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Zionmdde:
Very good
Dissolve the marriage let everybody go their way

Next time they want to marry, let them date and court properly whom they intend to marry

nairalanda1:
The church should blame itself.

The woman must have made it repeatedly clear that she did not like the man, yet this was not picked up in counselling and such like...and therein lies the problem

And they are calling her a demon...and then people would be wondering why some folk think christianity is evil.

revelation2013:
What I think is that the church should have done is to continue to counsel both of them. And if she still refuse advise that she initiates the divorce proceedings so that the man can remarry and get someone suitable this time around.

The church should not label her a demon, that is wrong. They can also excommunicate her after the divorce so that another brother will not fall victim. But it is wrong for the church to label her a demon.

erniok2:
What does the pastor mean that the church should pray for her destruction. Do some of these 0astor even read the bible talk more of studying it?

Zionmdde:
Very good
Dissolve the marriage let everybody go their way

Next time they want to marry, let them date and court properly whom they intend to marry

Hemanwel:
All what you have said here are mere assertions and not facts, if you can't back your points with scriptural references

advanceDNA:
Its a metaphor of dealing with the flesh of the unrepentant church member….Na u nor read bible…. But u dey accuse pastor

BreakingNews21:
There seems to be some type of mental issues or mild insanity involved in this case as the psychologists suggested. Sexual abuse of young girls is a real issue.

The church and both families tried but to no avail. The marine girl and marine demon part of the story is interesting.

Mr. Husband should just peacefully divorce and move on with life.

DeepSight:
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That is no metaphor ol boy.

PlayerMeji:
This is one of the things courts in Germany are advocating for. To stop conjugal rights.

Meaning the fact that you are married does not give you rights to the kitty or the candy stick....

advanceDNA:
There is no mental issue… she ddnt want the man in the first place… her mother encouraged her to go ahead and she agreed to waste the guys time and money…..

PerfectStranger:
So nowadays folks just jump into marriage without dating or courtship first?

I'm sure he saw the sign but still went ahead. Imagine the amount he spent on wedding. His loss tho coz you can't force a person to like you.

BreakingNews21:
I disagree...The article as written says she was all smiles at the wedding but flipped and got cold in the hotel room and stayed that way. I didn't comprehend the part or significance of the daily baths.

Harddiskng:
E tire me.

Why refuse your partner sex, why even get married at all to them naa

NomorePMO:
The craz**est, annoying one is the pastor. First, why did he made reference to an harlot? Also, praying for her destruction

Wow

Calling her attitude demonic? "A disgrace to the church", very absurd statement....

advanceDNA:
She was just agreeing to waste the mans time…since the church her mother and the man kept insisting

Hope u read where she said she was no longer interested after the church had given green light that she doesnt love the guy.. but church counselled her and the guy also told her to pray…. Its was at that point she should have stood her ground..

qtx:
My brother na the pastor reaction even irritate me pass. I don't even know between the pastor and the lady who is more emotionally unstable. Haba

BreakingNews21:
You're making my point, there was mental confusion and going on what mental health experts call psychosis which manifest itself in several forms.

Bahamas95:
You can't force someone to love you.

The man is even risking his life because this kinda woman could poison him. Secondly, the pastor or whatever his title is sounds toxic to me.



For peace to reign it's better they go their separate ways........The man should count his loss because he ignored the handwriting on the wall.

brain54:
That girl is going through alot...


At first I wanted to criticize her. But on second thought she may have underlying psychological issues.

Maybe early abuse or even phobia for sex. If counselling hasn't worked it's okay to dissolve the marriage and everyone moves on without the plenty grammar from the pastor demonizing her.

He is right in certain aspects though... even harlots have sex with customers without feelings when I got to that part I just got weak and couldn't blame him too completely because it's crude but true.


Maybe hearing her side of the story would balance things up and create better understanding and clarity.

In the end she is the one who needs help psychologically to get through this phase of whatever it is she is facing!

advanceDNA:
Psychosis?? Why dont u add schizophrenia to the list…. U are reaching a clinical diagnosis over a few text on the internet…..:: welldone ma

Whats the mental issue there in not loving someone and the mother, church and husband to be kept insisting…. So becos she went ahead meant she had psychosis??
parents do this a lot..especially to girls…. They will tell you u have biological clock and u may not find another man…..this lady even handled her own case well, shes frustrating the man to make him send her packing.. go and read the many cases where the bride poisend the guest and her husband….

NNEVERAGAINN:
I feel pity for the guy. The wasted resources he spent just ti marry her and her forceful command just to please her. He has to bath before eating 🤣🤣🤣

Bahamas95:
You can't force someone to love you.

The man is even risking his life because this kinda woman could poison him. Secondly, the pastor or whatever his title is sounds toxic to me.



For peace to reign it's better they go their separate ways........The man should count his loss because he ignored the handwriting on the wall.

Starz825:
I no pity the guy..
Na mumunatu...


The lady clearly no like am....forget say pressure dey...

That lady didn't like that man from day 1....that's a big China flag on it own..

You still come go marry am hoping she will change ...change what

Be like he dey ment...he brought this upon himself...

NNEVERAGAINN:
I feel pity for the guy. The wasted resources he spent just ti marry her and her forceful command just to please her. He has to bath before eating 🤣🤣🤣

BreakingNews21:
Punch newspaper interviewed several psychologists that offered their professional opinions on this situation.