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My Siblings' Comments Versus Comments From Tiktokers and YouTubers Who Are Strangers:

I'll pick one recent post of Baby Light.
I'll be posting my Siblings' Comments on Baby Light's Content versus Comments of Baby Light's Fans on her page, also Comments from my Husband's Family.

Each time I make a post of Baby Light, Some of my Siblings' comments are always something unimaginable.

You remember the saying, your enemies are always people within not people far away.

My husband's family is different, they'll always appreciate the post and ask how Baby light is doing, they see it as a way of me updating them about Baby Light's growth process.
If I even take long in posting about Baby Light, they'll ask if all is well.😄


Marriage has really made me calm, I would have been provoked by their answers (some of my siblings) but I choose not to because I know their aim is to actually get me angry 😄

I'll start with the YouTube Post and Screenshots of the content.

https://youtube.com/shorts/RK4bJIc_RiM?si=HLBQNb5o3P60L-cV

Comments from Baby Light's Tiktok Followers.

Lovely right? 🥰

Comment from a few of my Siblings: 😄

They are always ready to attack all my posts, never a single positive comment. 😄

Silence is always my best reply.

Comment from my husband's Family: My mother-in-law

Another comment from my husband's family.

Reason I started this thread is for future reference and to also enlighten and boost the confidence of those who might also be in similar hateful situations as mine.

At the end of it all, do the things that you know are right for you, no matter how jealous anyone may be.
In this world of digitalization, your money is out there with strangers and not your siblings.

SpencerForbes:
You can’t really blame them, though; everyone has a different perspective. What looks like hate might actually be a misplaced way of showing love and concern for the child. I don’t think it’s fair to judge someone’s entire character based on just one or two messages.

It's not just two messages.
The list long o.

It's just one of Baby Light's content, I sent comments on.
There are others.

I only chose one of Baby Light's content.
Let me show you other screenshots.

If she had appreciated my post just once, I wouldn't make this thread.
It's always that one particular sibling that's always the first to comment and always something negative, so others will not have anything nice to say.
There's nothing wrong in criticizing my posts but at least before criticizing the post, you can just pretend to appreciate it first, what's there.

In the screenshot, I mentioned my family on my status that my news was shown on Phoenix.
Some of my friends and siblings laughed about it because the heading Phoenix used was funny, but she took it personal as always.


Watch this and tell me if it's worth the second criticism?

https://youtube.com/shorts/6RsSWWItma0?si=8NlMPRHf3AXgOsyB

She didn't even watched the video, she just jumped on the thumbnail and started criticizing toothpick 😄

RevenuesBoost:
It's not just two messages.
The list long o.

It's just one of Baby Light's content, I sents comments on.
There are others.

I only chose one of Baby Light's content.
Let me show you other screenshots.

If she had appreciated my post just once, I wouldn't make this thread.
It's always that one particular sibling that's always the first to comment and always something negative, so others will not have anything nice to say.
There's nothing wrong in criticizing my posts but at least before criticizing the post, you can just pretend to appreciate it first, what's there.

If she’s your younger sister, there’s a chance she’s just catching cruise. But wait—hope it’s not that my fine crush you posted? 🤣🤣🤣

On a serious note, another issue could be that they don't like the father. Like our elders say, 'You cannot claim to love the mortar if you hate the pestle.'

Also, is she married? If not, tell her to find a man and keep busy—single people can have 'pepper body' sometimes. Just observe her closely. Once you’re sure of her motives, simply restrict her for a while without saying much. Sometimes, action speaks louder than argument.

SpencerForbes:
If she’s your younger sister, there’s a chance she’s just catching cruise. But wait—hope it’s not that my fine crush you posted? 🤣🤣🤣

On a serious note, another issue could be that they don't like the father. Like our elders say, 'You cannot claim to love the mortar if you hate the pestle.'

Also, is she married? If not, tell her to find a man and keep busy—single people can have 'pepper body' sometimes. Just observe her closely. Once you’re sure of her motives, simply restrict her for a while without saying much. Sometimes, action speaks louder than argument.

Omo! Gist plenty but I no fit talk am here.

No no! she isn't that your crush 😄

Make I focus on the reason for the post.

Thanks for your advice.
The very reason I choose to remain silent.

Some of our biggest enemies are our family members, so it's best to love them from afar and have your own peace of mind.

Samantha125:
Some of our biggest enemies are our family members, so it's best to love them from afar and have your own peace of mind.

So True ❤️