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GloriousGbola:
It is not about regret. It is about the wrong sponsor seeing the tweets after they have been blown out of proportion. Oyibos take anything child abuse very seriously. So even if she is joking or kidding one sponsor can take it in bad taste.

Before it happened to Ezra, it happened to James Gunn.

She gonna have Business regret and family regrets.

Both the child molestation post and that of the J. Cole obsession.


Even if Adekunle Gold knew about all these before now,


He ain't gonna look at her the same way considering the various backlash and discussion on the Matter.


And your business aspect is also on point.

Kimbeast:
Can you explain what positive outcome bullying has for a child who loses their self esteem and goes on to suffer severe PTSD into adulthood?
There is extensive research showing the long term psychological harm bullying causes to children and how it negatively affects them later in life. If you are aware of any credible studies demonstrating that bullying has a positive impact on teenagers please provide the links.

Can you explain the positive outcome of failures which makes people lose their self esteem and suffer severe PTSD. From exams to business to family etc

Yet failure happens everyday and can we wish it away

Same with disappointment and rejection

Kimbeast:
Failure is not the same thing as bullying at all. Trying to draw a parallel between the two is irritating and dishonest. Failure can be a learning experience, bullying is deliberate harm. You are trying to praise bad behavior instead of addressing and stamping it out.

Bullying experience can be turned into how to stand up to adversity

There are people who have committed suicide by being rejected for visas, by boyfriends by jobs

Yet this week another set of human would be denied jobs visas and love

raumdeuter:
Can you explain the positive outcome of failures which makes people lose their self esteem and suffer severe PTSD. From exams to business to family etc

Yet failure happens everyday and can we wish it away

Same with disappointment and rejection

They are various research on the positive of failure and how it's a major component for success. Can you link any source on the positive of bullying like you claimed?

They got Adekunle too... because of Simi.

https://x.com/i/status/2025595620120047689

raumdeuter:
Bullying experience can be turned into how to stand up to adversity

There are people who have committed suicide by being rejected for visas, by boyfriends by jobs

Yet this week another set of human would be denied jobs visas and love

Link me a research or study that shows the positive of bullying on pubescent children and teenagers.

Like Kimberly, Silverbird OAP on live television insists false rape accusations do not ruin men so do not matter.

“R@pe accusations do not always ruin men’s lives. Many celebrities who have been accused of r@pe continue to enjoy successful careers in their fields. So, giving the same punishment to a r@pist & a false rape accuser is not logical..”

-Silverbird presenter Joy pic.twitter.com/SSqjlv7hOs

— Arthur🇳🇬🇬🇧🇸🇳 (@AjMachalaa) February 22, 2026

raumdeuter:
Bullying experience can be turned into how to stand up to adversity

To show how ridiculous this comment is. It's like saying Rape experience can be turned into how to stand up to adversity therefore rape is a positive and good thing. I don't think you really grasp what you are saying or implying.

GloriousGbola:
It is not about regret. It is about the wrong sponsor seeing the tweets after they have been blown out of proportion. Oyibos take anything child abuse very seriously. So even if she is joking or kidding one sponsor can take it in bad taste.

Before it happened to Ezra, it happened to James Gunn.

Plus they are now based abroad before CS start paying them visits

GloriousGbola:
Like everything else, these are nothing burger posts

Small kids are grabby until they are given clear boundaries about nono spots

Imagine a man tweeting this about a 4 yrs old girl.....

iamoyindamola:
Plus they are now based abroad before CS start paying them visits

Hope say dem no dey yankee

Uncle Trump with his deportation quota will jump on them. Nigerian child sex ring busted by heroic ice crime busters!

Kimbeast:
They are various research on the positive of failure and how it's a major component for success. Can you link any source on the positive of bullying like you claimed?

There are also research that shows failures can damage people irreparably that some schools in the west are removing grades and tests so that no one fails

There have been writings like this which I just saw by Googling Positives of bullying

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anxiety-another-name-pain/202001/the-physiological-benefits-bullying

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9545478/

Kimbeast:
To show how ridiculous this comment is. It's like saying Rape experience can be turned into how to stand up to adversity therefore rape is a positive and good thing. I don't think you really grasp what you are saying or implying.

Rape and bullying are not the same

Trying to equate them is extreme straw manning

raumdeuter:
There are also research that shows failures can damage people irreparably that some schools in the west are removing grades and tests so that no one fails

There have been writings like this which I just saw by Googling Positives of bullying

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anxiety-another-name-pain/202001/the-physiological-benefits-bullying

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9545478/

The fact you are still comparing failures to bullying is very irritating for someone who is definitely educated.


Your first link didn't work and your 2nd link said benefits for perpetrators.

raumdeuter:
There is nowhere you will grow up in a real society and not meet bullies

That guy dey live for La La Land. 😂😂

GloriousGbola:
Hope say dem no dey yankee

Uncle Trump with his deportation quota will jump on them. Nigerian child sex ring busted by heroic ice crime busters!

Be like na yankee oo
I think that's one of the reason for deleted tweets

Kimbeast:
The fact you are still comparing failures to bullying is very irritating for someone who is definitely educated.


Your first link didn't work and your 2nd link said benefits for perpetrators.

Google it

Positives of bullying. See many studies on it

Some people have realized that life will never be perfect. You will always have people who dont like you for whatever reasons and act on it,

In an ideal world there would be no bullies, no failures no rejection no disappointments. Everyone will pass every exam, every love interest will like them back, every job they apply for will accept them etc

But reality is different

raumdeuter:
Rape and bullying are not the same

Trying to equate them is extreme straw manning

They are definitely related and follow the same pattern of coercion.

Izzou

You told me confidently that PDP was dead but FCT election just showed PDP winning 1 LGA and ADC winning zero

Ike gwuru

The shït keeps getting worse.

Anyways, I like wetin dem dey do am. If you wan dey fight culture war, get ready for the blowback.
If you can't stand the heat, no stay inside kitchen.

raumdeuter:
Izzou

You told me confidently that PDP was dead but FCT election just showed PDP winning 1 LGA and ADC winning zero

Ike gwuru

I thought it was ADC that won 1 LGA and nothing for PDP.

raumdeuter:
Google it

Positives of bullying. See many studies on it

Some people have realized that life will never be perfect. You will always have people who dont like you for whatever reasons and act on it,

In an ideal world there would be no bullies, no failures no rejection no disappointments. Everyone will pass every exam, every love interest will like them back, every job they apply for will accept them etc

But reality is different

You dont actually know what you are implying so I will leave it at that.

Just send me a research link on the positive of bullying on teenagers and children. I would love to see it.

abduleez1:
I thought it was ADC that won 1 LGA and nothing for PDP.

Na PDP I dey see oh

Out of 6 LGA, APC won 5 PDP won 1

https://www.nairaland.com/8622944/pdps-mohammed-kasim-wins-gwagwaada

abduleez1:
The shït keeps getting worse.

Anyways, I like wetin dem dey do am. If you wan dey fight culture war, get ready for the blowback.
If you can't stand the heat, no stay inside kitchen.

Look at this sexist menist red pilled male chauvinist telling women to sit in the kitchen

She no try at all

Kimbeast:
You dont actually know what you are implying so I will leave it at that.

Just send me a research link on the positive of bullying on teenagers and children. I would love to see it.

This is one person's experience

https://baacoa.medium.com/the-potential-benefits-of-getting-bullied-1279a158cf1c

raumdeuter:
This is one person's experience

https://baacoa.medium.com/the-potential-benefits-of-getting-bullied-1279a158cf1c

So a rape victim who shrugged off the abuse and becomes successful means rape is a positive and good thing that should be encouraged?

DissTroy:
They got Adekunle too... because of Simi.

https://x.com/i/status/2025595620120047689

Omo, I no even know who worse pass between she and her hubby. Wetin dey occur?? 😂😂

Kimbeast:
So a rape victim who shrugged it off and becomes successful means rape is a positive and good thing?

You are the one linking rape to bullying

The writer gave his own opinion you dont have to agree with it

raumdeuter:
You are the one linking rape to bullying

The writer gave his own opinion you dont have to agree with it

I already showed you bullying and rape are related and they fall under abuse. Why is using rape in your example unacceptable but bullying accepted? A rape victim who also becomes successful and grew from the abuse should also mean rape is a positive according to you.

abduleez1:
Omo, I no even know who worse pass between she and her hubby. Wetin dey occur?? 😂😂

Dont be shocked if its Adekunle Gold that successfully gets canceled

Kimbeast:
I already showed you bullying and rape are related and they fall under abuse. Why is using rape in your example unacceptable but bullying accepted?

They are not the same

You can also claim that rape and stealing are the same thing.

There is a reason why rape gets a different punishment from bullying