₦airaland Forum

DEID TWICE . What's that CROSS doing m there?

Malagans:
Loan apps want to defame me by sending pictures of me and some negative texts to all my contacts.

I'm depressed even more ..
My mental health is at stake here.

I'm finished if this happens

Better get a grip on your life bro, you ain't the only one in debt
Besides since they've sent out your pictures, they have forgone their money ,if you pay them again na you lose cos it's only fake loan apps that send incriminating pictures , real ones will just report you to the credit bureau

"A pastor"

I don't blame these frauds, people want someone who will tell them certain things, they don't wana listen to the real word of GOD, then someone blessed by the heavens with the ability to talk and observe, put himself in that role, cause in the bible if you people at all open it, you would be able to tell a real from a fake, it in the bible. Baba just saw demand and he supplied, irrespective of whatever.

End time things.

What's the big deal?

The burial photo really show say the guy must be gay.

This some so called Pastor do, even the devil will be ashamed. Just that this one kpai himself because evidence chock

Malagans:
Loan apps want to defame me by sending pictures of me and some negative texts to all my contacts.

I'm depressed even more ..
My mental health is at stake here.

I'm finished if this happens

I have found myself In a similar situation, what I did was, deactivate my WhatsApp account, throw away that sim card and move on. . Anyone way wan complain to me about harassment can't reach me

Look at his lovely family. The pretty wife and the adorable kids. How did this man bring such shame and damnation to them?

zinaunreal:
Alot of men in Nigeria are gay

Fake thought. Not Nigeria

Malagans:
Loan apps want to defame me by sending pictures of me and some negative texts to all my contacts.

I'm depressed even more ..
My mental health is at stake here.

I'm finished if this happens

When did owing debts become a crime
Let he who is without debt cast the first stone because las las everyone is owing death
So chill bro. Nor let any loan app scare you into doing something silly

zinaunreal:
Alot of men in Nigeria are gay

You seem to be speaking from experience
Go to your beloved Iran and tell them this and let us see what becomes of you

Na wa o. Just like the days of Sodom and gonorrhea in the Bible.

zinaunreal:
Alot of men in Nigeria are gay

You mean a lot of men in your family right?

Emmalez:
In a heartbreaking development that has sent shockwaves through religious communities in northern Nigeria, Prophet Samuel Goodwin Oche, a Benue indigene who had been ministering in Kaduna, has reportedly died by suicide. The incident follows the recent resurfacing of an alleged sexual video from 2018, purportedly showing him in an intimate encounter with another man.

Sources close to the matter indicate that Prophet Oche, popularly known as "Talk and Do" among his congregation, had been facing intense scrutiny and public pressure after the video began circulating online again. The clip, which dates back several years, allegedly depicts acts of sodomy, leading to widespread speculation and commentary on social media platforms.

According to reports gathered from local witnesses and online discussions, the pastor had managed to weather similar rumors in the past but found the latest wave overwhelming. "He was able to withstand the situation back then, but this latest resurfacing seemed to bring intense pressure and scrutiny that he couldn't handle," noted one account from a Facebook post by Elijah S. Nelson, who shared details of the story after fact-checking initial claims.

Pastor Oche leaves behind a wife and two young children, a detail that has amplified the tragedy for many observers. "This is the only painful part of the whole situation, which is even more heartbreaking—not his life that he didn't value," Nelson wrote in his post, emphasizing the human cost beyond the scandal. Community members have expressed sorrow over the loss, with some pointing to the relentless nature of online shaming and its toll on mental health.

The prophet's death has sparked broader conversations about the pressures faced by religious leaders in Nigeria, where societal expectations and personal struggles often collide. Many young and upcoming pastors are under immense strain to succeed and attract followers, sometimes leading to desperate measures, as highlighted in online discussions surrounding the case.

This incident serves as a painful reminder that the internet never forgets, and public shame can destroy lives. Mental health struggles are real, even for those we least expect, like community pillars such as pastors. As Nigerians, we must learn to be careful with our words, verify information before spreading it, and remember that behind every headline is a human being.

Source: https://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/02/kaduna-based-pastor-reportedly-takes.html?m=1

Why kill yourself? Like why? People have been through worse ask Tiwa Savage, but they are still thriving, it’s the family I pity not him.

Niceguy4ever:
What is the meaning of after 9?

Originally used often in South Africa, of men who appears heterosexual or lives a conventional life during the day but engages in same-sex sexual experiences at night.

Flangelo12:
I don't even know why I don't find this tragic.

Because you're heartless 💔

[quote author=Niceguy4ever post=138658487]What is the meaning of after 9?[/quote
A south African term for men who present as straight but are gay in secret. Like one thing during the day and a different thing at night i.e. after 9 pm

Discountsempai:
It's time for you to check out this Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/loansharkreview

So you're encouraging him to borrow and not pay back?

This is one of the reasons why credit card system will never work in Nigeria!

This is so sad. No matter what, suicide is not the answer
chai

Malagans:
Loan apps want to defame me by sending pictures of me and some negative texts to all my contacts.

I'm depressed even more ..
My mental health is at stake here.

I'm finished if this happens

Man up, bro.

Sell ur phone whatever and PAY BACK YOUR LOAN.This is why BANKS dnt gIve LOAN.To assist pipu like u,nah wahala. Dnt listen to THIEVES that'll tell u not to pay it back.Just pay and MO E ON

Malagans:
Loan apps want to defame me by sending pictures of me and some negative texts to all my contacts.

I'm depressed even more ..
My mental health is at stake here.

I'm finished if this happens

UzorIyke:
Because you're heartless 💔

On this matter?

You mean a Gay/Bisexual man living a lie claiming to ordained by God, having a congregation latch on to his every word had made an adult video of himself and a man,

And I'm the heartless one ?

enemyofprogress:
Na wa o. Just like the days of Sodom and gonorrhea in the Bible.

Gonorrhea kwa

Flangelo12:
I don't even know why I don't find this tragic.



Na the children I come dey pity now.

It is both tragic and sad. That was in the past. 2018, probably when he was not even a Christian or pastor yet. So, why continue to use old clips of him to taunt and hunt him? Not everyone can withstand such pressure

I feel sad. He shouldn't have gone this route. He should have talk to his mentors and spiritual father so they help counsel him.

Well, now he is gone. Heaven's gain. I hope his haunters can now rest. May God console the young family he left behind

zinaunreal:
Alot of men in Nigeria are gay

Lies! Some men are.

A man who's straight during the day, but plays for the other team during the night, they'd normally go out after around 9pm under the guise of going to hangout with their friends when actually going to see their LGBTQ lovers.

They're mostly family men in heterosexual marriages.

Niceguy4ever:
What is the meaning of after 9?

MaziObinnaokija:
mumu man kpai himself for nothing. Shame on earth and HELL 🔥 candidate

He can't stand the shame and public discrimination, although suicide is never an option.

27 years with 2 kids already ? Omo he should have thought of those innocent children…🥹🥹🥹

Samantha125:
Even from his pictures, he looked like he could be an after 9, the signs must've been there of which the wife ignored... It's obvious the brother played for both teams.

Many men are bisexual
It doesnt warrant suicide
I wish i could counsel him before this
Devil won this one chai

some people are WEAK.They hate be8ng SHAME. They prefer to END IT ALL

shadrach77:
But I read something different on another platform. They said his sister mocked him for being a fake prophet. So which one do we believe now?

If the story is true it means he was never serving God in the first place because if you know the God you are serving you won't be moved by worldly condemnation

Greatness09:
27 years with 2 kids already ? Omo he should have thought of those innocent children…🥹🥹🥹

its really a pity
Suicide is never the answer

NOETHNICITY:
Sorry to say, I know I risk being banned, but this religion has zero salvation

So which religion has salvation? I hope it's not Islam you're going to say cause that's over the bar because according to Islam, the man should be stoned to death which means a chance at salvation is totally out of the question.
If Christianity has zero salvation, then Islam has -100 salvation in this matter