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A40:
All I'm saying is we cannot be playing this card now and did not play it when Ezra was on the hot seat.

What was Ezra's crime? He was going to ask for money from a friend/lover. Said person proactively put him on Twitter blast and people dug into his tweets from the same time line Simi's own was dug. He was found guilty both in the court of public opinion and also his employment place.

Nobody was accused of being jobless then.

If a male musician tweeted that about a 4y.o girl 13-14 years ago nobody will be saying this all of you are saying here.

And that is the double standards that we want to call out. It is that alibi that gave her the hubris to type what she typed initially, a grave miscalculation on her part

What's good for the Jews should be good for Uganda.

actually there are differences

Ezra is the ceo of a financial services company with oyibo investors in an industry that does not want controversy

it is an industry where they expect ogas at the top to be sober, suited up and def not wearing make up and painted nails. i am sure a lot of board members were already uncomfortable and ezra did not do himself any favors by thinking his brilliance was all that was needed to carry the day.

any issue with simi ends with her. she is a tier c entertainer , but issues with Ezra can come back to bite his company and partners. esp in a conservative nation like nigeria when they are looking for one regulatory approval and the person to sin off on approval says no be that company wey dem oga dey knack pu**y cat

in the end his termination imho was more about Risk management issues the controversy brought to light.

if i recall, i had said repeatedly that everything Ezra wrote was just shit posting. cringe, gross, but ultimately just shit posting.

but the feminazi brigade are cut from the same cloth as the banger boy brigade. mirror imags with a focus on bringing people down.

APC fall hands letting a dopemu like Seyi rep them in a debate, just rambling and talking nonsense. In as much as this failure of Govt is hard to defend, the likes of Raumdeuter and Ajuri would've turned the amala better, emotional ones like Seyi and his Uncle Bayo go just yam pepper scatter everywhere Bayo oni 'sons of bitchhhes' fit even begin fight for studio

DissTroy:
Reports circulating on X are, Mirabel (FRA) has been released by the Ogun State Police while the Ministry of Women Affairs takes over.

Of course, they'll kîll the case.
https://x.com/i/status/2026756109818610087

Now pressure will be ramped on David to get Adeife have her day in court and so labeled.

No doubt. She will be release, and since there is actually no nominal complainant, her case might be thrown under the bus. Ministry of Women Affairs will rehabilitate her and probably give her a better life. This is how these things work.

David's case is different. Instead of him pursuing criminal case, let him go for civil case because that girl going to jail doesn't benefit him in any way. However, she paying 15 million or even 50 million is the height of it. This I've learnt and vividly advise any Nigerian to toe this line. Seeking and claiming damages is the way. It drives home a point and sends a clear message.

Also, if David wants to be 'wicked' like most females tag men who refuse to succumb to their gimmicks and antics, he can now pursue both criminal and civil case. Though it will take time. The criminal case is for the sole purpose of tagging her a convict, if she's found guilty. Although, since it's False Information, she might be sentenced to 6 months in prison or an option of fine: which is, to pay the nominal complainant (David) 460K and 50K to the FG. Then she can walk and later David claim the Hell out of her.

So, the criminal case is just for her to have the "convict" tag on her for life!. Now this is truly wicked. It's the same with that girl who collected money to visit a guy and refuse to come. She might be saying she paid the money on the spot, but heck, whether she knows it or likes it, she's a convict, period!.

GloriousGbola:
What they are trying to do is bully a person who does not share their views into silence. create an environment where their own view is law and the only view that can be voiced. That is how you create an echo chamber. Today it is Simi, tomorrow it could be someone else with a much tamer but still unacceptable view to the banger boy mob.


its easy to knock simi because false rape accusations are a sensitive issue. but that is not what this is really about. it is about shutting up people who do not share the opinions of the banger boy mob. today simi , tomorrow someone who says women are as competent as men in the work place.

How are they shutting her up? I don't like these tactics you people use

Will you say this if a man was guilty of saying what Simi said? For lying about her tweets not being perverted?

So because she said stop graping women her pedo adjacent tweets should be unlooked? Her unprovoked anti Igbo tweets nko. So it's bullying her into silence to show that.

Anything you say you either apologize or you stand on that. All this bullying talk like say na secondary school person dey

You're villainizing banger boys what about the rabid feminazis that ran Ezra out of the app?

I don't like partia. Without consistency chaos is the only outcome

joseph1832:
The criminal case is for the sole purpose of tagging her a convict, if she's found guilty. Although, since it's False Information, she might be sentenced to 6 months in prison or an option of fine: which is, to pay the nominal complainant (David) 460K and 50K to the FG. Then she can walk and later David claim the Hell out of her.

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It's actually libel since it was broadcasted.
Both David and Adeife are OAU students. OAU is in Osun State. I had to look it up days ago – libel is a criminal offence in Osun. It's been decriminalized in Lagos that's why Farotimi was bundled to Ekiti for a criminal trial.

A40:
How are they shutting her up? I don't like these tactics you people use

Will you say this if a man was guilty of saying what Simi said? For lying about her tweets not being perverted?

So because she said stop graping women her pedo adjacent tweets should be unlooked? Her unprovoked anti Igbo tweets nko. So it's bullying her into silence to show that.

Anything you say you either apologize or you stand on that. All this bullying talk like say na secondary school person dey

You're villainizing banger boys what about the rabid feminazis that ran Ezra out of the app?

I don't like partia. Without consistency chaos is the only outcome

i do not have the energy or motivation, but if i wanted to play the same game and i go through your entire post history, you will have enough hot takes for me to spin you as anything i want to make you.

cyber bullying is a thing and if you want to deny it exists because of agenda, thats fine

every day on this very nairaland i see guys staunchly defend grape. my default response - block the poster and move on. it is really that simple.

GloriousGbola:
actually there are differences

Ezra is the ceo of a financial services company with oyibo investors in an industry that does not want controversy

it is an industry where they expect ogas at the top to be sober, suited up and def not wearing make up and painted nails. i am sure a lot of board members were already uncomfortable and ezra did not do himself any favors by thinking his brilliance was all that was needed to carry the day.

any issue with simi ends with her. she is a tier c entertainer , but issues with Ezra can come back to bite his company and partners. esp in a conservative nation like nigeria when they are looking for one regulatory approval and the person to sin off on approval says no be that company wey dem oga dey knack pu**y cat

in the end his termination imho was more about Risk management issues the controversy brought to light.

if i recall, i had said repeatedly that everything Ezra wrote was just shit posting. cringe, gross, but ultimately just shit posting.

but the feminazi brigade are cut from the same cloth as the banger boy brigade. mirror imags with a focus on bringing people down.

It is still the same digging they did for her that they did for Simi. I don't see the crime there.

Anyone who was not sufficiently outraged then should not be outraged now. All Ezra did was ask for the money he borrowed his female friend.

That was also a form of silencing. Silencing that cost him his job and affected his social reputation

Simi on the other hand had to do was apologize for her out of pocket posts and not lie. 2012 was a different time. Instead she was still playing Victor. So you tell people to STFU when the accusations you were jumping all around turned out to be fake and then lied.

She went full Princess Kitana mode and feminazis egged her on. Well the time to play victim has sailed.

People will learn the importance of giving each other grace after this incident and that's what I'm most glad about

A40:
He's like all these overzealous bouncer and bodyguards that in the attempt to impress 'oga' do the work wey nobody send am

Nobody can see Nigeria today and tell us everything is fine. You have to be really really stupppid to do that.

Any opposition is already leading you 1-0. You just have to find a draw, not win.

Tinubu is not campaigning to be president. He is. So the argument of 2023 cannot be applied in 2026.

Seyi was confusing Electronic voting with electronic transmission of results. Omoh...The guy was a disaster

A40:
It is still the same digging they did for her that they did for Simi. I don't see the crime there.

Anyone who was not sufficiently outraged then should not be outraged now. All Ezra did was ask for the money he borrowed his female friend.

That was also a form of silencing. Silencing that cost him his job and affected his social reputation

Simi on the other hand had to do was apologize for her out of pocket posts and not lie. 2012 was a different time. Instead she was still playing Victor. So you tell people to STFU when the accusations you were jumping all around turned out to be fake and then lied.

She went full Princess Kitana mode and feminazis egged her on. Well the time to play victim has sailed.

People will learn the importance of giving each other grace after this incident and that's what I'm most glad about

NOTHING is going to change. the next incident will be even worse.

the system is designed for outrage and opposing sides want blood.

DissTroy:
It's actually libel since it was broadcasted.
Both David and Adeife are OAU students. OAU is in Osun State. I had to look it up days ago – libel is a criminal offence in Osun. It's been decriminalized in Lagos that's why Farotimi was bundled to Ekiti for a criminal trial.

I was referring to the Mirabel case, not David and Adeife.

joseph1832:
I was referring to the Mirabel case, not David and Adeife.

Another false rãpe accûser slammed with a court case.

Yes! https://www.facebook.com/share/1AnNZxBq26/

DissTroy:
Another false rãpe accûser slammed with a court case.

Yes! https://www.facebook.com/share/1AnNZxBq26/

Good. This is very direct. He can pursue both criminal and civil case. In the criminal case, he's the nominal complainant and the accuse Oghenekome isn't going to walk away like Mirabel did.

GloriousGbola:
i do not have the energy or motivation, but if i wanted to play the same game and i go through your entire post history, you will have enough hot takes for me to spin you as anything i want to make you.

cyber bullying is a thing and if you want to deny it exists because of agenda, thats fine

every day on this very nairaland i see guys staunchly defend grape. my default response - block the poster and move on. it is really that simple.

The difference is I don't care. I'm not here to impress or look good for anybody. I've never claimed righteousness or infallibility

Reagan said it best. If you're explaining you're losing

Cyberbullying is doxxing people and legitimately threatening their sources of income for no justified reasons. Quoting sexually inappropriate things you said about a toddler as a full adult is not Cyberbullying

Stop conflating two unrelated things

People harass Wizarab everyday on Twitter anytime he posts. Whether by himself or the opposite sex. That is Cyberbullying


The actor Daniel Etim. Go and check whenever his wife posts or even he posts and see how they harass that man and his wife cos he doesn't worship the ground she walks on and is actually playing the game how it should be played

That is Cyberbullying

joseph1832:
Good. This is very direct. He can pursue both criminal and civil case. In the criminal case, he's the nominal complainant and the accuse Oghenekome isn't going to walk away like Mirabel did.

I really don't know how these people think.

E be like say one special giveaway or some kind of money sharing scheme dey happen for our prisons.

Why is everybody doing anything to be there?

GloriousGbola:
NOTHING is going to change. the next incident will be even worse.

the system is designed for outrage and opposing sides want blood.

Well all the best then. Because I remember how everyone came for that CCI pastor. Harassed the man, harassed the would be wife. It was cool and the gang then

Nobody wanted to hear anything

There's a reason people call for fairness, for restraint cos tomorrow it can be you caught slipping.

izzou:
I really don't know how these people think.

E be like say one special giveaway or some kind of money sharing scheme dey happen for our prisons.

Why is everybody doing anything to be there?

Ignorance bro. Ignorance is the watch word. Many Nigerians do what they do because they believe "nothing dey happen" and even if e happen. Na beg Dem go beg.

So bro, we are so warped and mentally depraved that, when we start begging, and whoever we beg, refuse to give in, the system take that person to be wicked and unreasonable. It's just how it is.

Just watch if or when David take Adeife to court, how people will start cussing_ David and say he's taking it too far, after all, she already begged him.

It's just the way it is. Women do things and get away with it, if it's a man who do the same stuff, he's a goner. If you've watched Saprtacus: House of Ashur. A female gladiator told a man "I will fvck you tonight, little man" and the man replied " and I shall let you".

If it was the man who told the female gladiator that same thing. The wokist won't let us rest with their tirades and tantrums.

izzou:
Nobody can see Nigeria today and tell us everything is fine. You have to be really really stupppid to do that.

Any opposition is already leading you 1-0. You just have to find a draw, not win.

Tinubu is not campaigning to be president. He is. So the argument of 2023 cannot be applied in 2026.

Seyi was confusing Electronic voting with electronic transmission of results. Omoh...The guy was a disaster

Tinubu has been a spectacular failure. That one is not in doubt.

Seyilaw has his family outside Nigeria so he is not fooling anybody.

Arguing with Seyilaw you're just rage baiting yourself. That is time that can be used to do other productive things or keep yourself sane.

His second term I guarantee would be even worse.

But it goes deeper than Tinubu. Tinubu is only a symptom of the problem. Nigerians as a whole have to look at ourselves and find out what the long term plan is.

DissTroy:
Simi has deleted almost 3,000 tweets since in the last 5 days.

You know how perverted you have to have 3,000 tweets of yours deleted to cover your tracks yet people are still finding more?

https://x.com/i/status/2026749866005909835
This is the real Simi.

3000 tweets between 2011 and 2024 is 13 years.

That's roughly 231 perverted tweets a year.

That girl no wise at all. As soon as the first tweet came out from as far back as 2013 she should have clocked that this was a different game and deleted her account

That's the problem when you want to play tough instead of knowing when to hold em and when to fold em. All traits of woman wey likely no dey listen to her husband

She wan do no retreat no surrender. Lol. Smh

It’s obvious most people on this thread have not been directly involved in a real court case in Nigeria either at the magistrate court or high court level .

Whether you are the plaintiff or the defendant , e get the way court sittings/appearance go tire you , especially when the case gets adjourned from time to time due to one reason or the other .

There’s a reason why most parties in civil suits almost always go for out of court settlement .

We had a real life experience as a family , na me tell my parents to withdraw the case because of the stress and logistics wahala involved in getting justice .

Going to court and getting justice pass make lawyer write letter give your opps say “you have been served “ o. Nigeria no be UK or America o.

izzou:
I really don't know how these people think.
E be like say one special giveaway or some kind of money sharing scheme dey happen for our prisons.
Why is everybody doing anything to be there?

I will try my best to explain it to you and not make it too long

The jump from being a child under the law with no real consequence and an adult with 100% consequence is too sharp and many people are not prepared for it. The transition between a minor and adulthod is to steep

If you turn 18 on Friday. Today it will be illegal for me a 40Plus person to beat you nack you or fvcck your life up, But by Saturday I can do anything to you. The law sees you and me a equal. Now ask me what has changed in your thinking and brain between today and Saturday when this huge burden of responsibility drops on you

Life is a constant learning experience, I am not the person I was at 23, 30, 35 and 40. I grow gradually and learn but the law does not allow for that. The same expectatons for a 25yr old banger boy is what they give Afe Babalola

A child is used to getting away with things, insult someone, yarn rubbish and think you can get away with it like you used to as an adult not knowing that the rules have changed

Its almost like you play ball today, by tomorrow them don change the rules without informing and preparing you

If I have my way to make laws, 1-16yr will be childhood no rights no consequence(everything consult parents), 17 to 25 will be transition yrs where you get limited rights and limited consequences but not all. After 25yrs then full adulthood with all right and all consequence

A40:
The difference is I don't care. I'm not here to impress or look good for anybody. I've never claimed righteousness or infallibility

Reagan said it best. If you're explaining you're losing

Cyberbullying is doxxing people and legitimately threatening their sources of income for no justified reasons. Quoting sexually inappropriate things you said about a toddler as a full adult is not Cyberbullying

Stop conflating two unrelated things

People harass Wizarab everyday on Twitter anytime he posts. Whether by himself or the opposite sex. That is Cyberbullying


The actor Daniel Etim. Go and check whenever his wife posts or even he posts and see how they harass that man and his wife cos he doesn't worship the ground she walks on and is actually playing the game how it should be played

That is Cyberbullying

at least now you admit cyberbullying exists and is not talk like 'na secondary school we dey'

your issue is clear. in your mind ezra was sacked because of his past posts that were dug up and therefore simi must suffer an equivalent fate

but you refuse to understand the context -

which is if ezra was an entertainer like simi - it would be embarrassment and thats where it would have ended
A ceo who is the face of a financial services company will beheld to a much higher standard of conduct than an entertainer
Ezra is a billionaire several times over and will be fine - he likely has other companies wanting to snap him up

Years ago some of james gunns offensive old tweets were unearthed by an oyibo banger boy type. James Gunn was immediately sacked by marvel/disney, and was immediately snapped up by DC. the same disney still rehired him.

so if you want to carry water for a billionaire tech mogul in his prime with a skillset that has him in demand, be my guest.

On top of this Ezra has said he will sue for wrongful termination and i am sure they will settle by dashing him a hefty severance bonus

in your bid to chase for equal male female outcomes, you forget to consider the outcome of multinational ceo vs local entertainer

BlueRayDick:
It’s obvious most people on this thread have not been directly involved in a real court case in Nigeria either at the magistrate court or high court level .

Whether you are the plaintiff or the defendant , e get the way court sittings/appearance go tire you , especially when the case gets adjourned from time to time due to one reason or the other .

There’s a reason why most parties in civil suits almost always go for out of court settlement .

We had a real life experience as a family , na me tell my parents to withdraw the case because of the stress and logistics wahala involved in getting justice .

Going to court and getting justice pass make lawyer write letter give your opps say “you have been served “ o. Nigeria no be UK or America o.

imho it is mostly just posturing.

it is not as if Adeifa being sued has the capability to pay the money.

it is unlikely that David has the money to pay the lawyer running the case - unless of course na menist association dey back am

the lawyer sef go tire to dey run pro bono case that will run for years with a predictable outcome.

almost all these billion naira suit end on pages on newspaper and are for shock and awe.


Like the case of Erisco vs that lady, once all the noise has died down it will be David and adeifa financing this case on their own dime while the mob has moved on to other things

GloriousGbola:
imho it is mostly just posturing.

it is not as if Adeifa being sued has the capability to pay the money.

it is unlikely that David has the money to pay the lawyer running the case - unless of course na menist association dey back am

the lawyer sef go tire to dey run pro bono case that will run for years with a predictable outcome.

almost all these billion naira suit end on pages on newspaper and are for shock and awe.

Both of them are students , the court process will tire both of them out .

Even if both of them got lawyers who volunteered to stand for each party for free , by the time sitting begins they may end up opting for out of court settlement .

The days the court will be sitting may fall on an exam date for either of the two parties or even both of them sef . They may both be residing on Campus at Ife and the court will sit at Osogbo; they will both transport themselves to the court whether they like it or not .

For the guy who instituted the suit, the frustration of the court process may force him to accept the lady’s apology and discontinue the case . When he does a lot of online fans and well wishers will call him names and may even label him coward , but that time he won’t really send them .

Even if he endures the rigorous court process and gets judgement after all back & forth , the girl will most likely tell the court she’s a student who has no means to raise the N15m damages awarded to the guy by the court .

Conventional wisdom on social media is that you should not bow to the mob, cause more often than not what they need is a good lynching, and not justice, so I'm surprised seeing people say Simi should have apologized. Someone is speaking specifically and generally on issue A, and you then decide that's a good time to bring up issue B that weakens the point she's trying to pass across, then take offence that she didn't acknowledge issue B in her tweets...lol.

Not even an apology would have saved Simi from the excavation that was being done on her old tweets, and we don't have to look far to see evidence of this. Disstroy posted what he thought was an apology video by Simi, where she pleaded with her online critics to forgive her and not destroy her marriage...did that stop Distroy from sharing more excavation materials? No, he and several others had latched on, and they were not going to stop until they got to the end of the matter.

Ezra's situation and SImi's are alike, but not exact. If Ezra had not been found guilty of being inappropriate with work colleagues, his situation would have likely played the way SImi's is playing out, by social media lynching and ocstracizing...his sack was tied to him fvcking subordinates.

And Ezra wasn't pushed out of SM by feminists alone, as much of the digging was done by PatriachyFC. Ezra wasn't a man that became a victim of feminists, he was a man that was as much a feminist as any other, and when his ugly tweets surfaced, was dealt with by men (who had never been his fan), and women who were offended that his past clashed with what he postures to be today.

A40:
It is still the same digging they did for her that they did for Simi. I don't see the crime there.

Anyone who was not sufficiently outraged then should not be outraged now. All Ezra did was ask for the money he borrowed his female friend.

That was also a form of silencing. Silencing that cost him his job and affected his social reputation

Simi on the other hand had to do was apologize for her out of pocket posts and not lie. 2012 was a different time. Instead she was still playing Victor. So you tell people to STFU when the accusations you were jumping all around turned out to be fake and then lied.

She went full Princess Kitana mode and feminazis egged her on. Well the time to play victim has sailed.

People will learn the importance of giving each other grace after this incident and that's what I'm most glad about

What truly nailed Ezra was the digging that was done on him and not any offence that people took because he asked for his money from his former lover.

His lover, the Maxi chick started a dig, but what she was digging for was completly different from what the people that joined her in the digging discovered...it was the other thing they dug that finished him on Twitter.

A case could be made for every tweet that Simi made up until the tweets on paedophilia came out, and those of us that called out the bullying she was dealing with before all of that had reasons to call it out. GloriousG that is trying to rationalize away her tweets as sh1tposting made same argument when Ezra was on the chopping block.

Theflint1:
And Ezra wasn't pushed out of SM by feminists alone, as much of the digging was done by PatriachyFC. Ezra wasn't a man that became a victim of feminists, he was a man that was as much a feminist as any other, and when his ugly tweets surfaced, was dealt with by men (who had never been his fan), and women who were offended that his past clashed with what he postures to be today

as an aside, it is called growth

which is why we say a person who sees the world the same way he did at 60 as he did at 20 has wasted 40 years of his life

i legit remember a conversation with a friend many years ago where she recounted a story of a bus robbery where the women were gang raped after the robbery. and she said - the robbers were considerate though, they used condoms. i looked at her but did not say anything . a year or so later this lady and her husband were carjacked and by her own account, one of the robbers kept trying to initiate a rape . i guess that would have been her period of growth when she learnt not to describe rapists as considerate

the only takeaway for me from all this - i called my son and reminded him that social media is a permanent record that can be used against you in the future and you must think very very carefully about what you post there. different people with different agendas can see your posts in future and use them against you. it is doubly important when you are young and want to say edgy things so you can look cool among your peers.

you want to see growth look at eddie murphy - the man who gave us raw morphed into a man making family movies. and today he is a solid family man. no way he will put out the content form the 80s if he was touring today.

so if this twitter mob starts playing back his old shows can that be construed as saying eddie murphy is a chauvinist?

Theflint1:
Ezra's situation and SImi's are alike, but not exact. If Ezra had not been found guilty of being inappropriate with work colleagues, his situation would have likely played the way SImi's is playing out, by social media lynching and ocstracizing.

And Ezra wasn't pushed out of SM by feminists alone, as much of the digging was done by PatriachyFC. Ezra wasn't a man that became a victim of feminists, he was a man that was as much a feminist as any other, and when his ugly tweets surfaced, was dealt with by men (who had never been his fan), and women who were offended that his past clashed with what he postures to be today.

I don't get the part in bold, Simi was not being inappropriate with a work colleague either

There is a part of this that probably everyone knows but we do not want to admit, As much as women fight for equality and abolishing gender roles, the truth is there are certain things including crimes that are more skewed toward a particular gender

There are certain crimes that are more prevalent with men and some with women, so it means a woman will get more leeway in a male crime and man will get more leeway in a woman's crime. These things while they might not be tenable in court but we know socially

E.g A witch is likely to be a woman, a robber is likely to be a man, A prostitute statistically is more likely to be a woman, a rapist is more likely to be a man

But because modern societal laws want us to be blind to these nuances it ends up tying itself in knots on why Its okay-ish for Simi to be kissing a 4yr old and not AG. A lady can joke that this 4yr old boy is my husband or boyfriend but it doesn't work exactly in the opposite way. Its why you would rather hire a female nanny than a male one ( doubt any of the guys in the men sphere nor feminazi will hire a male nanny or a female security guard)

These things are biological and Social which we have abided by for centuries but when we are in a world of equality of genders then we see things that look hypocritical like this

Bottom line men and women are different but equal and expectations differ

GloriousGbola:
as an aside, it is called growth

which is why we say a person who sees the world the same way he did at 60 as he did at 20 has wasted 40 years of his life

i legit remember a conversation with a friend many years ago where she recounted a story of a bus robbery where the women were gang raped after the robbery. and she said - the robbers were considerate though, they used condoms. i looked at her but did not say anything . a year or so later this lady and her husband were carjacked and by her own account, one of the robbers kept trying to initiate a rape . i guess that would have been her period of growth when she learnt not to describe rapists as considerate

the only takeaway for me from all this - i called my son and reminded him that social media is a permanent record that can be used against you in the future and you must think very very carefully about what you post there. different people with different agendas can see your posts in future and use them against you. it is doubly important when you are young and want to say edgy things so you can look cool among your peers.

you want to see growth look at eddie murphy - the man who gave us raw morphed into a man making family movies. and today he is a solid family man. no way he will put out the content form the 80s if he was touring today.

I didn't even want to bring this up cause those braying for blood will not hear anything about it, cause they believe people should have the exact worldview they had 10-15 years ago as they do today.

semid4lyfe:
Where is TemporaryHansel? He hasn't been here in a minute.

He is just chilling and taking a break. He will come back in a bigger way soon. If you see what he is cooking, you sef go bow.

raumdeuter:
I don't get the part in bold, Simi was not being inappropriate with a work colleague either

There is a part of this that probably everyone knows but we do not want to admit, As much as women fight for equality and abolishing gender roles, the truth is there are certain things including crimes that are more skewed toward a particular gender

There are certain crimes that are more prevalent with men and some with women, so it means a woman will get more leeway in a male crime and man will get more leeway in a woman's crime. These things while they might not be tenable in court but we know socially

E.g A witch is likely to be a woman, a robber is likely to be a man, A prostitute statistically is more likely to be a woman, a rapist is more likely to be a man

But because modern societal laws want us to be blind to these nuances it ends up tying itself in knots on why Its okay-ish for Simi to be kissing a 4yr old and not AG. A lady can joke that this 4yr old boy is my husband or boyfriend but it doesn't work exactly in the opposite way. Its why you would rather hire a female nanny than a male one ( doubt any of the guys in the men sphere nor feminazi will hire a male nanny or a female security guard)

These things are biological and Social which we have abided by for centuries but when we are in a world of equality of genders then we see things that look hypocritical like this

Bottom line men and women are different but equal and expectations differ

Yea, I'm referring to why he was pushed out of his company. The reason they gave for them pushing him out was him being inappropriate with subordinates, and not his cat and children tweets that leaked.

Theflint1:
Yea, I'm referring to why he was pushed out of his company. The reason they gave for them pushing him out was him being inappropriate with subordinates, and not his cat and children tweets that leaked.

personally i think some board members had likely wanted to push him out and jumped on this as an opportunity

even in hyper liberal climes, it is only leaders in the fashion industry who will package themselves like this
Ezra did not do himself any favours by showcasing his weirdness

GloriousGbola:
personally i think some board members had likely wanted to push him out and jumped on this as an opportunity

even in hyper liberal climes, it is only leaders in the fashion industry who will package themselves like this
Ezra did not do himself any favours by showcasing his weirdness

I'm not sure who and who sat on the board of his company sha, but if it was mainly non-Nigerian's, I doubt they'd have cared like that, especially when they consider the difficulties in finding a suitable replacement.