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ruggedtimi:
omo na wetin people no know..Staph is on every person's skin...Most boil is caused by staph.

Docs must chop now. pharmaceuticals need to make profits

Love800:
If you do swab-test, you must always test positive, because staph is in everyone's body.

Yes they are on the skin (exterior) not suppose to be interior when they get inside certain parts (organs) líke urinary tract or reproductive system they become opportunistic microbes hence they are the most common bacteria that causes infection.... If the swab is taken properly or the urine is collected properly (midstream) and contamination is avoided and staphy still grows then it legit

First and foremost you and you
Wife should be treated for STDS and be free from any infection. 2 you did not tell us if you have gotten children. If not please communicate directly with her express your mind and expectations from her

Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.

There are different type of staph. There is one for newly deflowered virgins called staph saprophyticus . She may not be enjoying the sex @ Op, i know that may hurt your ego, but you have to calm down and figure how she can enjoy the experience. When you are so starved and want to just have sex, your chances of focusing less on pleasuring your partner increases.

Bukola94:
Doctor please explain further, staphylococcus is in everyone's body and must always test positive?

Naturally, Staph lives on the surface of your skin. It becomes a problem when it enters the blood

Thank GOD.She is NOT A WICKED WIFE "OS' in Sonnobax15 voice. If NOT,U for don carry am and blame u for distribution of that " Goods

Bukola94:
Doctor please explain further, staphylococcus is in everyone's body and must always test positive?

Your nostrils, skin and other mucous membranes such as the mouth and throat are laden with staphylococcus.

Staph only typically causes problems when it enters the body through a cut, wound, surgery, or other breach in the skin/mucosa.

Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.

Hey, I hear you, and I need to be blunt because I’ve been through a similar situation, my girlfriend died from a staph infection that spread to her heart, so I know how serious this can be. Staph can be sexually transmitted, yes, but it can also happen through other ways like minor skin injuries, hygiene issues, or public toilets. So don’t assume this automatically means infidelity.

Now, about the marriage and intimacy part: the fact that you never had regular sex before marriage is huge. It usually signals that she may not find you sexually attractive and may have married you for comfort, security, or stability, rather than passion. Post-marriage, the sex reducing or being denied consistently is a pattern that rarely changes. You need to swallow the hard truth: she does not desire you, and no amount of “being good” can manufacture sexual attraction. You need to understand that women do not reason logically like men, a man will feel that being good and compassionate will get you sex, that is further from the truth, it will get you the opposite, a woman know who she is sexually attracted to the first 5 mins of meeting a man and if the chemistry is not there no amount of being nice will change that, you made a BIG mistake marrying and if you want to get result you have to change it for her

Honestly, if she meets a man she’s genuinely attracted to, you’d probably be shocked how fast she’d give him what she’s denying you. As painful as it sounds, you’re wasting your time and emotional energy with a woman who isn’t sexually invested in you. Recognize it, accept it, and decide what you truly want, because staying in this cycle will only hurt you more.

I am talking from experience, as someone who has dated many women. There are women you just need to walk away from, go and find the woman that has burning desire for you

OKOATA:
When did I tell you I ain't married.... Me wey I get two wives.

Lie lie 🤥

Breaker001:
Lie lie 🤥

So you dey this world you never see person with two wives or more. E be like you just landed from Jupiter.

obiekunie01:
YOU DEY MIND THE FOOLS THAT KEEP FOOLING THEMSELVES!

YOU CANNOT CONTACT STDs FROM TOILET!


As for op. ya wife don dey lash outside tey! tey!

RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BEFORE SHE GIVE YOU YUKRIPUTU!

Some people no Dey do research..Nothing like toilet infection bro.its either STD or STI..

Guyman02:
Toilet infection is the biggest lie out there from women who got STD, doctors keep saying it's a lie

😂😂..Even women know that it’s a lie..

nedekid:
Steph na std?

Staph na STD or UTI..

OKOATA:
So you dey this world you never see person with two wives or more. E be like you just landed from Jupiter.

You have two wives, and you are advising somebody who just got married 11 months ago to abandon his marriage. Dating two ladies at the same time is not the same as marrying two ladies.
YOU ARE NOT MARRIED; TALKLESS OF MARRYING TWO 😂

Breaker001:
You have two wives, and you are advising somebody who just got married 11 months ago to abandon his marriage. Dating two ladies at the same time is not the same as marrying two ladies.
YOU ARE NOT MARRIED; TALKLESS OF MARRYING TWO 😂

Abeg read my post again and point out where I said he should leave his marriage and please quote that part I said so and stop being jealous cos I'm married to two women.

Dzzzz:
Staph na STD or UTI..

Bros type am for Google, ie ask if staph na std then see the response.

OKOATA:
Abeg read my post again and point out where I said he should leave his marriage and please quote that part I said so and stop being jealous cos I'm married to two women.

That's what your first response to my initial comment insinuated. Anyways, enjoy your "two wives"
Good night 😎

Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.

How old are you?

Love800:
If you do swab-test, you must always test positive, because staph is in everyone's body.

This assertion is true.

Breaker001:
That's what your first response to my initial comment insinuated. Anyways, enjoy your "two wives"
Good night 😎

Yeah man.

nedekid:
Bros type am for Google, ie ask if staph na std then see the response.

Oga carry your matter go far..Gonorhea na toilet infection?..Be like you no wan get sense..

nedekid:
Bros type am for Google, ie ask if staph na std then see the response.

Even if you no go school but you were living close to a school,You should know that staphylococcus is an infection transmitted from one person to another..It doesn’t say a toilet distributes the infection..If I chew an apple and give you to chew,Do we call it an APPLE INFECTION?

Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.

This and many reasons is why Islam offer solution to monogamy

Play polygamy for all can't be pregnant and on mestrasion on the same time

Am just saying if it's allow may be you won't be here cry for you right

Every man is denied sex at some point, only the frequency shouldn't be 7 out of 10, that's much especially in a marriage.
Staph can be contracted anywhere. Even all these handshakes by men who just finished peeing without washing their hands, use of public toilets, sharing of some intimate materials.
A lot of women don't really understand how much sex a man needs, most of them don't even know how to please a man in bed. But you just have to understand your own woman and deal with her accordingly with patience and lots of patience and tolerance.
At 11months in marriage, you should be having sex more so you can have a few kids of your own because sex frequency reduces as the years go by. Very soon, you people will be living like brother and sister.
I am over 10years in marriage and sex has really dropped for both of us, we can go 2months or more without sex sometimes, cos other things are occupying our minds e.g Struggles of life, things we want to achieve, looking after aged parents, trying to cater for other dependent siblings, our children are there etc. When life wahala plenty, you won't even remember to sleep with your wife.

missyblissy:
You can get it from public toilet too. Whenever you are using a public toilet no matter how clean it looks DO NOT SIT on it.

I got my first STD at the university. I don't sit on public toilet, I have my own bucket I use for toilet and i dont understand how I got it. when the lab guy was whispering you have STAPH... I naively scream what is STAPH? I was still a virgin.

Lol.. Ignorance.
Innocent Staphylococcus aureus has suffered in Nigeria.
A very harmless normal flora in the vagina, mouth, and other parts of the body that helps to protect against the bad bugs.
It's not an STI

Men and sex.
Nature really did you guys dirty.
Sex that I can stay without as long as I want to, men will be whyning like toddlers denied candy because of sex.

God abeg oh.

Meanwhile, why are Nigerian men still getting married when they don't have anything to benefit from marriage?

Beats me!

lailo:
He needs the help of a counsellor to make his wife behave well abi? but the wife doesnt need the help of a counsellor to collect money
mumu men still plenty for town walahi
kick the goddamn Jezzebel out and her head will rest automatically

Okay, you obviously haven't been married yet before in your life...

When a woman deny you sex always she is knacking somewhere and that's how she got staph... She can't get it via toilet


A simp is a simp

Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.

Staph is not an STI.
The bacteria lives naturally on the skin and only enters to causes visible infections if there is skin break (eg during shaving)

Leave your wife out of this oga

On top your bride price and expenses paying her family and wedding ceremony and you're stills sheltering her and feeding her daily.
How long is the marriage and any child yet?

Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.