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How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Fuckallmods(op): 11:52am On Feb 21
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by nairalanda1(m): 11:59am On Feb 21
Okay, oga, time for some lectures
Yes, staph can be spread 'that way'

But staph can also be spread by
1. Using menstrual products longer than usual
2.Poor hygeine (not just not washing pants, not washing hands before changing menstrual products or cleaning around the vagina).
3.Using dirty towels, pants, etc./Sharing dirty towels (Do both of you share a towel or towels for example)
4.Shaving around the genitals, without adequate hand washing.

My friend, get your woman to see a gynaecologist for advice.

Also, both of you need to go and get counselling. There are issues in your marriage...that you never sorted out. And that should have been sorted out before you got married. This one that you are already accusing her of sleeping around !!
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Fuckallmods(op): 12:03pm On Feb 21
nairalanda1:
Okay, oga, time for some lectures
Yes, staph can be spread 'that way'

But staph can also be spread by
1. Using menstrual products longer than usual
2.Poor hygeine (not just not washing pants, not washing hands before changing menstrual products or cleaning around the vagina).
3.Using dirty towels, pants, etc./Sharing dirty towels (Do both of you share a towel or towels for example)
4.Shaving around the genitals, without adequate hand washing.

My friend, get your woman to see a gynaecologist for advice.

Also, both of you need to go and get counselling. There are issues in your marriage...that you never sorted out. And that should have been sorted out before you got married. This one that you are already accusing her of sleeping around !!
I don’t know where you saw me accusing anybody of sleeping around…
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Love800(m): 12:07pm On Feb 21
If you do swab-test, you must always test positive, because staph is in everyone's body.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by nairalanda1(m): 12:15pm On Feb 21
Fuckallmods:
I don’t know where you saw me accusing anybody of sleeping around…
Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.
I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs
Well, me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much.

Get counselling. You and your wife. You both entered marriage with the wrong type of expectations.

(Also, too much I)
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Zonefree(m): 12:26pm On Feb 21
We don hear you, former good man.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Magnetic010: 12:34pm On Feb 21
Honestly I don’t even know what to tell you, seems you have decided on what to do already so what are you waiting to hear from us? “GO AHEAD “
It’s your life and your marriage paddle it whichever way you think best
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by nairalanda1(m): 12:46pm On Feb 21
Magnetic010:
Honestly I don’t even know what to tell you, seems you have decided on what to do already so what are you waiting to hear from us? “GO AHEAD “
It’s your life and your marriage paddle it whichever way you think best
I daresay he has already done so...
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Dzzzz: 2:05pm On Feb 21
!!!BREAKING NEWS!!!..THERES NOTHING LIKE TOILET INFECTION..ITS STD or STI so no talk say I no tell you oo..
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Bukola94(m): 3:26pm On Feb 21
Love800:
If you do swab-test, you must always test positive, because staph is in everyone's body.
Doctor please explain further, staphylococcus is in everyone's body and must always test positive?
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by ruggedtimi(m): 3:32pm On Feb 21
Love800:
If you do swab-test, you must always test positive, because staph is in everyone's body.
omo na wetin people no know..Staph is on every person's skin...Most boil is caused by staph.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by SixSeven: 3:45pm On Feb 21
Zonefree:
We don hear you, former good man.
Former good man 😂 😂 😂 😂
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by franchasng: 3:45pm On Feb 21
Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.
We are approaching election year to decide the future of Nigeria, you guys need to tone down on all these marital and domestic issues you bring online so that we can stay focused on things that matter most now.


Like someone told you already, Staph is part of every human's normal flora and so it's always in the body of every human.


You might be suspecting your wife unnecessarily.


On your wife denying you sex since you guys have been together, it means she is not that attracted to you or there are some things about you that turns her off but she is just keeping them to herself and just trying to cope.


Every woman love sex, including the single ladies. It is only when a woman meets her kind of man that tickles her fancy that you will know that she is a sex machine.


It is only very insignificant sexually active women that don't love sex and it's probably cos of abuse or some medical issues.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by brain54(m): 4:11pm On Feb 21
Another super story don done...


People fit lie say they rape them... na this kind story they no fit form.


This story dey play!
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by fyneboi79(m): 4:42pm On Feb 21
Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.
Which public toilet? Ditch her altogether because she's cheating with another man.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by CLOUDRepublic: 4:56pm On Feb 21
Tell her you want to have a full access to her Whatsapp and FB messages.. if she's been unfaithful, she will not allow it
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by weslay: 5:03pm On Feb 21
Dzzzz:
!!!BREAKING NEWS!!!..THERES NOTHING LIKE TOILET INFECTION..ITS STD or STI so no talk say I no tell you oo..
Lies
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by CHARLOE(m): 8:40pm On Feb 21
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Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.
Thank God for ur life, better be using CD until she's properly treated. Staph na stubborn infection
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by bdon123(m): 10:17pm On Feb 21
Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.
Staph is not only gotten through sex

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Ovieemmanuel: 4:34am On Feb 22
Your thinking is low sha. From your previous post sure you have stated smoking weed.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by MarketDispatch: 6:22am On Feb 22
CLOUDRepublic:
Tell her you want to have a full access to her Whatsapp and FB messages.. if she's been unfaithful, she will not allow it
Don't tell her nothing...she will clear all the messages and chats and change names of the people.


Just check it without telling her.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by IamAsiri: 6:44am On Feb 22
Dzzzz:
!!!BREAKING NEWS!!!..THERES NOTHING LIKE TOILET INFECTION..ITS STD or STI so no talk say I no tell you oo..
If you don't know something, you can actually try to learn.
The easiest to ask now is AI.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by oskisammy: 6:58am On Feb 22
e fit be herpes
she is denying you sex because she doesn't want to infect you during her outbreaks

Go to Synlab and test for herpes

Staphylococcus is natural floral of the body, it is not an std
if staph infection actually happens e.g in the blood
it is life threatening and can lead to sepsis.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Dzzzz: 8:12am On Feb 22
IamAsiri:
If you don't know something, you can actually try to learn.
The easiest to ask now is AI.
I guess you need it.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Dzzzz: 8:13am On Feb 22
IamAsiri:
If you don't know something, you can actually try to learn.
The easiest to ask now is AI.
When you suppose to read and equip your brain with wisdom.You were busy chasing lizard on the fence,now see your life..
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by DeltaBachelor(m): 12:22pm On Feb 22
Hmmm. Take her to do a “lie detector “ test then
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Dtruthspeaker: 1:17pm On Feb 22
Fuckallmods:
One thing I
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.
Did you not see this guy's threads?

https://www.nairaland.com/8610958/like-wives-cannot-keep-up

There is nothing like "unlimited sehx". No one woman can supply you with unlimited sehx.

But, your own is worse ooo. Your wife hates you.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Love800(m): 3:15pm On Feb 22
That swab test stuff will always test positive of staphylococcus, because we have the good and bad staph particles residing in our systems.

So if you want to test for staph infection, go for urinalysis and blood test(this one, the doctors just take ur urine and blood and go test dem).
This way, the bad particles of staph can be detected if there is any.
Bukola94:
Doctor please explain further, staphylococcus is in everyone's body and must always test positive?
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Love800(m): 3:21pm On Feb 22
Nice observation.

I appreciate.
ruggedtimi:
omo na wetin people no know..Staph is on every person's skin...Most boil is caused by staph.
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by Bukola94(m): 4:54pm On Feb 22
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Love800:
That swab test stuff will always test positive of staphylococcus, because we have the good and bad staph particles residing in our systems.

So if you want to test for staph infection, go for urinalysis and blood test(this one, the doctors just take ur urine and blood and go test dem).
This way, the bad particles of staph can be detected if there is any.
thank you very much Sir for the clear ins
Re: How Did My Wife Have Staph? by BusterG: 5:40am On Feb 23
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nairalanda1:
Okay, oga, time for some lectures
Yes, staph can be spread 'that way'

But staph can also be spread by
1. Using menstrual products longer than usual
2.Poor hygeine (not just not washing pants, not washing hands before changing menstrual products or cleaning around the vagina).
3.Using dirty towels, pants, etc./Sharing dirty towels (Do both of you share a towel or towels for example)
4.Shaving around the genitals, without adequate hand washing.

My friend, get your woman to see a gynaecologist for advice.

Also, both of you need to go and get counselling. There are issues in your marriage...that you never sorted out. And that should have been sorted out before you got married. This one that you are already accusing her of sleeping around !!
Simpson like you are the reason why these women keep doing guys dirty.
Just imagine the crap you posted above.
An infected guy is bleeping the nonsense outta that woman.
Keeping fooling yourself.
Ode
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