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If ain’t working out, walk out - Nigerian man says as he shares his before-and-after divorce photos


https://www.titopeblog.com/2026/03/from-marriage-to-freedom-nigerian-mans.html?m=1



Credit: Henry Soma Anyaji

He definitely married a parasite that was feasting on his growth

The earlier people realize that not everyone is fit to be married,the better for the whole world.

I only pity people who think they can only find happiness in marriage

Men are gradually getting more brutal in marriage. They are now realising how skewed the marriage business is.

How true is this? How are we sure it's not when he was broke vs when money enter

Nothing changed.


He only changed the camera and clothe to better ones and also stood straight in his recent photograph unlike his presumed married photograph where he intentionally bent and probably used AI to alter his outfit to look untidy

saintopus:
Men are gradually getting more brutal in marriage. They are now realising how skewed the marriage business is.

Marriage na junction business, part ways if you get tired, but some people give it religious spiritual angle 🤷🏿.

All I see is a before and after picture of a man who was broke, but later stumbled on some chicken change and think he has arrived.

What marriage cannot do to a man, does not exist.

It's only Jesus, if not all your see is crisis in the oldest institution called marriage.

If we were all to post pictures of ourselves from 10 years ago, we'd be looking like the before picture of him regardless of our marriage or financial status.

Even the Beyonce of 2015 looks different from the Beyonce of today.

He lost his marriage and found himself. Congrats

Marriage for others is the reverse of your own experience. Thank God you said 'if it ain't working'...some people's marriage worked.

Thank God not only men are brutal in marriage and divorce, i actually love how both genders are intentional about their happiness, self-esteem and self worth even if it means getting divorce can help achieve that.

franchasng:
Nothing changed.


He only changed the camera and clothe to better ones and also stood straight in his recent photograph unlike his presumed married photograph where he intentionally bent and probably used AI to alter his outfit to look untidy

Seriously?

There's a whole lot of difference between the two pictures. The first one looks like he's drained and lacked basic vitamins. Even the trouser is struggling to hang on his waist.
Marriage can take it's toll on people if they remain the sole provider with no emotional or material support.

Irresponsible boy

Na once him eye clear

If he composed himself like this before,he wouldn't have lost his wife in the first place

Na why I escape from motayoayinde 😩 , God Abeg oOoOO 🙏

Many would not understand the damages, abuses and stress men go through in marriage. Till God help you wey u comot d marriage before you go know what is freedom talk more of to enjoy am

Titopeblog:
If ain’t working out, walk out - Nigerian man says as he shares his before-and-after divorce photos


https://www.titopeblog.com/2026/03/from-marriage-to-freedom-nigerian-mans.html?m=1



Credit: Henry Soma Anyaji

Na lie be this one oh
Dem far from each other
😮

God have saved him from a Delilah.
She would have pluck off his eyes 👀, the same way Delilah treated Samson.
What a second chance to life.

Irresponsible boy, tell us what really happened not just your fake picture when you were broke

I believe it goes both ways. Some people lose it mentally when they divorce.
It all depends on who they divorced and what the circunstance was at their divorce

I don't believe this

At what year was the first picture taken?

When a man has no peace , it shows. Your head get filled with problems and stress. You lose weight and become a shadow of yourself . A man with a peaceful home/life( if single ) radiates confidence and energy to conquer the world

How some people see marriage as achievement is what amuse me, whereas marriage benefit woman the money. Stats show 70% men die before there wife because they don't take care of there own health.

Sonnobax15:

He definitely married a parasite that was feasting on his growth

The earlier people realize that not everyone is fit to be married,the better for the whole world.

I only pity people who think they can only find happiness in marriage

He was probably fending for his in-laws too.

In psychology, cherry-picking refers to the intentional or unintentional omission of information to present a biased perspective

"Photographers make choices about what they are presenting and how they will present it; what story they are telling and how it's told."

A picture tells a thousand words but mutes a thousand lies.

So the wife told him to zag dressing like insane man. The wife might be correcting him on this like this and is finding it as an insult. Dress yen o normal rara. Am a married man myself

That’s how Nigerians will realise how Apc has dealt with them once Tulumbu leaves office… the marriage Nigerians have with corrupt politicians will not end anytime soon

Na Lie, Abi Na True Ni?
Wetin I sabi self

fyzaila:
How true is this? How are we sure it's not when he was broke vs when money enter

You may be very correct ohh 😂