/8621911/story-stranger-raping-me-isnt

“The Story About A Stranger R@ping Me Is Not True. I Have Panic Attack” — Mirabel Confesses.

Mirabel has confessed over a phone call with Verydarkman that her earlier claim about being raped by a stranger is not true. She said, “The story about a stranger raping me isn’t true. On a normal day, I cut myself. I have pan!c attacks, and I engage in self harm to cope”.

During the call, she further stated; “I did that because I felt overwhelmed and just wanted to end everything. I created the other account myself. Please sir help me. I don’t have siblings, just friends. I don’t even fully understand why I hurt myself. I am a lesbian.”

When asked if, in a nutshell, the story of the r@pe was not true, she responded, “I have been s¥icidal and I have just wanted to end it all. Yes sir.”

Her confession has sparked conversations about mental health, self-h@rm, and the importance of support systems for individuals struggling with emotional crises.

no need for any long story - they should ban her from the internet. now this fo - ol is going to make it hard to take actual gays, actal grape victims, actual people with issues seriously - because she is chasing engagement.

she has gone to string a series of words she does not understand together so she can continue to milk this.

i hope someone some where sl a pped this silly clout chasing excuse for a human being.

iamoyindamola:
I support Simi's dragging though
She's more of an emotional fool and I am glad AG was dragged into it.
As a man if you can't control or manage how your wife lose her mouth online be ready to get same reaction from people

How do you control and manage your wife? Will he seize her phone . Abi when you dey work, you will be monitoring what your wife posts

iamoyindamola:
Simi is yet to post after mirabel confession.
When i watched the video, i knew she was lying the story didn't gel at all same way i didn't believe timi dakolo's wife back then
But emotional people everywhere will tag you rapist

You remembered how people attacked me when I questioned Busolas Dakolo story cos it doesnt add up. Its okay not to like Biodun Fatoyinbo but that does not mean you should rope him into rape

BlueRayDick:
Dispatch rider delivered a parcel to Sarah Martin's (I don't know what she does but I guess she's a celebrity). After he successfully delivered the parcel, he later chatted her number on WhatsApp and was professing love for her.

She reported him to his company and now he's been sacked. Some Nigerians are saying she went too far and shouldn't have made him lose his job.

But methinks the guy doesn't value his job, if he does he would learn not to shiiit where eats. Shey he no fit look for lover outside his work space?

Technically what offence has he committed? If it was a guy she liked or had more levels would she have reported him? If it was the Manager of the dispatch company who came to deliver in a Benz.

I know of a case, Nigerian female doctor was asked on a date by a Nurse, And she was like a whole me, asked by a nurse, what insult, She wanted to report the guy to HR, A few weeks later, A consultant asked her out on a date similar manner, and she went with him

When asked that What made the Nurse sexual harassment and not the consultant? She cant say specifically though we all know, All she kept saying is. "Me to a Nurse!!"

BlueRayDick:
Yeah, it sends a signal to her that the guy may actually turn out to be a stalker since she knows her house and has her phone number.

The guy head no correct.

She can easily tell him, "I am not interested and do not call my number again". Like she would have done for thers

GloriousGbola:
also, how many nigerians will tolerate the aboki packing their rubbish or one artisan called into their house to work toasting their daughter?
they will immediately understand that it is not right

Is it about the status of the man being an aboki packing rubbish or the conduct? If it was the CEO of the construction company working on their street. Will the response be different

BlueRayDick:
I don't think he has learnt his lessons going by the message he sent to her after he was sacked. He seems to believe he was wronged by her, more like she should've turned him down politely or accept his unsolicited affection with joy.

The guy don too watch nollywood movies involving poor guys who end up with rich classy ladies

And what will be wrong with this part in bold? People meet people everywhere. Toasting or asking out is not a crime. Its a simple Yes or No

GloriousGbola:
https://www.nairaland.com/8621911/story-stranger-raping-me-isnt

no need for any long story - they should ban her from the internet. now this fo - ol is going to make it hard to take actual gays, actal grape victims, actual people with issues seriously - because she is chasing engagement.

she has gone to string a series of words she does not understand together so she can continue to milk this.

i hope someone some where sl a pped this silly clout chasing excuse for a human being.

I don't think the bold is enough

When I see Mendy saying Alhamdulilahi after his life was ruined by a false accusation. I think the bold recommended for Mirabel is a slight slap on the wrist

🗣 Benjamin Mendy responds to not guilty verdict -

“Alhamdulillah” - Thank God.

(@footballdaily) pic.twitter.com/QMrWts2eeP

— EPL Bible (@EPLBible) July 14, 2023

raumdeuter:
Technically what offence has he committed? If it was a guy she liked or had more levels would she have reported him? If it was the Manager of the dispatch company who came to deliver in a Benz.

I know of a case, Nigerian female doctor was asked on a date by a Nurse, And she was like a whole me, asked by a nurse, what insult, She wanted to report the guy to HR, A few weeks later, A consultant asked her out on a date similar manner, and she went with him

I had to go check to see the guy's pictures. If he was a good-looking, articulated young man, she would have reveled in the compliments.
https://www.instagram.com/p/DU-PFXViKpS/ Not surprising.

Women make excuses for men they find attractive (looks and carriage). Always since the end of time. It's not Nollywood.

How else do you think guys approach older women? Happens in real life. Happens everyday.

How else do you think gîgolos are always better-looking than the women they date and way less successful? He has the looks and carriage advantage over her and her hypergamy makes her gravitate towards her.

Women like the polite attention of men who would themselves be considered attractive by other women. If the women are older, they consider it flatter for their ages because women are wired to constantly validation.

That doctor would have basked in the compliments of even an intern in her establishment if he is very attractive and articulate. Especially if he is more attractive than her because women like hypergamy.

Let me not tell tales. They make excuses for men they consider attractive.

They'd make more excuses for Poco Lee than Portable if both smacked a random woman's butt in public.

Luigi got women make excuses for him. Ted Bundy had women make excuses for him.

raumdeuter:
And what will be wrong with this part in bold? People meet people everywhere. Toasting or asking out is not a crime. Its a simple Yes or No

When he gets another job, let him go ahead to toast another customer of his employer's business. Let's see where it will lead him.

BlueRayDick:
When he gets another job, let him go ahead to toast another customer of his employer's business. Let's see where it will lead him.

afrodoc2:

Abi now.

Since he didn't commit any offence and was wrongly dismissed, let him repeat same on his new job and see how they will rub his head for being a smart sharp shooter wey sabi shoot him shots.

DissTroy:
I had to go check to see the guy's pictures. If he was a good-looking, articulated young man, she would have reveled in the compliments.
https://www.instagram.com/p/DU-PFXViKpS/ Not surprising.

Women make excuses for men they find attractive (looks and carriage). Always since the end of time. It's not Nollywood.

How else do you think guys approach older women? Happens in real life. Happens everyday.

How else do you think gîgolos are always better-looking than the women they date and way less successful? He has the looks and carriage advantage over her and her hypergamy makes her gravitate towards her.

Women like the polite attention of men who would themselves be considered attractive by other women. If the women are older, they consider it flatter for their ages because women are wired to constantly validation.

That doctor would have basked in the compliments of even an intern in her establishment if he is very attractive and articulate. Especially if he is more attractive than her because women like hypergamy.

Let me not tell tales. They make excuses for men they consider attractive.

They'd make more excuses for Poco Lee than Portable if both smacked a random woman's butt in public.

Luigi got women make excuses for him. Ted Bundy had women make excuses for him.

Younger women might care about looks, older women care about money. What Ned Nwoko will get away with, A handsome but broke Nollywood star will not get away with it. What are we saying, Fine boy Somadina couldn't get away with it

The POTUS said it best,

When you are rich, they let you do it. You can do anything You can even Grab 'em by the P

BlueRayDick:
When he gets another job, let him go ahead to toast another customer of his employer's business. Let's see where it will lead him.

BlueRayDick:
Abi now.
Since he didn't commit any offence and was wrongly dismissed, let him repeat same on his new job and see how they will rub his head for being a smart sharp shooter wey sabi shoot him shots.

This happens everyday. Bankers date their customers, Consultants date their clients. If you are single and spend the hours between 8am to 7pm in an environment you will likely date someone there

Michelle Obama dated her colleague at work named Barack

Even if I don't want to give anecdotes, there are actual experiments of women making excuses for men who are lower than low...simply because the men are attractive and have a certain carriage.

Like this one: https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2017/8/tinder-experiment-shows-that-women-are-willing-to-date-men-who-are-abusive-racist-and-even-rapists-as-long-as-they-are-cute.html .

If you've been in a situation where a pretty lady walks in but gravitates towards one guy she spots out while ignoring the rest, then sharing a drink with him soon and they are already holding hands, you'll know. No, she's not a whôre – just a regular female who is hypergamous.

At bank queues then, the good-looking guy with a certain carriage had the women on queue make way for him or accept his plea to be attended to by the bank staff.
Let one Portable-looking try same.

Only those who don't realize how fickle women's standards are believe them on these things.

raumdeuter:
Younger women might care about looks, older women care about money. What Ned Nwoko will get away with, A handsome but broke Nollywood star will not get away with it. What are we saying, Fine boy Somadina couldn't get away with it

The POTUS said it best,

When you are rich, they let you do it. You can do anything You can even Grab 'em by the P

That's the point. I never stated she'd accept his love proposal. I stated she'd revel in it as it massages her ego of being wanted by a younger, handsome guy who many women will want.
She will never have shamed him.

Instead, she might even have made a video like, "Awwwn... This is so sweet. I like it when men are bold" to sell the narrative that younger handsome men like her.

I have seen videos of women showing off their handsome delivery guy or Uber drivers whose cars they rode in.

Women change rules based on the men they are deal with.

DissTroy:
At bank cues then, the good-looking with a certain carriage had the women on cue even make way for him or accept his plea to be attended to.
Let one Portable-looking try same.

Only those who don't realize how fickle women's standards are believe them on these things.

You wan rain on my guy portable parade, You realize say na him dey make this lady legs shake

If you like make you fine pass Ramsey Noah, the moment you leave your duty to engage in "Frolick of your own" wey dem no send you and it embarrasses your employer to the extent their customer reports you ; trust me you will find yourself looking for job soon.

raumdeuter:
You wan rain on my guy portable parade, You realize say na him dey make this lady legs shake

That's where money comes in - the hypergamy.

This woman will still open a regular handsome young man with little money on the side if he plays his game well and she'll give him money. True story.

BlueRayDick:
If you like make you fine pass Ramsey Noah, the moment you leave your duty to engage in "Frolick of your own" wey dem no send you and it embarrasses your employer to the extent their customer reports you ; trust me you will find yourself looking for job soon.

True. It's a risk. But go to hotel lobbies and lounges this evening. Note the one with a good-looking guy on the staff then see how nicer women are to him.

If he's very articulate and maybe anything occurs to have him sending the bill to her via WhatsApp, trust me, something might blossom. It would blossom surely if she's unmarried and okay.

There are several stories of Bankers who dated and married their customers

https://www.nairaland.com/2127218/banker-fell-love-customer-married

In 6 pages of posts, No one ever mentioned anything wrong with dating your customer because its not unusual

The main problem is the lady felt the dispatch guy was below him, If he was higher up the economic ladder, you wont hear her complain about anything rather they will be in each others bed now

When I was working in Nigeria many of my colleagues dated and even married clients, we used to call it "outsourcing"

When you dey bully Oga to bring this and that but na one fine younger staff Oga go dey send to deliver requirements to you, make your body calm down

Some companies Zenith Bank gather fine women back then. Be like its a criteria to work for them to be pretty